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TravelRe: Tragedy As Seven Die, Others Injured In Imo Road Crash by jaydeevaa(f): 8:42am On May 19, 2024
when Nigeria begins to arrest and prosecute traffick offenders, we'll then have less reports on accident. Most Nigerian road drivers are lawless to the very last cut. Overspeeding, driving against traffic, wrong overtaking, wrong parking, to mention but a few have become the order of the day.No caution, no respect for other road users. FRSC and others are now more focused on checking vehicle documents than monitoring the driving culture of drivers.
FashionRe: #NoGreeForAnybody: Bride Quarrels With Her Makeup Artist On Her Wedding Day by jaydeevaa(f): 9:28pm On Jan 21, 2024
most likely staged

no make up artist will do a bridal make up without first collecting part payment
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Tested AA For Genotype When Young, Now She's Testing AS by jaydeevaa(f): 5:03pm On Jan 20, 2024
pre genetic testing is a solution although cost intensive
TravelRe: Flight Disruptions: NCAA Threatens To Sanction Egyptair, NG Eagle by jaydeevaa(f): 8:54pm On Jan 07, 2024
Ngeagles is bad news
FamilyRe: How Do I Deal With A Manipulative Stepmother by jaydeevaa(f): 8:22pm On Jan 02, 2024
story of my life...the worst part is that my own stepmother is a so called pastor...but she has said negative things, lies about me to literally everyone who cares to give her listening ears and pretends to my face....and it's all borne out of jealousy....my own way of punishing her is by 'not giving her shi shi'...but my dad and step siblings are my priorities
EventsRe: Mummified Man, Stoneman Willie, To Be Buried After 128 Years On Display In US by jaydeevaa(f): 4:03pm On Oct 06, 2023
but to what end
Car TalkRe: How Long Did It Take You To Learn How To Drive? (Picture) by jaydeevaa(f): 7:59pm On Jul 02, 2023
3 weeks, 2 different driving school because the first driving school teacher wasn't tolerant at all...the guy would scold me at every slight mistake...I ran away for the sake of my mental health but kudos to AA rescue for taking their time to teach me...first attempt on the first day was a goal
FamilyRe: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by jaydeevaa(f): 1:29pm On May 07, 2023
it's envy...people should learn to understand that when God has chosen to bless you, no hatred, envy
or strife from anyone can bring u down...instead make she calm down enjoy your money, she dey vex for your success
TwentyOneP [quote author=gimakon2:
When you have a younger Sister like mine, I am pretty sure you won't ask this type of question. Someone who shows she is envious of good things and wishes no good come to people. Even went as far as calling meetings because she heard I wanted to go for my travel history, and the same human being is processing admission to go to the UK.

I wanted to date her friend, she had already started to like me, This lady went very extra length to scatter the relationship between us both, went very far as telling the girl stories that were not true in anyway. The relationship shattered , everyone moved on, even when the girls father died, it was a feat for me to extend condolences, but whatever , I am a man, it did not have to be so, i extended my condolences and moved on, and we thank God for all in the very end.

So many other things, OK let me talk about the one of last year, I lost my job. I got bored with accepting anything that looked like a job offer and decided to focus on having my personal startup, instead of being engaged and loosing out after sometime. I was able to finance things for the family and what not. Even this same girl was working, the only thing she does is to come and cause problems in the house, then she comes to the house and pack everything i bought as food stuff with my money, and takes to her own house. Just a minor shaking, she as usual, went to feed my father with abrupt nonsense. If my father sees me, I started to look like irk to him. At some point , i used to go to Cotonou like weekly in order to avoid provocation. She did not stop there, She even made my elder sister fight me and threw something at my face that made me bleed from my nose. And what did she do, she pretended to be the Angel as the very usual. When she heard I started working, she called on the phone and started to behave like she was the best person. I just laughed loudly. And stomach certain things for the major interest of peace.
Before i got the job, i was seeking finances to put my startup in order, after I lost friends , helpers and what not. Just few friends were there for me. I resorted to using Loan sharks to put that my business in order, so i would not be able to pay in say a day or 2 after the due date, when they call, She would tell my parents to leave me to suffer alone, that when I had money i never cared for them at all. I remember i paid Light bills, bought fuel and all treated the family members well when I had money before i lost the Job, what was my offence? That i do not give her money personally at hand, so therefore they should leave me to suffer and bear the brunt alone - but this is someone that comes to the house to pack everything and move to her house, My father saw this and he said it is normal, i looked at him and never said a word.

