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Marxxx:Oooops. Don't worry, she won't come. But he might. ![]() |
Marxxx:See ya head like egg. And I'm being serious though. Forget societal pressure et al oooo. Your life is your life. In case you get married out of pressure and the wifey ends up being unhappy, who will the people blame in the end? Live your life to the best of God's ability. On the last day, no special marks for being married. Instead sef, the way you treated your spouse can even give you negative marking. ![]() Aside: if I wanted Dyt, I would have mentioned her. But I didn't. ![]() Enjoy. |
Oh No!!!!! Let me play nice. Who Has Need Of It More? Scratch That!!!! @ Being Nice Did Someone Just Say The Mom Is The Most Important Woman In His Life? It's true the saying. 'Marriage isn't for everyone '. |
![]() You Don't Have To Get Married. It's No Big Deal. |
Marxxx:I don comot hand for una 2 matter. Peace out. |
Marxxx:After so long a time, you responded. .Thank God for Sundays ooo... My dear brother, what can I do as regards the bag? I don't carry laptop up and down ooo, wey the power? ![]() It's books, shoe, food flask that is in the bag ooo..... but after leaving the office, going to school then staying in traffic for so long a time and having to trek on top even paper becomes heavy . God help us jare. Hope you good? Of which Dyt is now a tranny ![]() Dyt Dytttt Dytttt ooooo.... Marxxx says hi ![]() |
the duty of a wife depends on what the husband needs help with. Jesus Is Lord. |
'for the wife....' Na wa ooohhh!!!!! Some topics you just see and they make you feel weak. I give up. Point of Clarification : A husband doesn't /won't go to the market 'for his wife', he will go/ goes to the market for his home. |
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iAre you born again? Is he born again? What kind of church are you both attending? I ask because there are several gatherings nowadays that the Lord doesn't know. There are so many things to look into. Wish we could talk one on one. Even I as a person, there are some 'gatherings called church' I can't marry into. Forget doctrine ooo, read the bible for yourself and you know that many aren't on the right path. |
Woooowwwwwww........... Great work, abegggg.... don't disturb the girl with too much academics. She's creative, let her be guided and nurtured in that direction. By the time she's a teenager, she would have surpassed Vera Wang, DKNY and the likes. |
I came here to read a write up but I found 'toasting' and 'e-fight'. ![]() Kontinu |
Lord have mercy. I stopped reading at the part you said you,'handed over to your younger sister'. Like seriously |
![]() interesting. I didn't even know cigarettes came in flavours! What world am I living in sef? ![]() |
![]() OP, what are you saying? |
Unu lekwa ooo.... Is it your house? |
The story doesn't add up. If your friend is such a man of 'integrity ', why was he with a condom to meet his ex? Anyway, it have happen, It have happen. You berra tell your wife. 1st of all to clear your conscience 2nd of all, you respect your wife. I believe for you to have gotten married to her, you have some form of respect for her. 3rd of all and most importantly, to avoid a Nollywood script playing out in your family 20 something years later.Scene 1 (you in the living room after dinner with your wife) Enters son. Son: daddy, mommy, good evening. You: oh my son welcome. It's good to see you. How are you? Son: I'm fine sir(hugs mother). I have good news for you. You: Really!!! Tell me. I'm all ears. Son: I've met the woman I want to marry... To be continued. ![]() Seriously though, tell your wife the truth. ![]() |
awwwhhhhhhh!!!!!! see the cutie Congratulations ma'am. O ya come and borrow me her small, make I play with her for some time. ![]() MAy God keep her and sustain her. |
memyselfandI:My dear, if you want friends, show yourself friendly no need to run naaa . Lord knows pretence is far from me that's why I've got a few loyal peeps. If as a person, you're not pretentious, it won't take long to weed out fake people from your life. 'sides, trust they say is earned. I make sure they earn my trust; the small one I'm giving them. . Which took years.... |
gidjah:My dear, I'm not so social either. Party ke? For what na? The only party I've attended is fresher's orientation in my part 1. that was in 2008. The few good friends I have are school friends that still stick like aka gum. They've didn't leave when I was jobless, they encouraged me, they didn't scorn when my engagement was called off, they celebrated me and made me feel precious. The other set of loyal friends I have I met during NYSC. Words fail me to describe how much they mean to me. I don't make friends easy, but when I do, I'm very loyal. ![]() |
gidjah:my dear, what can we do? Just keep loving and giving as always. I can't count how many times I've put myself out for people only for those same people to treat me with disdain. No wahala now, we live, we learn and we love. The confidence I have is that God can never betray me. As long as I have God, I tanda gidiba. No shaking. ![]() But in all fairness, there are still those friends that bring a smile to my heart and are loyal to the nines. I'm blessed to have genuine friends in my life. Sincerely. |
I really don't think you've learnt your lesson from your ordeal. PRIDE. Like seriously, you couldn't/can't pray to God yourself that you are engaging 'prayer warriors'? Start looking for a job. If possible, the initial lecturing job at your Uni, check whether it's still available and go for it. |
Student indeed. 'I'm' not'am' . If you see someone to marry you now, what next? Mtsheeeeeewwww |
Tell us the story from the top OP. |
My dear, why can't you just concentrate on your marriage and help your siblings as much as you can? You can't control the actions of others but you can control your actions towards others. |
Op, Pele oooo. this is life where sh*t happens. I have learnt in this life not to completely trust anyone. Even when I trust, I just have it at the back of my mind that that person has the ability to hurt me bad. |
Fact- people are drawn by outward appearances. It's hard for most to see beyond the exterior. the only denial that would land one in serious gbege is refusal to accept the Lordship of Christ. Give Jesus your life and He'll lead you well.. |
But talc is the main ingredients in most powders. So, all powders are bad or what? |
wandeykul:Wowwwww..... just wooowwwYour hands, your words. I'm out. |
the scenario the OP painted would only happen in a home where there's a power tussle. If the man is temporarily/permanently incapacitated due to some genuine reasons like health/ bad business condition/termination of employment for sometime does it make the man any less the head of the home? If you married him and he got involved in an accident that left him badly injured and the wife has to shoulder bulk of the financial responsibilities, does that make her the head of the home? Women should learn our place abeg and stop dragging shoulders unnecessarily. The husband should be the head irrespective of situations and circumstances. Above all, women should marry a man they won't have issues submitting to. |
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