PastorFire:


Confused Man, una no get wetin to talk again.. Next alert is Monday. Enjoy the show while you wallow in pains this Christmas

You're the one that's wallowing in pains and it simply shows all-over your posts. You can't utter a single word without any content of abuse or insane banter.

PastorFire:


See your life!

You receive demo alert to shut you up for the next 8 months, you're happy. Your eyes go seen clear. Where is Pastor Wuts your friend. He's not showing up

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1. I'm preselected and got paid

2. This is my first NPower payment barring 3 time 5400 I received from Kaduna ITF for NPower training.

3. I'm a non graduate beneficiary [/quote

Okay clarify yourself. Give us more updates

Adekunle1665:
Is there any batch C2 beneficiary here, that have not receive any stipend before that 📲now

I'm in that shoe
What of you?

Think9ja:


The problem weh I de get with una be say even you weh de tell people to move on go still de view this thread on a low for updates. Every nairalander get strong hold for ministry. Na the one weh fvck Betta now we de find. See, leave everybody to his fate. People weh want move on don move on, no need telling more people to move on.

Exactly Everyone with their own updates

Breaking: This is coming directly from a strong-hold in the ministry. Edu-Beta has recovered the fund and has channeled it to her own business. Her next steps is to be giving people false hope and unwarranted excuses till every one forgets. It's time for you to move on guys. She probably knows that no one will hold her accountable so the next batch of fake payment according to her is January

nzoptunechi:
Bleep it

Bleep her

BigBlackPreek:
your post made my day.... you're really a wise man talking from experiences.... I'm 31 and only care about older women and looking ➡ to settle down with one

You are the best man , thank you for settling down with older women that were once young and riding the cock up and down. Their retirement plan is coming...

dharmie13:
It's real ...I was paid one month yesterday...batch c2

I haven't been paid any batch c2

ezenwaez:

October, November and December payment is ongoing for npower batch c stream 2.

I haven't been paid any batch C2

dharmie13:
Last week I was paid November and December..y I received October allowance today

Is it for real. Or you just want to raise peoples hope

UppaZakum:
Good day. I would like to get your perspectives on some issues I have been facing lately. I am about to make some key decisions that could either make or mar my future, which is why I'd like to crave your indulgence. This is going to a long write-up because it’s important I provide some background.

Next year, I plan to take a career break (leave of absence) towards pursuing a PhD in the US with the hope of transitioning to a dollar-earning environment. This move is going to come with some huge sacrifice - I may have to give up my job in pursuit of this goal. In other words, no income is anticipated within the duration of the PhD (4 years). Moreover, I do not intend to return to Nigeria as I’d be applying for a green card to enable me work in the state. However, should I not be successful in the pursuit of this venture, I’d would fall back to my job in Nigeria. This is not an easy decision to make but a necessary move I have to make to further my knowledge, skills and ambition and to create a great future for my two kids.

Now, here comes the big issue. Since I notified my wife of this plan, she has been extremely joyful. She’s been making lot of plans. Despite the fact that I still have some reservations, she thinks otherwise. Each time, I bring up the reservations with logical explanations; I can see the sadness on her face. That look like “ I hope you’re not changing your mind’. I really do not care though because women folks are emotional creatures without adequate capacity for logical reasoning. While it is okay to look at all the positives that can be unlocked because of this move, it is wise to consider what could go wrong as well in order to make a more informed decision. I can tell she has not been paying attention to the downsides I have been mentioning such as lifestyle changes, possibility of not getting a job even after the PhD, weird western ideologies my kids will have to face etc). She’s just so fixated on the supposedly “good life” over there.

