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Go your way and i'll go mine but am guessing we may be heading in the same direction so can I join you?

Joy isn't necessarily determined by the amount of money you have.

Really? Activity time just began for some.

Hello people.

Benise: is following a *male* nt allowed?

Of coz it is, but aint I a male too?

Congratulations to him.

Benise: lolz.....Am i?

Aint you? And BTW when did you finally decide to follow a male?

Congratulations to you Zulu Naija

[quote author=y-fo]When people speak of 'generational curses', it seems like a fairytale but you have just witnessed one take full effect. R.I.P to your friend.[/quote]Really? Generational curse? His father's half brothers and half sisters are still alive.......

Forever is not for us mortals but for immortals.

BIRTHDAY!         BIRTHDAY!!         BIRTHDAY!!!

Attention Pretty/Ugly Ladies  and  Handsome/worwor gentlemen/boyz

You are hereby implored to take out lil time from your tight schedules to come and e-celebrate/e-party with me on my birthday which is coming up on Thursday the 25th of September, 2014 here on Nairaland...  

You are all welcome to join a brother to celebrate his birthday in style kuz that’s the best gift you can offer him. I'm aware that this may be the first time dis kinda e-event is holding here on NL but don’t worry i promise it would be fun and worth attending, u won’t have any regrets gracing the event. (na one day something dey start sha)

The event will be having two phases:

 1.   There will be a normal birthday thread where U can drop your birthday/goodwill messages. The Thread will be created by CDAMSEL but the event would be anchored by one of Nairaland finest, M.C Leetunechi!! who will be assisted by DAVEP.

 2.   Afterwards, there would be a wild birthday party/bash at NL Bar/Hotel and Relaxation Center(manged by JBLUV55)(click to visit) where we'll party till dawn or when momma calls .

. There'll be a lot to drink and eat (smoking of weed is at the smokers risk kuz if NairaLand  NDLEA catch U, na 10years ban be that o )
 
. Also, there'll be live musical performance by our Nairaland musical acts like Coogar, JigahsawKiller, Ksslib, KiddaBlinggz, Lanicky, Xtarxhyne, etc

.   WOOING of babe’s is very much ALLOWED  But laying them at the bar is NOT ALLOWED  at all. U either take her home or book a room at the Hotel.... (I understand say Konji na  bastard but no human being still dey control bastard)

.    Ladies, please U are NOT allowed to wear long skirt to the party. Hollandis Wrapper is allowed tho but preferably bumper shot is the best.
     
. As for the guys, abeg you can wear agbada and slippers to the main event no wahala but DON’T even try wearing it to party/bash kuz na Dog go pursue you go back.        

. If you don’t have a babe you can still come, XSENGA and GGRIN will be very much available  to take care of you

·   Please, ejor, biko, do Allah, abeg no fighting at all, either at the event or at the bash... If you try am na 15years ban be that... Biko we are supposed to be celebrating and not fighting.

·    Don’t worry about when you are going to wake up the next day and start heading for work. I have told President G.E.J. to make the next day which is Friday a work free day all over Naija. And i have also told Oga SEEUN to declare from tomorrow till Friday a work free day for all his Mods so they can come party with us. **Haba them be human being too na**  Xo Farano, Ujsizzle, Mynd44 and Obinoscopy U guys shoud start dusting your dancing shoes.. We go Sekem and Shakee Bodi all night long.

·    PLEASE THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE, If you can’t make it to the event and wish to send over your gift to me through my bank account please feel free to contact me either by using your PM button or Whatsapping me via my NL signature..

NOTE: The Chairlady of the Occasion is no other but our own Nairaland MAMMY (IDOWUOGBO aka Badosky)

     VIP tickets are still on sale, contact either JBLUV55, LEETUNECHI, DAVEP, CDAMSEL, FRANKBEN, IDOWUOGBO and preorder for yours now.. *HURRY Now and kuz we have em limited in stock**   MEANWHILE, Regular’s ticket is FFEE for everyone juts that regulars no go sidon for front seat.
 
