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fumisko:
Should Christians Really Engage in Dating
This has always been a burdensome issue on my mind and I have always wondered if it is really ok or not.

So please I would like you to help me out here. Do you think it's ideal and OK for Christians to engage in dating or do you feel Christians should court directly and then marry??

Check out my view on the above matter at
http://diaryofalovergirl..com

Please feel free to share your views too

I don't know if you are serious with your question or not, but if you are truly serious, there is nothing bad in it, in as much as you guys are not romancing, kissing that could lead to fornication or being occupied by each others thought at the expense of God. If none of these is involved dating is ok for Christians which means you look for Godly person to date not otherwise

Tobbey:
my people,
Please add me to the group.
08064549683

No group anywhere, if u go to any group and you got scammed you are on your own

Effiezynews:
Love is such a beautiful thing! I wish I had a good man to call my own..

Contact me olumsted@gmail.com

OAUTemitayo:
It nearly ruined my life until I discovered that I have a soft skin.
Use a soft skin soap.

That thing is bad

Effiezynews:
Love is such a beautiful thing! I wish I had a good man to call my own..

I wish I had a good woman I could call my own too

teabully:
presently ncs staffs are undergoing various examinations to d next rank in abuja and other various state commands, my source said recruitment for 2016/17 is comin up and dat dey are short of staffs. Any one has info about immigration recruitment, hav dey bin sending msgs?

God bless you bro, let share info here instead of d group chats.

eigmaticme:
i noticed i don't itch when ever i use very hot water. almost hot to the point of being uncomfortable but it works so that is what i do now. you can try to see if it works for you.

Hot water is the solution, there is now balm in Gilead. Ever since have started using hot water have not been itching

I hope he had Christ in his life before his death, cos the judgement won't be based on whether he was killed or not. RIP to him, others accept Jesus before its too late

This group of a thing will do no good to you guys, there are many people who just read info here but not commenting because dey av no info yet, but if u now personalise the info through your group chat how will these people give you info wen dey av one? Nscdc and immigration have created theirs, what of Sss cos those are the 3 agencies this thread was created for? In my opinion, if u discus issues here people that are not even applied for any might have access to info that all your group members don't have. Mind you group chats encourage scamming and other fraudulent acts

aoelosdo:
ewu erin

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Scam alert: pls don't fall for this. It s a scam from the pit of hell

Things like this make me angry, why should a normal person go to the extent of wishing another person dead because she didnt reply your chats on social media?

Samkeniyy:
I also received invite mail yesterday. I was however surprised that a lot of people on this thread were mute about it.

Kindly post the mail thanks, the mails are in batches the venue for d test is small unless u are not writing in Lagos,

Realex007:
Invite Mail has dropped.

When did u receive it? When is your date and location? Kindly copy and paste the mail here so that we can see. Thanks bro

lonewolff:
tenx, he said he would give bk the money if it does not go tru, what would the proces be like? (getting into the service tru dis process)

There is no much different from normal recruitment, is just that u might not do test and interview, but medical is sure, then training. After all that u will be posted then u av d work to yourself,

lonewolff:
how does one know a genuine offer for replacement, i have little or no know about of the process, a friend of mine was asked to give 150k for a slot, which he says was from someone working in interior abj. he says the man is a close family frend of ders, but when it comes to issues about money you never can tell. pls advise... from anyone who knows how that type of deals work ( i biliv there are ppl who have paid money to get into the system) pls correct if am wrong ...and am open to sincere advice

Ascertaining the genuineness of such a deal is difficult, I paid 120k in January for one like that, though not nscdc and didnt go through. Now am getting the money back instalmentally 20-30k monthly as d person can't pay me at once . so it might be true at d same time it might not. I will advise you to talk to the person deeply and possibly reach an agreement that if it doesn't work d money will be reimburse to u. Then u can go ahead since u said is a family friend

ivolt:
No, it happens as a result of poor vision or a deliberately wicked heart.

I am sure you have been told many tortoise stories times without number, does that men
they are true ?