The second issue is the fact that since I started working on this plan, she has been discussing about pursuing a fast-track nursing program (2 years) concurrently with my Phd program. She has been researching schools and all that and has been coming to tell me about the tuition fee. I have not out rightly rejected this idea, but I have stylishly told her it would not work giving excuse that there is no fund to support that ($30,000 for 2 years). She does not seem to believe me. I do not blame her. She has access to my bank statements and knows how much I have been saving (a mistake I admit). She is also aware that I plan to save my all my upfront pay when it comes next year. She has not given up yet on her plan. Anytime I’m back from work, she will always bring it up again and tell me how she found a cheaper option, and blab la bla. She has given more than 1000 reasons why she should pursue the course. She is fond of saying since it’s a two year course, she can always support the family while I’m still pursuing my PhD. The cheapest option is still around $25k. Whenever this conversation comes up, I just maintain a deafening silence or wave it aside without making her feel bad. First, the money I have been saving is to cushion the impact of zero income for the duration of my PhD (4 years). Second, I got a full funding offer with $2500 monthly stipend. Based on my calculation, we should be able to live on the $2500 with some lifestyle adjustment. However, I am making provision for additional $1000/month to cater for miscellaneous expenses, which will come from my savings. In the same vein, after the doctorate, I’d still need some cash to process my green card or EB2-NIW visa and to stay afloat pending when I get a job in the US. In a nutshell, I’m planning to save at least $50,000. It is from this savings that my wife expects me to fund her nursing program. While it might seem like a great idea to fund the nursing program for two years, she gets a job, can then fund the family pending the completion of my PhD, my redpill instinct kicks in, and makes me feel that this is a very risky route to go. We’ve seen situations where women change the moment they start to cater for the family while their husband is not earning any income. I am currently the provider. I provide everything my wife and kids need. Financially, they are very well okay. This is no longer going to be the same over there should I go ahead and fund the nursing program. After her nursing program, she’s likely going to get a decent job and will be in a good position to support the family. While I am not opposed to this, I also have to safeguard my interests and plan for any eventualities. I have no idea what she is likely going to turn into, also considering the fact that we will be in a country where women’s interests are elevated above any other thing. Women are naturally not providers. Any woman providing will most often than not have resentment for the man. The social media is replete with cases of men sponsoring their wives overseas and their wives turning their back on them. The infamous “What have you done for me sef?” comes to mind. Most often than not, it never ends well.
Just to mention, my wife has been loyal and submissive so far. She has been a good mother to my kids. However, I will not let that cloud my judgment, the actions I take and decisions I make. The loyalty and submissiveness will most likely disappear the moment we leave the shore of Nigeria and the moment she’s done with her nursing program and become exposed to the western influence. I don’t know for sure, but I think it’s risky not to prepare for this.

To the redpillers in the house, I’d like to seek your wise counsel. Are my fears valid or unwarranted? While I’d want her to do something productive within the four years of my PhD, I am not convinced to give up my leverage. Are there any no-regret options that I can explore to ensure she's also productive within that period? I have suggested doing a data analytics course or a course not more than $10k. After critical evaluation, I thought I could still sacrifice $10k (with the hope that I will sell the car I bought for her). If she changes, no regret. Her loss. I will not lose sweat over $10k. I will continue with my life with whatever I have left in my savings. My priority is to have enough safeguards and protect all I have worked for. Moreover I can always return to Nigeria to continue my job if shits hits the fan. She does not seem to fancy my suggestion. She just wants Nursing. I have not given my final verdict yet. I wanted to get inputs from redpillers first but my busy schedule wouldn’t allow me. Now that I have the time, I welcome sound advice and suggestions from the house. The money I have saved and the one I am going to save is to help me withstand the temporary setback that will be caused by my plan.

Your concerns are vivid. It is important to be financially prepared for any eventuality, especially when you are making a big move like pursuing a PhD in the in a distant country with different clime and situations. It is also important to be aware of the cultural differences that you and your wife will face in the US.

Your wife's desire to pursue a nursing program is understandable. Nursing is a high-paying and in-demand profession in the US. However, it is important to consider the financial implications of her decision. The tuition for a nursing program is expensive, and she will likely need to take out student loans. She will also need to find a way to support herself financially while she is in school.

If your wife does not get a job after she finishes her nursing program, you will be responsible for supporting her and your children. This could put a strain on your finances, especially if you are still in school yourself. It is also possible that your wife will become resentful of you if she is the one providing for the family.

It is wise to be cautious about funding your wife's nursing program. You could offer to help her pay for a less expensive program, or you could suggest that she wait until you are finished with your PhD to pursue her nursing degree. You could also suggest that she take some online courses or get a part-time job while you are in school.

Trust your gut. If you have a gut feeling that this is not a good idea, then it probably isn't. The decision is up to you since you know your wife beta.

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Been there, done that. You will be amazed how 90k can leave your account in minutes cause the more you lose the more you addicted

Sorry my friend. Learn from this phase. I will see if i can buy a used iPhone 12 and bring to Naija for you by September. [/quote Boss man! me too need phone mine phone don spoil. Me no need iphone 12, any small smart phone of any brand is okay. I will appreciate if it can brought to reality

Prexy:
Pls an advise, u travelled for some months last year for business, spent two months, came back to discover that my pastor whom I trust so dearly infact I call him my daddy, was capture on my hidden camera sleeping with my wife, when I confronted my wife she confessed, now what should I do? As am so shocked at the betrayal of trust from them both, pls am confused.

leave them alone and mind ur own business, let them keep fucking while u pay the bills. God is to judge and not u.