BELOW IS THE OFFICIAL INVITATION I.V. CARD
Thank you in advance as you honour this Invitation.
 
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Please after getting this I.V and you refuse to share it so that your followers can see it and also get to be aware about the birthday that is coming up soon then you are not helping me be that. And after reading this without gracing any of the events... know it that Dia ris God oooo

Benise: i dnt knw any moniker, was she ur crush?

Maybe n maybe not but don't you think you r playing hard to get?

And don't you think its very Nigerian to answer a question with a question?

So @ this point my attempt @ a logical natural explanation failed me and I would ask anyone to pls correct my assumption that there r unseen forces that can change the destiny of man.

Gaol means prison while Goal dot com us a website where you can get news about football.

After his demise, his relatives had bin informed in the village. We friends had contributed some cash for embalming the deceased. The relatives gave their word to send emissaries by Tuesday (May 7) that would carry the corpse to the village. They later rescinded giving flimsy excuses for not bin able to come and that we that were in Yola then should decide what to do with his corpse. This was very disheartening for me. We contributed extra cash, got a white suit, got a coffin, made necessary arrangements and buried him @ a burial ground in Yola on Saturday (11th of May).

chycoroxie: OMG, dis is really depressing n sad
U actually watched ur friend give up d ghost/kick d bucket

I watched it in 4D and there is more.

Like I said initially, he made his last journey out of Yola on this day(May 1). The statement ¹ was also sent to his chic(who had bin in Numan) and thus she had planned to come over on Friday(May 3). Sunday and I had bin together on this May day n he had bin so happy bin with us(his guys) again after a while of not hanging out with us due to his instability.
Now, mind you, there was a joint(mainly frequented by Southerners) in the neighborhood where we would normally hang out to watch soccer in the evenings and that was where we hung out on Mayday and the day after.
The day after was Thursday(May 2nd) and I had bin busy with some work when the msg ² came into my BB. Later on that same day we hung out @ our usual joint gisting and........
We were still in celebration mood and took some alcohol. Two fellas got into a heated argument that turned to a fight and Sunday intervened. I tried preventing him but to no avail. The fight was eventually settled but I had left. I don't like involving myself in such matters. I later learnt that my friend took sides in the fight which I blamed him for. I also learnt that my friend had joined in with a group of others to locate the house of the guy that caused the fight and his wife was the one they met to whom they reported the husband.
Anyway, news also reached us that there was an incident elsewhere in town where three people had bin shot dead in a Supermart-A choir master of a particular church inclusive. As at the time we got the news, it was rumored that the assailants were armed robbers while some said they were assassins.
May 3rd came. It was a Friday and my friend had gone out very early(note that as @ this moment he was no longer working and had sold his salon). Later in the evening around 5PM, I was called on fone that my attention was needed @the same joint. The guys that had bin fighting had bin called to settle their dispute and my friend had bin called too. I got there around 5:30PM and met them already settled(I supposed). My friends chic also arrived around 6PM and my friend (who hardly told a lie-one of the reasons I took to him) told her where we were. She met us there.
My friend was too overjoyed this day coz he drank plenty of alcohol. I guess it was because he was happy that he wud be seeing his lady again after a while or something else.
My friend had asked the owner of the place a question and that one replied him in a manner that got Sunday annoyed(he had a quick temper). Sunday replied him in annoyance and I requested that we left the place for home. We had left and were outside but my friend was just insistent on trading insults with the owner of the joint(since he felt the assistance he had rendered the day before was not appreciated but condemned by even his own friends). It was already few minutes past 7PM. Unknown to us, a car had been parked nearby, supposedly monitoring the area. The next few minutes were undescribable as bullets were just flying everywhere. I felt a bullet zapp by me and I docked and scrambled into a safe place. I couldn't hear much of anything again @ this point coz the sound of those gunshots kept on resounding in my head. 15mins later, I heard the first voice saying somebody had died. I came out from hiding to find my friend in a pool of his own blood with 3 bullet wounds(one @ his left chest). He was lying face down. We quickly got a vehicle to transport him to the clinic plus other injured victims. He breathed his last while in the vehicle.
He was the only one that died in that incident.