Bros, am serious, this happened to a man in our compound in the village, my dad told me more about this issues, though some are deliberate but most of it are from the ''mothers''. U might not believe me but may you never see their fight

This thing happens to hunters, its not ordinary, the man could actually saw monkey though its human being but after the shot it turned to human being. Have heard about this time without number, is not strange. This is the work of his village people

Is there no one with info here

I don't like female bosses, they are usually domineering & power intoxicating. I worked with one though i was forced to resign and she was also sacked my the director. This woman can talk, shout, embarrass and even curse anybody working directly with her. The funniest thing is that am even more qualified than the woman in that field. Each time we are to be paid our bonuses she will reduce mine while she paid others full, this thing do get me angry, I severally reported her to a superior officer but is like they both knew about it, luckily for me I got a payment voucher for one of the bonuses we have been paid which she reduced mine, I kept it as an evidence, I took the pics and have itbon my phone, after some weeks another money was to be shared by the staff she did the same thing to me and some other people, it was director himself that corrected that and we were paid full, all these had made me pregnant with an anger towards her, one day she called a meeting and we were all there when she appointed me to carry out an assignment which I turned down publicly this was very painful to her as I disrespected her in midst of other staff, she was angry and I was too, she abused me and even sent me to my parents at home, I left the meeting and someone reported the incident to the director who latter summoned me, that was how i presented my evidence i have against the woman and how she has been exploiting other members of staff their bonuses, I showed the director the picture i took on my phone and the one he corrected himself. The man was speechless, I later heard that she has been doing some members of staff before I came, before we left office that day she was fired and i tendered my resignation letter

I don't like female bosses, they are usually domineering & power intoxicating. I worked with one though i was forced to resign and she was also sacked my the director. This woman can talk, shout, embarrass and even curse anybody working directly with her. The funniest thing is that am even more qualified than the woman in that field. Each time we are to be paid our bonuses she will reduce mine while she paid others full, this thing do get me angry, I severally reported her to a superior officer but is like they both knew about it, luckily for me I got a payment voucher for one of the bonuses we have been paid which she reduced mine, I kept it as an evidence, I took the pics and have itbon my phone, after some weeks another money was to be shared by the staff she did the same thing to me and some other people, it was director himself that corrected that and we were paid full, all these had made me pregnant with an anger towards her, one day she called a meeting and we were all there when she appointed me to carry out an assignment which I turned down publicly this was very painful to her as I disrespected her in midst of other staff, she was angry and I was too, she abused me and even sent me to my parents at home, I left the meeting and someone reported the incident to the director who latter summoned me, that was how i presented my evidence i have against the woman and how she has been exploited all the staff their bonuses, I showed the director the picture i took on my phone and the one he corrected himself. The man was speechless, I later heard that she has been doing some members of staff before I came, before we left office that day she was fired and i tendered my resignation letter

segunojo866:
I think God Is so busy in traffic. Ask which God? Is it the same God that said he is coming for over 2,000years. Christians are sick

I thank God for your life cos i just had d feeling now that your salvation is very very close

kennygee:
Just cause your "strong christian friend" married a woman who infected him with HIV doesn't mean God doesn't direct us on our choice for marriage.

It is not by force to seek God's face in marriage, He gave us the power of choice for that. But when God directs you, He will not direct you astray.

I don't know how strong your christian friend was, he could have been a christian by your standard but not God's.

I can't make further comments on that.

You are right, God doesn't mislead people, though personal observation is important in courtship but God's leading direction can never be underestimated

Don't get it wrong even if God said you guys are compatible that doesn't mean you won't have issues in your marriage, misunderstandings are inevitable but you guys will settle all issues amicably there won't be irreconcilable issues between you. Because God knows your hidden characters and your partners too

My sis, let me start by asking this question, av you slept with him? If yes that's was a big mistake because sex before marriage is a sin. Ok come back to the topic. As for me if any pastor tells me not to marry a girl, i will go elsewhere to confirm it and if is d something I heard from there then I won't go ahead, because only God that knows the end from the beginning and if the person that knows the end of a thing telling you not to go into something is better not to, though its hurt considering the time u guys av spent together, also your sexual intimacy with him if there is any, it usually very difficult to obey but is the best if you can confirm from another true man of God.
Marriage is a delicate thing, what we see now is not what actually is after some years in marriage, thats why i do laugh at some people that do say pastors' instruction shouldn't be obeyed when it comes to choosing of partners, like they forget that some people still hear from God directly. So if you can go to two or three more places to confirm that and make sure there are true man of God ooo, if the answer is still the same thing then tell the guy to do the same thing because A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP IS BETTER THAN A BROKEN MARRIAGE. You have an opportunity now to know, others don't have this opportunity while some that did didnt take it serious now living in regrets