NuCypher:

You are right to think this way. Don't let anybody discourge you from this line of thinking. When I was in Nigeria, I was earning an average of 2.5m per month, but I had the same problem as you. The job offered no long-lasting skill. You should be worried if any job you are doing is offering you no long-lasting skill, regardless of the amount you are making. Pick up a skill in tech. There is no shortage there: cybersecurity, data analytics, software development, etc. Gain yourself something that will last a lifetime. At this stage of your thinking, you are already on the way there.

Every one here earning millions yet I find it difficult to secure a jod, do I have half head. Ibeg, u guys should help me out with a smart phone pls. I am learning data science and manchine learning and my phone got spoilt with other though challenges. I need help with a phone. I will be very grateful

She is already cheating

Dogi1:
So sad the western world is destroying everything for us.

we are the destroyer not the western world. Why don't we follow their footsteps in creating our own aicrafts and phones.

myyansh68:




What happened to Men are the head, Alpha and Omega so she must be submissive?
You want her to feed you when you claimed right /Men don't need love, but respect and honor..
You want her to feed in a Marriage you claimed there's no 50/50 or husband and wife, but boss and servant.

Surprised !!!!

if they can't feed men then no marriage for them. However, there is steady knacking for them till they age and they no longer look sexually appealing to the so called alpha males. Surprised!

myyansh68:

Great one.

How many Men can feed themselves? or how many carter for their children? .

Abi all those Men wer dy beg 500 for NL[ they do also use female monikers to scam ] nahim you want make dem bring pikin com poverty in the name of trying to avoid menopause?.
How many mouths you go fit feed?


Nah question dy bring question.

Abeg Good Women that are doing well block your ears, no let anyone deceive you with Marriage, age shaming or childless. Because if En hot Nahdem go still shame you.

why can't they feed men

Chimarto:

They want to suffocate my guy .......more than 5 ladies who are above 30 years are running after him for serious relationship.
Most of my colleagues (ladies) at work who are above 35 years old are single.
The married ladies are the ones advertising those single ladies to men.
What's happening in our society, are we running out of men?

Unfortunately there is no virgin among them and this a testament to how far we have declined as a society mostly due to failed parenting. They want to pin their decaying body on a man after frivolous years of my body my choice. It is well

Why are you complaining on their behalf

You will soon sell left

Jibrilbnw:

Sent

Please send to amanabolu@gmail.com

Monzze:


Done

Please send it to amanabolu@gmail.com

Lukepeter:

Thanks for the clarification and explanation bro, Las Las if I no get the Job na to sale kush LOL.

There are drugs you can use to clear your system

Monzze:
i won't appreciate the unnecessary sleepless nights that NDLEA want to force on me today. 🤦

Why should I have sleepless night because of some fake list

charlesdinho:

i received a text message yesterday and today, they sent me an email reminding me of the exam

Which cadre

Adewale1603:
https://im.cdcfib.career

People that were chosen are already on their way to the exam center

Ebitus:
This country is corrupted...
No hope for the poor masses
Each time i applied for Immigration, I will not be shortlisted...
God take control in the recruitment affairs of this country...

There is still the possibility of hope for the masses. The answer is be corrupt.

The only person that doesn't have hope in Nigeria is the righteous one

Adewale1603:
yeah. Even if you don't receive the mail, you can login to their website with your application code and phone number to check your names if you're among those that are shortlisted.

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What is the exam website please

I heard immigration is sending exam mail to shortlisted candidates. How true is that

Valme1010:
The truth is simply this ,wether you wrote well or not ,it showed exam taken or not ,you wrote once or twice or not ,with all the glitches and hitches that have happended in the CBT exam ,just seek Gods mercy ,if you get shortlisted for the next stage ,it is not because you wrote perfectly and did everything right and if you do not get shortlisted it is not because you did not write perfectly or did anything wrong..... My final take is that if you are shortlisted to the next level ,it is just Gods mercy .

Also add wether you apply for NDLEA or not. I have seen someone that didn't apply and didn't even have a certificate that now works with BDLEA