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Family › Re: Is This A Deal Breaker........ Share Your Experience And Let Us Learn by jaybee3(m): 11:47am On Aug 20, 2014
They should simply adopt
Family › Re: Is This A Deal Breaker........ Share Your Experience And Let Us Learn by jaybee3(m): 11:46am On Aug 20, 2014
immortalclown: The devil can go to any lenght in challenging you likewise, divine delay (God's time) can be to any lenght in trying your faith. Therefore, it is only when someone stops breathing that I can conclude that he or she is childless.
Sorry?

una no go kill person for NL...

which one be divine delay again?
Family › Re: Is It Wrong To Delegate Some House Bills To A Wife? by jaybee3(m): 8:59am On Aug 20, 2014
Godmystrength: By using transfer, he is automatically saying that everything is his responsibility and will want to pass on some to the next person.

When the man sees the family as a team, them nothing is anybody's responsibility but everything is everybody's responsibility and they now agree on who is in the best position to do what conveniently. Let the man not just assume that he can carry all the responsibility because i don't think its even possible these days.
Some people can't function well with unstructured planning.

Absolutely nothing wrong with delegating responsibilities when it's not like it's for selfish reasons.

I honestly don't understand why people complain about delegating responsibilities. It's an effective way of getting things done. It's really as simple as that. You empower someone to take ownership and in turn derive joy from delivering consistently and on time.

Now this delegation issue is not restricted to women alone cos I know some African men frown at such as well especially when it has to do with helping around the house.

Marriage is a team work and everyone has to pull their weight in a structured way in other to achieve desired results.
Family › Re: Is It Wrong To Delegate Some House Bills To A Wife? by jaybee3(m): 8:52am On Aug 20, 2014
[quote author=kingviny][/quote]Those planning on getting married should discuss and iron out these sort of potential issues before taking that bold step

Marriage shouldn't be about surprises!
Family › Re: Is It Wrong To Delegate Some House Bills To A Wife? by jaybee3(m): 8:41am On Aug 20, 2014
chaircover: The poster made the mistake in even using the word delegate. She is not your employee and so you dont delegate things to her.
Wifey is also wrong for not looking at their own personal situation and insisting on a scenario that may work for others but not for their own relationship.
Would it have been okay if he used transferred instead of delegate?

IMO, whatever term used to get his point across is inconsequential in the wider scheme of things as the underlying fact is that the man is simply trying to make his wife responsible for some things in the house.

A wife that's not ready to be a team player would always find issues with manner of approach and that's simply wrong.

Like you rightly said, the mind-set from the onset should be "We are a team"
Romance › Re: Things Stopping Single Ladies From Meeting The Right Partner by jaybee3(m): 10:27am On Aug 19, 2014
Adufetohposh: I'm guilty of just one of these points and that is d number one cry Hanging out with friends... truth is I cannot go to d cinema/pool/party alone. I wnt feel myself wen I'm alone, I ll be soo bored and miserable... cry
Duffyyyyyy
Phones › Re: Charge Your Phone By Shouting At It by jaybee3(m): 10:20pm On Aug 18, 2014
Kinetic energy charging method would be commercially viable

http://www.trendhunter.com/trends/infinity-cell
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 9:11pm On Aug 18, 2014
Abeg dem dey sell dundu for asda?
Fashion › Re: All NL Fashionistas:Accessorise Your Outfits by jaybee3(m): 2:45pm On Aug 18, 2014
Idowuogbo: He dey comot pass me na...he just likes the typical girlie look. grin
comot go fish joints?

what's a typical girlie look these days sef?
Fashion › Re: All NL Fashionistas:Accessorise Your Outfits by jaybee3(m): 2:39pm On Aug 18, 2014
cococandy: My problem is that I'm just too girlie to successfully pull of anything that's masculine.
Not even a bold wristwatch

See as those shoes fit idowu.
My feet would look like Brer rabbit's feet in them cheesy
how about this?

Fashion › Re: All NL Fashionistas:Accessorise Your Outfits by jaybee3(m): 2:23pm On Aug 18, 2014
Idowuogbo: I go print this comment and show my Oga. I remember the first time he saw me in em Russell and Bromley loafers, hear my oga " what's this? Y you wearing men's shoes?". I had to explain to bobo say na FASHUNU. The heavy yab wey I receive that ehn, u go pity me cry. I only ever wear em to work now...See my sexy cortina wey he dey yab grin
No he didn't?

'em brogues go perfectly on 'em denims

Get/drag him outta the house more
Fashion › Re: All NL Fashionistas:Accessorise Your Outfits by jaybee3(m): 2:19pm On Aug 18, 2014
shoefreak: Oya suggest, but my nose is sensitive o! I sneeze easily
Bvlgari Omnia ?
Fashion › Re: All NL Fashionistas:Accessorise Your Outfits by jaybee3(m): 2:07pm On Aug 18, 2014
shoefreak: Brooches!!!!!

one of the thins I like for men..is a small, classy brooch for a suit. I like that thing. I saw it on a dude once. The stares almost made him turn aand run back inside. grin it was like two swords over a wreath. Nice!
Kinda depend on the suit though but yeah the look gonna be popping if you show up at the grand national with some fly brooches
Fashion › Re: All NL Fashionistas:Accessorise Your Outfits by jaybee3(m): 2:05pm On Aug 18, 2014
Idowuogbo: Una own no pass watch na...i bought a wewood for myself oooo sometime last year and our Oga don claim ownership. angry e fit am well well sha grin
Really...
But women sef with una latest trend of wearing big rounded watches....


