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Religion / Proofing GRACE Scientifically by jearile(m): 12:58am On Feb 03, 2017
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Religion / Rapist Mentality by jearile(m): 11:16pm On Feb 02, 2017
In case you missed it... Here you have it again, hot and fresh.

#UntoHimThatIsPureAllThingsArePure
#UnravelingTheMysteryOfPrayer

I strongly have this believe in my spirit that somebody needs what I'm about to unveil. I've been indecisive for awhile about posting it; I hope you'd get a turn on for a change of attitude and when you do, I bet it would affect your altitude immensely - I cross my heart.

Had the privilege to teach a Sunday school class, a youth class in RCCG to be precise. Well, for the purpose of sharpening our spiritual gifts as youths, the concept is: anyone available is useable as the Spirit leads. And as heaven may have with earth's cooperation, the baton was passed and I took it honorably. I was to teach on ALL PRAYERS in Lesson 22 from the manual.

After about 3 hours reasoning with God, drilling my mind and spirit on the subject of prayer; suddenly, "rain" began to pour...

***Prayer is a spiritual intercourse***

At this juncture, the last thing I wanted to do was to put a period to it because I felt there should be more as an addendum but somehow I was lost for words. Little did I know that 'deep calls unto deep.'

'Through desire a man, having separated himself seeks and intermeddles with all wisdom.'

I was thirsty and hungry because every privilege to teach is an avenue to learn and build yourself, so I don't take it lightly. You teach to impact what you have not just what you know. I believe 'the husbandman that labours must be first partaker of the fruits.'
The heaven opened and it was overwhelming when I found this truth.

In the process of acquiring knowledge, I've learnt some things that I'm not in a hurry to experience yet by choice and I thank God for His grace. Be that as it may, don't raise your eyebrows or become psychedelic to what is being said - may the Lord give us understanding.

Sexologist will tell you that sex doesn't begin from the bedroom. Those who set the atmosphere for lovemaking beforehand, get a better reception most often than the under skilled.

You want to take your time before the main action after all, you're not trespassing - you've every right as companions. You try to prepare the place with pre-intimacy before you step into the 'holy of holies.'

Let me pause here...

One of God's Generals in this dispensation, said he took 3 years to study prophet Elijah because he's a man of prayer. No wonder when Pastor E. A. Adeboye prays, he's never in a hurry - 'greater than the greatest, bigger than the biggest...'

Prayer is not a religious exercise or routine; so, do not do it haphazardly. How'd you feel if your spouse is making love to you and he's thinking about somebody else or calling the name of somebody else?

First, his heart is prepared; he knows why he's praying and what he's praying about.

To avoid fiction during sex, you try to make the place to be wet.
That's the kind of atmosphere we set when we begin to eulogise God - thank Him, praise Him, and worship the beauty of His holiness. There's no 'buying and selling' taking place in his mind. That's how you set the atmosphere of prayer. This is called Spiritual pre-intimacy.

There are different types of coital techniques. You use them appropriately as occasion demands. That's like using relevant scriptures, the name of Jesus Christ, the blood of Jesus, the ministry of Angels, etc as the case may be.

Depending on your stamina, you go (do) more rounds. Now, as the Spirit leads, it's possible to pray effectively for less than an hour, an hour, 2 hours, etc. It's not how long but how well.

A skilled lover pays attention during intercourse; you watch out for any sign from your partner.
So, watch and pray. Don't just do the talking; that's why it is called communication. He may want you to pray longer or shorter than you did the last time. Always be in alignment with the Spirit and be conscious of Him than yourself. Being sensitive in the spirit in this case can be liken to your ability to feel the pulse of your partner during lovemaking.

Some people lack the urge for sex and some can't last long, so they employ the use of some stimulants (pills/herbs).
In case prayer is not yet very exciting to you or you struggle to pray effectively; you may need to go for the baptism of the Holy Ghost and get more knowledge of the Word.
Praying in the Holy Ghost is the most recommended aphrodisiac - 'Likewise the Spirit also helps our weakness; for we know not how we should pray as we ought...' The Holy Spirit gives us utterance that edifies and energizes our faith - strength and zeal to go all the way. 'But ye, beloved, building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost.'

Meanwhile, you don't rush out of the bed after lovemaking. A skilled lover will still leave room for communication.
Don't say the benediction after praying and you just "quench the Spirit" there and then. Maintain the flow of His presence as you step out - stay connected.

Now, there's always room for growth. Sex becomes boring when you close the room for improvement.
Your prayer life shouldn't remain in the same level after some time, you ought to grow and increase your strength - 'pray without ceasing.' You should get to a point where praying for at least an hour is a lifestyle, aside corporate meetings.

