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I laugh. Those guys don't regard themselves as igbo

tensazangetsu20:
Gbam op come and answer o

You don't get it too. How many ladies in so called white collar jobs earn even a mil per month. The Op and other males are beyond this level so you won't even get ladies earning higher than them. Just few positions affords ladies earning a mil and above in our national workspace presently and them no many

begoniaa:
JBriel abi what do you call yourself?

Na Mountain of Fire and Miracle Ministries go end your matter las las.

Gosh, I cannot imagine how you'll actually be in real life given your comments on here. So much pride and pompous air and condescension reeking from you! Miserly 350k, 500k... seriously, dude? You humbled all of them? Ewww. Why are you on a thread hoping to know how to snatch a quality woman? For all of your supposed attributes, why haven't you gotten a good woman? Ah, God... I don't even know what to say to you anymore.

Smiles. Marriage doesn't freak me. I can pay to have babies. Also, I don't have an intense sexual thirst. As for the wages, I never condescended anyone but spoke rather about the illtreatment the said person's dished our to ladies and guys around them.

That's why your kinds are avoided. You're not refined enough to have solid understanding on issues



Atleast four ladies hit on me within days. One stole my contact from a booking agency and has been chatting me up all day. Trust me. If you knew me in person, you would want to be in my company

tensazangetsu20:
Na wa o. So to find wife hard like this . Well I don't mind being single Sha for life and men are always mocking women for being single.

I finally find a joint after years of digging sha. I'm exploring some finesse..So I'm sharpening my ring. I'm ready to spend on the one I'm chasing now. I go update una.

tensazangetsu20:
Lol it's not easy. A lady working at a multinational in Lagos that lives on the mainland would wake up by 5 to go to work she would be home by 9pm where you wan see am. Most weekends she's resting lol. Except you work near her or in proximity I cant see how you can meet such ladies. The most girls you would see on the street in the daytime are mostly unemployed or hustlers doing some small scale business. Outside Lagos where theres no jobs or good companies to work for i don't see how possible it is to meet such ladies o hmmm. If in Lagos, the chances are like 1 percent. Outside Lagos na like 0.0001 percent . Maybe op should try getting a job in a multinational for the next six months so he can work in close proximity to such ladies or as someone suggested go back to school and meet them there.

I have about seven of such ladies. What caused our war. They wanted to form " more intellectual/superior/money " along the line.

They indeed resume for work 5am and do not get home till 8pm. Saturday rest. Sunday church and run back home

Their " cons " They think they've seen it all with their misery 500k per month job. They haven't learnt being at the top and being truly refined to the inner core fully. I've dated a few. I had multiples throwing themselves at me when they finally noticed I hid my intellect level during our social gathering ( but I started to unveail complex intellectual prowess )


Trust me. They aren't the ones on the street. But then again, how do you meet such except God help you.
One thing this generation has forgotten is people with extremely high intellect are either working for like UN WORLD HEALTH ORGANIZATION UNICEF or have their own thing


God punish 5Mil per month job. I can't even take it.


I had one esecutive assistant in a telecom. Posh and all. When I see her forming too good on her misery 350k per month job. I always laugh. In their clique they're gods. Not knowing there's another dimension. I humbled all of them. All

tensazangetsu20:
Definitely op needs to come down on his expectations. The bad economy of Nigeria also affects women too. There's very few women at under 25 who have all that.

Na. It's not expectations. One can meet a good lady not wealthy or rich. But good. Even without a job, but good.


Anyways. I see good materials after work hours along Lekki epe express way sha. Bit the timing na die. How do you meet someone good in traffic. Society has been designed to be disjointed of late.


I see nothing wrong with the oP's standard

tensazangetsu20:
Definitely you are talking of an enterprise and not a 2 by 2 corner shop. There's a lot of startup founders and consulting business owners that have absolutely no problem dating and meeting and marrying quality women too.

Here lies the problem. To solve at times.am.engineering problem is so tasking one can be at it for months. I'm on a field now and my.year hasn't been funny


Problem solving takes months and even years. As of now, my partner has left his marriage/home two weeks strictly on field.


Office KPMG and the white collars and field practitioners are In different dimensions

tensazangetsu20:
This is the koko now especially in corporate Nigeria. Most working class ladies like working class with good careers o not salesgirl kind of job drop a guy working at KPMG or McKinsey and a millionaire trader at ladipo and aspanda. They will choose the KPMG guy over and over again before those guys at ladipo and aspanda. The KPMG guy has a very high potential of japa and once he can japa to a good country you know what he will be earning. Also getting into KPMG takes a lot intellectually which is something people take into consideration especially with how intelligent they might want their kids to be. It's not all about money nowadays especially with really quality women that have a lot going on for them. Even in other parts of the world it's the same. You can expect a lady working at Goldman Sachs in new york to frolick and marry a welder from an oil field in north Dakota. Even If the welder has money it will rarely happen.

