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FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by janejive(f): 1:08pm On Jul 11, 2020
MsBella:
My brother in the kitchen this morning. What would you cook with these chunky pieces of catfish?
Pepper soup
PropertiesRe: How Do I Handle My Landlord?? by janejive(f): 3:20pm On Jun 29, 2020
veave:
Please call a carpenter to access the leakage. If it's something you can afford just do the patch and move on. Our people say it is where you live that you take care of. I'm all for treating a house you are renting like the house you built yourself. May God keep providing for you.
You are very diplomatic, nice way to resolve issues amicably
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by janejive(f): 3:50pm On Jun 10, 2020
GboyegaD:
My phone later showed the pictures. What can I do? At first the picture wasn't showing.

Dinner:
Fried rice, Plantain, and Chicken.
Looks yummilicious
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Mourns Maikanti Baru by janejive(f): 10:58pm On May 30, 2020
godkiller:
It's a pity.

We are training youths on solar panel production and installation.

If you want to learn or volunteer to teach please drop your WhatsApp number, location and area of interest.

God bless Nigeria.
Am very much interested
07066131502
FamilyRe: Happy Children's Day. by janejive(f): 9:50am On May 27, 2020
Very gleeful children's day to every child out there

Jobs/VacanciesRe: Software Developer And Application Analyst Needed For An International Project by janejive(f): 3:24pm On May 26, 2020
Hello, an Indian is interested in this job. He has applied via hiren@prishusoft.com, can I send u a PM so we talk?
CrimeRe: 3 Brothers Kill Sibling In Imo Over Proceeds From Mother’s Burial by janejive(f): 8:37pm On May 25, 2020
Nonsense, what hv dey achieved
FamilyRe: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by janejive(f): 7:28pm On May 22, 2020
Divine89:
Hello everybody. I am Nigerian based in France. My English it is not 100% perfect but I will try to make it possible for you to understand me with the help of google french to English translator and my story is also long sorry for that.

When I was 9 years old I joined my uncle, my mum's younger brother in France. He declared me as his daughter. During that time he only had one child, 2 years old. He and the wife were so loving to me. I never lacked anything in their house.

But when I turned 12, I went to secondary school. I met some bad friends there. This is where the problem started.I became a very difficult child. I will go to school come home late. My uncle will beat and beat me but I never listened. I smoked my first cigarette at 12 and had my first sex at 13 and I started running away from home to stay with boyfriends. Sometimes I can go for a week and when uncle reporta me missing, the police will be looking for me, then they will bring me back home.

Then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me. I told them he was beating me with belts, electric wire, they don’t give me foods and I really said a lot of bad things about them doing to me to make my teacher believe my story so they could take me away from them because I wanted freedom and my teacher believed me and reported to the police and child protection, they are people who take away abused children from their parents. They took custody of me and my uncle three children, the youngest was 6 months old to their care and they gave us to this white lady to care for us and my uncle and wife were arrested for child abuse and the police were doing some investigation.

After spending 1yr 9 months in care of the white lady I dropped out school. They found out that I was a difficult child that I lied to get freedom so they have decided to give my uncle his children back to him while I stayed in care of white people but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this.

I have given birth to 6 children by 6 men and none of the children is living with me. The first one was taken away from me at 2 months old because I beat her up and fractured her hands and I also tested positive for heroinn (drugs), so that did not stop me from giving birth second child was removed from my care 4 hours after birth she also tested positive for heroin the same way my other children were removed at birth too so I carry on with my lifestyles. I did not care about my children at that time all I care about was sex, alcohol and drugs this is what I wanted and I have been to prison several times for selling drugs and fraudsters. The longest I have spent in prison was 2 years then after i left prison, I met with this sister who introduced me to this church she attended so I went along with her, the pastor told me to confess my sin to him and promised it will be a secret between I, him and God which I did repented and accepted Jesus as my saviour. To be honest, my life did changed a lot, I fell the peace in my heart , enjoyed going to church every Sunday but this pastor went tell his wife my life story and the wife told everyone in church my life story and started using it against me so it made me so angry that I left the church in November 2017 without looking back. I have decided not to attend any church again. I have stopped alcohol, taking drugs and sleeping with men I no longer do it. I prayed at home, read my bible and behaving good and it's almost 2 years I havnt slept with a man and i went to look for my uncle asking him for forgiveness but he has refused and I send him many text messages begging him to forgive and I still no heard anything from him or the wife even their children I have tried to ask them forgiveness they have blocked me and they all want nothing to do with me even my own parents and siblings in Africa they have rejected me, none of them want to talk to me, my parents said i am dead to them, it is so painful I cry everyday in my prayers, as for my children 4 of them are adopted with new family. I can't see them again maybe until they are 18 years old If they want to know me if they don't want I will have no choice to accept it and my 2 youngest children i am only allowed to see them once a year in a children play centre with someone supervise because they don't let me to be alone with them and soon I will stop visiting them because they are planning to adopt them to a new family too that will mean I will have nobody on this earth.