Other attacks were launched in different parts of the city but the assailants were killed exactly a week later.
Subsequently, it was concluded that they may have been BokoHaram members as they did not carry out any robbery operations.

Jbluv55: *I forgot to add that we had become so close that we both referred to each other by the same name-BFAM(Brother From Another Mother).*

The last supervision job he made before he decided to quit was on May day(May 1). It was a Wednesday & He had left early by 6am to Gombe for the supervision which he concluded successfully. He made it back that same day and on his way back he sent me a msg on FaceBook @ exactly 5:11PM as ffs:

¹"I'm on my way back to town.".

It was a holiday n we decided to celebrate it. We called a couple of friends and hung out for a while. It was also the day Barcelona played against Bayern Munich and lost 0 - 3 making the aggregate 0 - 7(after having lost 0 - 4 in the first leg). We enjoyed ourselves and made it back home (we were also neighbors).

The next day was a Thursday. At exactly 10:18AM he sent me a msg as ffs:

²"Amenbo Village
I cannot categorically tell you
The full meaning of BBM. If I say
It is Black Berry Messenger, My
Oga At The Top might say 'Beat
Barcelona Mercilessly'."

The next set of msgs are those I cannot type so I have decided to attach an image instead. They were posted 19 days ago on his birthday.

He died! Yes, Sunday died, sadly! And he died gasping for breath! I can still picture him trying to tell me something but death was faster then his mouth. He died with all his thots - and he was the last of his lineage.

The story of his death

Let's fast-rewind a bit back to 2011. On one of his usual outings, he had met a chic-Emem-who happened to be from his state but also residing in Adamawa State(Numan precisely). She was schooling in FCE Yola and was in ND II. They started a relationship & Their love blossomed. However, the chic seemed to have had some other guy that was also serious about having a relationship with her. The guy was residing in Numan n the chic only usually got to see him whenever she went back home to Numan on break.
I think the guy had even proposed but the girl started comparing some characteristics of his with Sunday's (chics have an idea of what they want I guess). After plenty of controversies n breakups, they(Sunday&Emem) finally decided they were meant for each other. ³The other guy was definitely not happy (probably because he had invested time, energy, resources etc into the relationship) and he sent msgs & made calls to Sunday a couple of times threatening him. Sunday dared him and continued his relationship with Emem.

Fast-forward back to 2013 April. He spent plenty of of time out of Adamawa while the chic had gone back to Numan & had gotten a job as a primary school teacher(her first suitor was also based in Numan). She wud now only visit Yola whenever he(Sunday) came back to Yola.
So this particular home-coming of his(he had bin making trips in n out of Yola for 2wks+) was special because he had decided to stay without traveling for @least 2wks(a time to probably share thots n Aspirations with his chic).
He had also bin a member of a particular church(name withheld) but hadn't bin consistent lately due to travelings n other activities. Some weeks before his demise, he had joked about his pastor saying he saw a vision about him and that he should resume coming to church. I, carelessly, didn't ask him about the details of the vision. But I can remember him going to church the Sunday before his demise. He wasn't very prayerful, I would say, because lyk I said earlier he was deep into the streets and had only started 'turning a new leaf'.

All that said, Fast-forward to Mayday.

Reincarnated: He died? what happened mahn

lynpetra: Mehn,this is terrible! .The whole family wiped out!!!God

lynpetra: What happenedhow did he die?

chycoroxie: What killed him

Details of How he died you will find below.

lynpetra: Jbluv,why are u hurting my feelingsfinish am na

My apologies lynpetra, didn't mean to hurt ur feelings. I was typing in the early hours of the morning and I almost couldn't also bear recalling the details of how he died but I have decided to state it below.

kambo: @jbluv
quite a soap opera.
So sad though.
Was ur friend a christian? All these happening to him and he never sought spiritual help.
How many apples fell on newton's head b4 he got d hint?
How uncanny events wud beset ur friend b4 he got d hint?

