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Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Amiaraking(m): 7:17pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Continue... |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by iammo(m): 7:18pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by spiritedtete: 7:18pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
No child of my will marry from a separated home no way! (Widows and widoers excluded) I am sorry i don't mean to throw stones to the innocent single parents ... And my appology to the morally upright children of a single parent.. It is just what it is for me... I have lived far enough to know my left from my right.... To Op... on the flip side...... If female child grew with the dad... i think you are well secured... But if a female child grew up with the mum... oboy you as the husband will be a suspect for life.. and hopefully she won't be quick to rob it on you that she is an independent woman. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by AmazingELixir: 7:19pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Hmmm |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Jewingle(m): 7:20pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
This guy is not serious. Kwasia 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by jameschibuike(m): 7:21pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Still give her time. It's not always OK to marry from a broken home. (my opinion) 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Toks2008(m): 7:21pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
frankyskyboi: You are not ready for a relationship. 9 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Nobody: 7:21pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
You should stop digging in her family's history because you feel you need to satisfy your parents based on how they reacted to your brother. Not everyone was fortunate enough to be raised in a happy family. It is not her fault she wasn't. How can you even be so insensitive? Free this girl before your parents join you in haunting her with her past which she is not even responsible for. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by DTeekay(m): 7:22pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Drink some alcohol u will be fine. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by bravesoul247(m): 7:22pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Mumu just plenty for this life. So we should tell you what to do with your happiness? I didn't even bother reading it cos una too mumu. Pussy ass niqqas 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Nobody: 7:23pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
spiritedtete: Your children may be the ones to be from a separated home eventually. You never know in life. Good luck! 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Mutemenot(m): 7:23pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Op, you have the chances to findout from the family source. Get close to her origin, you 'll get all info...and be careful with separated homes, it doesn't always go well as their kids takes the same step easily.. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
frankyskyboi: Yen, Yen, Yen, Yen, Yen. Jargons! FYI, children from broken homes makes the best spouses because they never want to put their kids through what they went through. They put in Double Extra effort to make their Marriage WORK! 16 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by AkupeMBANO(f): 7:24pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
frankyskyboi:you already know this and you came all the way here to talk rubbish. how old are you currently? 15 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Ategberoson(m): 7:24pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
I understand you Op but there are way of encouraging her to know why beside what different does it make if she told you, will the findings bring this two couples that have long part way together you're only beating a dead horse. your family don't like someone from divorce home but is the girl a good girl, does have the qualities of a lady, have you examined her, my fear is the distance BTW u two won't allow you know deep things about her for now, I stand with your parent but at the same time I'm confused what if the lady is living a neutral life out of her parent predicament my point is her findings is irrelevant so far it won't bring her parents together 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by mistijude: 7:25pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
frankyskyboi:All I see in you is pride.Even those whose parents are together,are some of them totally free from marital challenge.It is better you tell her to go on time,so that someone else will marry her. 14 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Skengman: 7:26pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
frankyskyboi:Why not just go ahead to do your background check instead of acting as if you’re doing the babe a favour in the relationship 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
mistijude: Don't mind the yeye human. Just imagine the profiling. 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Decolonel(m): 7:26pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
It beats my imagination why you can't mind your business and focus on the relationship. When you are ready to marry her, then you can investigate further. I feel at this point you don't have any right to persuade her for a family secret. My minding your own business is a good business.. Selah 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by spiritedtete: 7:27pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Ehehehehehehehe.... I very well understood this parable... However i thank God i married right... infact i can still marry another and still keep in the same house and grow as one family... (it wont happen though). But if i eventually saperated... i will never marry again. Because i have once married my own wife. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
With all due respect , Op must be maddddd. she has given u a reason Oga if u are not satisfied leave her alone.....Anoda guy will accept her. 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by dipson4u08(m): 7:28pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
frankyskyboi: It doesn't matter and as a matter of fact i know of a similar case that the chiildren are grown up now and didnt even bother to ask for the cause of the seperation most especially when both parent are bittered or shy away from such discussion. if u love her go ahead and give her assurance.... 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by 912(m): 7:28pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Dude you are not mature enough for marriage. So the reason why her dad left her mum will determine if she is someone you can marry? Just listen to yourself. You didn't even have a single instance of how she has offended you. All you want to know is why her dad left her mum. Are you alright at all Why do you want her to open old family wounds? If that girl has any brain in her head she should runaway from you and your family that seem to have holier than thou character. So because she doesn't know why her dad left her mum she has turned into someone you can't be with? She should be the one running from a judgemental family like yours. She should run before your family starts blaming her for every misfortune that befalls you 23 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Freethinker343(m): 7:29pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Does it really matter ?! Why everything come turn War.� If you can’t proceed, Shift man! Shey Na wetin suppose to Dey give you headache be this ?! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Nobody: 7:30pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Take it to God 1 Like |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by CandidNotes: 7:30pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
frankyskyboi: Thank God! I will feel sorry for the girl if she ends up with someone with your mentality... 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by emmysoftyou: 7:30pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
midnighter:what's there to discussed about failed relationship that didn't works well. Bro , in an igboland , investigation and enquiries is very necessary to both parents of the couple, when my wife wanted to marry me, she asked all necessary questions including if I am OSU ? I laughed out loud cos I know I am not OSU. The family of my wife traveled to my village to do a background checkup.. Anyway, it's necessary cos a lot had happened. Op should do a background checkup but have it in mind that sometimes history does not repeat itself.. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Staircases(m): 7:30pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
My brother, if she's loyal, marry her Forget history 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by ainas247: 7:30pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
What has parent separation got to do with her? don't punish her for something she knows nothing about. Thank you... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Juban(m): 7:31pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
You are not serious and not ready yet to marry. Are you marrying her parents? If you really love her, those are secondary. You can always make up something to tell your parents. I have almost similar case during my marriage 13years ago and I have never regretted it one bit. I love her and she loves me. frankyskyboi: 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Bbbwings: 7:32pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Na wa o This op sha The event might still be traumatic to her. Let her be 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Lugianostar(m): 7:32pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Sometimes issues like that are not suppose to be asked at all as it has been the norm and it is better to leave it the way it this as no explanation from her will make any difference. She was raised by her Dad and she occasionally relate with her mum. Determine what you wanted from the relationship and go ahead with your plans and not waiting for a nollywood story line that won't help you. 2 Likes |
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