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This has nothing to do with tribe. Anyone can be involved in crime.
My humble message to everyone, young and old is. Stay away from crime.
Crime doesn't pay.

Ballzproblemm:
my own be say make no Igbo pesin near there,that wasteful tribe put Tinubu their brother in change ,they should protest on their own

Yes o, I've called all my brothers not to go there. Let the people who ignorantly voted him go and protest.

The small me- me is 5,100

All this people carrying knife 🗡️ up and down all in the name of tradition, now see the result.

peacemara54:
That is the reason why many will say on that day Lord! Have we not work wonders in your name and in your name have we not cast out devils" but depart from me , will come from the lord, o ye workers of Iniquity.

These people are hypocrites and they never have an encounter with Jesus thats why, they lead many into destruction

What truth are you expecting from a man with a,jerrycoiled hair? They are not of God.

If God saved you truly from sin and you truly had a change of heart that only Jesus of calvary gives , a new life that only His blood can give,

Without asking anyone, you will ask the second wife to depart because Jesus now lives in you. The holy Spirit will start pointing out the restitution you need to do, now that he is I. Charge of your life, and He is holy.

He will never leave any unclean thing to stand but point it out because He is preparing you for heaven, where no unclean thing will enter

The first wife or the one you first married legally, is your wife. Any other is a product of adultery. The word of God stands and unchangeable.

For this reason. shall a man leave his fathers house and cling unto his wife, and the two shall becomes one. "Do the bible states, man shall cling unto his wives? "The two shall becomes one not, the three. Either before you are converted or after, the word of God still stand.

The difference is, before you come to Jesus, if you die in that polygamy, you are going to perish. But after repentance, you restitute, then you will not perish.

What is the importance of repentance when you still keep the wife you married out of adultery?

For those who wants to know the truth and escape hell. God institution is one man one wife. whoever you have after your first wife is adultery and because of this ,she must move out.
Do not be decieved

Beware of false teachers

Your the chief judge. You really need help.
And you need Jesus in you life.
May God have mercy on you.

Ance4Liverpool:
Oyahkilome should keep quiet, where is his own wife?

Shut up your mouth. Don't speak to a man of God anyhow okay?

We the Igbos will not join the Emolokans, let them do their thing. May God bless the South East

DesChyko:
https://dailypost.ng/2023/12/30/we-are-hungry-lagos-residents-yell-at-tinubu/

This is just the beginning.

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

If you doesn't give you your full respect no need to marry her. Am Talking out of experience

Keepamsafe:
I feel so sad and devastated. Why are ladies treating good men like this

Today, I had to borrow money from 3 different loan app because im meeting a new girl today.

Luckily, we met and had our date and I spent roughly 45k I borrowed from loan app and still gave her 5k for pocket money and yet, she refused to follow me home.





Im home now, lying in bed alone and sad.

Hook up 7k, but I spent 50k today because i wanted to build soul connection. yet I gained nothing. Absolutely nothing. Not even sex and im now in debt, broke like a church rat and no woman to console me. I feel scammed.

Im in a dilemma. help please.

I don't know why some people don't have sense

God have mercy

carterguccy:
1 Billion igbos can't stop the demolition!

Any house without approval is going down, no matter who the owner is. When it rains heavily and some part of Lagos state get flooded, igbos be mocking Lagos unknowningly they are the majority cause of the flood!

Truly never throw a stone if you live in a glass house 💯!

We will keep bursting your eye till y'all learn!

Them go feel it!

See the tribalistic people. Continue, dey play. The same Tinubu you voted for who has messed up everything, your bringing it to house demolition as if to say the Yoruba houses are not being destroyed. Wake-up tribalistic man

Study your Bible for yourself so that no man or woman will deceive you. Be wise!!!

mbaise1000:
I don't think you read my comment or at least you didn't understand it, you need to comprehend before responding,
Was there any place in my comment that I supported what she did?
you can still try again, BTW, claiming to be a Christian doesn't make you a Christian, judging from your comment, you are not a Christian because every Christian will have the capacity to forgive, no matter the gravity of the offense, that's why I said you are not a Christian, and if you had read or understood my comment, you would have also seen where I said that Jesus said that law is not for everyone but for THOSE who can keep it, apparently, you are not among THOSE, so you don't expect everyone to be like you, it's impossible, that law is for the children of God not for those that just claim to be the children of God.
How about you put your pride aside and ask God to show you what been born again mean?

It will only take God to give the husband the ability, grace and power to forgive that woman.
Do you know what it is to bring another man to your matrimonial bed and sleep with him.
She deliberately brought the man, slept with him, might have been slept with the man many time, broke marriage vow.
Like I said. It will only take the help of God for the husband to completely forgive her.

This is very very bad. You brought another man to your home, slept with him. It's shameful. If to say you were not caught everything would have been normal.
The question here is how long have you been nacking this man.
If your husband for gives you, what is the probability that you will not go and sleep with your ex again.

seunmsg:
Attention seeking sore loser who can't accept defeat. See his crooked and lying face like egg wey wan break. No amount of lies and propaganda will change anything. Bola Tinubu is already president and you Peter Obi the criminal liar and opportunist will never become the president of Nigeria.

Stop saying "Peter Obi will never be president" are you God. Do you know tomorrow?
Please think before you talk.

Speak to people with respect. Okay?

Mine was very easy.
Before I started the process first thing I did was to PRAY.
I prayed for God's favour cos it was my first time doing it.
The day they said I should come and pickup was easy too.
Before leaving the house I PRAYED.
I got to the collection center. Quietly sat down.
People where there complaining.
I got there around 11:30am I collected it 12:45pm. I got mine, left there, they were still there complaining.
My advice to people is let God be involve in the things you do.
HIS grace is available

Una nava see anything. The tribalistic people who voted for their brother. Oya begin dance the music 🎵🎶. Your voting for someone who has no vision for the country.
The implications now is, we have more of them now begging on the street hailing you "baba mi..., oga mi...., my chairman" e t.c waiting for you to drop money
Lazy Nigeria youth. 🤣🤣🤣. Many of them are brainless. The day of election, the same set of people went about saying if you don't vote for their party don't come outside. 🤣🤣🤣 Am just laughing here cos as for me, I will neva drop a penny for any Agbero.

NLC is a scam. You guys should rest. You are a bad boi

Credibility matters alot in leadership.
May God help Nigeria

Good reason. Igbo kingdom can be outside Igbo land.

God Bless Biafra land

Thank God, i never took NLC serious. Cos I knew it

May God help this country. One thing am certain of is. Nigeria will be great again but I don't know when

Taylor90:
Putin my man

I love this guy so much

I wish they can leave our poor Armies off this fight

Make presidents fight bone bone no weapon no helper just only hand fight

Starting with Tinubu and Putin

I wan check something within 10 secs

😂 Baba can't collect one o

What wrong has this beautiful baby done to you. I can't just hold my tears �.
Mr wicked man, you shall remain in prison for the rest of your life.

Ok

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It's fake run �

I feel your pain my brother but still exercise patience until the wedding night. Don't make her do want she does not want to do. If you force her for sex, she make not like/love you the way she does now. After all, after the wedding night, you will eat it till Jesus come.
You need plenty patience to work with ladies. (My Opinion)

Still give her time. It's not always OK to marry from a broken home. (my opinion)