Some years back when all i do think of was sex, I had a sex with a lady and d condom busted though I continue without condom, after some days I started noticing some strange feelings in my body, I couldn't go for blood test cos av accepted in my mind that it was HIV cos the lady came from pH and she is good at having sex, so i concluded that am an HIV positive, the sickness started taken me down, i started losing strength, slimming down and becoming weak. So I later went for the test and I was told it was typhoid not HIV that was how i nearly killed myself cos the typhoid has gotten to advance stage. I was so happy and I promised God that I won't have sex again but some months after i went for nysc there I started again, I do have sex with two different ladies in a day at times and after some months the weakness came back, I thought I have finally contracted the disease I summoned courage to do the test it was negative. To cut the story short today av given my life to Christ, there is nothing in sex, 5mins enjoyment shouldnt cut the whole destiny down, some might not have the opportunity i had, so is better to abstain, u are using condom but the condom is not reliable, our girls these days can sleep with dog because of money. The innocent looking girl friend of yours might be sleeping with 3-4 guys while u think u are the only one and from there u put yourself at risk. Pls give your life to Christ today and be rest assure of your future. Now am free from fear, I can do my HIV test anytime cos am sure am safe. Apart from that, God's grace on me now is unexplainable, am enjoying peace from within, No sex before marriage but in my marriage by wife will know that once a champion is always a champion but I will wait till then. Give your life to christ, God hates sexual immorality

Pls anyone with DSS and custom replacement info, or are they not doing replacement?

Are this people not doing replacement this year? Pls anyone with info kindly update

Amarabae:
He looks so hot with a big cucumber!
Her shape is tempting with a hot watermelon!
The urge is stepping in and sexual feeling is building up in you!
You want him or her inside of you, you want it sloppy and harder,
you want a pounding,so that you can mourn,scream, and shed tears of joy,
#I deeply understand, yes premarital Sex can be sweet and fun-filled!
BUT have you thought about the negative impact premarital sex can have in your life?
Lets start with STDs!
Yes condom will be used but have you heard about condom break during the pounding?
With many fake condoms in markets now,Do you know that if condom break happens,you are now exposed to STDs both curable and incurable?
Dear sister, before you start sucking that his long hard pipe, have you heard about precums?
Though the rate of infection happening through precum is low,yet the possibility can not be written off,
mr headgiver, be careful,vaginal fluid can harbour microorganisms that can cause infection,
some STD carriers are on revenge mission,looking for who to infect,
why do you want to risk your future just for 10mins fun,
why not wait till you are married?

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The spiritual negative side of premarital sex!
Have you heard about spirit husband and wife?
Oh yes, they are REAL!
Many frusration,setback,limitation,hinderances etc that many unmarried folks are having came as a result of negative effect of sleeping around with multiple sex partners,
looking at it from a spiritual angle, premaritial sex is a sin before God and Man!
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What about the psychological trauma and stigmatisation you will go through if you contact an infection through premaritial sex,
or how disappointed your family will be if they find out,
I know that legally,if you are above 18yrs,you can have sex!
But dont let that deceive you,
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premarital sex is not worth the negative risk,
infact masturbation is a bit less risky than premarital sex,
thought both of them are bad though!
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save your future!
Be wise!
Zip up till marriage!
Thank you my sweethearts!

Thank you op, ever since have stopped indulging in the sinful act my life has known progress and am happy. Though is hard especially if you have been doing it before but with determination and prayer it is very much possible. I left a serious relationship because of that and ran away from others who i do commit the sin with because i discovered that if i didn't do that it will be difficult to successfully abstained, now am in another relationship with a well defined purpose( No sex b4 marriage) and am cool with it. if my john Thomas goes up because of thought of it or d things i see. I just rebuke the thought or take away my eyes from the thing and i will be fine. Abstinence is the key. Thank God am free

Olumsted@gmail.com

xmileeasy:
Na money de hold man to settle down maritally, her parents must surely ask if you get sustainable source of income. Anyway make we de hopeful for better things. Make we no derail the thread.

Naso, no parents go allow hin pikking surfer