You're as misinformed as them then. It takes more than average iQ to own an run am enterprise. Even bill gates admitted.not profiting from a billion dollars after investing in Nigeria


It's all about the stereotypes and nothing more. The average tech dude is leagues as good and many better than KPMG. It's not the inability to get into KPMG that's the deal, but the passion


I had a stammerer.buddy that got employed in an Oil firm. I was the one giving the hints, like this like that till he landed it. He looks at me.with god-like admiration knowing he doesn't come close. Are those the kind of guys that rank higher than the solopreneur?

Raalsalghul:
So this is how marriage dey shark una.

You've been hyperventilating up and down this thread like a random molecule.

Person wey know know go think say you win lotto.

Lol!

You've not stopped this your scientific innuendos. You want carry particle physics come here again. Damn I miss that thread that year from VEXT

Gerrard59:
A post by SeaTrade few days ago:




You people want SeaTrade to run courses at Lagos business school or Covenant School in a bid to find a marriageable woman yet he espouses views as the bold?

Also, SeaTrade aka Logobenz has a history of criticising women, bodyshaming and age-shaming them on this forum. Is that the kind of man y'all think an Igbo lady working in Dangote or Seplat or PwC or UBA will gladly marry? Big fat no! The Igbo ladies I know who work in such firms will rather remain single till they die than marry someone with such a mentality. If Nigeria tire them, they apply for MBA or MSc programs and japa. UK, Canada, US, Australia, Ireland, Germany, Norway etc dey available for women to japa to. If SeaTrade marries such a woman, I will bet on this account that they'd divorce within the first two years. If they don't, I'll deactivate this account.

Dude, you cannot give what you don't have. You can't aspire to marry ladies from CU or Babcock who work in reputable firms when you believe every woman out there is doing hook-up or Ndi feminism. You need to choose a struggle.

In summary, your wife is somewhere in IMSU or Federal Polytechnic Oko.

You watch too much Nollywood movies. I believe the guy talked civil enough about his needs and didn't denegrate anyone here

Your karma doctrine has nothing to do with his relationship life. Have you not seen virgin women even into 30s. Who did they offend to remain single well into 30s

Abeg brother. Brother abeg

Too much anime manga is what caused this

Cc Thanksful hypocritical being. Even the one who sent the message is admitting guilt. Hope you're seeing

skywalker240:
Okowa is just a Governor figure head in Delta, aside that, come February he won't even deliver ika south or even north not to even talk about anioma or even the whole Delta State

Preach

kayperry:
like i said it is a story for another day

@observation the church is really for liberal minds and they have a fair share of sophisticate ladies with good careers, i won't leave without a tip *em*n*** geng

My cream babe was from there. Ah. Some ladies are destined to not enjoy shaa If only she complied Make I code her identity abeg

kayperry:
3yrs ago my best friend came to me sounding just like you after he got tired ..lol

and he suggested we start worshipping at house on the rock every sundays weytin our eye see naa story for another day

However i think places you visit is the determinant here, base on circumstances and fact that you can't see them(desired ladies) every time ... you have to creat a connection at any chance you get then go back to living your life in a way she will detect you carry substance even without saying it,

bro when women see substance or prospect in you dem go take you serious

I'm interested in your observations at the church you mentioned. Spill bro


How I wished. Four ladies have made advances at me within some days. One copied my number off a booking register and is chatting me up as we speak... It's fun to be chased.. Chai. Value sha..

Entprys:
Can a millitary man slap a senior Chief Imam in the north and still walk away ? Prophet Chukwuemeka Ohanaemere is a SENIOR Pastor with a large ministry, yet an unbeliever slapped him today before multitude of church members and nothing happened.
Christainity ?
I no do again
,
I don dey tire

Have you been in front of a gun before?

begoniaa:
But if any one you know better, you should ignore my ass and jump and pass my comments o. Ehen.

I have talked now.

I am here on my terms and will leave on it as well. Teinz.

I feel nothing but pity for your kinds and whatever comes out of you. What a stupid being

Thanksful:
He tried pushing his way through those guys. His presence there alone can cause uprising as an influencer.

Jesus. You humans are unbelievable. May God forgive you

Thanksful:
He shouldn't have tried preventing the demolition by any means. It's an afront on the government.

Go and watch the video again. He didn't obstruct. Demolition comes with pain. Let's be humane

BadBradley:
so who's your performing governor? Ibori? The internationally documented bigoted thief?

None. No one across all parties in Delta is qualified by my standards if you must hear.

220-240k

Evolutionlove:
Who argues that Most Nigerians doesn't read lol. So tell me how someone without a Job or any source of Income would be able to afford Money for House on Rentals. It's like your brvin Is paining you..