I'll answer ur questions in the post below.

fabulousdame: what happnd to dat family is terrible...d whole family was wiped out, hmmmm...there is nothing natural about it..it was pure witchcraft

That is exactly why I decided to tell the story that way with as much details so anyone and everyone reading would help assess whether it was natural or not.

Benise: lmfao!! wat old account?

Ok so you neva deactivated the account but wud you care to tell us the old moniker?

Benise: first of all INTRODUCTION..... I am Benise....ayam a she

And why did you deactivate ur old account?

Journalists covering the arraignment of 17 alleged members of the Boko Haram sect before the Federal High Court in Lagos were yesterday barred from performing their duties by men of the department of State Security Service (DSSS) allegedly on the orders of the federal government.
The journalists, who were already seated in the court room before the arrival of the security agents were forceful sent out of the court room shortly before the trial judge, Justice Musa H. Kurya came out of his chambers.
At a stage when the newsmen refused to leave, one of the armed security men threatened to arrest the journalists if they continue to resist his matching order.
A senior officer, who spoke to journalists on the development, said the directive to stop the journalists from covering the arraignment of the suspected Boko Haram members was from the presidency.
Apart from the journalists, other litigants, who also have matters before the court were equally barred from entering the court room.
Also when the case was called, some lawyers were told to leave the court room, it was, however, gathered that this was due to the small size of the court room.
In spite of the drama, the planned arraignment of the suspected Boko Haram members which had suffered two adjournments on October 2 and 9, due to lack of an interpreter and the absence of the trial judge respectively, could not go on.

[url=leadership.ng/news/251013/fg-bars-journalists-covering-alleged-boko-haram-members-trial]Leadership[/url]

MODS pls Another BokoHaram Breaking News.
Pls consider for front page.
www.nairaland.com/1492069/breaking-news-bokoharam-attacks-mobile#19075789

Gunmen suspected to be members of BokoHaram yesterday(Thursday Oct 24, 2013) attacked two wards in Nasarawa, Maisandari and the Police Mobile Force base along Gujba road in Damaturu, Yobe State capital.
Speaking to our state correspodent on phone, a resident, Musa Ali, said that the suspected members of Boko Haram, numbering over 50, stormed Nasarawa ward and shot sporadically.
He, however, told LEADERSHIP FRIDAY & confirmed that no life was lost in the attack.
Our reporter confirmed that the sound of gunfire, bomb blasts and the battle cry of the insurgents was still being heard at the Mobile Police Base by the time of going to press. The attackers were also said to have burnt down the MTN mast in the area.
The spokesman of the 3 Division Battalion, in Yobe, Captain Eli Lazarus, confirmed the attack but kept mum on whether there were casualties. He assured the community that troops had been sent to the affected areas.
Meanwhile, the 10pm-7am curfew in Potiskum has been reviewed by the state government to between 9pm and 7am, following a shooting on a congregation at a mosque on Wednesday where a man was killed and the Imam wounded.

[url=leadership.ng/news/251013/boko-haram-attacks-mobile-police-base-damaturu]Leadership[/url]

*I forgot to add that we had become so close that we both referred to each other by the same name-BFAM(Brother From Another Mother).*

The last supervision job he made before he decided to quit was on May day(May 1). It was a Wednesday & He had left early by 6am to Gombe for the supervision which he concluded successfully. He made it back that same day and on his way back he sent me a msg on FaceBook @ exactly 5:11PM as ffs:

¹"I'm on my way back to town.".

It was a holiday n we decided to celebrate it. We called a couple of friends and hung out for a while. It was also the day Barcelona played against Bayern Munich and lost 0 - 3 making the aggregate 0 - 7(after having lost 0 - 4 in the first leg). We enjoyed ourselves and made it back home (we were also neighbors).

The next day was a Thursday. At exactly 10:18AM he sent me a msg as ffs:

²"Amenbo Village
I cannot categorically tell you
The full meaning of BBM. If I say
It is Black Berry Messenger, My
Oga At The Top might say 'Beat
Barcelona Mercilessly'."

