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praemaise:
Ogun, Bayelsa & Enugu.

Okay... Dem help you change the Ogun to Oyo.
I actually chose Delta, Enugu & Oyo

Kookny:
Amigos, Ufemia23, you've been added to the WhatsApp group

08062725785

Kookny:
I've already created a WhatsApp group and it's balling with peeps from facebook, twitter and all.

Drop ya digits with a mention of my moniker and get added

How can I join the whatsapp group? Stream I

chuckingTHINGS:
lasgidi noni, third choice



can we have a whatsapp group



my number @ 07035199394


details from senior colleagues is welcomed

Is there any whatsapp group yet? And if there is, how can I join the group. Plz somebody should respond asap. Tanx

candycrush:
‪+2347038947777‬ that's Temmy's number, the group admin. Tell him to add u up please!

Kk, ese...

OgidiOlu3:
Calm down lady. The guy was just joking. You don't have to take everything seriously.

@Op, I'm currently serving in Ibadan(A15). Iseyin is a great camp I must confess. I was at Ajimobi hall. Chai, that hall na barracks o. It accomodates about 700 people, the noise in that hall will annoy you initially but you'll get used to it cause it's the most lively hostel there.
1. PLEASE, GO WITH A LOT OF MONEY. VERY IMPORTANT. If you dont go to camp with a single item, you can get anything you want at Maami market.
2. This is also very important. Before leaving camp, you can try to get mingle with camp officials for favourable ppa placement. Some corpers will be posted to Ibadan if they join some particular group in camp. There are some camp officials you can pay some little money for placement. If you decide to work your placement after you've received your posting letter, the price will skyrocket o. And you can also choose the option of not working your ppa and letting fate run its course .
3. For the guys. Be wise in your spending. It's not a sin to spend on ladies but be very wise in doing so. Most of the ladies in camp are engaged but they'll date you in camp just to enjoy camp and they'll dump your sorry azz when you leave camp especially when you two aren't posted to the same local govt. This happened a lot. Try to mingle well in camp. Make a lot of friends(both guys and girls). After camp, you'll meet a lot of girls in your local govt during cds.
4. To get to Iseyin Camp. When you get to Ibadan, take a bike or cab to Sango, you'll get Iseyin vehicle there. It loads faster at Sango.

Tanx man, you just spoke like a graduate trained both in morals and academics... @bold, my major concern and you've resolved it. Thumbs up

Mearicute:
Oyo state... stream 2. holla if u'll b travelling 4rm Lagos.

From Ph to Lagos... Lagos to Iseyin

candycrush:
Don't mind at all
@kourtneyify
Join the whatsapp group too
Too much fun

I fear for my ba3... Whatsapp group tinz not really my tin; anyway, how can I join?

joeyswagg:
Oyo steam 1...pls am coming from abj... Can I liv abj on 27... Where can I spend d Nyt... Know no1 in oyo

Go straight to camp, you'll find a place...

praemaise:
Thanks bros.
I just dey wonder why dem no give me any of my choiced states. Anyway, it's close to home.

Thanks again

What were the states you chose?

candycrush:
Nah only me dey oyo stream 2 here?

got ur twitter handle... Do you mind?
Fellow compatriot, oyo state stream II

praemaise:
Good morning friends. Oyo is my case too.

Question: Abeg 25th November na for Stream I or Stream II?

Thanks Cheers.

Stream II

evadreams:
please o, how do I get to iseyin from delta?? I nor wan lost on Wednesday .

Use google map...lol
Alight at Ibadan and seek direction to new NYSC camp @ iseyin

Modify:
To get to Iseyin Camp. When you get to
Ibadan, take a bike or cab to Sango, you'll get
Iseyin vehicle there. It loads faster at Sango

Courtesy: just scroll down

preciousMI1:
I was oyo state last year...
OLUBADAN GIRLS HOSTEL
PASTOR ALAO BOYS HOSTEL
ALAAFIN GIRLS HOSTEL
AJIMOBI BOYS HOSTEL

Y'ALL WILL ENJOY IT. ITS A NEW SITE. GOOD PAVILION AND LARGE FIELD... MAAMI SMOKING HOT....

safe trip to iseyin....
n/b be financially fortified...

Really? Wow! Read for now it's the best in the country after Gov. Ajimobi inaugurated the new permanent nysc camp.
Please give me direction to the camp for somebody travelling from lagos.

OYO state, Stream II

Bimbomartins:
My fellow PCMs , since 2oth have practically made Nysc portal my alarm clock, checking and rechecked for the option of printing and the posting, am surprised even until 2ist al my contacts have complained same. The question is why the delay after spending 3o45,69k(I stand corrected ) for the e-alert am stil awaiting the callup like analogue?
Share ur experiences and if u posted abeg share let's get to knw HW to meet up and make d best of the orientation weeks amidts nairalanders!!!!!!