Sorry?

Laying a hand on him to humiliate him is totally wrong.

BadBradley:
Urhobo miscreant.

How far? Oh men Warri done turn village oh.

No development, oye companies just dey run out any how

That's not the point. Stop being sentimental and petty. If there's under development in your area, who else to hold accountable than your governor. And when that same mediocre governor wants to bestow an appointee, and there's under development, are you not supposed to be celebrating the end of mediocrity my dear elder Sir ?

Two southern christians you mean. Fulani Republic

Same thing will happen to Okowa. We will teach him who his elders are

dragunov:
Buhari deserves to spend the rest of his days in that prison where they keep despots and war criminals. Everything happening in Nigeria is according to plan and he is 100% complicit. He had deceived even his party people and close associates in the South. His administration has been about Fulani supremacist agenda and he has been carrying it out to the letter.

Una hear word 2014? SW dey hear word?

Chai. When government mark you

Markshevy:
I understand your point,some of the rejections are some time out of the lady's confusion or the lady feeling you are too high class for her to blend in.

Hahaha. A lady felt this way with me, about me being too high class for her inspite of her high pay Mobil job and .. I felt for her. Some of them kinda feel that way sha. But we also worked on our selves for years to extremely highly refined standard too na.

topsquino:
I've read all the comments on this issue.

Many guys who know their value and worth want these types of women.

I'm glad you guys know your worth

And that's why I've taken the time out of no time to post this (it's more than 2 years since I posted).

So back to the topic

Three years ago, my friends and I were in the same conundrum.

All of them are freelancers. Some are graphic designers, while others are developers, programmers, writers, etc.

The common denominator among all of us is that we are above 30 and earning six figures (more than $3000) monthly.

But the main challenge was finding these types of women you described.

My friends leveraged dating apps and social media, yet their effort was futile.

These girls are not attracted to your money (Of course, they want their boyfriends/spouse to have deep pockets).

They are attracted to guys that are tall, popular, looking good with great physique, smelling nice, working in great companies, highly linked to wealthy/rich families etc.

In sum, they want to date a guy that they will use to shame their girlfriends. Lol.

Some of my friends ticked these boxes, but you will be surprised that these girls are not ready to give them a chance because they are freelancers and not doctors, bankers, or individuals working in CBN or multinational companies.

So, what did they do to get what they want?

Seatrade, this is the solution you need.

They proceeded to private universities for their master's degree.

This might sound crazy. But this is the price to pay for you want. But it is still cheaper compared to travelling abroad or changing your areas

Funny enough, all of them don't need the degree.

But they did it. This strategy gave them accessibility and opportunities to meet many of these young, clean women from good homes.

However, some of my friends did not find success with this strategy after wasting about 1.5 million and 1.5 years in the university studying a course they don't need

What did they do wrong?

1. Looking for girls that they like
2. Not participating in social events
3. Putting their eggs in one basket. Some focused on one girl, and they got their heartbroken
4. Revealing too much about themselves. Don't tell them you are a trader or a hustler at the beginning. Let me not teach you bad things. You know what to do.

If you go with this strategy, make sure you attend church/mosque programs. Join as many groups as you can.

Try to create time and mingle with girls.

The more you mingle with girls, the more you know their friends and have a better chance.

Get a great perfume. Not all those cheap ones. Get something above 40k. Look good.

Talk less so that they won't see through you.

Most importantly, look for the ones that like you. Those are the ones that will spend on you and be willing to marry you.
Most of them are from good backgrounds, so don't be too picky, lest you get a great dose of heartbreak.

I wish you guys the best oooo

What you guys are looking for is GOLD.

And if you want to find GOLD in the mines, you need to sharpen your tools and go to where you are likely to find the GOLD. If you are in Lagos and the gold is in Ibadan, you need to leave your comfort zone and do what you have to do.

You also need to get your personal protective equipment and a lot of shock absorber to protect you from any form of heartbreak hazards . These girls you are looking for are hypergamous and very brutal. But if you they love you ehn, the feeling is BLISS. Most importantly, you need LUCK to achieve your goal .

I wish you luck my friends......

K.O

Markshevy:
Most guys dropping points here and way forward here seem to be like minds and I am one of the persons who have such ideas in the head.what op annalized here is normally what it is and I don't want to settle for less,haba.Some times what you seek for may decline your approach and you keep wandering why the decline and what are they actually seeking for and they can't give you an answer.i think most of our ladies patronise mostly online relationship therapist and gulp alot of confusion into their head and at the end to think you are not their option and when you look deep you will find out that you are actually doing better than they thought.keep hope alive and we will surely get what you deserve.

It's not about rejection. Trust me, there are guys ladies can't reject. It's total inaccessibility and unavailability that's the concern