Politics › Re: Adeboye Obasanjo: Generals Of The Nigerian Army. Father & Son by Jamie248: 11:09pm On Oct 22, 2025 |
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Education › Re: Nigerian Industrialist, Malinson Ukatu Bags Honorary Doctorate Degree by Jamie248: 5:48pm On Oct 22, 2025 |
Sir Doctor Mallinson Ukatu
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Romance › Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Jamie248: 9:59pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Nigerian girls are the definition of the word 'parasite'  |
Politics › Re: Alleged Coup Plot: ADC Warns FG Against Using Security Narrative For Politics by Jamie248: 7:23am On Oct 21, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: New Date For 'Free Nnamdi Kanu Protest' Coming ~ Sowore by Jamie248: 1:02am On Oct 21, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Another Big Figure Has Finished Medicals, APC Chairman, Yilwatda Brags by Jamie248: 7:23am On Oct 20, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Photo Of Nigerians Fighting For Russia Against Ukraine - Shehu Sani by Jamie248: 11:42pm On Oct 19, 2025 |
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Travel › Re: 40yr Old Man Set To Leave Nigeria Dies In Hit-and-run Hours Before His Flight by Jamie248: 11:39pm On Oct 19, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: Should I Rent A House For My Woman by Jamie248: 10:14pm On Oct 19, 2025 |
jasent: Good day, Nairalanders. Please, I need your honest opinion on this matter.
I met this girl about a year ago when I went to purchase some goods at her workplace. She was really caring and even helped me carry some of the goods to the roadside. When I tried to tip her, she refused.
At that time, I was living in Ivory Coast, so after returning there, I chatted her up and expressed my interest in her. She initially agreed to date me but later changed her mind.
When I later visited Nigeria, she came to see me at my hotel. However, she didn’t allow anything intimate to happen. On several occasions when she visited, each time I made a move, she would walk out without even asking for transport fare. I would always call her back to ask why she acted that way, but her reasons were never clear.
Still, I kept supporting her in my own little way, even though I knew deep down she might never accept me. When I started getting tired of the situation, I told her I was moving on.
At this point, I had already rented an apartment close to the Benin Republic border — I chose that location because the electricity is stable and the rent is paid quarterly, with no agency fees.
Last week, she chatted me up asking if I didn’t want her to visit. I told her I did, but that I’d prefer someone who could spend a few days with me. She agreed to spend two days.
However, on the morning of the day she was supposed to come, she messaged me again, saying she had changed her mind and wouldn’t be sleeping over — but that when she came, I could “ask for anything.” Long story short, she eventually came, and that was the first time we had sex.
Now here’s where the issue starts.
She currently lives with her biological sister and a female friend. When she came, she told me that she, her sister, and their friend wanted to move in with me because they didn’t have money to rent their own place. I actually liked the idea and agreed. I even spoke with her sister about it.
But now, her sister and their friend have changed their minds. They say they prefer to move back to the East rather than come live with me. I even offered to pay three months’ rent for them in a similar apartment here, but they still refused.
Mind you, the reason I wanted them to move closer was so they could find something doing here — unlike their current situation, where they’re broke and dependent. Whenever I send my girlfriend ₦15,000, it barely lasts two days because she’s the one taking care of the rest since they’re not working.
How long can this continue?
Now, my girlfriend isn’t really the problem — her sister and their friend are. They don’t want her to move in with me, and she also can’t make any move without their consent. I’ve now decided not to rent any place for them in Lagos.
Nairalanders, what’s your take on this? Go ahead and rent for them if you've got the means...she sounds like a keeper |
Politics › Re: Politicians Hypocrisy: Loot Country Blind Going Out Seek Foreign Investment by Jamie248: 9:56pm On Oct 19, 2025 |
They are useless people...even the world bank has indicted them on illegal capital outflows (all the money they're stealing) |
Politics › Re: Olu Of Warri Stopped From Entering NDDC Office Official Openi In Warri (photos). by Jamie248: 7:54am On Oct 19, 2025 |
Olu of Itshekiri |
Politics › Re: Panic In The Corridor Of The Governors Office The Country... Inside Information. by Jamie248: 7:38am On Oct 19, 2025*. Modified: 11:11pm On Nov 11, 2025 |
Lol
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Politics › Re: Coup Plotters Planned To Assassinate Tinubu, Shettima, Akpabio - Premium Times by Jamie248: 5:23am On Oct 19, 2025 |
Toruibestate: Why Military Coup Is Hard in Nigeria
I once asked a recently retired Major General in the Nigerian Army why coups no longer happen easily in Nigeria. He explained that things changed drastically after the attempted coup that nearly claimed the life of former military ruler, Ibrahim Babangida.
According to him, the military intelligence system was completely overhauled after that incident. It became so advanced, sophisticated, and deeply embedded across all security units that planning or executing a coup today is almost impossible without being detected early.
That’s why, since that time, Nigeria hasn’t witnessed a single successful coup.
He said Babangida called Abacha to save him that it was Abacha that saved him from the shame and what later happened was agreement between him and Abacha.
Say Babangida was under one underground road at Dodan Barracks Lagos that the Military already took over and Abacha sent thousands of troops from outside to come in when he sent save our soul to Abacha
After the coup, Babangida immediately took FCT to North where he feels safer . Tinubu can run it to Lagos where he feels safer too.