There's something sexologist call 'spontaneous sex.' A skilled lover ignites, not ignore the chances of doing the thing when it's calling - sensible quickie.
Don't be too pious about praying anywhere and anytime. It need not be put in a box. We ought to live as though God is constantly paying attention to what you have to say, because He surely is. You can pray silently when you need to. For example, while sitting in a business meeting or during a test/exam. It is not about the posture you take but the position of your heart is all that matters most provided you apply wisdom - 'wisdom is profitable to direct.' So, keep the line of prayer open with no holds barred whether it's outside your comfort zone or not.

And then when I thought that was the end, I received a bombshell: Some of us pray with RAPIST MENTALITY - release and run.

We jump in and jump out with reckless abandon in a hurry to "do and go" just to satisfy our urge (religion) and to fulfil all righteousness. No deep intimacy - 'enter into His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise.' The approach to prayer is as though he (she) is a stranger trying to take advantage of another stranger.

Have you noticed that the more couples make love with each other, the more they bond and tend to look alike even facially?
So, the more you spend time to pray consistently and effectively, the more of God's fullness you'll manifest - 'But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory, even as by the Spirit of the Lord.'

Sex is one of the best antidotes for solving any misunderstanding between couples. It removes the disconnection at once.
So, prayer connects us back to God no matter how weighty your sins might be. Don't shy away from your fellowship with God because the devil is trying to make you feel unworthy to do so - '...But where sin abounded, grace did much more abound.'
Go with meekness; repent, receive His mercy and be forgiven.
Your righteousness in Christ doesn't depreciate or appreciate. It's who we are in Christ by grace through faith. He's not planning to forgive you because He's already forgiven you. Help yourself by not being too sin conscious rather be righteousness conscious and sin shall not have dominion over you, selah.

Sex is what consummate any marriage.
Prayer is what consummates the relationship between God and man. It's the entrance to establishing fellowship with God.
In case you are a sinner and you are in need of this relationship, it's very simple: you must believe in your heart and confess Christ with your mouth as your Lord and Saviour. This Father-and-son or Father-and-daughter relationship is sealed as you humble yourself before God and accept the gift of righteousness in Christ as the power of the Holy Spirit is released to you - 'But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name.'

God seeks true worshippers that will fellowship with Him in spirit and in truth.

And all He's asking from you is to have a daily INTERCOURSE with you and not a delayed INTER-CALL from you only when there's an emergency.

God bless you and I.

Sir JERRY[dot]COM
© Copyright 2017 (Re-edited 2018)
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Updated-New Job Vacancies by jearile(m): 10:10am On Jan 28, 2017
Stevostical:

No interview bro, just a test. The test wasn't funny though, for ICT students.
Okay... May your desires be granted. Thanks.
BTW do you have any idea of the size of the allowance attached to the package?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Updated-New Job Vacancies by jearile(m): 6:36pm On Jan 27, 2017
Stevostical:

Are you also having interview with them today?
Hope the interview went well? How's it? Please share your experience....thanks
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Updated-New Job Vacancies by jearile(m): 8:59am On Jan 26, 2017
abdrazak:

Explain the bolded part please
When you arrive at CMS, ask question in regards to your destination before you board any of the buses en route to Ikoyi.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Updated-New Job Vacancies by jearile(m): 10:02pm On Jan 25, 2017
abdrazak:
You are shortlisted for an
assessment / interview in our office at Ikoyi( 14 Palm
Royal drive , off Osborne Estate , Phase 2 ) on Friday
27th January, 2017 by 10 am.


Please somebody assist....

I don't want to waste transport fare as I'll be coming from Ilorin.
It's actually a hotel address in Ikoyi... http://www.booking.com/hotel/ng/the-threearms.html

Use BRT to CMS...board any of the buses en route to Ikoyi but ask questions before you do.
Romance / Re: Nigerian Lady Gushes Over Her Trump-Like Oyinbo Hubby, As He Grabs Her Butt by jearile(m): 12:09pm On Jan 07, 2017
emmanuel596:
That girl would either be an igbo or edo lady...there's no atom of love for that man in her eyes she's just waiting for him to die so that she can pack his belongings
Grow up gee... Nepotism is one of the reasons why we are still where we are in this country.