How about thinking outside of the box and creating office accessories

make una no dey limit una self to just women products. Think about it there is so much a woman can own even though plenty are struggling with the spirit of "WANT".
Fashion › Re: All NL Fashionistas:Accessorise Your Outfits by jaybee3(m): 1:54pm On Aug 18, 2014
abeg make una no monopolize every every na

how about accessories for us goons?
Fashion › Re: All NL Fashionistas:Accessorise Your Outfits by jaybee3(m): 12:53pm On Aug 18, 2014
Idowuogbo: Not necessarily. If you look at the classic Chanel bags, most of them come with thick chains including their satchel range.
probably, but most people that carry genuine channel bags don't overload it with weekend away stuff hence the design flaw isn't necessarily going to be found wanting.
Designer bags are fashion statements rather than means of ferrying loads about the place.
Fashion › Re: All NL Fashionistas:Accessorise Your Outfits by jaybee3(m): 12:33pm On Aug 18, 2014
cococandy: You think?
Would it be better with same material for the handle

I used this cos I thought it was girlie.
Tell me what you think.
Considering the shape being rectangular with it's density kinda requires the handle to be attached at the sides rather than the flap. Carrying it will almost certainly prove difficult as most women carrying the bag will apply to much volume to it. It will def result in a massive imbalance IMO
Fashion › Re: All NL Fashionistas:Accessorise Your Outfits by jaybee3(m): 12:24pm On Aug 18, 2014
cococandy: Ok so how do you see this box bag I made it too. (forgive my cluttered work table. Face palmsmiley ).
Nice bag but wrong handle

The flap could also do with some bling or detailing
Education › Re: Unilag-made Car Emerges Third Best In World Competition by jaybee3(m): 3:28pm On Aug 17, 2014
UjSizzle: What's with our Press giving half baked stories? undecided
Turns out Shell gave awards for different categories both Off-track and On-track--further sub grouped into Prototype and UrbanConcept awards.

So in which of these categories exactly did Unilag take third place? And why is it so difficult for DailyTrust to give us the full rather than sketchy misleading details of what we're supposed to be celebrating?

Nigerians really need to apply a level of professional skepticism before someone sells us in this country. You shouldn't jump to accept everything you read and hear without due confirmation.
Meanie
Politics › Re: ADAMAWA GUBER: Ribadu Fails To Register In PDP, Beats A Hasty Retreat. by jaybee3(m): 6:25am On Aug 16, 2014
barcanista: email seen, I've replied
Ashawo

Lool
NYSC › Re: Ebola: NYSC Suspends Orientation In Six States by jaybee3(m): 12:46pm On Aug 15, 2014
I would have thought they had suspend the scheduled due to the state's close proximity to boko haram's front line.

bunch of clueless retards
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Manchester United Fan Thread:''20 Times EPL Champion by jaybee3(m): 12:11pm On Aug 15, 2014
Pure comedy

abeg when are we getting back to footie?
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 8:41pm On Aug 14, 2014
Awon akuko-blockers don show

Choiiiii
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by jaybee3(m): 8:29pm On Aug 14, 2014
TOYNEX: I'm new to d family section but I love what I'm reading here...Tx to cc.... I don't know I must introduce myself I just jump in thru a link to page 188 that prompts my previous post... I then went back to 0 to check what d thread is all about....
I'm Toynex, in mid 30s, happily married with God's gifts ....I do beads... and I love to teach... I teach anything so far I know it... I recently dive into blogging just for fun.... to teach.. but I'm not a teacher by profession... I'm a Beader... Do I need to say I'm a girl(lady(woman**** I bet u know dat already....
Oya who dey receive newbies? I no like to dey wait too much o... *grins*
Please do you offer private tutoring?
grin
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Manchester United Fan Thread:''20 Times EPL Champion by jaybee3(m): 5:40am On Aug 14, 2014
Romance › Re: Oya!!! Come And State You Nl Crush And Woo Them by jaybee3(m): 8:06pm On Aug 13, 2014
I have a crush on caracta but she has been proving too difficult to woo lately
Fashion › Re: Learn Bead Making And Wire Work Jewelry For Free Here by jaybee3(m): 8:48am On Aug 13, 2014
chaircover: Whats that?

We are making necklaces, earings etc here grin grin

Where are the teachers o? grin grin grin I want to leran to make something like this;

(jaybee3 are you ready for this?)

Fashion › Re: Learn Bead Making And Wire Work Jewelry For Free Here by jaybee3(m): 6:36pm On Aug 12, 2014
Subscribing

I need to make me lady some rythm making beads...

Hope i'm in the right class?
Romance › Re: Have You Kissed Since The Outbreak Of EBOLA? Lol by jaybee3(m): 3:41pm On Aug 12, 2014
UjSizzle: lol go joorh grin
come joorh
kiss
Romance › Re: Have You Kissed Since The Outbreak Of EBOLA? Lol by jaybee3(m): 2:56pm On Aug 12, 2014
UjSizzle: That's admirable smiley
I hope you find the perfect one.
why you too like to dey mash/quench hope sef

grin grin grin grin grin
Romance › Re: Have You Kissed Since The Outbreak Of EBOLA? Lol by jaybee3(m): 10:21am On Aug 12, 2014
UjSizzle: grin You get luck say no be you she kiss.
Hallelujah * 7

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