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shoesandbags:
Lolz! How did u know those pictures were actually taken in an hotel room! Truth be told, u're a frequent caller. Na only witch dey know witch.

Like I said, I know a hotel when I see one. Who doesn't know how hotel rooms and lavatories are designed and furnished

MizTyna:
Jascon4,this is a big stereotyping. It isnt always what it seems. I've gone to so many hotels i can pass for a connoisseur on it. Male friends even call me to recommend hotels for them. Reason? My boyfriend has a job that makes him spend the night atleast 2ce in a month in a hotel and i'm always with him. I wont count the numerous trainings that warrants the hotel stays for 3days,6days and more. Those not less than 2ce in a year. It doesnt make me a prostitute if i snap pictures there. I dont do much of that anyway. Work aside,we sometimes just spend the night at a hotel,for no reason. And note,i'm just as frequent at his place. I even have my own keys.

Your case is exceptionally peculiar Tyna. If you did carefully read my post, you probably would have realize they were not stereotyping like you asserted. I never in anyway labelled all girls prostitute because they visited a hotel.

Again, if you have also read my subsequent posts, you would've noticed my acknowledgment of the fact that there are a few category of ladies/women who can honestly access these facilities. However, the number of such women pales into nothing when compared with an overwhelming majority of girls who are lodged and hosted by a man in hotel rooms across the country. These, exactly are the category of girls that I'm alluding to. These are the ones who despite their insidious activities in these hotel rooms would be taking selfies in the room and toilet of these hotels and spread it all over social media to up their social status but end up denigrating their personality and/or character.

Icekyng:
loool jascon u be comedian abeg
hahahaha u just blaster all dose babes
all dis tinz will backfire wen dem wan find husband

My bro, that's the position I found myself.

Well done!

Sandydayz:
Come join me then

Here I come in the real sense of it...something's waiting for you

Sandydayz:
It's over already

Doesn't matter, I still want to...

So pls let me

Krisgift:
Lol...

yes i have sir.
am i free now?

Fantastic! No you aren't free dear, please stick around, cos I relish your presence

Rumin8:
Jascon4, you've made a good observation. Why the ladies here are taking it very personal, I fail to understand.

For those who are upset by the allusions of the OP, it's either you're guilty of the same actions or you don't fully understand the points made. Agreed, not every girl in a hotel is there for a sexual rendezvous. Most are there for many reasons, beyond sex.

What Jascon has stated and which I agree to is that, while not every meeting a girl holds in hotel room is for purposes of sex, it becomes distasteful when a girl has on her Facebook page or Twitter handle, or Instagram, dozens and dozens of photos of herself in various hotel rooms. Unless she is some sort of hotel inspector, then she has no other reason, aside sexual, to be in these rooms. And when I say rooms, I mean rooms. Multiple. At different times within a given period.

Of course, it's not any concern of mine and I will never make a direct complaint to an individual who does this. But I, like the OP reserve the right to express our objection to this practice. Just as anyone in favour of it maintains the full rights to a complete acceptance of the action. But express your support and solidarity without abuses. That's how grown ups behave.

Finally, and to clear one little notion. I also frown at the assumption of sexual activity that people make in reference to hotel rooms. I despise it in fact, but in this instance, there is no other basis for a girl, single apparently, taking photos in over 20 different hotel rooms. I have had cause to unfriend certain people as a result of this on Facebook. Where every morning on my news feed, I see some girl pouting, lying or standing in a hotel room.

So yes, not every meeting a girl holds in a hotel room indicates sexual activity. But one girl, in tens of hotel rooms, even hundreds, can only mean one thing.

Thank you bro for you intelligent observation and insightful contribution. Those who oppose and attack only look at it at one angle, without broadening their perspective.

I anxiously hope they will read this informed post of yours and learn a thing or two. I have seen more than enough of this before I came up with the observation. Like I opined, it has clearly become a front seat trend which any reasonable person should discourage or dissociate from. Most, if not all of the ladies who carry out this act probably reason that taking those selfies in expensive or even modest hotel rooms and lavatories raise their social staus and class; on the contrary, it is a clear case of self deceit.

Setaje:
If u are intelligent yourself u would address me properly. My friends father doesn't have several houses like that but she goes on trips abroad and she stays at different hotels too. People as "intelligent as u and the op" who doesn't know her would assume she is a runs girl. Please you people should grow up.

I keep educating a lot female folk here who have failed in comprehending my post. I ain't judging, it's an observation. Besides not all ladies in hotel room taking a slefie is lodged or hosted by a man.

My focus is those who are lodged and hosted by men and would use the opportunity to take pics in the nice room and toilet to show off and impress and attempt to raise their worth and status, but actually end up exposing self.