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Religion / Re: Pastor Tom Samson & His Hummer Limousine Storm Abeokuta by jearile(m): 12:00pm On Jan 07, 2017
Nigerians are too judgmental... even those that aint bera wants to lash out. If "owning" a church makes you rich why aint all the pastors in Nigeria on Forbes list?
Romance / Jerry's Relationship Principles (JRP) by jearile(m): 11:11pm On Nov 01, 2016
Jerry's Relationship Principles

•••Season 1:

The journey to the Wonderland of true love begins with acquiring the true definition (concept) of true love. #JRP1

You cannot be a better lover unless you are a better lover to yourself. Love begins at home. What you don't have in you, you can't reproduce.
#JRP2

What you feel is not always what it seems. Love is smarter than your feelings - learn to use your brain else more pain, less/no gain. #JRP3

If all there's to it is just sex and money, it's no longer dating but trading. #JRP4

Don't present a fake version of yourself in order to be loved. If you can't be yourself then be your best but don't become somebody else. #JRP5

To whom it is not sane to trust at all, it's likewise not save to date at all. #JRP6

Don't be too good to being used by anyone. Your simplicity shouldn't be a leeway for you to be abused in any way. Gold is not cheap! #JRP7

Your relationship will only get better as you keep getting better than you were. It's you who needs change before anything else. Grow up and you'll grow old together. #JRP8

Don't date just for the fun of it OR the funds you'll get from it. If it has no bright future, just remove yourself from the picture. #JRP9

Proper communication leads to enduring true intimacy. It's a duet, not a solo. Master the art of listening. #JRP10

Character isn't just what makes the difference, it is the difference. Cultivate it! #JRP11

Don't be blind/silent to the things you should have seen/said before you say "I DO" or else you've to become officially blind after you say "I DO." #JRP12

If you're considering pre-marital sex, don't forget there's pre-marital cell too. Sexual captivity is real. #JRP13

How long is not always equal to how well. Imitation could lead to limitation. Wisdom is profitable to direct. #JRP14

Relationship is a risk. It doesn't leave you neutral. It either makes you better or bitter. Shine your eyes and guard your heart. #JRP15

If there's no secret, there'll be no scandal. The earlier the whole truth is told, the better it shall be. #JRP16

Your stand becomes the standard if you insist and persist. No one can make you feel inferior without getting your consent. #JRP17

Forgiveness is your gain, not your pain. A choice that's not a leeway for anyone to hurt you but stops you from hurting yourself. #JRP18

Don't remain a liability and then seek to attract an asset. The Law of compatibility cannot be ignored. #JRP19

The foundation will determine the fountain. It's safer to prepare FOR marriage than IN marriage. #JRP20


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•••Season 2:

The most proven formula for finding & keeping a marriage material is subject to the recipient being a quality material. #JRP21

The most precious gift you can present to your spouse is to remain faithful through thin and thick. Believe it and behave it! #JRP22

In the school of maturity, we don't fix the blame before fixing the problem. Avoid throwing tantrums apiece at the same time - grow up.
#JRP23

Wounds have to be healed, not ignored. You can only attain oasis when it's accepted and not denied. Hiding it won't make it go away
#JRP24

Love at first sight is not as realistic as love after first sight - information is the mother of transformation. #JRP25

Don't begin your ultimate search for the ONE if you're a deficit of "the ONE" because 1 * 0 = 0. What works is: 1 * 1 = 1. #JRP26

If they aint good for keep, don't use them for kiss & hit or else you will miss your matrimonial bliss with ease. #JRP27

If we must have a sweet sail, we can't have two captains in a ship. Don't insist on having it your way by all means even if you're right. #JRP28

Don't laugh at but laugh with your spouse. If you partake in his shame, you'll also partake in his fame. #JRP29

Spiritual compatibility is non-negotiable. Light and darkness cannot become one flesh. #JRP30

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•••Season 3:

Let your present be your priority and your future become your reality. Don't empower your past; it should be cremated, not embalmed. #JRP31

Insanity is when you're not a virgin but still you disqualify others because they're not virgins - who'll marry the ones you spoiled? #JRP32

Unless God is the determinant, all your equation of finding lasting true love will surely end up with complex root. #JRP33

It would take only the Great Physician to fix your heart perfectly, not the company of other heartbroken fellas like you. #JRP34

Sadomasochism for sexual gratification is ungodly - love is GENTLE. It may give you the satisfaction of a heavenly feeling but will surely deny you heavenly blessings. #JRP35

If you pray against having a mother in-law, be rest assured soon somebody else will repeat the same prayer against you. #JRP36

Real men don't keep baby mamas. Manhood is not the same thing as fatherhood. #JRP37

Administering your affections primarily and bountifully in your spouse's love language will always make the difference. #JRP38

Don't empty other love tanks (God, family, friends, etc) in desperate pursuit of marriage - keep it balance. #JRP39

Your presence is more important than your presents. The price of relationship is spending quality time. #JRP40

Paint the picture of the future together otherwise you may not feature in that future together - embrace true partnership. #JRP41

Wise men love their wives unconditionally and unreservedly while wise women submit everything totally and entirely to their husbands.
#JRP42