The next set of msgs are those I cannot type so I have decided to attach an image instead. They were posted 19 days ago on his birthday.

There were other ups and downs in his life which I'll just omit here.
I met him in 2011, and we became close friends. He was without family n I was also without family members in Yola(they were in the South).
He was a Chelsea fan and so was I. We both along with some other friends would hang out in the evenings to gist n ............

I did ask him why all these calamities that seemed abnormal. He said his father had some properties in their village that seemed to have brought about some controversies when it was determined that they were willed to his dad and not to any of his other uncles and aunts. He so hated his uncles and aunts and said he wouldn't go back there in a long while.

2012 came n Yola became a wartorn zone. Armed robbery everywhere, biking banned, businesses collapsing, Southerners leaving the town. He got a link with a fella abt a job of supervising mast installations so he took the offer. He wud first undergo some form of training which wud require him traveling round different places in the Northern part of the country. He decided this would facilitate his leaving Yola. The supposed boss who linked him up kept him working(training he called it) without paying him appreciably. He kept giving my friend high hopes that he would also be made a supervisor and the pay was good but on the condition that he be patient and continue receiving the stipends he was bin paid.
Note that @ this point he had sold his barbing salon and the contents therein. He had bin hoping the supervision job would 'click'.
2013 came and still he hadn't gotten it. January, February. March, April passed by n yet nothing tangible. So he decided he wud quit the job.

No but why not introduce ursef properly so we cud also welcome you properly?

His life became quite stable in 2007 but he lived by the rules of the streets. With No family members to caution him or give him advice, drinking n smoking n clubbing n partying were the order of the day. And of coz with that came the numerous friends, chics n what have you.

In 2009 when they had gone for one of their crazy nite-out parties, another misfortune befell him.
He had made quite some doe n had acquired a motorbike which was the order of the day for any young chap in the Northern part of Nigeria (until BokoHaram struck). He and some of his friends were coming back from their party(probably drink thoh he claimed that he wasn't). He was the rider while he had a passenger. There had been no on-coming vehicle and no physical obstruction. But all of a sudden he saw(or he felt he saw) someone standing in the middle of the road and in a bid to avoid hitting the person, he swerved and the bike skidded. The passenger was flung into a side lawn while somehow the bike(which had been speeding) continued dragging him by the hand in the middle of the road tearing his flesh from the shoulder all the way to the back of his palm(left hand). He also had some bruises on his leg. His friend was without any bruises. He was under the influence of alcohol and couldn't feel the pain much until morning. He actually still drove the bike and rode himself to the hospital for treatment. He was treated and survived.

lynpetra: Jbluv,abeg finish am na

Reincarnated: + bros, na why u dey create suspense? Finish the story

My apologies. Continuation below.........


The burial n burial rites had been completed but they were mandated to remain in the village for the mourning and 40days remembrance. During their stay the mother fell ill in September (and @ this point I couldn't but agree that there was smtn unusual with the whole scenario) and died in October.
People started asking questions and requesting answers. She had not bin sick lately. She never had an accident.
Some said she was too bereaved while others said maybe her time was up(in her late 40s).
I am the type that always usually has a logical explanation for almost every incidence but this was beyond any reasonable explanation for me.

Anyway, my friend came back to Yola as he couldn't bear it staying any longer in the village. His cousin sister, however, stayed behind in the village as there wud be no fatherly or motherly figure for her to look up to in Yola.

My friend and his folks had bin staying in a rented apartment and the landlord pitied the guy for just a month after which he was asked to vacate the apartment. He sold some stuff that they had. He wrote to NAMA about his father's pension and it was approved n paid. He rented a single room to reside in, rented a shop for a barbing salon and decided to go on with his life.......

fabulousdame: sorry reine...take care of urself

Where is my DAME?

Beync:
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Benyc na u be dis? . Na wetin you com dey look sef?

Beync: U 2.

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