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Bro, real talk.

You know that feeling at 11:47pm?

You told yourself “not today.” You had plans. Gym. Business. Prayer.

But now you’re drained. Empty. Phone in hand. And you hate yourself for it.

Tomorrow you’ll promise again. And lose again.

That’s not a willpower problem. That’s a DOPAMINE problem.

Your brain got hijacked. By screens. By that 2am habit. By the cycle nobody talks about.

I was stuck there too. So I built the exit plan I wish I had.

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No medical advice. Educational guide only.

Brothers,
3 months ago I was a mess. Big plans in the morning. Empty promises by midnight.

Phone in hand. 2hrs gone. Energy = 0. Self-hate = 100.

I knew if I didn’t fix it, I’d lose my self, future, business, my relationship.

So I built a 30-day dopamine reset system. No pastor, no pills, no lies.

Day 7: Urges dropped 80%
Day 14: Waking up without brain fog
Day 30: My wife said “you’re back”

If you know that 2am cycle I’m talking about, drop “ME” below.

I’ll share the 3 rules that changed everything in my next post.

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Never move in with him. Once he starts snacking you freely, he will have no urgency or drive to make things official.

He will soon be tired of your pu--sy and that's all.

Don't move in

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JohnNU:
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Jewessgratitud3:
Please I need to know if anyone has successfully removed theirs cos that's the next thing on my to -do list.

Now iv been considering this option as the permanent cure for the Monthly discomfort and sickness that comes with menses. After I watched a documentary on tv where a white female doc said the permanent cure for this is to remove the womb. Just don't have an idea how much it would cost but I'm sure it would definitely worth it.

I've noticed that this thing comes with different sickness each month and its always very annoying having to bear too many things at a time. Anemia, pains, discomfort, smell and sicknesses of various kinds. I don't what its doing for me. So let it just go to the gutters! I'm sick if it.! The fact that I hate popping pills to relieve pains is another thing I don't think I wanna continue with.




I WANT TO REMOVE MY WOMB AND BE HAPPY FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE!!!

I didn't want to comment, but I will to help you.

You are the problem of yourself, let me give you simple tips to solve your problems.

1. Stop eating anything that has sugar. I mean sugary things.

2. Get Oroki herb, is popular in Lagos, make sure you get the original and use it after every meal. Use it like that for the every month.

You will look for me

It's been a while I comment here but this got me feeling sad. Bro you are a fool.

If you couldn't determine from her vig that she has born, what of her tummy?

It will show, somehow wrinkle.

I'm only blaming you for not knowing that she had babies before marrying you.

The parternity fraud is not your fault, women are wicked. I used to tell my wife, the day I get to know even if it's after 10 or 20yrs, that the day she will leave my house. It's simple, no body on earth can beg me

goodnessme1:
Yoruba Muslims are coming for you.


I don't know why they hate yoruba Christians and every christian.



Be ready to be called Omo Igbo because they are taught from kids to hate Omo Igbo,so anyone they hate including yorubas Christians na Omo Igbo.

See this idiot, I'm a Yoruba Christian, there is no division between us and our Yoruba Muslim brothers. It's absolutely impossible to divide us along religion line in Yoruba land, reason being that we are so much into each other. In Yoruba land, Mother could be a Christian while the father is a Muslim and their sons or daughters will choose what they feel is best for them and we all live together in harmony. First daughter could be a Muslim while the son could be christian this happen a lot in Yoruba land. So you can't divide us.

Mhizzard:
You want to make money from them.cus it is a matter you can sort out with them maybe they discovered a fault.

They need to learn their lesson, they go away with a lot of things in this country.

Please who can help me pls

I want to sue multi choice (DSTV to be precised)

I made a subscription on Nov 5th before my existing sub expired on the 6th of Nov, the new sub wasn't active until 7th of November as I was still disconnected despite making payment before it expiration date.

To my surprise the sub has expired again when I obviously have few days left.

Is there any law firm that can help me sue this people?

franchasofficia:




Obi has really shook and reshaped Nigerian politics forever within few months. I am so proud to be Igbo because whatever an Igbo person ventures into with all his or her heart, he makes a huge difference and impact.


Just take a look at how one man has unsettled every other Nigerian politician without even saying a single word.


Peter Obi you are a legend, first of its kind that Nigeria ever had. A man that his silence alone makes opposition to pee in their dirty panties.



