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dont you know the expiry date of your house rent before? see the mess you ve got yourself into, however you want to do it, either your parents ooo or your in-laws, you re a failure and the disgrace is already there. your wife can take it up on you anytime and insult the hell out of you.

key things in life

shelter, food and clothing

thank you GOD for this miracle baby GIRL, PLEASE Lord i am using this family and their baby as a point of contact praying that my sister Josephine will also conceive and bear forth children of her own in Jesus CHRIST name. Amen

hey, i just understood one thing now, this guy in question lives in Abuja and she in Canada.

my sister pls run without looking back, most Abuja guys are gold diggers and i bet you its because you prayed that God is actually showing you on time his intentions towards you.

he doesnt love you at all but loves what he can get from you, he made it fast to do introduction just for you to feel that he is serious with you, he isnt ooHHHHHHHHH.

i am talking to you from experience, better run

meanwhile as i said earlier your size twelve is a very good size for any reasonable man to admire you. God is indirectly revealing him to you.

also know that most Abuja guys (esp if he is in business) tend to have alot of friends that influences their lives. ( still talking from experience)

@ Poster

Pls i want you to understand that you are not fat, size 14 or 12 to me is not a fat size as far as i am concerned.

i would also want to you to understand that if your fiance is being controlled or advised by his friends, that means every dick and harry will advise him against you and he will take, that is not love, he is not a man of himself, i bet you your future with that guy is not safe.

talk to him and watch his behaviour closely, if he goes on with his attitude, then i will advise you to leave him for good.

You are a disgrace to God's kingdom, what on earth makes you think that your Gun can protect you in Nigeria. what happens to psalm 23 ( the lord is my shepherd).

you really need to repent because i doubt if you are a preacher.

invite your sister to a dinner, cook delicious meal, poison her . God will forgive you

as for your husband pls forgive him.

a school cert holder should be less than 20 yrs old, please leave her alone and let her actualize her dreams of being what she want in life.

what makes you think she will say yes?

thank you God for miracle baby MICAH.

he shall be a source of Joy, Blessing and Happiness to you, your family and his generation.

Amen

why dont you ask them and learn

@KAYD007


i wan laugh die, reminds me of my childhood days ;

@ Ejadamen, wowwww, God is so good

congrats, our God will see u tro to term. AMEN

in addition, i pray that no one would have this kind of experience i had even my worst enemy. and my advice to all preparing to get married is this, please dont be carried away by the preparation rather dedicate more time in prayers for the sucess of the ceremony. i think i didnt do that much.

i really want to say thank you all for your contributions, i have not been able to reply this post because of the situation i found myself in ( cant eat or drink or even concentrate on my self) but thank God i am pulling through and getting better with each passing day.

today 26th of july is my one month of remembrance, all i do now is to give thanks to God. i also started work, apoligizing everyday to my numerous friends that came around for the wedding, even my co-workers.

@ precap2, i find it hard to believe that you called me a hooker in your mail, did you just said i tied the man down with pregnancy or what? any ways you re entitled to your own opinion, but i would like you to understand that in my culture once a man pays for a womans brideprice she is entirely his wife and she is supposed to fulfil all obligations to him as a wife. my traditional and court marriage was celebtarted on oct last year, with that i became his wife fully.
the white wedding as we all know is to invite God fully into the marriage and to exchange vows, it is a blessing of marriage.

my hubby is still apologizing, i have feelings and i have forgiven him because i dont hold grudges for long. it is just that i find it pretty difficult to explain to over a hundred guest i invited personally that i was not jinxed on my wedding day by my husband rather that somebody died. people find it hard to believe and i wont blame anyone who would not understand.

Funny as it may sound, it is real, it happened to me just last month. my wedding was stopped by my husband just because his friend that was coming to our wedding died on the eve of the wedding. he became sober throughout the morning on our wedding day and when other people were preparing including myself that morning, my husband was busy slepping, all efforts towards getting him to prepare for the wedding was futile and what we saw next was that he became aggressive to the extent that my last talk to him resulted in him slapping me and saying i dont have concience to persuade him to carry on with the wedding when his friend'd corpse is lying down there in the mortuary.

fight ensued when my people who are already annoyed with his behaviour heard me shout when he hit me and that was how the wedding was stopped. all the guest that came for the wedding far and near were told to go back that the wedding is not going on again, worst of it all, my people swore that i will never marry the guy again, over their dead bodies.

the next day which is on sunday, this guy came begging, crying that he doesnt know what came over him, he was asking for forgiveness when the shame and the deed has been done, i am finding it difficult to beleive that this thing happened to me but alll the same i am confused as well, i feel divorcing the guy because we have alreday done both traditional and court marriage, but what i am considering now is the baby in my stomach. i am pregnant for this guy. but i still find it difficult to beleive that he did this kind of thing to me only to come after to seek for forgiveness. i am in a serious fix and dont know what to do though the love i have for him is completely dead now, i cant just contain the shame he levied on me on my own day, a day was that supposed to be the happiest day of my life. funny enough he did all the spending for wedding.

i need your candid advice