In case "Sister Mary" isn't like "Sister Rahab" in bed during playtime, Brother "bed expert" teach her and be tender-handed. Don't expect magic. #JRP43

Don't compare your spouse with your parents. Your husband cannot be exactly like your father neither your wife be like your mother. #JRP44

Long distant relationship will require active fellowship for constant companionship to exist.
#JRP45

A long relationship ceases to be a proof of a happy relationship the moment the spouses only tolerate without honouring each other. #JRP46

Every serious relationship is not a short-term but long-term investment. Always see, think, and plan beyond the now. #JRP47

Love is a commitment to a person and not a feeling. Commitment is not an option but an unction of love. #JRP48

2 rings: the visible one on the ring finger & the invisible one. The beauty of the visible is tied to the strength of the invisible. #JRP49

Don't lose your singleness (wholeness) irrespective of your status. The more you remain single, the less you feel lonely. #JRP50

The whole essence of living together is for staying together. Not just renting a house but also raising a home. #JRP51

I've been blessed and I hope you've also been impacted as well. I thank my master Mentor for the inspiration - for no man can do these things except the Father be with him.

Mind you, the aforementioned are not to be treated with levity or laxity; they are not some wishy-washy memes but truth that have every potency to bear good fruit if deployed.

Please feel free to mention your favourite(s). Constructive contributions and suggestions are welcomed.

Thanks.

(c) Copyright 2016
@jerryAbazu
Sir JERRYdotCOM
Romance / Acquired And Applied Knowledge: How Important Can They Be? by jearile(m): 12:58pm On Sep 13, 2016
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Disclaimer: I am neither a relationship expert nor a relationship counsellor. This is simply my own perspective from the scope. But, be that as it may, just for the record, Relationship Motivational is my niche.
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As a CDS group we discuss various subjects but I felt something was missing and it's been neglected which was as critical if not more critical than the other issues we bring on the table during our unit discussions.
On this fateful day, I was on the verge of rounding off what I was preparing to present on Relationship as an interactive session during our unit meeting as IBSE Education CDS group for the forthcoming LGA CDS meeting when no sooner than later, I was flooded with this thought...
To save ourselves from partaking in the miseries that accompanies "dating" foolishness, we must keep abreast of these terms: Acquired/Required Knowledge and Applied Knowledge. (It's very important we know this.)
Venturing into something as serious and delicate as relationship with a "clean slate" (no knowledge) or "miry clay slate" (false knowledge) can be very harmful which may eventually result to a permanent scar. It is easier to detect a lie when you are armed with truths.
In retrospect, many of our girls were coax with this fallacy: you have to sleep with me to prove you love me. So in order to validate their so-called love, they surrendered their pride and were butchered by these predators having fallen for their emotional bait. Hmm, what a pity! If only their Acquired Knowledge was already activated at that time, they would have been able to withdraw this vital information - love can never be linked to sex neither can sex be linked to love - from their subconscious mind and act on it with Applied Knowledge excellently without any iota of doubt or guilt then or now. This is just one amongst a bunch of gimmicks that prevailed if not still prevailing nowadays.
Now, what's the Spirit saying to us... Ignorance is your arch-enemy; the devil that bedevils you.
Whether married or unmarried single, it's time to ponder: what lie(s) have I been told or made to believe that has kept me or will keep me in hell (misery) in this relationship I am into?
If you think knowledge is expensive, try ignorance. I think it's another realm of pride if you can read but you don't read. Proven authors both far and near have documented their mistakes and findings in order to help us avoid the same bitter experiences they'd had but instead of taking advantage of this privileged opportunities, we would rather go for sympathy from people who only pretend to like you. Listen, what seem to you as a hard nut to crack had already been cracked over and over again as if it is nothing by someone else. Just be humble!
The mistake I made earlier was to think I'd got enough but still, even the little I knew (foundation level) worked for me in my past relationship - I said NO to "jackpots" my contemporaries if in my shoes would have taken advantage of without no hesitation.
I thank God for all my teachers - living, dead or yet to be born.
"Life will always INQUIRE if what is REQUIRED and what you have ACQUIRED is commensurable to get you what you DESIRE." ~Sir JERRYdotCOM

