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johnsnow2018:
so much more from Honda lovers.... well....you can drive Toyota anytime any day without the fear of leg pulling.
Honda is a nice car and if you can't pay attention as suggested please avoid Honda to avoid bed time stories.
if you really like Honda, go for it and pay attention if otherwise go for TOYOTA and you can drive from Nigeria to USA even with bad leg....
Team TOYOTA.......

You can say dt again it's Toyota or nothing. I have more important things to think of than worrying about d inevitable leg pulling of Honda when there are better options

ikpuru1234:
It’s obvious to me that my marriage has finally crashed down. I always have an argument with my husband almost every month. To think we have been married for 11 years its an understatement as my marriage keep getting worse each year. My husband has this mentality that his own idea or opinion on a subject it’s the best, therefore, anytime I have a different opinion he will shout and get us into quarrelling.
We have not quarreled since November, so two days ago we were just watching a movie and there was a scene where a church member was discussing her marital problem to the pastor without knowing that pastor and his wife are going through worse rough patches in their own marriage. I quickly stated this is why couples should try and settle their marital problems without a third party. I added this is what I was telling you when you told our friend about our problem. He didn’t even allow me to finish, he started yelling, shouting, calling me names like idiots, pussy, to the extent that he came back from inside the room and spat on me many times, that I had to spat back before he now left my personal space. I was shocked at how much he reacted. If I didn’t know him I would have thought he was under the influence of drug/alcohol. Our kids came out from the room and was shouting we should stop that spatting, screaming it was gross. They are just under 10 years.

The following day, I demanded his audience that I would like to discuss about what happened yesterday. He said he is not listening that I should go and learn about marriage. I told him that him spitting on me was demeaning, and I would not accept it, but he started shouting again and even spat on me 3 times again, saying I cannot do anything, that every time I keep reminding him something of the past. I now told him that our marriage is over. He said if you like pack your things and leave but I will not leave the house for you.

We recently moved to another country so I am not working, he is the only one working. I supported him and left my well paid job to migrate to a different country and this is what I got from him. I believe he did this because I don’t have any job or anywhere to run to in this new place. We have had our shares of arguments but spitting on me I take it as last straw. I would have left house but no place to go. I went to help Centre they said I could get support if I press charges as spitting is also an offence where we are. But I don’t really want to go that route.
I have gotten a part time job which I will resume hopefully end of the month. I have been thinking on two options now. To cut the story short.

Option 1: continue living with him until I get enough money in the next three months, rent a new house and vamoose with my children.
Option 2: live together as housemates, don’t get into much discussion with him, no sleeping together(to me this option is just because of what people, my family will say and kids).

My heart is yearning for option one because he has an anger problem, he has hit me before about 8 years ago, I called police, since then he doesn’t hit me but still comes close to me during arguments by shrugging or just giving me a push. I feel him spitting on me was another way of running away from hitting me. I dread hitting me would have been his option if we were living in Nigeria. Our kids are growing and watching him screaming on top of his voice, this scares my daughter from getting married as she has mentioned he doesn’t want to be screaming with his husband that she will not get married. I also have ended up learning some of his silly behavior just to show him how it feels such as screaming back, cutting phones as he does this all the time if he feels you have a different view, keeping malice for days. Usually I am not that person but I have tried to get him stop doing that all to no avail. Am tired. When my mum came around to our place, on different occasions he made her stay terrible with bad behavior of picking quarrel with me and keeping malice including at my mum. He watches pornography and blames me I don’t give him intimacy. Although I had a talk severally about the impact of that as our kids use his phones and laptop and may be exposed as sometimes he leaves the page on and sleeps off. I told him I will try and give it to him anytime he comes, but few months ago, I noticed he still goes there.
Obviously, we are both not happy in the relationship. He doesn’t show remorse and for the fact that I will be walking on egg shell all the time scares me. I feel like separating for a while will do us good, also we could get counselling and his management on anger if we decide to come back together. He can keep malice forever, always blaming me for all his problems. Very emotional and sensitive human being. I am tired of his immaturity and it seems the older he gets worse it becomes, he will be 45 soon. Any advice on what step to take is highly appreciated.

A wife is supposed to be 100% submissive to the husband dt means u must accept him as the leader n his decision is always final.

D only reason to leave ur marriage is if he starts beating u and injuring u. Every other thing shld be forgiven even without being asked to? Spitting on u and u spit back was nothing bc u spit back too so what are you grudging about.

U are d major problem not ur husband, u need to learn to be a woman and a wife not a feminist. Feminism is for single mothers n divorcees and never works in marriage.