Krisgift:
point digested!!!

Are you okay now?

On a serious note, do you now comprehend the core of the subject?

Felitsa187:
So can u simply elucidate how that is so wrong? It's not as if they take naked pics of themselves in hotels or lobbies or lavatories which of course wud b awkward. But Mr, y r u so mad about it? Cuz I'm pretty sure ur gender equally does same. Let's not pretend about it. It's a natural human phenomenon.

If you can take the initiative to go back and peruse my subsequent comments, then you would better grasp the core of the subject. All the best.

softysparky:
Yes you can

A picture is worth a thousand words, When one looks at one of your photos, same image can speak in many different ways to different people.
they might not be able to see those pictures exactly the way you saw it.

Honestly I can't imagine my dad going through my pictures and when asked where I took most of the pictures, would I be proud to tell him hotel rooms

Pictures are memorable to me, I wouldn't want me or people to keep records of my sex escapades.

Splendid!! You reason properly, not just like an educated fellow but someone with a good sense of judgement.

You said I can, so here I come, be ready for moi.

Sandydayz:
Fabulous...

May I be part of it

YourMain:
Well I don't know very much of these ladies.

But I get where you're coming from.

It brings delight that you are now following.

Gurgle:
But that's not what hes saying

He is saying that when women take pictures in hotel rooms, flaunting it as if it shows how well they are doing, what they are actually doing is exposing themselves to gossip and insults

because lets be honest "runs" is what Hotels are associated with in this country.

to be honest I was brought up in England so I never thought of it that way. over there we go to those places for birthdays, weddings, everything. One of my church members even had her birthday there and all of us attended

its just recently that I started to realize what it really means here

If youre a woman and you went there for a perfectly legitimate reason, then make it clear in the photo or take it somewhere else to avoid terrible whispers biting your ears

Thanks, my special one.

Krisgift:
This is just a female bashing thread.

I still insist that a lady does not only go to a hotel room for whatever the op has in mind.

You folks don't properly read and assimilate post before drawing an inference. I never said ladies only go to hotels for sex or whatever u assume I have in mind. Besides I was not just talking about hotel, I made specific reference to ladies taking sometimes erotic and provocative selfies in hotel rooms and lavatories.

It is undeniable that a few ladies can afford to take themselves to these places, but this few ones would definitely be top executive of companies and organizations, big business women, a few middle class and ladies from a wealthy home. Hence, most women of these class may not even have the time for a selfie in a hotel room, lobby or lavatory.

On the other side of the divide, the greater majority of ladies taking sensual selfies in hotel rooms and toilets are mostly lodged and hosted by men in these hotels. Now that is the point my dear, digest it.

190:
any lady that quotes me thunder fire that woman

back to the topic at hand any lady that does such is an olosho its 100% fact make una de decieve una selves

una full instagram nau
taking pics of those una black dirty nyash for instagram with una red eye and black skin all in the name of preety on fleek

make una de spread leg left right n center later una go de find man hold for ground idiots

Lol, factually hilarious comment. Ride on bro

naanxie:
And how is that your issue?? leave them alone! I don't still get it. Are u concerned that they were brought there by men (supposedly for sex) or that they seem to show off a 'fake' lifestyle?


All in all my brother, I'm a female, and I don't get bothered by such petty things. You shouldn't either! Go solve nuclear war crimes :/ :/

And how is that your issue?? leave them alone! I don't still get it. Are u concerned that they were brought there by men (supposedly for sex) or that they seem to show off a 'fake' lifestyle?


All in all my brother, I'm a female, and I don't get bothered by such petty things. You shouldn't either! Go solve nuclear war crimes

Need I remind you that I am in no way physically inhibiting anyone from going mad if she so wishes, I am here sharing an experience with friends, nothing more.

They assume the moral high ground yet indulge in insidiously nefarious activities. That's what we are concerned about and more.

Now, about solving nuclear war crimes, after you.

Gurgle:
I just had some fried plantain ( where's that red bottle?) .

well just keep waiting there; I'll give you the empty packet when I'm done

Wow! Aren't you smart. I'm impressed. You r now mi lady.

Don't be so hard mi dear, pls show some love.
Gnidnes a mp

YourMain:
Hmm maybe. The number of women I know personally don't go due to being hosted by a man. But maybe you've met a different set of people.

You keep talking about whom I have met. There are ladies who can conveniently pay and lodge in a hotel with their personal finances when necessary, but how many are there compared to an overwhelming majority who are lodged and hosted by men in different hotels?

You know exactly what I'm saying and it is a fact. The majority of women in hotels are there at the instance of a benefactor, that's the point.

doofanc:
its a source of joy we still have decent morally stable ladies.

you can see the comments of some of them trying desperately, yet futilely, to justify what is clearly an immoral act - most likely becos they guilty of it.