@jerryAbazu
Sir JERRYdotCOM

Happy Celebration!
Career / Pay Now, Play Later by jearile(m): 3:37pm On May 31, 2016
The will to succeed will remain impotent without the will to prepare. The quality of your preparation will definitely determine your experience. Growth is not achieved by accident rather we grow by purpose.
The future you cannot brag about will not be yours for grasps. Until you can see it, believe it, say it, act it; you are not qualified to have it. Your imagination is the source code of your manifestation - change the input and you'll successfully change the output. If you look at yourself the way you are, you only become worse but look at yourself the way you could be and you will become what you should be. Thus, your future will inherently require more than your present requires and your cooperation will decide the outcome.
Success has no favourites - your tribe, race, background, discipline, CGPA, etc, is not a disadvantage. The principles or laws that govern it will remain intact for all generation and will never be outdated - technology or civilization cannot default it. For what it made happen for ONE, it can as well make happen for ALL.
Life will never put in your hand what you deserve but what you purposefully demand for because no freedom is voluntarily given by the oppressor. Every invention has a human face; it is the brain child of somebody. Fellow Nigerians, when will the world benefit from your own brain child? You don't need to be great to start something but you'll have to start something to be great. Winning starts by beginning!
The pain of discipline is more preferable than the pain of regrets. In life, you are either solving problems or part of the problems in the society.
To fail to plan is to plan to fail. Pay now, play later or play now, pay later - make your choice.

Written by: SiR JERRYdotCOM
(C) Copyright 2015
Celebrities / Re: See What This Keke Napep Driver Wrote On His Keke (photo) by jearile(m): 10:12pm On Mar 04, 2016
MeloGist:
the keke was spotted on the road with a written words on it "Our Lord is immirimious" lol guys in the house is he trying to write 'Mysterious God' or what your say?

http://www.melogist.com/see-what-this-keke-napep-driver-wrote-on-his-keke/

cc; lalasticlala
The preacher who actually first opined the aforementioned complemented it with "don't bother searching for the meaning in the dictionary because you won't find it." He was trying to explain how unsearchable and broad God is beyond man's widest reach.

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Romance / Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by jearile(m): 1:40pm On Jan 16, 2016
First, I'd like to commend you for boldly stating the identity of the character and not incognito. A lot of us would not dare do such.
If not for a bit variation of age, I almost thought you were the one. It happens that I could relate personally to the same exact experience you shared. But I'm still struggling with this mixed feelings of whether it was real or it was just something that took place in a dream I had. The courage to confirm from the girl in question if sth of such happened btw us does not seem to be in existence yet.
Now to the question... Technically, going by the definition, it means you are not a virgin. But beyond that technicality and moving on to reality, you are still a virgin because you still lack the experience that comes with sexual intercourse. At 6 years old, you can barely remember anything in regards to the action(s) that took place. Your brain is still a clean slate (tabula rasa) because you have nothing to describe about it if you were asked unlike the rest who can testify whether it was painful or too painful or sweet as the case may be.
MhizTessy:
Now this is what happened to me. I'm not gonna say it happened to a friend like some used to. I am just curious and would appreciate meaningful comments.

When I was much younger, precisely 6years, I had this quickie with a neighbour. He was around that Age too, we just did for the fun of it, I don't realy know what led to it, I just saw that this boy and I had some kisses and sex, twice.
I grew older and I blamed myself for doing that trash then, there hasnt been much exposure as it is these days, I had been a bad girl for doing the 'mummy and daddy's game'.
This year, I will be 24 years. I have never had any sexual intercourse after the one I had 18 years ago though I have had some boyfriends But sex was out of it.
To the Best of my knowledge then, there was nothing like pain or blood. Now, I wonder, wasnt the hymen torn then? How come girls even below 6 years (who were taken advantage of) now have blood stains and experience pains?
This hymen, do they vary in flexibility?
I wonder if I have been deflowered back then?
Now I experience mighty pains if anything comes around the V area, as tiny as a finger.
I am just curious..

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Comments like 'who cares if you are a Virgin'
Who Virginity don help
Should please not be typed here.
I have been sincere enough to type this, I will respect Matured contributions.

Cc:Lalasticlal

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NYSC / Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B Oyo by jearile(m): 3:50pm On Jan 05, 2016
JJLUV:
My dear i stil rep alao oh,bt am repin ibarapa north lga ayete sha
Your LGA is a prayer project - jump n pass...lol
Don't mind me. It's not about the place but about the person. I wish you well aunty jjluv, ciao.
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B Oyo by jearile(m): 8:08am On Jan 05, 2016
JJLUV:
Happy new year oyo corpers hope we all enjoyed camp repin 'alao' #inmajoradamu's voice
Happy new year...
Camping is over, Alao hostel inmate. You should be rep'n the LGA of your PPA @ this time.

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Religion / Re: That Moment In Church When You Dance Like King David. by jearile(m): 9:01pm On Jan 03, 2016
Toks2008:
2 Samuel 6:14: And David was dancing before the LORD with all his might, and David was wearing a linen ephod.