I regret my mistake so bad I wish I could change it but it will no be impossible. I can't have more children because they will be removed from me like the others and I am only 31years old. I don't know if my repentance was genius because my family has refused to forgive me and my question goes like this if they never forgive me will I ever found happiness again or I will just have to accept it until I died?

Please, advise me in a Christian way maybe if there's more I can do and also prayed for me so my family will be able to forgive me and also pray for my two children that nobody will adopt them so I can get custody of them and i promised to be a good mother to them, please I am begging you in the name of God.
Try to apologize to your uncle and his family through a newspaper page. I really hope this works plus after that or the day the newspaper publication comes out, go on ur kneels and beg him to forgive you. If the apologizing is done publicly am sure he will forgive. Am keeping my fingers crossed that you will succeed in life. Newspaper publication is expensive start to work on it. Good luck
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Remote Work: I Want Someone Who Can Post The Picture Of Products From My Website by janejive(f):
[quote author=Tayodealz post=89828554]Remote work

I want someone who can post the picture of products from my website to my instagram

1. Content -
5 -9 posts a day

a.You will post Pic, SKU,Price and Top hastags (provided)

b. (You will also write) if you want it - go to www.website.com and search for the (SKU number) on the website to find this item.

Duration - 1 month

Long term opportunity available

My budget it is N10,000 for a month

Apply Here https://form.jotform.com/201421605733546

https://form.jotform.com/201421605733546[/quot
CrimeRe: Man Kills His Cousin In Abia Over Mango (Disturbing Photos) by janejive(f): 4:21pm On May 14, 2020
Plan wickedness
BusinessRe: I Can Supply You Crayfish In Large Quantities by janejive(op): 5:54pm On May 10, 2020
Yes, send me a whatsapp msg on 07066131502
RomanceRe: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by janejive(f): 5:25pm On May 07, 2020
emae009:
it'll end in tears...
You wicked sha, u didnt even give her soft landing. As for you OP put ur mind in doing other things. What u feel is puppy love. It goes no where. Pele. Or prob u just need d experience
PoliticsRe: Buhari Mourns The 3 UNIPORT Students, Directs More Intense Police Action by janejive(f): 4:57pm On May 04, 2020
Their death so painful and unnecessary
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by janejive(f): 5:18pm On Apr 21, 2020
Akposy:
Oatmeal Cookies

The first set got burnt. Ayam in severe pain
Pele
RomanceRe: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by janejive(f): 4:09pm On Apr 21, 2020
Giwoni:
My Love Experience

Good day NLanders

I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.

Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.

In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.

I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.

thanks
Find ur way out ofnthis country when u.graduate n look for a better woman out there. She has been using you all these while. She will regret this in future. God will give you a better woman.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Finally Got A Job Through A Nairalander After Months Of Job Hunting. by janejive(f): 12:06pm On Apr 08, 2020
Ghostty:
Hello guys
Good morning to you all.

Remember this thread I created sometime last year?

https://www.nairaland.com/5448693/accept-job-offer-continue-job

Well as God would have it, a Nairalander whose moniker is very popular on here(Wouldn't mention for obvious reasons) reached out to me and asked me to send my CV to his email address for review.

At first, I was reluctant and didn't want to send the CV considering he's always not serious with his posts and also a troll here or so I thought. But on a second thought I decided to give it a try. Few days later, he sent an email requesting that I meet him at a particular address the following day on the Island here in Lagos.

The following day I got to the address, it was actually an office complex with the company occupying about 6 floors in the entire building. I met with the Nairalander, we discussed at length and in the end he asked me when I would love to resume.

I later got to know he is the General Manager, Group Learning and Human Resources for the Company(A Privately owned Oil Firm) after resumption.