I think u shld go and kneel down and apologize to your
Husband for not being submissive wife, I am sure he will weep n apologize too.

1m cash ready

learned0007:
Hi,

Talking about topping up SIBTC MMF, I also thought of topping up this morning but I realized, there has been a steady downward trend in the interest rates.

Joined last year when it was 18% but its now about 15% which no longer looking as attractive as it earlier was.

For additional funds for topup, I am considering other options such as Balanced Funds (higher risk appetite but might be worth it in the end).

Guys, what's your take on the MMF rates decline, is it seasonal and will pick up later or its totally unpredictable?

It's still high @ 15% bc TB is less than 12% yes this is the time to try other funds depending on ur risk appetite, diversify ur portifolio

So ppl still drive Honda, it's cheaper to purchase sha d earlier u switch to rugged Toyota Camry or corolla d better for you

Toks is 1.3m so be serious

800k cash ready

It must be in a buy n drive condition with nothing to fix

6.7 million lol are u kidding me? Except u mean 6.7 millions Zimbabwean dollars

6.7m or even 5m will easily buy Lexus RX 350 2014 which is far better than this scrap

Getting a Maxima esp naija used will be ur worst nightmare, run like u saw a ghost

SUV kwa well probably 1987 model

U can get very good naija used 1998 to 2001 model Camry/corolla with ur budget

Up ur budget to 1.2m then ur will get 2004/05 Camry or corolla

Jagz16:
Please my friends help me out I’m confused I want to buy a Lexus es330 2006 model but I’m kinda worried I don’t know if it will always be faulty or if the maintenance is very high and I also don’t know the main things to look out for while inspecting..I’m buying tokumbo not Nigeria used please i need advises ..or is Camry 2006 better than the Lexus ??thanks

Lexus is for luxury and class it shows dt money is not a problem to the owner dts y almost all Lexus come with v6 or v8 so it's for men not chewing gum boys

Respect yourself and go for Toyota corolla from 2003 to 2010 any yr u can afford.

Location and engine pic pls

Abcars4sale:
1.6m

What of 1m

Kingsoul1:
I have a clean one shaa.. Pencil color and very clean.. Toks but location na Abia.. Everything is in perfect condition.. Drives like a brand new car.. 08060436432

What's ur last price I am at Abia too

Put price

Online redemption now comes with a penalty of over 514.6501 naira even for funds dt have been with them for over 3 months with intermittent top dts not up to a month.

For eg I ve 5000 with them for 4 months n top up 1000 n 500 which is not up to a month then later redeemed 1000 and I am slammed a penalty of 514.6501 naira. This has happened to me twice on stanbic ibtc money market fund.

Anyone who has an explanation can explain

D fool is Daura bound whether he likes it or not

vertueptime:
Lol im sure u wrote jamb 5 times and u finished uni by 30 on the dot

Lol what if I tell u I had my PhD at 33, is it BC everyone is anonymous here

What is young abt this old dude in his late thirties when alot of guys had PhD b4 28

Lol

mommaJ:
its really tough not having a job.it weighs on one both psychologically,financially,emotionally even spiritually...its not easy o.you do your best searching for one and just stand by helplessly hoping it all turns out ok...abeg dnt mind my epistle oo.thank you though

It's well my sister encourage him to start sth while waiting for employment, if u have a car in d house he can use it for taxi instead of staying idle, an idle mind is d devil work shop.

Taxi driving brings huge returns, he can easily make 5 to 8k daily BC he is d driver n its a neat job esp if he does drops only n works at night

Losing a job is one of the worst things dt can happen to anyone.

It's my worst fear in life dts y I am creating extra sources of incomes as back up plans. Good luck to ur man

Scam run like u saw a ghost

AGManuel:
Hello house, am fresh out of youth service(nysc), pls wats d best business to do with my 70k savings.

U could only save 70k out of 19500 x 12 plus local allowance, dt was poor

I advice u learn a marketable skill in demand mobile phone repairing, laptop repairs, barbing etc

Their only goal is to survive from the biz dts all

ezugegere:
Dear car enthusiasts, I want to buy a car and I have eyes on Audi, Honda, or Mercedes. Pls which of these brands is cheapest to maintain here in Nigeria. Advice needed urgently pls!

Toyota corolla or camry

From 1991 to 2018 anyone u can afford

They are the best things to happen to Nigeria after jollof rice

4.7l v8 lol this is for a big man BC the maintenance costs will be over the roof

Review ur price toks na 1.4m

Double exhaust for this fuel scarcity period nawa ooo surely a v6

650k cash ready, serious buyer

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