@Ditari of Ijaw. You're obviously a small boy  |
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Politics › Re: Rivers Governor Fubara Cancels ₦134billion Secretariat Contract By Ibas by Jamie248: 11:46pm On Oct 16, 2025 |
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Celebrities › Re: Sarah Martins Harassed By Lagos Task Force For Cooking On The Street In Lekki by Jamie248: 11:42pm On Oct 16, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Governor Bago Worships At Living Faith Church, Minna (Throwback Video) by Jamie248: 10:56pm On Oct 16, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Caption This Picture Of Tinubu And Bianca Ojukwu by Jamie248: 4:46pm On Oct 16, 2025 |
seunmsg: What is the best caption for this picture? Beauty and the Beast |
Politics › Re: Illegal Financial Flows Out Of Nigeria Worsening Country’s Revenue Problem –IMF by Jamie248: 3:54pm On Oct 16, 2025 |
Racoon: The useless corrupt leaders in government and elites are mainly the ones responsible for these illicit outflow of forex to stash abroad. The same people screaming and wailing about tax are the ones funneling our money abroad... And of course their defenders on nairaland are too slow to realize what's actually going on  |
Crime › Re: Katsina: Customs Office Dies After Lodging With Three Women In A Hotel by Jamie248: 8:38am On Oct 16, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Kebbi To Host APC Governors Forum Thursday by Jamie248: 12:48am On Oct 16, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Ex-Militant Leader, Tompolo Donates ₦10 Billion To Delta State Security Fund by Jamie248: 11:56pm On Oct 15, 2025 |
Freshtruth: Omo. People dey why rich pass Dangote for this country and Tombolo is one of them.
The man which favorite music is bullet sounds.
If Efcc gather mind make them near him compound wadda them go come back alive.
Person wey they bear government as name He can not be richer in terms of assets but he's definitely making money at a higher rate than Dangote...even if he has that much in assets he has to keep most of it in other people's names His main problems are about how to wash the money and turn it to legit cash like Dangote, otherwise he'd be richer already |
Politics › Re: Ex-Militant Leader, Tompolo Donates ₦10 Billion To Delta State Security Fund by Jamie248: 11:53pm On Oct 15, 2025 |
Mabuggi88: Hmmm, na waoo.....So this is the level the money was shared, if he can donate 10b, imagine the amount of those pipeline contracts😏 You know! 😋 APC deadheads will never understand what is actually going on...they will continue selling their next ten generations for 30k per month |
Politics › Re: Wale Edun Makes Public Appearance At London Art Fair by Jamie248: 10:58pm On Oct 15, 2025 |
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Family › Re: Samson Haruna: Wedding Pictures Of Army Officer Killed By Wife In Akwa-ibom by Jamie248: 10:58pm On Oct 07, 2025 |
Be careful who you marry, and when you eventually do it, treat them well!
Don't think because you have muscles that you can enslave your spouse, because she has access to you at your most vulnerable periods...your life (or death) is basically in the hands of your spouse! |
Politics › Re: President Tinubu Accepts Resignation Of Geoffrey Uche Nnaji As Minister by Jamie248: 10:41pm On Oct 07, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Yakubu Hands Over To Agbamuche As INEC Acting Chairman by Jamie248: 7:47pm On Oct 07, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Riley Moore Describes Nigeria As Deadliest Place Globally For Christians by Jamie248: 3:50pm On Oct 07, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Uche Nnaji Shows Proof That He Graduated In 1985 From UNN (Picture) by Jamie248: 1:50am On Oct 07, 2025 |
Hmmmmm2024: I have a BSc and a Master degree...I have never wore a graduation gown...so my friend, it is not by graduation gown... Most of these people have their brain just for decoration they can't use it, they aren't using it to think! |
Politics › Re: Uche Nnaji Shows Proof That He Graduated In 1985 From UNN (Picture) by Jamie248: 1:28am On Oct 07, 2025*. Modified: 1:51am On Oct 07, 2025 |
dapadawee: Enemies, the photo book is a proof that's even more substantial than the graduation group photo. Bad belle Dude😳😳 I cannot wrap my head around the fact that somebody like you is having the same full vote as every other adult😳😳😳 I can't even believe you're real
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Politics › Re: Uche Nnaji Shows Proof That He Graduated In 1985 From UNN (Picture) by Jamie248: 1:19am On Oct 07, 2025 |
nedekid: Same here, I did not attend graduation ceremony, neither did I take pictures, but Oga no one can dispute the fact that I attended and graduated from UI, my certificate is there, my matric number, my clearance, nysc certificate, schoolmates, alumni etc. Why the can't this man show us his certificate and other perticulars, rather he is showing some faded torn up paper as proof he graduated from UNN, then bringing the usual cock and bull story of political persecution as if we are halfwits. Oga once there is controversy such as this, know there is always merit to it. Did they not try it wit Dino, what did he do? He sharply showed concrete evidence of his graduation along with nysc evidence shutting it down, same thing with fani, he brought out sharp sharp evidence, meanwhile this bros is bringing yeye picture. Uche knows he is in the same boat with his boss.... Baba sef no get any credentials so they are twinning and Uche knows! |