I was in a church last Friday and i gladly danced GODWIN dance moves as well as etigi and it will surprise you how they all looked at me with one funny eyes.

Sometimes i imagine what it feels like to dance with all your might because as a good dancer and one who loves dancing so much,i can't remember anytime in the past where i have danced with all my might.

But the truth is that as Christians, we have allowed timidity of expression before GOD to rob us the privilege of teaching the world great dance steps.

I have been dancing sekem since 1997 and that was my favorite step during praise section that the pastor even wanted to learn that step from me but today if i do that same step, the members will tag me worldly.

Dancing according to Wikipedia is a performance art form consisting of purposefully selected sequences of human movement.

[size=13pt]I do not understand why we should stereotype certain dance steps as worldly and probably some as heavenly because to me, dance is dance and it may even come as a surprise that most of these dance steps these circular artistes give names have always been there from time memorial and many of these dance steps are actually the native dance steps of some people like the etigi dance which is a calabar dance as well as the makossa which is the dance of the duala people in Cameroun.[/size]


David danced with all his might and for such to happen he must have thrown all caution to the wind and must have invented many dance steps like azonto,etigi,galala,shoki,sekem and many more.

Judging from the description of the way king David danced, i can say without any fear of contradiction that im yet to see anyone in any christian gathering danced half the way he did and even more annoying is the way Christians move their body whenever they sing the song "when the spirit of the lord....i will dance like David danced".

My admonition to my fellow Christians is to emancipate ourselves from self imposed perpetual bondage of timidity,lets free ourselves and lets invent new dance steps from the church and not be imitators of dance steps that were re-enacted and renamed by the circular world.


Lets learn to dance at least half the way King David danced.
Two things are involved: Are you dancing to impress or express - only the heart can tell. God is less interested in your dance move than He's interested in a heart full of thanksgiving expressed through various forms of dance moves. There's a spirit behind that dance - the spirit of God or the spirit of the world. If God is not the one controlling you then definitely something else, known as the prince of this world is controlling you. He (God) only inhabits in the praises of His people.
In nutshell, that you are dancing in the church does not mean you are dancing in the Lord. But when you are dancing in the Lord, your heart controls your moves and your moves are controlled by your expertise (dancing abilities) - shoki, skelewu, azonto, etc. Any good you can offer and refuse to offer is sin - James 4:17; I believe dancing your "dancest", singing your "singest" and clapping your "clappest" is not left out.

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Religion / Re: That Moment In Church When You Dance Like King David. by jearile(m): 8:58pm On Jan 03, 2016
Toks2008:
2 Samuel 6:14: And David was dancing before the LORD with all his might, and David was wearing a linen ephod.

I was in a church last Friday and i gladly danced GODWIN dance moves as well as etigi and it will surprise you how they all looked at me with one funny eyes.

Sometimes i imagine what it feels like to dance with all your might because as a good dancer and one who loves dancing so much,i can't remember anytime in the past where i have danced with all my might.

But the truth is that as Christians, we have allowed timidity of expression before GOD to rob us the privilege of teaching the world great dance steps.

I have been dancing sekem since 1997 and that was my favorite step during praise section that the pastor even wanted to learn that step from me but today if i do that same step, the members will tag me worldly.

Dancing according to Wikipedia is a performance art form consisting of purposefully selected sequences of human movement.

[size=13pt]I do not understand why we should stereotype certain dance steps as worldly and probably some as heavenly because to me, dance is dance and it may even come as a surprise that most of these dance steps these circular artistes give names have always been there from time memorial and many of these dance steps are actually the native dance steps of some people like the etigi dance which is a calabar dance as well as the makossa which is the dance of the duala people in Cameroun.[/size]


David danced with all his might and for such to happen he must have thrown all caution to the wind and must have invented many dance steps like azonto,etigi,galala,shoki,sekem and many more.

Judging from the description of the way king David danced, i can say without any fear of contradiction that im yet to see anyone in any christian gathering danced half the way he did and even more annoying is the way Christians move their body whenever they sing the song "when the spirit of the lord....i will dance like David danced".

My admonition to my fellow Christians is to emancipate ourselves from self imposed perpetual bondage of timidity,lets free ourselves and lets invent new dance steps from the church and not be imitators of dance steps that were re-enacted and renamed by the circular world.


