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Afromentalist:
I doubt this prediction die baba. If Middleton does not show up, yes Miami has a slim chance against the Bucks, but they will still have to face the celtics or the raptors. I would not bet on Miami

Ahem!!!

Btw Heat in 6 Nba Finals

Wow!! 6 years on NL didn't know there was an interesting NBA thread like this.

Anyways expecting Miami to come out of the East. Jimmy Butler and Bam ...fuego!!

2. The wife
As I heard from a wise woman:
"the first time a woman cheats on her man, it is her fault but any affairs that comes after that is the fault of her man"
You love your wife obviously and you have tried to save your marriage many times but my brother you have tried enough.
You have unconsciously normalized her cheating. You have been forgiving her too quickly. She is not seeing any proper consequences for her actions, which is why she continues to cheat.
YOU NEED TO PROPERLY PUNISH HER FOR HER ACTIONS. So the next time she thinks of cheating the consequences will make her think twice.
Earlier in the marriage you should have disgraced her and sent her packing back to her family for some months as punishment. If you had done that, the subsequent cheating would have been prevented. She knows you don't want to disgrace her which is why she is not afraid of cheating again.
PLEASE DISGRACE HER SO SHE HAS A REASON NEVER TO CHEAT AGAIN.
But this or she will never change.

3. Your Kids
Charity begins at home. I won't be surprised if your wife picked her philandering ways from one of her parents.
But your kids are observant and will be learning from both of you. Being in this kind of marriage will most definitely fvck up your kids future marriages and relationships, because they are being taught by you and wife that having a cheating partner is normal. This is a gateway for them to feel in the future that abusive relationships are normal and okay since daddy was okay with mummy being unfaithful.

I hope I am not too late to reply to this.

Op at this stage, divorce is the best option for all the parties involved (ie you, the wife and your kids)
1. You
You need your peace of mind. Man, your man will never be at peace if you remain together. You will always be suspicious of her, you will never trust her (even if she truly changes), you will be worried about every male acquaintance of hers. You will constantly feel the urge to check her phone to see if she is cheating.
It will stress you, you will age quicker, it will kill our self worth.
On why she is not being remorseful enough, it is all your fault! You have always been too quick to forgive her because she is hardworking et al. She has noticed it, so now she has it in her mind that if she still cheats she will just beg and cry and you will forgive, then she cheats again, cycle continues. But unlike what others are saying, it doesn't make you a weakling, you are just a naturally peaceful and forgiving person, and your wife is foolishly taking advantage of it. Hence her annoyance that you are not forgiving quickly this time around.

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Afamed:
They have been benefiting a lot from our pourous borders.
The Fuel in Nigeria is one of the cheapest in the Africa because of the Government subsidy. Through the border here, they get the fuel into their country at a very low price of which Nigeria government bears the cost of the subsidy at expense of our Budget here

This is absolutely untrue! Smuggled Nigeria Fuel is not sold in Ghana

First, I don't see many NBA topics here, I wonder why

Anyways I believe GSW fans will be very worried after being severely trashed by the LA Lakers for the 3rd time this preseason. Gsw was so poor that I am beginning to doubt if they can even make the playoffs at all. Remember that they have 4 games each against the Lakers and the Clippers this Nba season.
With their display in the preseason, I will be surprised if they are able to win two of those matches.
Also there is the issue of the Stacked Western conference. It is going to be mad crazy in the west. Utah Jazz and the New Orleans Pelicans would create shockers. And that Harden-Westbrook combo in Houston

Worrying times ahead for the Warriors

What are your thoughts?

femi4:
Remove abedi Pele from that list. He is local champion

Eeeiiii... How?

Anyways Abedi was a CM not a striker

Hmmm.... rewarding bad behavior

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Too many man pvssies on NL dese days

The responses I have seen from most of the males in this thread is really disheartening. Sexual harassment is a real thing our ladies have to go through in this male dominated world.
I just fear for your female kids.. They will get raped and you will blame them...smh
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Toks2008:
How sure are we that Nigerians did this? Have they concluded their investigations?

The investigation has been on for almost a year now. The first suspect Sam Udoetuk willis disclosed the location of the corpses and the names of his accomplices. The police also have audio proof and other phone records of them planning the kidnappings.

Trust me Ghana has no Xenophobic agenda against Nigeria.

kings09:
Nawa oo

The girl is [b][/b]14

CeeKay17:
Modric & VVD would not have won those awards if they were on the same team as Messi & Ronaldo. That's was the point in him leaving Barca.

Modric was on the same team with Ronaldo (sort of) and I feel Neymar would have used his performance with the national team to edge out messi, like modric did. 2018 was a world cup year and 2019 had the copa america

CeeKay17:
How can he do that when he's obviously not the best player at Barca?

I agree that he wont even be the best at BARCA, but with the football world tired of the Messi-Ronaldo duopoly, this period would have been the best time for him to win the ballon dor

As a football and Real Madrid fan, this news fills me with joy.

As a Madridista, I am happy our rival won't be able to add a phenomenal player like Neymar to their ranks.

As a football fan, I am glad that Neymar has realised that he can't just hold the Football world to ransom at will. Making any demand and having people shaking up the globe to give him what he wants. He has already ruined the market with his stupendous transfer price to Psg - which is the reason why Maguire could be bought at 80million.

He can't eat his cake and have it!

I beg imagine something with me.

Imagine IPOB succeeds and they get their Biafra.
Imagine this Nnamdi Kanu becomes their Political leader/prime minister/President or whatever.

Just Imagine!

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Dude is a flipping idiot. I cant believe my Ibo people are falling for this funny character

Rekhina:
Rawlings killed all politicians in ghana thats y ,nigeria now sees ghana as their second london

I beg, hu teach u that lie. Rawlings didn't kill any politicians. The 10 murders that took place were done on his blindside. The culprits were subsequently brought to justice.

I thought you were joking. But I just confirmed it myself.
Hmmm.... Google dey fall hand oo

bercarray:
who's this Zlatan sef, the only Zlatan I know is Zlatan Ibrahimovic, somebody said he sang Killin dem with burna boy but it's like google doesn't know him too.

See mumu

legitnow:
THE ONLY THING DEM SABI FOR GHANA NA NIGERIA.


ONE DEY WE WILL BOMB DEM AND ALL THIS NONSENSE WILL END.

Hmm... Griezmann thinks too much of himself. He thinks he is a superstar like Messi or Ronaldo. He is about to get played by Barca as pawn in their bid to get Neymar back.
Perfect revenge for last season's public rejection
Good riddance if this happens.

Dear Op,

Nobody is perfect, we all sin differently. However trust broken is almost irreparable but it can be managed when the offender makes huge sacrifices.

You have been caught cheating on more than one occasion...my dear the only thing you can do to regain his trust is to stay away from all male friends, fvcc that friendzone bs, just stay away from any male who is not related by blood to you. Stop being friendly to other guys. That is the sacrifice you will have to make for life in order to be happy with Gbenga. No male (who is not family) should even call to ask how you are doing. If you can't make this sacrifice, then forget the relationship, it will be a miserable one for both of you.

However....

If you can't make that sacrifice and have to break up with him, And to reduce his heart break, ie if you still care for Gbenga, make sure he begins dating someone else before you do and please don't date Olamide or any of the guys you have previously cheated on him with!

You both deserve to be happy.

Btw: I would love to ask more questions about you and him

With all due respect, only stupid people will believe this Nnamdi character. A fraud through and through.

Maybe the owner of the bus owes him money

Every woman falls into atleast one of these categories.
Mr man unless you assume you are a perfect man please don't bother looking for a perfect woman.

cool