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IkeOnyia:
Nigerian army is the most shameless in the world. When hunters and vigilantes get the job done, they will rush to take the credit. The only things they are good at are collecting bribes at checkpoints, intimidating civilians and burning down Christian villages e.g. Zaki Biam, Odi and Okuama and running away when they face serious combat from terrorists. The army should just stay in their barracks. They are useless to Nigeria, it is better we hire mercenaries or foreign help like the one the American military is offering now.

See how you run mouth like a public tap to spew incoherent thrash.
Calling them “useless” ignores the reality of what an army actually is and what it needs to function effectively.
You think an army is not just men in uniform carrying rifles? A modern military requires intelligence systems, surveillance technology, air support, armored vehicles, drones, secure communications, logistics chains, medical units, and consistent funding. Without these, even the bravest soldiers are fighting with one hand tied behind their back.
These guys are not magicians. If they are under-equipped, underfunded, poorly coordinated, or sent into asymmetric warfare without the right tools, the outcome will reflect that. You cannot expect 20th-century equipment to defeat 21st-century terror networks that use drones, encrypted communication, and foreign funding.

Yes, I agree. With or without them beads, you look younger than your actual age. That's if you're really 32.

Would that stop the church from being targeted?

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Wotowotoman:
Ogbeni, see as you just showed the world say you never pass maths for WAEC. Na wa o

I shock o.

So after 999 million, we go begin count 1000 million. Na wa for people.

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Wotowotoman:
Ogbeni, see as you just showed the world say you never pass maths for WAEC. Na wa o

I shock o.

So after 999 billion, we go begin count 1000 billion. Na wa for people.

Richtaiwo:
What are you saying?

Regina was married to a multi billionaire.

Do you know what 1 billion is?

That is 1 million X 1 million.

Ned has several of that.

And that automatically makes Regina Daniels a billionaire?

zoer:
I have been waiting for an update for God knows how long.
See the way Iran the spite Trump for him face and he can't do wat he planned.
Why waste money to bring war equipments when you will still take them back as you brought them.
I am disappointed in Trump.

Trump is a lousy loudmouth, I said it before. Unfortunately, many innocent Persians believed him and paid with their lives. If he had half the balls Netanyahu has, the Iranian regime would have been flattened by now.

What else could be expected from a Karen?

Only Naptu2 has the right to open this kind of thread. No wonder it hasn't passed the first page yet.

Emu4life:
The present Isreal is not Jews. They are Criminal European Settlers/land grabbers

But they're not Muslims at least.

goslowgoslow:
Please apart from the cyber bullying which I don't know the details is calling someone "witch" a crime?

As long as you can't prove she's a witch, you can be sued and charged.
Submit evidence, no be cho cho cho.

FreeStuffsNG:
Smh.

I can see that you have allowed yourself to be brainwashed because of your embarrassing level of ignorance .

Since North Korea had nuclear missiles, how many countries have they blown? Since they lied on Sadam Hussein to pillage his country, how many weapons of mass destruction have been found in Iraq.

Don't be a suegbe for ever o

North Korea is not a Muslim country. Sane humans know why you and your type are supporting Iran.

Emu4life:
Lol! The Persians hvae never been known to be cowards

The present Iran is not Persian. It's Islamic terrorist.

Nigeria and religion. What has holy spirit got to do with the jollof rice again?

Punchline!

Complete the characters.

It is not too late to try again.
On another note, TikTok cred looks like the new yardstick for Grammy recognition.

laivwire:
Elipheleh, my story is very similar to yours and it's been on for over a decade now.
3rd class, no job, no business. No ambition.
All she wants is a good life and money to spend.... and it is frustrating to say the least.

This is despite the fact that I broke my first true relationship of over 4 years because of this fear. I had seen enough experiences with my uncles to know it's not a good idea. All the wife would care about are her kids, watching Nollywood all day, and wanting the latest items they see on other people they gossip about. I discussed this with my wife before marriage that I do not want a wife like this and she said yes, ok. Only to count several years in marriage and she never stepped out of the house to go work for one day. I've designed CV multiple times and given her money for business. All down the drain because she has no drive to do it.

But I will reecho what honour8 said. I met my wife at a low point in life but ever since, I have found myself in an upward trajectory. Every big project I put my hands into, even though it's quite difficult and takes a long time, eventually turns successful. I previously had a cycle of 3 years of good tidings and by the fourth year I would be expecting some kind of setback but things changed since I met her. She talks about it too.

Now, I'm not so spiritual or anything. I have fought with her countless times and given her several ultimatums in this issue but it's just ingrained in her not to do/want anything other than her current life.

I'm not giving up on her however because even though her inaction has put me in dire straits when it comes to making some big career decisions multiple times, I choose to look at the positives. She's good natured, loves to care for the kids better than anyone else I know and does all housewifely chores gladly. Cook, clean, etc

Besides there are many educated Nigerian couples out there today with only the husband working. Even though the wife wants to work, there's no opportunity. So just manage your accounts and lead your family the best way you can given the situation.

I wish I could give this comment a double like!

I’m glad you didn’t end this with bitterness, because honestly, what you wrote already shows balance. Yes, it’s valid to feel frustrated when expectations don’t align, especially after discussions before marriage. That part shouldn’t be brushed aside.
But I really respect your resolve to focus on the positives. The things many people downplay today, like cooking daily, running the home, raising children properly, being emotionally steady...are not small work. They are real labour, and they quietly hold a family together. If those things collapse, no amount of money or ambition can easily fix it.
Not every contribution shows up as a payslip. Some show up as peace of mind, stable children, and a home that allows the man to go out and fight life’s battles without worrying about chaos behind him. From what you described, she has clearly played a role in your upward trajectory, whether spiritual or not.
I think your conclusion is wise. Manage the accounts, lead your family with what you have, and keep choosing gratitude over resentment. That mindset alone already puts you ahead of many.

Rich4god:
As a man... Marry any lady that gives you peace and willing to stand with you...

Then over time, you upgrade her to any standard you want. If it's skill, enrol her. If it's education plan and send her to school.

The most important thing is to be with someone that gives you all you need in a woman.

So you become your wife's parent?

Trump talks too much.

SpaceX:
He bought the milk so he has every right to use it, my wife can never try this with me or else I will show her the door, I'm a alpha male.....

You never grow up yet.

Anything to make terrorists happy. Delulu is when Iran thinks it has any chance against USA.

thesicilian:
They've not won any election but they are the loudest. Just like Arsenal fans, next season is always their season.

You will eat and swallow your words when Arsenal lift the trophy this season.

The dream of terrorists.

Anything from this very terror sympathizer should not be trusted. He's ALWAY biased against Israel, Christians and the US but sympathetic towards HAMAS, Boko Haram, Hezbollah, Iran, etc., as long as it promotes Islam.

She's lying.

40 characters shared among thee.

Naturally, I’m inclined to side with Fela in any situation involving him and anyone far bigger than WizKid. I mean, there's no way you can compare the two. WizKid worshipping Fela should be considered a lifetime achievement.

However, the dïckhead called Seun does not reflect his father’s legacy or brilliance in any way.

Trump's watery promise of help has led to the death of thousands of Iranian protesters. One thing I hate about that man is that he talks too much...like he has a leak somewhere in his mouth. If the Israeli PM had 50% of America's weapons he'd have reduced the Iranian regime to rubbles by now. And he'd have done it without too much blabs.

Anything to make Islamic terrorists and their supporters to looseguard. Believe Trump at your peril.

Anything you see Muslim people support, just know it is demonic.

Before opening this thread my mind had already told me who the op is.