Lets learn to dance at least half the way King David danced.
Two things are involved: Are you dancing to impress or express - only the heart can tell. God is less interested in your dance move than He's interested in a heart of full of thanksgiving expressed through various forms of dance moves. There's a spirit behind that dance - the spirit of God or the spirit of the world. If God is not the one controlling you then definitely something else, known as the prince of this world is controlling you. He (God) only inhabits in the praises of His people.
In nutshell, that you are dancing in the church does not mean you are dancing in the Lord. But when you are dancing in the Lord, your heart controls your moves and your moves are controlled by your expertise (dancing abilities) - shoki, skelewu, azonto, etc. Any good you can offer and refuse to offer is sin - James 4:17; I believe dancing your "dancest", singing your "singest" and clapping your "clappest" is not left out.
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B Oyo by jearile(m): 1:40am On Jan 01, 2016
sugarcoatted:
Happy new year oyo kopas. Wishn u all a wonderful year.
Happy new year
Romance / Re: What's The Reason Some Guys Do This? by jearile(m): 11:24pm On Dec 29, 2015
Oliviaarims:
OK, now I'm getting really concerned. Why do a lot of guys find it very easy to just ask a girl to travel down to see them? It's weird. They may have just been talking casually for a couple of days or at best weeks and sb starts making a very funny demand. Like, why the heck should a girl actually travel to visit some random dude at her own peril?

And these dudes pop the question so easily like it's no big deal at all. A girl could be in Delta, for instance, and a guy with whom she has no real connection with will be asking her to come down to Abuja. Is it some sort of joke question or they really do believe that it will be done? If really the guy's interested in meeting up, he's supposed to know that he's in a better place to be the one making the effort and not the other way round.

Perhaps, some ppl do it . But there's always going to be exceptions to everything and I daresay it's a really minute percentage who does things like that, so why do they still ask?



Perception or Character... It's either they perceive you are like their previous victims or it is just in their nature to be irresponsible.
There are ample of boys and girls who think they are men and ladies but in reality what seems to be common sense is not common because they have lost every sense of the word DIGNITY.
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B Oyo by jearile(m): 8:00am On Nov 21, 2015
Sambest2:
For those in Lagos, and wish to go from Ojota park.

I made enquiry today and was told the following.
1) Sienna bus with carrying capacity of 7 passengers goes to Oyo daily
2) From Ojota to Oyo is #2,050
3) The driver will be willing to take us directly to camp if we are 7.
4) When I told him that we'll be going on Wednesday and as asked him how much it will cost, he said we should meet on Wednesday to discuss further.

My deduction is that he will be willing to take #2,300(or even less) per passenger directly to camp if we go in group of 7.

Those interested should declare their interest, I may have to drop my phone number, but we will all meet in Ojota.

Oyo kopas Stream 2

Sambest2
Emyben
Candycrush
Mykepackz
Bharkarh
Richiechris101
Geeluck1
Jearile
Praemaise
Mearicute
Abdul9tee
BecacieBarbie
Ulak
Ola15BODE
Debcykol
JJLUV
Fabik429
OmobaFabzzy92
JoyAA
Kennylistic
Boluwatifemi
Ladiesmirror
Victoroma77
Cherishgarbson10
Nasbil
Dayboh
I'm in... Keep a seat for me
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B Oyo by jearile(m): 8:44pm On Nov 19, 2015
mrjojo:
camp activities and events
U were part of OBS during ur stay, rit?
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B Oyo by jearile(m): 8:37pm On Nov 19, 2015
mrjojo:
just walk to the OBS office in camp, application begins immediately camp opens. OBS building is the first building by the left inside the camp
What are the responsibilities of OBS?
What are they suppose to be broadcasting?
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B Oyo by jearile(m): 10:09am On Nov 19, 2015
mrjojo:
/***
Worth while activities and things to do for good ppa posting (2)
Ok, let talk about OBS(orientation broadcasting service) if you can get to the camp early enough, try and join this group, apart from the early morning and evening parade freedom you'll enjoy, there 85% assurance you will get a good posting(good ppa or good location).There is always a lot of people trying to join this group hence, go very early..

Also, if you are a good football player, endeavour you get selected out of ur platoon team to the NYSC team(made of 22 players) of every batch. This is a sure banker on getting posted to ibadan, most of the players of stream 1 were posted to ministry of sport n other ministries..
March parade, selected number of people were chosen to march during the passing out ceremony.. If you make it to this group, there might be chance you will get a good posting too, 60% of the stream 1 parade unit got good postings.. note: this is very stressful, standing under the sun for hours, practising for hours and all. If you can't stand for long don't join..

**/
#reportin_live
#
Thanks.
You kept mentioning "early" but you didn't define it. How early is too early? Please try and be more specific. Kudos!
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B Oyo by jearile(m): 3:22pm On Nov 16, 2015
mrjojo:
Ppa posting out :: Ibadan North East....
#repoting_live_
#oyo_2015_stream 1
congratulations... Go and succeed
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B Oyo by jearile(m): 12:15am On Nov 13, 2015
mrjojo:
5 copies should do. Photocopying is quite expensive here, #20 per page
okay, tanx
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B Oyo by jearile(m): 9:16pm On Nov 12, 2015
mrjojo:
OYO CAMP REGISTRATION PROCESS (3)
- Registration proper
- step 1 - the first stage of registration, ie. First queue you are suppose to be is the payment of #100, you will be given the NYSC OYO state magazine publication. Hold ur 100# change handy here.