Be calm and stop behaving as if your destiny depends on it. NYSC or NYSC life goes on... Get yourself busy.
BTW do you have a written plan for that 1 year period? If you don't, it's not too late to put pen on paper, shalom.

prettythicksme:
Hey,dat is i rolls with my guy!! d distance is so much,konji will hold him one day u knw

I hope he's a "toy" and not a prospective hubby else be prepared to reap what you sow.
I wish you well

Whizzcute:
Do you think this guy's decision is Right or Wrong ??

Relationship has now become like clothes we put on and take off whenever and however we like.
Only what a man values is what he's going to appreciate. He's finally got the perfect excuse he's been waiting for to get rid of a "liability" in his life.
The integrity of a Man is measured by his conduct. Integrity is the custodian of dignity. You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce. Ladies, know your worth!

prettythicksme:
Distance relationship rock i am used to it&i will never cheat on my boo even tho i do giv him go ahead to fuvk !!!It's a matter of understanding&trust!

I just couldn't turn a blind eye @bold. It makes me kinda wonder the value you've placed on yourself - giving a guy licence to cheat, gosh!
Your future will require more than your present requires.

StephanieEzeh:
Majority of guys are very immature and unacceptable societal-wise by their attitude and appearance!

*Dirty boxers: Some guys wear boxers for weeks without changing them! Dirty pikin and u won toast babe. White boxers go turn to carton colour

*White singlet turns brown: I still wonder how some guys wear white singlet till it turns brown! Some guys' singlets have even turned to buba with a wide space under the arms. The skinny ones will look like hangers inside the singlet! abeg upgrade joor!!!

*Keeping bushy hairs: This is seriously a turn-off! Does it mean you can't afford 200 naira to cut your hair? Are you practicing madness? Some barbers even charge 150 naira! Guy, abeg go cut your hair make you look like human being.

*Wearing skinny Jeans: I don't mind seeing small boys do this but not when you have come of age. Do you know how you look? Over 30 and you still wear jeans that make you look like vulture that has been beaten by rain!

*Sagging: Exposing your cheap boxers that you bought from gbogbo at the rate of 150 naira! Continue to misbehave, there is a prize for you

*Wanting to sleep with a lady on a first date: This is the most annoying and dumbest! You just meet a girl and you want to sleep with her? Because of the 1000 naira you spent on refreshment? Well, only girls without class fall for that. One day, your uncontrollable appetite for sex will land you in Kirikiri Maximum Security!!! Akpa!

*Taking drugs and alcohol to make love: So you can really do this? You plan to destroy someone's daughter? I never knew you could be so serious to apply a lot of strength and energy with adequate planning for this ac! Yet, you have not been able to plan your life or think of putting in so much energy in your work or career! Nonsense!

The rate at which most guys post degrading stuffs about ladies is very high yet they don't critically evaluate their own lives! Adumadu body!

Learn the lesson and overlook the details. It doesn't really matter the intonation but in all she's said the absolute truth - most of us use the exterior to cover our dirty behind. That you're a male Homo sapien is no excuse to be unclean. Must the dirt on your clothes start staring at you before you do your laundry? - wearing briefs for 1 whole week, gush! It's preposterous.
And @op, every man in his capacity is a potential husband to somebody. Show some respect. We except our women to be more cultured than our men. It's as if you're taking it too personal. I support feminism but tread with a bit caution. tanx

Esthersblog:
I am five years into the marriage and no issue. I am also regretting now because, if I had tested the waters before making this lifetime decision, I would have been able to avoid this.I tell those who wants to listen to make sure they try it even if it’s just once and then they can close their cookie jars afterwards. I know it is wrong but Sex is very very important in marriage. God who invented it knows the reason why he made it so.

Now, I feel like cheating on my husband. I have my sexual desires, I need to feel like a woman but I do not get any of that from my husband. I do not know what to do at this moment. I am a true Christian and a married woman who is lost in her marriage.

What do I do?

Your honest opinion counts…


www.esther.com.ng

The last time I checked God does not give out TRASH. Except you sent yourself there (into the marriage) but if God truly gave His consent then it because He knows you can handle it. So instead of complaining and speaking heresy why not seek God's help since you claim you are a TRUE Christian.
When Men value the gift (sex) more than the Giver...

This may interest the rest of us that are still single...https://www.nairaland.com/2568628/find-wife-quit-selecting

LookmanTalk:
I had a very interesting discussion with a female friend and she told me that she is in a dilemma on whether to marry a certain brother.. these are her reasons

1= He is ready to marry her although well behaved but she is not attracted to him physically and is not sure if she will ever see pass this... she said she will not be proud or comfortable showing him off as her partner

2= she only feels she likes him because he has the fear of God, has future prospects but she will rather keep him as her friend

She does not need him for any form of financial security but says she is confused and needs advise especially from married people, she does not want to go through any marital breakup

Open to all, please advise

Tell the gentleman the truth and ask him to give you time if necessary to "separate yourself". "The Spirit Himself bears witness with our own spirit..." - Rom. 8:16. God is not an author of confusion. Most of the time God's best for us may not appear/come in the package we deem expect it; and at the same time sometimes we recognise it immediately see it. Go back to your Source period!