Or is it the one a friend in Canada volunteered to help me offset the bills, she called the boy in Canada never to help me. That i spend money and go to Ghana and other countries for travel history, that no one should help me, they should allow me bear it alone. I thank God later on, my friend in Ancona in Italy send me over 3000 Euros and i was able to offset everything once and for all, and happiness came back. The boy in Question said if he sees her, they would have serious problems. I been the one calming him down. The one in Canada ended up marrying someone else because of her bad character.

Lately, I worked for a Switzerland company and i was able to get finances, from the money mules, i been able to cost out few cash for house rentals , and i am still working squarely to get cash and give my father for the remainder Also from there i was able to establish my startups for good, we working closely on the funding. She lost her job, and she just been at home here. When money comes, i give her and she also eats. I buy fuel for the generator and do things for the family as usual. She does not even feel free and she barely talks to me. I just let her be for the time being and focus on what I think is quite necessary and I let myself be happy no matter what. I was helping her work out admission in the UK where i was her reference, i completed the reference form and submitted it, she said because I did not upload a letter, she started to haul abuses at me again. So the letter i typed for her is what? She started to call me names like i am useless and co, I just held myself because i am expecting something from GOD so, I would not want to say anything. I went to church and knelt down to thank GOD for all. The visitor who came to the house be like "Is this what you see?" I just laughed! This happened few days ago!

Its quite Long and everyone be asking me to forgive, personally i have forgiven her, but she is very free to go, but i told myself one thing, if it would take the last drop of blood from me to make sure i give my children the best life without any of my siblings, and having anything with my kids to do with any of them, I am ready to do everything. As for her, she can go. We thank God for all.

With siblings like these, We do not need enemies. I have accepted everything, and right now, I will work hard with all It will take to go very far away from them, and I am very glad, its gradually working out. I just have to be more prayerful.

The thing i deciphered from everything is envy.I have the best job, from the job I got my own company, I travel anywhere, even if I get shakedowns , few days i am back on my feet. This is the main reason, Siblings have problems. For me, I have forgiven her, but I will never have anything to do with her again. She and the rest can go.
FamilyRe: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by jaydeevaa(f): 1:25pm On May 07, 2023
This is so Deep! It is well with you Bro.[/quote]
FamilyRe: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by jaydeevaa(f): 1:16pm On May 07, 2023
I have been advised to wait till I get married or atleast get a job outside our current location b4 I move out....because single ladies shouldn't live alone especially if their family resides in the location where she is
Negroid001:
I can relate to this. My dad never remarried after we lost our mum. Highest he did was court women for a period of time, he always had to pick his children first. I remember one time a lady who was always on my daddy's neck mistakenly swept away my junior waec result, my dad sent her packing that night.