-step 2 - second queue/stage is the verification of statement of result and school id card. Photocopy of ur statement of result or certificate will be requested. U will also present ur school Id.it will be returned. Then, you will be given a "job list" with the first signature. The job list contains all registration flow and must be signed at each point.

- step 3 - third stage is the computer/bio metric verification. The queue here is always soooo much, so go very early or late.
Your biometric will be verified here and you will be given a print out which contains. "Your state code"and ur"platoon number". The job list will also be signed.

-step 4 - fourth stage is the collection of ur NYSC kit. The print out given in step 3 will include ur platoon no, locate ur platoon stand. The job list and the print out is required to get ur kit. You are entitle to a total of 9 items,which include
(2 white shirt),(2 white short), 1 crested shirt, (2 pair socks),1 kaki shirt and trouser,1 jungle boot, 1 white tennis shoe, and 1belt and cap.
Once you are given ur kit, U must ALWAYS be on white(shirt, short, socks, tennis shoe,and cap). The khaki is ur ceremonial wear.
A file will be given to you at this stage, the file will be returned with appropriate doc.
Doc include
- photocopy statement of result
- original callup letter
- original green card
- 2 passports
- photocopy of the step 3 printout
- the man'o war given doc at the parade pavilion.

plz suggest the no of photocopies one should make for each requirement during camp registration... tanx
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B Oyo by jearile(m): 9:54pm On Nov 04, 2015
Sambest2:


Where: Ojota (Considering that it's the major route.)
When: D-Day (25th November)
not bad at all...
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B Oyo by jearile(m): 3:23pm On Nov 04, 2015
Sambest2:
Won't it be nice if we start planning moving in group?
(For those of us residing or will depart from Lagos, won't it be OK if we leave together straight to Iseyin , it'll be a memorable journey and foster unity amongst us )

Oyo kopas Stream 2

Sambest2
Emyben
Candycrush
Mykepackz
Bharkarh
Richiechris101
Geeluck1
Jearile
Praemaise
Mearicute
Abdul9tee
BecacieBarbie
Ulak
Ola15BODE
Debcykol


where and when are we suppose to move together
Romance / Re: What To Do When The Girl You Love Is In Love With Another Man by jearile(m): 6:21pm On Oct 25, 2015
greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same
level. We’re very good friends who flirt
a lot and equally share the same dreams.
in fact, most of the activities we’ve
carried out in school were all her ideas.
She’s just all over me and attached
herself so much in my future. She
sometimes jokingly says she wants to
marry me. People recommended that
we’ll going to make a good couple. So, I
then thought of all of these and how
compactable we are, I then took the bold
step to ask her out. She only responded
that she has a boyfriend and we should
drop the dating discussion for now since
we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped
it. After sometimes, she started
complaining that she doesn’t like my
being strange. I told her I loved her so
much, she replied via chat “I understand
but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best
part of me”. Please help me with what to
do. I love her and I want to marry her.
She knows but the only challenge now is
her boyfriend. What should I do?
Concentrate on your studies... Authenticity and timing must tally... I'd advice you ponder on the advice raised by FTC @pet4ril

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Religion / Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by jearile(m): 3:56pm On Oct 25, 2015
neocortex:

Paul arrested himself, don't tell me you are not aware that paul is the founder of christianity, jesus was just a tool.
Iyaba left... wrong flight; no bi n u. Kpele
Religion / Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by jearile(m): 3:09pm On Oct 25, 2015
neocortex:


Paul would have filled the gap.
Who arrested Paul on his way to Damascus?
Religion / Re: Does The Bible Support Abortion? Numbers Chapter 5 by jearile(m): 2:27pm On Oct 25, 2015
raayah:
Read Through

Numbers 5 vs 20-23

20 But if you have gone astray while married to your husband and you have made yourself impure by having sexual relations with a man other than your husband"--

21 here the priest is to put the woman under this curse--"may the LORD cause you to become a curse among your people when he makes your womb miscarry and your abdomen swell.

22 May this water that brings a curse enter your body so that your abdomen swells or your womb miscarries." "'Then the woman is to say, "Amen. So be it."

23 "'The priest is to write these curses on a scroll and then wash them off into the bitter water.
Just imagine if Mary had aborted Jesus Christ... Every situation may not come from God but God cannot turn around every situation.

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