Reno Omokri have gone mad over Peter Obi that haven't altered a word in response to all Reno Omokri's unnecessary attacks on Obi. The whole thing come de make Reno feel like committing suicide, now another useless woman known as Lauretta Onochie has joined their hall of shame to lend her own useless voice by showing shameful hatred towards a peaceful man that have been preaching peace and calm to overcharged Obidient movement waiting for Peter Obi's approval to burn Nigeria down.



Ah, God abeg I tap into Peter Obi's divine grace, e no easy; a man whose silence makes the whole nation go gaga



Because of Peter Obi's 2023 Presidential election effect, Yorubas have woke up and now want to guard Lagos and every other Yoruba state from being taken away from Yorubas like Kwara State and others, and una say Peter Obi no be legend, abeg comot for road, who de who de, ha fugodi convoy anyi jiri weh bata obodo ha nodi ofuma

Legend of the Seeker

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

You are a weak man,

There are lots of girls outside, stop disturbing her for sex. Bleep outside and reduce your homely duties. She will come back to her senses. Your inlaw they insult you and you keep quiet

Urbaninspire:
I am so depressed at the moment,I passed the first stage, second stage interview,it was a success then I got the invite for the premedical and I failed the medical tests because I have hepatitis,I don't know how hepatitis got into my blood stream,I don't know what to do again,is just 2 much for my head...I need encouragement

So sorry bro.

I know how you feel. And the funniest thing is there is no medical treatment for it.

However, there is herb treatment. You can contact me

If God can help me to raise N10m in Nigeria doing what am doing. He can help me to raise 200m here in Nigeria. Why should I go to one useless UK all in the name of traveling out.

I will go there and be doing menial job, becoming a digital fool when I can stay back at home and be a king.

I pity those going to those countries

Honestly bro, you are truly weak.

You enjoy doing house chores while you allow her doing nothing, can you imagine?

This family are playing on your intelligence and if care is not taking you will regret all your actions.

I know the advice given you here won't enter your brain but I can tell you for free if you finance that lady to the UK, your cry will be premium

Kindly help me look into the two vehicles, which one is okay and state your reasons.

Exodus15v11:
Reincarnation goes against my Christian beliefs nor do I personally believe in it. I would suggest praying over her or taking her for deliverance.

You don't even know Bible, who is John the Baptist? He was the Elijah reincarnated. Go and read your Bible

Honestly, one of the most difficult things to do is to continuously have sex with one woman as a man. We should be honest with ourselves.

It is even worse when you have had several partners when single. I have been able to do it but is not easy. I have many gf now that i could not sleep with due to the fear of punishment.

ejifranks:
We challenge you Reno and the APC to prove this allegation. Peter obi is already in court to prove he is the authentic winner of the elections so APC and Reno should do the same and stop all these rabble-rousing.

The revelations will be shocking. Hope Uzodimma, Umahi, and INEC will soon be exposed for what they did in Imo and Ebonyi.

There is a lot of evidence, but you won't see them flying around on social media. That's how an intelligent party behaves. I can assure you that at the end of this saga, obi's votes will be reduced as well

Some days ago, Ten hag said there is no team they can not beat. He forgot that he is in England where you can be beaten mercilessly with your full squad. The man we invited to put an end to the era of Jurgen and Pep have been demolished by Jurgen

PeterObi4LP:
Shut up! The same tribal bigot seeing everybody as Igbo cost APC to lose Lagos and it will happen again. To you urchins everyone supporting Labour Party is Igbo.

Your parents are mad, Anambra should be released first

Penguin2:
For those who don’t understand complex composition, what Daily Trust Newspaper is saying is that the just concluded presidential election was a sham.

That the election shares a lot of similarities with 1993 election, and might as well share the annulment similarity with it.

Tinubu is not coming.

Peter Obi is coming.

Even the results INEC is currently uploading to its IREV portal is already at variance with what they announced manually.

Tinubu urchins are shitting in their pants.

That’s why they’ve been cold for 3 days now.

Ndi ala!

Continue deceiving yourself

The margin is still wide even if River and Lagos are 100% won by PO.

Remember there are cases of rigging in the east

Badgers14:
APC won because they rigged the election.

Under normal circumstances, that is if APC and INEC did not rig the election. Peter Obi would have won in an almost landslide.
Atiku would have been 2nd and Tinubu a distant 3rd.

Check it, even with all the rigging, Obi still won lagos state.

You are wrong, Atiku would have won.

How can a presidential candidate with 1,666 in a whole state in the North win an Election in Nigeria? It is not possible

Another question is that, how are we so sure that Atiku and Obi didnt rig too? We have video evidence of all these riggings. Especially in the east for PO