Omo you try o. If it was me, 5 olorogun siblings, I'd have moved out since.
FamilyRe: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by jaydeevaa(f): 12:46pm On May 07, 2023
I happen to be the only child my late mom has for my dad...I have 5 other siblings from my step mum...one of the reasons why siblings fall apart in my own case is envy...my step mum thinks I am doing better than her children, so she chose to tarnish my image b4 family, neighbors and friends, exaggerating things and telling lies against me just to make people hate me and by extension causing hatred btw some of my step siblings and I....and she's supposed to be a pastor...
another issue I observed is that some of my step siblings only reach out to me when they need money, that thing pisses me off...I no be ATM machine, me sef get blood wey dey run through my veins, so I have decided to stop giving
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Share Your Interview Experience by jaydeevaa(f): 6:50pm On Apr 18, 2023
Did an interview with a well known organization, did driving test also and passed both...it's been 3 months and all I hear is "I'll reach out to you once I have information on the next steps"....funny enough I didn't apply for the job, the HR personnel contacted me on LinkedIn...
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Accuses PDP Of Sabotaging Fuel Supply To Blackmail Federal Government by jaydeevaa(f): 6:08pm On Jan 26, 2023
damage control
PoliticsRe: Edo North 2023: Oshiomhole Campaigns In Igarra (Video) by jaydeevaa(f): 10:10pm On Jan 23, 2023
DavSagacity:
Eeehhhhh...Sister ... How u dey. Nice to meet you. Ete meyah...huh
ma ku Oshomoshi avo.
Avudashi
PoliticsRe: Edo North 2023: Oshiomhole Campaigns In Igarra (Video) by jaydeevaa(f): 9:56pm On Jan 23, 2023
DavSagacity:
That's my Home town.
You are welcome Adams.
U are doing well.
I'm also from Igarra...nice to meet u here
CelebritiesRe: BBNaija's Tega Dominic Shares Sultry Photos by jaydeevaa(f): 2:08pm On Dec 27, 2022
nudity is not beauty, but they won't listen.
RomanceRe: Davido And Chioma Share A Kiss In Qatar (Photo) by jaydeevaa(f): 5:18pm On Dec 19, 2022
it won't matter in heaven
CelebritiesRe: Singer Sammy Okposo Is Dead by jaydeevaa(f): 12:40pm On Nov 25, 2022
I hope this isn't true
Jobs/VacanciesRe: UBA Graduate Management Acceleration Programme (GMAP) 2022 by jaydeevaa(f): 6:38pm On Aug 17, 2022
OMOIBUKUN:
Those interested in the past questions can drop email address or phone number
kindly assist with past questions...my email address in johnjuliet249@gmail.com...thanks
PoliticsRe: Buhari To Sign Bill Seeking Renaming Of Kaduna State To “zazzau State” by jaydeevaa(op): 4:11pm On Aug 15, 2022
misplaced priorities
PoliticsBuhari To Sign Bill Seeking Renaming Of Kaduna State To “zazzau State” by jaydeevaa(op): 4:11pm On Aug 15, 2022
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Buhari to sign bill seeking renaming of Kaduna State to “Zazzau State”


Buhari to sign bill seeking renaming of Kaduna State to “Zazzau State”

President Muhammadu Buhari
Bill seeking to rename Kaduna State to ZAZZAU STATE has been sent to President Muhammadu Buhari for assent.

The Senate President, Dr Ahmad Lawan under the provisions of and power of Senate of the federal republic of Nigeria has assented the bill and sent to President Buhari for final endorsement.

The bill which was jointly sponsored by Senator Suleiman Abdu Kwari of Zone 1 and Senator Uba Sani of Kaduna central got the approval of 13 members out of 15 of the House of Representatives representing different parts of Kaduna state.


The bill was deliberated in the Red Chamber and got 2/3 support of the senators of the federal republic of Nigeria.

According to the clerk of the National Assembly, Ojo Olatunje Amos, *123* civil organizations from different parts of Kaduna state seeked for renaming of Kaduna state to *Zazzau* **State.Their** sole aim was to maintain the history and norms of people of the state.Now that President Buhari has signed it into law, amendment of the 1999 constitution is on the way with respect to ZAZZAU STATE.

While addressing Newsmen in the Red Chamber, Senator Suleiman Abdu Kwari told newsmen that this a results of what people of the state demanded from us as their representatives in the Senate. The word Kaduna has no reasonable meaning as far as history of *Kaduna* is concerned ,and therefore, change for the name is Paramount.