That's the undiluted honesty. The lady objectively accepted the fact and admire her for that.

Yes I have the feeling, those taking a jab at me and insulting me are driven by pricking conscience or absolute subjectivity. Most didn't even read the post properly or read it completely. This, I must say wasn't unexpected.

Adaeze003:
No sir, you're trying to imply that we should feel ashamed taking pics in hotels so people like you won't see us as hos.

I'm only calling you out on your bs...

Then u utterly misrepresent the fact. Did I ever mention that it was wrong or shamful to take photos in hotels? I only made reference to hotel rooms yet I never said it was wrong.

My emphasis was on those ladies who are there on the instance of a man's randy beckon and would ignorantly take those selfies to impress or show off but inadvertently expose their ignoble venture. They try to give an impression of classy or expensive or "above your grade", but in earnest they lay bare their undignifying exploits. Got that?

Krisgift:
And what makes you think that a lady only goes to a hotel room to 'hustle'....?


Some People and their mentality self.

Whoever said a lady only goes to a hotel room to hustle?

lepasharon:
do people only go to hotels to have sex?

Not just hotel but hotel room. What would a man and woman lodge in a hotel in the first place?

fexyrich:
All these ladies being defensive about this post that really meant no harm are exactly the ladies who go to hotels and have sex with different men, especially d ones throwing insults on the op.Thats why they are taking the post personal..They are only being repulsive because of the serious guilty conscience they are having.Anyone who is psychological wld know what am saying is the exact truth..some of you girls should go and bury ur heads in shame cos ur a disgrace to woman hood..quote me and contact HIV in your next bleeping..

Nice post bro! Funny though

softysparky:
I totally agree with you Op.

Now that's my girl. The unbiased and objective one.

You have won me over....now I'm tempted to say...

Can i...

plaetton:
Abegi!

Nigerian women, especially young women, are not economically empowered enough to be able to take themselves to luxury hotel suites JUST TO CHILL. That is a fact.
Usually the hotel suites are paid for by a much older male benefactor, aka UNCLE.
Thats another well known fact.
So, we can all read between the lines when we see you posing in hotel suite. Okay?

Now, back to the more important issue here.

We live in a society where the females are trying to emancipate themselves, Earn equal respect and move beyond being considered and treated as more sex objects.
With this in mind, when I meet you for friendship, Business or something more serious, and then I come accross your pictures taken in luxury hotel suites, something happens in my mind. The Game changes. I drop every noble intention and now see you as a merchandise that can be bought if the price is right.
I will no longer see your potential companionship or business partner value. My primitive male instincts kick in.
My preoccupation becomes your hotel value, how to negotiate it, and how I would get my money's value.

So, my dear, hotel room pics serve as a form of Advertisements.
If you are doing it unwittingly, then you are not being smart, at all.

The problem with you ladies is that you live in Nigeria, but because of too much foreign movies and soap operas, you tend to forget and delude yourselves that you live in the UK and America.

Point!!!

netizenbuzz:
I travel a lot with my mum and yes I take pictures every time in hotel rooms and post them online. Next month, I'm going to a resort with other members of my fellowship and I plan to take pictures there. Big deal? This stereotype that guys have that every woman is from a poor background and a potential gold digger is what is making this an issue. Personally, I see nothing wrong. Your mind is just one way traffic.

Now you make a flawed assumption. I never said there are no ladies who can lodge themselves or go on vacation with families and lodge in luxury hotels.

On the contrary, I'm making a case for the overwhelming lot who get taken there by the male folks and in the process they embark on an expository selfie mission.

Gurgle:
What will you cook?

Better contribute for this popcorn o, or you wont taste a single piece

Egdirrop niatnalp is what i'll cook, if you can decipher that, I add another red bottle to my debt to you.

I have made much contribution dear, don't tell me I haven't o, cos I'm anticipating

otunsman:
They will start deleting the pictures they had taken in different hotel rooms in lagos,ph, and abuja.

Lol

lepasharon:
A woman taking pics in hotel is seen as promiscuous? Only in Nigeria ! Backward people

Do yourself a favour and go back and conscientiously read and assimilate, and then revisit your comment. Thank you

Gurgle:
Not at all, just a chilled weekend!

I think I'll go out later and buy some things, but that's all. and you?

Cooking on my mind, but just can't face the challenge yet. Pls get me popcorn when coming back,.

Gurgle:
well since this conversation is continuing I have to confess that I'm a sis rather than a "bro"

weekend is fine, just resting. how is yours

my bad dear, apologies.

Mine is very active, kinda multi tasking. No outing?