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No biggie if this is what they call girl power or women empowerment then go to industrial areas you see ladies doing far more

YeyeBoyfriend:
read to comprehend, he said and I quote [they have a future together and he didnt say [they have the present together] do you know what he would become in future, so you know if he'll be able to do all what you just mentioned not only to his immediate family but extended and friends alike?

As I stated earlier,if he has serious intentions for her as it's done in the north his family would have been involved , if a young man is serious with ba young lady the first thing he puts forward is the girl child having an education but he didn't put it there ,his major concern is the love of his life taken away from him, if he complains about her getting bmarried by 17 he should also be worried about her being involved in a relationship by 14 ,haba! a girl that age should be more concerned about completing her education but here we are arguing about her being married off to another man.

no one knows tomorrow as u rightly said you don't Know what he might become tomorrow but he isn't thinking about that, parents of both parties would be involved.

Forced17:
I know what you're thinking but trust me
we dare not go there

nobody says they are having s*x till pregnancy shows

if you want to do things the right way even if u ain't ready for marriage but with serious intentions plus the love u claim you got for her involve your parents, tell them you want to marry her but when she is old enough and when the body is ripe enough to carry the pregnancy to term. young men in love involve parents to show seriousness and given a time frame you will come for her.

Forced17:
is that a reason for her to marry at that age?at 17!!!!

is that the reason to date or sleep with a minor?

forcing an underage into marriage is bad but what is worse ,is if she gets preggy by you? which is worse?

Forced17:
she's not a Muslim and we have a future together

Exkiss me please , you have a what together?
can u feed her?
can you handle her emotional needs
can you protect her
can you cater for kids coming in

Do you have a roof over your head?
will you be able to sponsor her education?

ISAKABA!!!!

Teerach:
I'm not done reading but I'm definitely crying cos everyone that posted is so mature, humble, responsible n no bashing people. Good old Nl days I guess.

wanted to say the same thing

the good old days

Keypazwad:
I had to create a new account to table out my troubles.
I’m married with two kids and a step son. The summary of my problem is DOMESTIC VIOLENCE/ABUSE.
Even after giving him more chances to chance, he beat me up few days ago and still blamed me for his actions.
I wanted to leave but he informed our pastor and he begged me to manage my home. That there’s no better person outside. He’s not even addressing the violence issues.
I really want to leave but I’m a full house wife and I depend on him financially cause I’m an SSCE holder.
There’s no help whatsoever from my parents. I’m confused cause he’s processing a Canadian visa for us which would take twelve weeks to complete.
Should I just count my blessings and loss and move on now, or wait until we get to Canada?

tackle the source of the problem first ma'am

what leads or causes him to beat you, no normal man just comes in and beats his wife, I don't support domestic violence but tackle what leads to his anger ,

a partner who doesn't allow communication is a no no for me, no matter the level of anger, Respect the views of your partner and wifey how is your tone wen talking?

women still don't understand the power they wield in a union, you can bend a man to your will without him knowing.

These days I prefer the native chicken , what's the point eating something that spends it's whole life. eating formulated or processed food ,unless it's a free range bird

no more meat canor coman be holding my chest and be shouting epp roo since chance no de to work out. na kpomo sure pass

#nuffsaid

People with different views plus their personal reasons

As for me and my house , no relative is staying or want to turn my home to a permanent one unless it's for a while ,a job interview,exam, omugwo, celebration of something, proximity to work (I would remind u about renting ur apartment) etc as u de enter count down to wen you will leave ( anyone who comes in should also give me a time frame wen they would be leaving)

lemme enjoy my marriage Biko ,I can't be enduring or managing it.
be it from my side or wife's side


#myownopinion

Casalinda:
I got elder ones dearie, and was not neglected as a child.
Don’t worry I am not angry by your questions

All the best ma'am

Casalinda:
Hello guys. I can’t not even explain my feeling this night. But I am really happy that this is all going and turning out just fine.

Bambi just proposed to me and I said a BIG “YES”
This all came out well at last.

Look who just got a ring. I’m crying typing this


Jaruma finally came by.. lady’s you all really need these blue eye bracelet

no vex o, do you have elder ones or were u neglected as a child?