Senator Uba Sani briefed newsmen on the importance of the change.He described the change as a dividend of Democracy to the people of the state.


The deputy governor of Kaduna State ,Dr Hadiza Sabuwa Balaraba, who represented his Excellency, the Executive governor of *ZAZZAU* *STATE* ( formerly Kaduna State),Malam Nasiru Elrufa’i congratulates the entire people of the state on this golden achievement. She urges the entire people of the state to take this development as a mean of peace and unity for the state.


She further commended the efforts of all the law makers of the state for their meritious Job in seeing this dream came reality.

The president of the civil organization in person of Alhaji Junaidu Dikko who who led 57 organizations from Zone 1 senatorial District tenders his appreciation onbehalf of the entire civil organizations that pressured for actualization of this development.He mentioned this development as Diamond achievement to the entire people of the state.

The Secretary general of the federation, Boss Mustapha, who represented the president in the inauguration event congratulates the people of Kaduna State ( Now *Zazzau* *State* ) for this democratic development. He urged people of *Zazzau* *State* to use this as medium for mutual coexistence and political development amongst the entire people of the state.

The Emir of Jama’a who represented the Kaduna Council of Chief recognized the hardworking of Kaduna Senators, House of representatives and memebers state house of assembly for their tireless effort in making this change.He stated that, the word *Zazzau* has been in existence for the past 700years like katsina, Kano, Zamfara,etc., but Kaduna has no general accepted meaning which undermines the history of people of the State in general. But with the new name of *Zazzau* *State* history, norms, values and dignity of the people of the state is restored.


Source: National Pivot
PhonesRe: Whatsapp To Roll Out 3 New Layers Of Security To Wrap Up Messages In New Feature by jaydeevaa(f): 8:29pm On Aug 09, 2022
interesting
PoliticsRe: BREAKING NEWS: Ex IGP, Tafa Balogun Is Dead by jaydeevaa(f): 10:03pm On Aug 04, 2022
may his soul rest in peace
BusinessRe: Capt Hosa's Family Disclaim Fake Invite For Memorial Program by jaydeevaa(f): 9:26pm On Aug 03, 2022
wahala
CareerRe: How I Moved From Management Trainee To Assistant Manager Within 4 Years. by jaydeevaa(f): 6:34am On Jun 19, 2022
are u in the banking industry ?
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Wins Labour Party Presidential Primary As Pat Utomi Steps Down by jaydeevaa(f): 2:06pm On May 30, 2022
this is getting more interesting
PoliticsRe: Train Attack: We Will Start Killing Kidnapped Passengers In 7 Days — Terrorists by jaydeevaa(f): 10:23pm On May 24, 2022
and what about the innocent people they already killed including Dr Chinelo?
PoliticsRe: APC Aspirants May Opt For Consensus As Buhari Meets Osinbajo, Tinubu, Amaechi by jaydeevaa(f): 8:10am On May 22, 2022
exactly what I was thinking
davido2017:
Osinbanjo will be pick by APC and Amaechi will agree to be is vice, this have seen.
CrimeRe: Deborah Samuel: 34 Lawyers Arrive Court To Defend Suspected Killers by jaydeevaa(f): 2:03pm On May 16, 2022
this country is a big joke
CelebritiesRe: Genevieve Nnaji Celebrates 43rd Birthday Today by jaydeevaa(f): 9:31am On May 03, 2022
happy birthday to the mother vampire herself, ageless, never growing old, just glowing and getting rich
PoliticsRe: Oshiomhole To Declare For President Today (Photo) by jaydeevaa(f): 8:17am On Apr 29, 2022
There was once a country
FamilyRe: Relate your Worst experience from overstaying visitors by jaydeevaa(f): 7:14pm On Feb 18, 2022
one shameless couple who begged to stay for 3 days (because they were expecting money to complete their rent ) ended up staying for 1 year because they eventually spent their rent money on frivolities. It took the grace of God and hostility to push dem out.

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