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Well OK, maybe 101 was a bit of an exaggeration but follow these suggestions and you will stand a good chance of not getting pregnant...

Don't have sex without a condom - If you do you will not only stand a good chance of getting pregnant you will also be at risk of catching a nasty sexually transmitted infection!

Don't miss a daily contraceptive pill - It is advisable to use condoms and the pill together. However, if you do just use the pill you will risk pregnancy if you forget to take one or more. If this happens, you must use condoms and the pill for the rest of the pill cycle.

Don't take your daily contraceptive pill at irregular times - This lowers the effectiveness of the pill so you should always take it at the same time each day.

Don't have unprotected sex during your period - A lot of people think that whilst you are on your period you can't get pregnant... that is totally wrong! So work on the assumption that there is never a "safe time" to have unprotected sex.

Don't think pulling out before ejaculation can prevent pregnancy - Treat a penis like a loaded gun... it's always dangerous, so protect it with a condom at all times!

Don't think that it's OK to rub an unprotected penis around the outside of a vagina - It's still possible for some sperm to get inside.

Don't allow either partner's fingers to touch his penis then enter her vagina - even before ejaculation some sperm can be present.

Don't let fingers that have touched a penis touch the outside of a condom - sperm could be transferred to the condom and then get inside the vagina.

Don't leave a penis inside a vagina too long after ejaculation - It is always best to withdraw straight after ejaculation as a common cause for condoms coming off inside is when the penis has gone down and the condom is no longer a tight fit.

Don't have sex if you think all this is too much to remember! - It's easy to make a mistake in the heat of the moment so make sure this knowledge is second nature so you don't have to think about it!

Don't have sex at all! - yeah, this is actually the safest and best option.

And finally...
Never underestimate the power of sperm... a small drop of semen on the end of a man's penis carries enough sperm to fertilise all the women in Colombia! In case your geography is not that hot, we are talking around 18 million babies!



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Bought about a month ago. Comes with original charger and earpiece. Pack is still intact but not available as I left it when I traveled. Location:lagos. Whatsapp or call 07066866009. Good specs, long lasting battery and upgradeable os.

Can't even see the girl. He's cooking for his African girlfriends

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Kids in school won't hear. Organizing parties involving touts without adequate security. RIP to him though.

Mods dey do partial...I posted it first. https://www.nairaland.com/2158498/picture-flavour-school-uniform-pupil no quals sha

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No 10 is classic

Na today... All na wash

Hmmm....painful though what Nigeria has become.

Mods pls edit the heading. Nice points, thanks OP

It's always been said. If only they'd adhere.

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It is well bro

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Very good development. It means the economy is thriving and favorable against all odds.

Teenagers nowadays lead a complex life. You know. You were in that same position not so long ­ago. But it doesn't help that it can be practically impossible to get your teen to really talk to you. You also know that technology, social media and the rapidly changing attitudes of society create new challenges and responsibilities for teens and parents of today.

Are you wondering what is going through his or her mind? Here is what your teen wants you to know:

I want rules and boundaries

Jeannie Colvin, a licensed therapist who maintains the site FamiliesWithTeens.com, says your teen would tell you, "I need limits. I'm going to yell at you and react to them, but when you don't give me any, it makes me feel like I'm in charge. I may say that's what I want, but it really scares me."

Wiseman says that rules can also help your child get out of bad situations without losing face with friends: "I can't do that because my dad will kill me when he finds out."

I know I goofed up

Teens, even the "good" ones, occasionally do really stupid things. If your teen tells you about how she messed up, resist the urge to lecture or criticize. Patrick, a father and grandfather who volunteers with teens, says, "Resist the lecture and just listen. What they really need is unconditional love. They need to know you are there for them."

Your teen may shut you out if you lose your cool or say "I told you so." Listen calmly and communicate your support. Supporting your teen as she experiences consequences and finds her own solutions will be far more effective than any lecture.

I have a lot more going on than I am telling you

Diane, a mother of five, says her adult children regularly confess crazy things they did as teens that she knew nothing about. These were kids who got good grades and attended church and now have respectable jobs and college educations.

Even well-behaved teens are up to more than they share with their parents. Your child may not be involved in parties, sex, drugs, alcohol, eating disorders or other serious issues, but he probably knows kids who are. Keep in mind that you can't always identify a "good" kid by his appearance.

I want to trust you, but you need to earn it

You can't expect your teen to pour out her soul to you if your actions at other times show that she's not your top priority.Rosalind Wiseman, author of "Queen Bees and Wannabes," recommends scheduling a regular date with your teen. It might be spent in silence, but over time, your teen is more likely to talk to you about important issues when she knows you're available and willing to listen.

I just need you to be there—when I'm ready

Getting a teen to share what is going on in his mind can be challenging and will happen on his own schedule. It will mean a lot, and likely yield more conversations, if you can drop everything and listen when your teen is ready to talk. Parents who have successfully raised teens report that their kids were often most eager to talk after midnight.

It's true that you were a teen once, and you probably have valuable experiences to share. However, most teens are naturally self-centered, and when they do talk, they probably want to talk about themselves and their issues. If you have a helpful experience to share, keep it brief, or you'll be quickly tuned out.

Please don't compare me

Beware of comparing your teen with his or her siblings or friends, your friends' kids or yourself. Your teen is desperately trying to figure out who he is and how he fits in, and hearing "Why can't you be more like..." is never helpful. Chances are that kid you want yours to be more like has more problems than you realize, and your teen knows it.

I think about important things

Teens are coming of age in a world that thinks lightly of serious subjects like faith, relationships and community involvement. That doesn't mean your teen thinks lightly of them, even if you can't tell. Young people can be highly observant and have surely noticed when friends or family experienced the consequences of irresponsible choices. They are also capable of deep spiritual feelings and a sincere desire to help others. Look out, they might just make you proud.



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It means APC too has failed cos they advertise their state governors' achievements. Going by that, not even his party is capable and should be trusted.

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Too bad really...always go for a test guys. It's not only about having sexx. A virgin might be positive. Never work with assumptions.