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Keepamsafe:
For two weeks now, my next door neighbor who is a young single lady has been constantly bringing different meals for me after cooking.
Please note: I have never asked her for food before, as I cook at home and enjoy doing my things myself.

The second time she brought me a meal she wore a skimpy dress. I didn’t mind tho, I just told her she is a very good cook and I enjoyed the first meal. Since then, she’s been bringing different dishes to me now. Sometimes she even calls to know if im back from work that she’s cooking something.

Also note, I have never given her any money for this meals she’s been giving me.

My question now is, should I continue eating? do I have anything to be scared of? Could there be another motives behind this her kindness? Or maybe im over thinking?

Advise please.

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bdon123:
I agree wit u.he needs to add Tiwa.Tiwa sweet n she like person wey sabi fck

Keepamsafe:
I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please

TheBTCinvestor:
Keep dreaming. That's why ul never make it in life

YesDaddy1:
You too keep your legs closed/teach ur daughters to close their legs.

Any lady that will not direct the toaster to her parents to do the needful is not well-trained, talkless of the one that spreads her legs for a man that has not paid her dowry.

Also, she must abide by the decision of her parents.

If a woman cannot listen to her parents, then she won't listen to you las-las.

VULCAN:
You sound like someone who needs Therapy.

Or perhaps You are a female using a male moniker.

You sound like you have been traumatized by the lies of men.

Perhaps you are also a baby mama.

Don't worry, you can still become all that God has ordained you to be

triple996:
I always believed that women should be respected anywhere in the world due to their ability to be mothers, but nowadays these people are behaving in such a way that you begin to see them as sex object and nothing more. Cause that is how they display themselves

Rich4god:
My own concern is... which bank gave them this mint at a period when cash is scarce.