BadRadio:
WhatsApp kid?

like seriously bro , WhatsApp kid? This is the best you could come up with?
so lame
seems your destiny is forming stripper at oshodi

BadRadio:
yeah kid

come back in two years time and read what you wrote up there

BadRadio:
not darnest...its dardest. ok?

correction taken grand master

Awww

kids say the darnest things

BadRadio:
Cristiano Ronaldo's gf just bought him a $93,000 Mercedes G-wagon and it's not even valentine's day yet. why are we not meeting those type of girls... Are we cursed in this country

Awww

kids say the darnest things

narutoaliyu:
1.5k for any one of the games shown in the pix. Buy any 5 and get 1 free of your choice. Watzapp me on 08076215550.

location please

johnjunior39:
For how long will she play assistant? I know married men give better attention than the single guys but when do we realize you are wreaking someone else home ?
I see single ladies dating married men as gold diggers and low life sha. Even if he is not happy in his marriage , no one should be a dustbin(fallback) to happiness. A married woman is a married woman, a side babe is a side babe

if u ask me na who I go ask?

married men Know how to take care of ladies like gifts (even when they least expect it) very good with surprises (most ladies love this) ,free trips n vacations , she can even bring her friends along , le boo won't argue


when the so called ladies misbehave ,cheats or start their usual mood swings ,the married man doesn't hold grudges he as long as he gets his usual entry to Jerusalem and other delights the daughter of Delilah can offer he would give her the space she needs, a lover or bf won't


As long as you know how to part your part and madam doesn't get to know , the bad side is most would get feelings involved and want to take the position of madam in general .


ladies over to you

pmoye:
Benefit kwa? What benefits?

married men Know how to take care of ladies like gifts (even when they least expect it) very good with surprises (most ladies love this) ,free trips n vacations , she can even bring her friends along , le boo won't argue


when the so called ladies misbehave ,cheats or start their usual mood swings ,the married man doesn't hold grudges he as long as he gets his usual entry to Jerusalem and other delights the daughter of Delilah can offer he would give her the space she needs, a lover or bf won't


As long as you know how to part your part and madam doesn't get to know , the bad side is most would get feelings involved and want to take the position of madam in general .


ladies over to you

we really have forgotten a time wen agberos were prohibited from collecting money from drivers n riders alike, the way crime went up isn't child's play.

Those who were killed and robbed wouldn't never forget easily how one chance, pick pockets especially at oshodi (before renovation) , robberies became the order of the day,

I pray it doesn't get to that

MsDoris:
"If I Marry u And Cheat, u Must Forgive Me, But If You Cheat Back, Our Marriage Is Over" - Nigerian Man Warns His Future Wife
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A young Nigerian man identified as Alex Uchenna has taken to his Facebook account to warn his future wife ahead of time who the boss of their home is.

According to the man who is from the Eastern region of Nigeria, she must forgive him whenever he cheats on her but if she cheats on him, he would send her parking because he paid her bride price, provided her with the basic things including paying the bills and not the other way round.

Uchenna wrote saying;

“If I marry you and I cheat on you, you have no choice than to forgive me but if you cheat back you will reach your father’s house..............

See full gist here;
https://www.mimidoris.com/2020/02/if-i-marry-you-and-cheat-you-must.html

What is your own opinion, do you think he is right?

if you ask me,na who I go ask? the matter wey u talk so e heavy for mouth

There's no atom of doubt that she will be serving in Lagos State plus also in one of the ministries if she's truly a beauty pageant

TheGameYard:
I prefer Gokada over OPay anytime. OPay is crap, trash and nonsense.

And your reasons are?

mama de mama

so vexed reading this.

a man married a woman and gets the baggage of dealing with an ex plus he isn't man enough to send the ex away,


this ain't right

seems the mods are more of laid back for months now, this story has a pattern , something ain't right.

Nice
it's difficult to see men in photos like this in this era

men die earlier than women

Kelvin30286063:
The game has no single issue. Its a 500GB small size with 27 games.
Downloaded Games:
Uncharted 3, Dragon's Crown, Dirt 3 (Car Race), The Evil Within, GTA 5, Fight Night, Far Cry 4, FIFA 2018, PES 2018, Dante's Inferno, Battlefield (Doesn't play full but it's everyone), Watch Dog, Blur (Car Race with Guns), God of War: Ascension, Mortal Kombat.

There are also discs I have that I will give to you if you add 5k to the money. The discs are 10 and they are games that are not already on the PS.

PRICE: 40K, Non-negotiable

Call or WhatsApp me if you're interested
09033012548

pls do have fight night (boxing) in hard copy?

Oluneutral:
My friend, they exist! Even in numbers.


You can't find them on NL or any other social media bragging about their marriages. They're the real men who value their relationship. They don't smoke, drink nor womanize, because that's not what they take solace in.
They cherish their family, play with their wife and children. Their wives are always on the lookout for them, because they're light, they radiates and illuminate their home with their friendly, joyful and glamorous presence. Their family is always proud of them.



And that doesn't mean they're super human; they're just who they are...... family oriented.

they are usually taken for granted, especially the single ones

add videos of them harassing and killing harmless civilians too, they signed up for it and they get paid