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i won't tell

well age difference does matter cos communication with other half that is way younger can get a bit tricky for men sometimes (assumption is based on naij stories).
Close age gap relationships tend to treat each other more like friends and communication is somewhat relatively easy (again assumption is based on surveys)

knowing how to communicate is your best answer. You might want to go on a course "how to deal with difficult people" as they will teach you the key ingredient of communication is your listening skills. Do you actually listen to your wife when she is angry?

and wats the age difference?

how old r u?

nana:
Are u trying to promote your business?

me thinks the dude should go with something like:
why not buy her a laptop as the kind of processors i'm offering in d laptops on offer will not only make her empowered with ice cream ordering but will surely make delivery at a rate not seen before. (Mega bits per second)

TONINATHO:
why dnt u buy her a laptop.
i bet she will love u for life not icecream, she screams but with a laptop, she is always on your lap
am into electronics and computer sales, frm printers to flash and laptops
call me on 08066512844 toninatho@yahoo.com
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if u think not true call me on 008066512844.
supply quantites will bring a reduction in quantity

nice sales pitch

nana:
Take ya time o make i no descend on u

tell her jare

College is surely not that expensive. a few hundreds surely wouldn't dent your pocket

why worry about police since you ain't done nothing wrong.

d dude is probably a wannabe love-vendor fantasising on prostitutes (outta all the other beautiful things in the world)

Pls cut the uneducated crap. education hasn't got anything to do with a woman shouting. Most women (educated or not) express their feelings through loud talking so you might get her through university and she will still be the same.
What you need is never ending heart to heart talk, trying as much as possible not to do the things that triggers her, make her understand how the unhealthiness of the relationship is driving u mad and best of all pray to God for intervention.

How long as she been in the uk? if she has been for more than 3 yrs then i'm sure she can get grant/student loan to help her pay through skool.

Sorry to ask but pls how old r u?

a Nigerian called John Wilmont! r we sure he his who he proclaims to be?
before it was the English criminals using the VAT loophole to make millions on importation of mobile phones. Not news but anything Nigerian will surely make headlines in the western world cos of its rotten image.
still pretty much happy to fly/flaunt the flag though

landis:
900MW for a population of 150mill people

same country that wants to be 20best economy in 2020??

And Nigerians are not on the street chasing, mobbing all these inept 'rulers'??[quote author=landis link=topic=147664.msg2454293#msg2454293 date=1215076516]900MW for a population of 150mill people

same country that wants to be 20best economy in 2020??

And Nigerians are not on the street chasing, mobbing all these inept 'rulers'??

Looks like a dead country to me.

Looks like a dead country to me.
[/quote]dats certainly the way forward. mass protest. never ending strikes, threat to cripple the economy for days then maybe, maybe we might start yielding some results

Quote from your first post "while in the girl's house we were playing and touching each other and she suddenly shouted that I should leave her home immediately. Thankfully nothing had happened between us so she can't scream rape or anything and her friend was also in the house."

As long as nothing happened as u claimed then you shouldn't be afraid of nada. Would have been a different ball game if you had sexual intercourse and they found evidence cos it's kinda hard to prove it was done with mutual consent.

I'm still maintaining my earlier stance of u being at fault cos i seriously don't believe any man should run to his ex if their is a problem at home. What if you guys had sex without protection on the day and she got pregnant, are you still going to blame the unplanned child on your wife?

Dude it's peeps like you that give us brodas a very bad reputation. You never for once mentioned your wife was violent, All she did was nag/shout. Now you tell me any woman that doesn't do such only that some do theirs within reason.
You could have decided to be quiet and sleep off (totalling blanking your mind of her rants) since she ain't the violent type.

I don't even know if i am to pray you don't get charged but you sure have learnt a lesson not to run to other women's shoulders whenever their's a problem at home.

and how are the younger breeds supposed to be empowered?
I know the old cargoes will rather die on the throne than to pass governance on to younger generation but selling your soul is definitely not the way forward

studentetc:
@ jaybee

You are living in a dream world where everything is perfect for nuclear energy. In Nigeria, its opposite. The contractor you give contract to build the 3.8-6m concrete slabs, will put sand inside and cement outside simple.

The maintenance culture is zero.

To me, we don't need any nuclear energy when all the oil Fields are flaring gas away everyday. Those are our constant electricity been flared into the atmosphere.

A trip to gulf of Mexico in US waters shows you a true picture as no oil company dare flares anything as all gas are channelled ashore to power plants in the vicinity. We've been taken for granted too long in Nigeria.

Trust me things like that will go through rigorous check-ups before erection so minimal threat of mago mago

The gas being currently flared is not sustainable cos if we are to believe current prediction of naij running out of crude oil in x numbers of years then what will happen afterwards?
All modes of energy generation needs to be looked into. Different modes will provide their own share of electricity to the national grid and in turn provide adequate/affordable/constant electricity to all households

coolios. added u.
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madam won't tell ok oh

wanna share? or upgraded to 4 shy

unusual high level of activities today but me being me, i am def on top of things. no shaking
u on YIM?

no wahala gorgi nana.
how work anywayz?

Busta:
even when u got a banging bod and Hwat!!

the stupid immature bratz will still find a fault and ways to trash down your pic
and when u see them . . they are an eyesore.

Word!

so @ poster 3 or 4 posts is enuff for the wise

so wanna come or 3 shy to accept IV on NL?

just a sound note of warning, if you know u aren't gud looking don't even bother because 'em peeps on Nairaland are forever ready to jump and eat peeps heart out

why not lead by example.

me ke, only gud with noodles, bread & egg, occasional fried rice

wasn't talking abt cooking it. more abt taking u to d restaurant. lol

betters still wouldn't mind taking the liberty of introducing u to d world of aya mashe

nana:
Oh. . ok. Maybe i'ld visit a Nigeria restaurant one of these days and request for that

do u want me to recommend cos i have shares in one of 'em?

ibkaye:
when was all this decided?
roflmao

Sorry buff day girl. thinking ahead of ma self

nana:
What does that mean?

some ridiculously hot green looking stew dat goes with white rice sold by 'em naij restaurants

origina9ja:
incase i kno talk am well well
i mean jollof rice as a start
no bi say na only jollof i go chop oo
which kind drink dey aswell
omo u go fit email me da venue dbabyever@hotmail.co.uk

party is @ my crib. still interested? we'd be serving some aya mashe, ewa agoyin et al as well