Sirsoftness:
Things your man should never make you do – You might think that you love your man so much, you’d do absolutely anything for him, but then again, there are also some things a man simply should never ask a woman to do for him.
Being in a relationship doesn’t mean that you have to give up the right to be an individual, with a mind of your own, so find out where the line has to be drawn and read these ten things no man should ever ask a girl to do:

You train your bf/gf how to treat you by the way you treat yourself. You command respect without demanding it when you have regards for self-respect. The way people see diamond is not the same way they see pebbles even though they look at them with the same very eyes.
Now this is my rule of thumb and I wish we all would imbibe it: I will treat every woman/man the way and manner I'd want my daughters/sons to be treated.

Riwo11:
Meeting new women is always a challenge. Crowded bars and parties may seem like great spots, but not only do you have to compete with a lot of guys in these places, but you also have to deal with the fact that many women do not like meeting men at bars and have a natural resistance to men who approach them in these settings.
In fact, many women see men who are on the prowl at bars and parties as guys who only want one-night stands. The key to meeting new women is to approach them in places where they can get a sense of your personality and see that not only do you have interests, but you also share some of theirs. Here are 5 of the best places to meet quality women.


1. Health Classes....
Women like guys who take care of themselves and stay in shape. Fitness classes are not just for women, so to meet women who also take care of their bodies and minds, think about taking a fitness class like yoga, kickboxing or CrossFit. This is in a closed environment, and since everyone is doing exactly the same workout, it makes it a lot more comfortable to socialize. Women tend to regularly attend the same classes each week, so this is a natural opportunity to get to know them over time with no pressure.


2. Special Interest Classes....
Single women try to keep themselves busy, and the ones who are always learning and growing are very good to be with. You may want to consider taking special interest classes like dance instruction, foreign languages, cooking, art, massage therapy or Pilates. You may find that special someone in classes like these.


3. Libraries and Book Stores....
There is always the possibility of meeting a single woman between the bookcases. Libraries and bookstores are some of the hottest places to meet single women. Places like Barnes & Nobles have places to sit down and read, and you might be able to get into good conversations with some smart and attractive women.


4. Church...
Many churches have weekly or monthly activities outside of their regular program for singles to become involved in. People in places of worship probably have more activities lined up than you could ever imagine. Consider this a gold mine in meeting single women with good values.


5. Art Galleries...
You will find women at places like art galleries to be better educated, have class and confidence. If you do not know about the artists or a particular piece, act with confidence, find a woman who is familiar with the exhibit and ask her to explain it to you.


Source: http://www.riseup247.com/2015/05/best-places-to-meet-women.html

The Place is important but not as important as the quality of the Person (both the finder and the waiting-to-be-found). The best secret to finding/attracting the right person is by becoming the right person.

Juliaann:
10. Love is blind
You don’t see anyone else as a potential
partner, and you’re not interested in building
any kind of connection with another. No one
comes close to the amazing person you
have. Physical attraction may pop in and
surprise you, but the desire for intimacy or
emotional connection doesn’t develop.
Knowing when you are right where you
should be can be difficult in the midst of it.
Hindsight may be 20/20, and if you’re the
type that doesn’t know what you’ve got until
it’s gone, keep your eyes open and see what
blessings you have in your love. Let this list
encourage you to keep going and keep the
faith when the road gets rough and blue
skies go gray. You can build a beautiful
home for yourself and your family when you
appreciate everything and everyone in it.


Tested and trusted by Juliaann

The context contradict the outline... Couldn't agree less with the context but the outline is misleading - love is not blind. Blindness can make you ignore the warning signals (as in red flags); you must shine your eyes like an eagle and shield your heart like a Samurai. Truth is if you think love is blind, marriage will open your eyes.

shokky24:
When ur heart is broken into pieces

I hear u

misspicy:
I can relate to some points OP stated,to me been heartbroken is when a person breaks the trust surrounding us not only by cheating buh by every other way trust can be broken eg,not fighting enough to be together in whatever circumstances.





I AM HEARTBROKEN

Eyah! So sowie about that but don't let it keep you longer than necessary... Someone needs you to be healed.

mayreeh215:
Somebody that is heart broken cannot even read this kind of long thread

Lol... The hospital is not far for the sick that wants adequate treatment for total restoration. Sometimes if you don't get some things in pleasure, you will try to get them by pressure.

It has been erased...sorry

Cutehector:
Op if u aren't married and u"v had sex den ur a hypocrite

the message is far much more important than the messenger...

It has been erased...sorry

Ibiyomee:
Good quote
This is just to catch fun not that we all can do it. Where on earth will they ask for slap just to get $1 not to talk of 1million dollar?

Tanx, pardon me jaare for bin too serious... Uno I don't take physical abuse lightly - everyone deserves to be treated like royalties