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AllMight:
1. Toyin - She was my former classmate and friend back in school. She currently works in a bank as a CFC Agent. We met late last year during our school old student get together, we exchanged contact and kept in touch regularly. Our vibes have been good and encouraging. She had helped me very well many times since then. I'd say we are more than friends but ambigously because i haven't really asked her to be my girlfriend, though i have taken her out before on val day. Like i said, our relationship is ambigous. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet, but her mum is trying to matchmake her.

2. Sarah - Based in the States with her family for futher studies, though she's a Nigerian through her grandpa. We met early this year while playing game and since then we have become close that all her family know me. Her paternal uncle is one of my team sponsor here in Nigeria. Though this lady do give me green light steady, but because of Toyin who i haven't even get as my gf, i just laugh it off.

Honest advice please!

tell toyin you desire her sexually and see her reaction.

Tell the same thing a negative response will give you the answer you need

pillager:
Ogbeni rest and put an end to this nonsensical statement. No one in this thread has suggested that virgins are inherently more faithful or that one should rely entirely on their virginity as a yardstick for faithfulness or on any woman, abi what is being preached on this thread?

Wouldn't it be more sensible to buy a new car, even if it costs the same as an old car, because of the increased safety features and reduced likelihood of accidents or fatalities?

lol okay 🤣😂🤣

Hassanmaye:
But we thought once you disvirgin a girl she's yours forever?

Lol 😂 in their head she’s theirs forever 🤣😂🤣 In her head she’s For everybody and nobody

Rokiat:
just because you disvirgined her doesn’t mean she will belong to you forever.

Dust your self up and move on.

lol 😂 they no Dey ever hear this one wey you talk especially Redpill crazed folks

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

I would advice you to Delete her from your life Right now I know it will be hard but it’s better you do it now that you have evidence and you haven’t wifed her up. Call your Male friends and hangout with them tell them what happened to you and Ask for their own experiences then you guys should laugh over it Omo no go kill yourself because of woman o she go dey ride the guy dick before and after your funeral.

BeStroNG:
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

Ask her bro if you want to commit to having her as your partner, frankly you should have asked her this before you made her your girlfriend

Labadi69:
Abi na. As the females in your family na okpo no mean say decent well raised girls no dey out there. If woman don show you pepper, take your L and stop being an idiot complaining abd complaining every minute about woman. You no get shame?

😅😂😂😂 yes you are right🤣😂🥲🤣🤣😂

Labadi69:
And you think every girl is that lose to fall for that? Your sister maybe. Or your mother. But there are still decent girls out there that will spit at your ugly Yamayama face if you tell them that crap

🤣😂🤣🤣😂 You’re right I agree 💯 %

joeeee240:
You're conflating different things

Guys with money bang more than guys without money

That's a fact. However leading with money doesn't KEEP a woman.

And from the story, how the guy started with the ladies is more important than saying he's banging for free

you are right

Ireportlive:
Buhari is bigger than Money or corruption


Nigeria paid for everything he desired for the past 8years

Am sure he didn't spend a Kobo from his salary

if Na you you go gree spend ? 😂

See this mumu people 😂😂🤣 it’s like this serap they just enjoy being ignored and irrelevant 🤣😂🤣

Lightway:
Nobody is in charge of a woman's vagina....

true

dreamxhaser:
Yoo guys

There's this girl I've been simping on for a long time.

She is dating one rich guy(bigger simp than I am) and the guy spends lavishly on the girl. But using some knowledge I got on this thread and how I analysed their situation, I got to realise she doesn't love him genuinely it's all about the cash.

Now, that's his own problem. My own be say in the last few months, I used the knowledge I gathered in this thread on new girls I've been meeting and it has been working like magic. In fact na me dey snub women this days.

The only issue is along the line, I got the realised how stupid I was in the past, and how that bitch have been treating me like trash in the past. In fact the bitch dosn't respect me. So I need concrate format on what I should do to regain my long lost reps from her.

I am still obsessed with her, but these time it's about regaining my lost respect and proving that I ain't no mugu anymore.

Any tips on how to go about it?

leave the girl alone don’t come looking for scopes , one simple thing to do is ask her directly for sex if she says no then dump her block her and stop talking to her you devalue yourself anytime you go back to a woman that has rejected you. Don’t waste your time it’s still the same Vagina enjoy the ones you have now .

Agelastus:
Earlier this week, I overheard a conversation between three women when I went to buy bread in my hood. The woman who owned the shop had been pestering me to help her open an OPay account so I finally obliged her and sat with them.

While I was there, a car came and dropped this woman, very good looking and curvy. She walked down the street and entered a house.

The women in the shop then started discussing about her.

In a nutshell, the woman is married to a well-to-do man but she sneaks down to my hood to fvck a well-known lazy riffraff. According to them, there are 2 other women who are married to rich men that visit him often.
As Kole is jobless (I know he spends most of his time at the Bet9ja shop close to the main road), these women allegedly buy him foodstuff and give him money.

When one of the women asked the shop madam "Wetin dem dey find with that kind yeye person?" The madam replied her "Dem say he sabi fvck woman well well"

This guy in question stays in a single-room apartment o.

Make I blow your mind ? One of them there has Confirmed the Gist with a personal experience, Nature and Biology Will always Win over society and status, if you like make all the money in this world, you cannot fight biology a woman will Fûck whatever she Deems as attractive and sexually desirable to at the moment. Same way a man would Fûck a beautiful woman he finds attractive. This is why I always advocate for men to lead with sex in any dealing with any woman you find attractive don’t tell her you want to date her pass the message to her that you want to have sex then wait for her To Respond. If she’s not Fûcking you she’s fûcking someone else

Long life and prosperity To all mama’s boys 😁

If you are an idiot please continue thinking she will love you because you are spending and taking care of her.

If you are an idiot please continue thinking She likes you because you are a high value man.

If you are an idiot continue thinking she’ll love you with all her heart the same way you love her.

If you are an idiot please continue thinking you are the only one she’s having sex with in a country filled with 200 million people 56 percent of which are males.

If you are an idiot continue thinking because she’s looking like a churchie Naive girl she’s innocent in thoughts and deeds.

If you are an idiot please continue thinking because she bought birthday gifts for you you are her one and only.

She can leave you at any moment have that at the back of your mind whatever bliss you are enjoying can end at the snap of a finger , Don’t get caught up in the Bullshit. Build your life , Build your Body , Build your Mind Have a plan for your life. You don’t need her she needs you Value yourself.

All of una done old una suppose done get like 4 children by now 😂😂

Realist777:
Na because u be virgin na why u no wan beliv am

how you take know say she be virgin? You done inspect her toto before? 🤣

NOETHNICITY:
When I see men claiming they trust their women I laugh. I’ve seen many trust worthy women willing to betray their spouse at the slightest available opportunity of secrecy.
Me I prefer not to trust anyone.

Facts

Cypress042:
Manhood or no manhood

Fact still remain you are Mr. Okuneye idris from Ogun South west Nigeria.

lol facts

You clowns 🤡 keep making clowns 🤡 relevant in society and later you wonder why society is the Circus 🎪 it has turned out to be today That’s why whenever y’all complain I laugh because you are a party to the idiocy

sacajawea:
Married women too Abi?

lol yes Na Wetin concern thief with label 😂🤣