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cococandy: OP you kept repeating points just in different words but same points.

Oya tell us jare

sweettease: Dey make mouth, if your sweethearts show now you go kon sare

Sare go where?

who dey teach you yeriba?

sweettease: So you kon deny me abi... No

I don lay bed for you sef

I'm happy so long as na only me and you dem go lock inside room na...

enjoyment galore

sweettease: Jaybee 3 na you I won kon visit

oya come then

sweettease: Heheheheheh
Dem know where this kind thing go work...
Imagine this kind of prison in naija

you go like visit since it looks comfy?

nitrogen: Boss, nawa for you o, you be my oga na!

What's the "IN" thing at the moment?

I have some spare dosh I wanna invest

PS: I don send you mail

nitrogen: Abi na!

@Afoks1 baba, the stuff (commercial paper) is still available o, 5m minimum, better than bills at the moment.

O'boi, abeg yarn me story na...

no chop all the money alone na

iconize: Please man let's negotiate.

Thank you.

But I no dey sell nor buy na

Werrin you wan negotiate?

happy birthday darl

UjSizzle: I left my bed by 7:30am

I wonder why

Same thing they said about david lammy (though not Nigerian but Harvard educated and once compared to Britain's Obama)
Now chukka

It simply ain't happening

The demographics of the US made it possible since;
1) Only about 75% (appx) are white
2) There are large states with tons of electoral college votes where the whites aren't necessarily the overwhelming majority


Britain is very different. Whites are still around the 89% mark and only about 4% (As at 2010 election) of the total MP's are from ethnic minority background. The figure (ethnic minority) is around the 16% mark for the US congress

mbulela: @OP,stop asking rhetorical questions.
I am not sure the APC goons are any better. All politicians are thieves (without exception).However, retaining these set of barbarians (PDP) will be akin to rewarding evil. Let us get another set of thieves in to remind the present thieves that we (the people) do not approve of their stealing tendencies.

End of story

What exactly do you think computer scientist do?

Do you realise you are more susceptible to being made redundant working in IT compared to medical related fields.

It's no brainer for you to ride on the medical ish bandwagon if the demographics of whichever country you reside in suggests it's an ageing population.

Interest is something that changes with time and location.

Think outside the box

GEJ till 2019!

UjSizzle: I wouldn't date a yahoo boy with full knowledge of what he does. Will it disgust me? Yes.


If I got into a relationship with him and eventually realise what he does for a living, I'd be pretty much conflicted.
Choosing between love and values/morality? I'd likely go with the latter eventually after trying unsuccessfully to overlook it.
There's no way I'd be happy knowing I'm with a man who makes a living from defrauding others. However, should he decide to repent I just might give him another chance.


......But I suppose you're more concerned about if we'd choose the "money" (not love) over morality/values, right? In that case without blinking I'd end it.

Would you give a repented molester and/or murderer a second chance?

PS: Please marry me

I see you coco

For every action there is always going to be an equal or opposite reaction

If you don't like or can't handle the reaction then stay away from igniting unnecessary actions.

At the end of the day, your wife/gf aint insane so stop triggering her

Love is blind

Love of money makes us blind

which is correct?

They should simply adopt

immortalclown: The devil can go to any lenght in challenging you likewise, divine delay (God's time) can be to any lenght in trying your faith. Therefore, it is only when someone stops breathing that I can conclude that he or she is childless.

Sorry?

una no go kill person for NL...

which one be divine delay again?

Godmystrength: By using transfer, he is automatically saying that everything is his responsibility and will want to pass on some to the next person.

When the man sees the family as a team, them nothing is anybody's responsibility but everything is everybody's responsibility and they now agree on who is in the best position to do what conveniently. Let the man not just assume that he can carry all the responsibility because i don't think its even possible these days.

Some people can't function well with unstructured planning.

Absolutely nothing wrong with delegating responsibilities when it's not like it's for selfish reasons.

I honestly don't understand why people complain about delegating responsibilities. It's an effective way of getting things done. It's really as simple as that. You empower someone to take ownership and in turn derive joy from delivering consistently and on time.

Now this delegation issue is not restricted to women alone cos I know some African men frown at such as well especially when it has to do with helping around the house.

Marriage is a team work and everyone has to pull their weight in a structured way in other to achieve desired results.

[quote author=kingviny][/quote]Those planning on getting married should discuss and iron out these sort of potential issues before taking that bold step

Marriage shouldn't be about surprises!

chaircover: The poster made the mistake in even using the word delegate. She is not your employee and so you dont delegate things to her.
Wifey is also wrong for not looking at their own personal situation and insisting on a scenario that may work for others but not for their own relationship.

Would it have been okay if he used transferred instead of delegate?

IMO, whatever term used to get his point across is inconsequential in the wider scheme of things as the underlying fact is that the man is simply trying to make his wife responsible for some things in the house.

A wife that's not ready to be a team player would always find issues with manner of approach and that's simply wrong.

Like you rightly said, the mind-set from the onset should be "We are a team"

Adufetohposh: I'm guilty of just one of these points and that is d number one Hanging out with friends... truth is I cannot go to d cinema/pool/party alone. I wnt feel myself wen I'm alone, I ll be soo bored and miserable...

Duffyyyyyy

Kinetic energy charging method would be commercially viable

http://www.trendhunter.com/trends/infinity-cell

Abeg dem dey sell dundu for asda?