Fams, today I'm gainfully employed with a pay four times bigger than what the Chinese company had earlier offered me in my previous thread.

I want to use this medium to thank Seun Osewa and most especially God for sending an helper my way when I thought all hopes was lost. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

PS: Some Nairalanders are super rich and connected guys, believe me. Learn to respect people's opinion on here as you may not know who you're dealing with. For those who are still searching for jobs, please do not stop believing as your breakthrough is closer than you know. Thank you.

Seun, Lalasticlala, uboma

Modified:

I know you would most likely see this Sir. May God continually bless you, guide and protect you. I appreciate you from the bottom of my heart, God bless you. Amen!
I am happy for you
PropertiesRe: Our Tenant Hasn't Paid Rent Since 2018, What Can I Do? by janejive(f): 4:41pm On Mar 17, 2020
Give everyone in the compound quit notice and start afresh. The tenants owing you rent think u can do nothing, hence the gang up. Get the services of a lawyer to make it professiinal.
PoliticsRe: El-Rufai Meets Sanusi In Awe, Nasarawa (Photos) by janejive(f): 3:22pm On Mar 13, 2020
A friend indeed
FoodRe: Affordable Dry Fish by janejive(f): 12:16pm On Feb 14, 2020
Whats your location?
Business To BusinessRe: 65KVA Generator For Sale: Location Lagos by janejive(op): 6:39pm On Jan 19, 2020
Selling
AutosRe: Excavators For Sale: Location Lagos by janejive(op): 7:46pm On Jan 16, 2020
Hello everyone
Business To BusinessRe: 65KVA Generator For Sale: Location Lagos by janejive(op): 7:45pm On Jan 16, 2020
Hello everyone?
HealthRe: Please Help Diagnose This Scalp Disease (Disturbing Photos) by janejive(f): 9:21pm On Jan 13, 2020
xavuv:
Please help diagnose this thing on my daughter's head. That thing looks like small small boils all over her head. It pains her alot and she doesnt want anyone to touch her head especially when bathing. She 3yrs old, eats well and very active.

It started 4 days ago and progressed to this stage.

Other Sypmtoms include:

She doesnt sleep well at night becauese of pains on her head.

High temp especially around 1am-5am ( we have been using paracetamol to calm bown the temp)

Little rashes on her neck and lower back.

Her hair doesnt grow evenly (though we have noticed this for a while)
Not a big deal, give her Lycomycin for boils will dry up. It comes in light blue and dark blue capsules very bitter but works. Dissolve capsule in water n administer 2 ur child 2ice daily.
RomanceRe: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by janejive(f): 9:15pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
I am not angry or complainingI am just shocked and feeling guilty.. I had to take her to a shopping mall to buy her stuffs. Getting to the mall I told her to pick any thing she wants that I will pay.

she picked just 3 things. When we got to the counter the cashier said the bill is 870.
I was shocked again that she didn't get more things for herself. With joy, I gave the cashier 1000 and told him to keep the change.
You have found her, keep her
FamilyRe: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by janejive(f): 1:36pm On Dec 30, 2019
Cutehector:
But why did you keep such medical information from him before you both got married? That's not fair in my opinion.
Post Partum psychosis occurs in d life ofv1 in 10 women after childbirth. Happened to women around me. U never know until u hv had a baby. It goes away if adequately treated with anti depressants. No need for blaming her.
FoodRe: Post Your Christmas Food Pictures Here by janejive(f): 6:00pm On Dec 25, 2019
From my end, merry christmas���

CrimeRe: Missing Undergraduate, Faith Aluko, Found by janejive(f): 9:11am On Dec 25, 2019
Just say she went to Dickdom
AutosRe: Excavators For Sale: Location Lagos by janejive(op): 11:01pm On Dec 15, 2019
For Enquires call : 07011386003 Jane
Business To BusinessRe: 65KVA Generator For Sale: Location Lagos by janejive(op): 11:00pm On Dec 15, 2019
For Enquires call : 07011386003 Jane
PropertiesRe: Affordable Estate Plots For Sale In Port-harcourt by janejive(op): 10:59pm On Dec 15, 2019
Selling
RomanceRe: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by janejive(f): 5:34pm On Dec 15, 2019
Men ur Fiancée/Wifey is one in a million. This ur baby mama or whatever she is, is a manipulator. Guy do DNA test. Get a lawyer, get ur kids or keep them 50:50. Stay clear of this woman.

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