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FREDCLSSICO7:
Lol
don't get it twisted brother I don't think bad about you my man
just that have been seeing how you've been dishing hot curses on OrgasmGiver

Trustedapparel:
Sorry nairalands this thing have been bothering me since,my cousin sister that came for holiday due to the ongoing ASUU strike have been masturbating all the time in our family house ,,,,fast forward to yesterday everybody left home , remaining only her ,,,,so I went to work the flood was excess it nearly cover our factory in bonsaac Asaba,so my boss recommend everybody to go home ,till further notice,,so I came back home ,only to see my cousin sister masturbating with Coca-Cola bottle ,,,,as she saw me she was very shock.....she has been begging me not to tell anybody.....she said she will do anything I want her to do for me.....I am confuse ..... does masturbation has any spiritual effect on person house ?or those it hinder any progress?mature mind please

StrongAlphMale:
And so I decided to go to the market tonight to get some food stuffs.

On my way towards approaching the market, a young girl in her mid 20s walked up to me and started requesting for Money that she hasn't eaten since morning. Of course I asked her where she was coming (normally e no concern me because I no Send) the girl then replied and said "she was coming from a program and that she hasn't eaten that she can make an order while I pay for it". I was shocked!! You wan order based on say na your papa wan pay bills?

When she saw I wasn't interested nor buying her ideas she went back and stood in the same spot waiting for another maga!

Nigeria girls Abeg what is wrong with you? Why the entitlement mentality?

Romanoff:
Go and hear from the second party.

A lot of you here are evil but you conceal it with being "alpha males or Redpillers".

Do you know the guy, is the op not the only one in the relationship that is telling the story?

Instead of making judgement based on facts provided, you're telling me I lack wisdom for judging without hearing from the second party.

Sorry sir, please, invite the second party so the court of social media can hear his own side.

Kindly don't mention me again cause I'm not sure I'll be able to maintain civility.

Romanoff:
My dear sis, don't listen to those calling your family entitled.

Those same family are the ones that will be there for you if your marriage doesn't work out.

They are the ones to intercede for you when things are wrong in your marriage and elders need to be invited.

If he doesn't regard your family before marriage, he will deal with you and you won't have any defence.

If he had issues with any member of your family, a sensible man will discuss the issues with you so you can handle it first.

My dear, go and carry plate of Thanksgiving and ignore the birds of a feather with plenty likes on front page calling your family entitled.

GboyegaD:
You are the one I should ask if you are ready for marriage. I wonder how you allowed people get into your head. You said he argued with your aunt, and you were pained. Should he keep quiet if he's not okay with whatever the cause of the argument was because he wants a marriage?

I don't even understand how your aunt was pissed that he didn't call to thank her for taking you to the market to buy the engagement clothes. Was he the one who suggested you approach your aunt to help you? If he is not, then he doesn't owe her that obligation. If he chooses to say thank you, so be it and if he doesn't, no big deal.

Lastly, your parent's (mom in particular) reservation indirectly beclouded your thought and you suggesting you put the wedding on hold gave him the opportunity to think through the entire thing. Perhaps, you guys were going on a fast lane and that statement made him think and also, have conversation with his folks who might have felt with this much troubles from external influences before the wedding, he should just save his head.

Like the Yorubas will say, "Oju to ma ba ni kale, kin ti a ti owuro se pin" implying, whatever would last long doesn't stress you from inception. You both are lucky in your ways and you both should see it as each party is right with his/her decision.

I just needed to add this, in your next relationship (whether he comes back or a new relationship), remember you both are the prize and treat each other that way. If he doesn't treat you like a prize or you can't treat him as one, please, be quick to move. Don't be carried away by the people of the world who have no place in your home. Imagine some telling you to do thanksgiving when you were the one who put the wedding on hold should tell you they are like dance instructors who teaches you to dance but will never borrow you their legs to do the dance.

Gabless:
I am 28 years old, a graduate of one of the university in South West. I work as a contract staff in a bank.

I met this guy about a year ago through my best female friend, and the journey started. I took him to my parents and he also took me to his parents too, and the wedding preparation started.

We were suppose to do family introduction but my parents says there is no need considering some logistic reasons. Although my mum has her reservation concerning him. But since my father has no objection I think am good to go.

He has sent money for some preparation since he is not residing in Lagos. The problem started after I went to idumota with my aunt to buy our engagement clothes. It was my aunt that drove me to the market. When we returned, my fiance called me, we talked for some times, but he couldn't appreciate my aunt for her kind gesture. Although my aunt didn't say anything that day but she wasn't happy. My dad also complained that he has been rude to him. The same goes with my mum.

The last straw that broke the Carmels back was when he was arguing with my aunt over the phone. He did not know I was in my aunt's house that particular day. I wasn't happy at all, thinking that if he would not regard my parents how would he treat me after marriage.

So I confronted him the second day over the phone, telling him that I'm not happy about the way my parents where complaining about him, and that attitude of him is creating fear in me. Instead for him to be a little remoseful and even call those people and apologize, he was arguing with me, still in my aunt's house.

So I told him, maybe we should put the preparation on hold thinking he would at least try and apologize to them. He just said, is that what you want and ended the call.

Everyone was surprised. He didn't call back it was his mum that called my mum, she didn't even persuade them to stop me from taking such step, and the guy too didn't call me for like too weeks until when I called him and he said he wasn't interested in the marriage again.

Actually, I wasn't happy and I have been downcasted since then, but on the other hand, May l ask this question does this guy really loves me?. Is he really mature enough for marriage. Is it all my fault? Please don't insult or abuse me. I just want to know if it's all my fault.

LordviccoDaGuru:
more photos

Asgard73:
Atiku has no opposition to 2023 presidential election

He’s the incoming .. no be by media propaganda and media noise

We don Dey see Obi 1000 rally .. and we don Dey see Tinubu and his Yoruba people

Tinubu will record over six million votes over anything Obi is dropping and will still lose to Atiku with million margins

Dem no Dey contest am .. anywhere

February all media noise ends and everyone congratulate Waziri Adamawa why urchins and the rest faces court or burn dia region depending

Meanwhile

Ayu please shout am loud .. make Wike Dey hear your voice from his room

The fool think Pdp revolve round his ikwere head

Ship has set sail .. and won’t jazz back for any jonzing fool

Let Wike do his worst as a being.


Power to the peoppe
North 2023

E too sure walahi

FREDCLSSICO7:
I trust you're good on dishing out heavy curses
why not give the Op a well befitting curse

Buhari4sale:
Nairaland is the biggest home of educated psych patients

SugarGirl44:
Gerrout!
Ode.
Mtcheeew....
I even thought I was talking to a normal human being.

SugarGirl44:
Exactly.
I pity the woman that married my ex bf.
The guy's dick is almost same size with a new born baby, he always gave me tear, and I would have to wait for at least one week to pass so I can heal very well, before thinking of going to his place again.

Now imagine a woman sleeping beside him daily.
Omo!
I cannot can.

phemmyfour:
Humm...Gbenga Balogun

Michelle70:
I am a demisexual and if i do not connect well with a lady, i cant even maintain an erection towards her.

Its not about seriousness or not, will the marriage last?

If her mind is not in the relationship, its better she walk out.

Tonypen247:
Are they claiming that there is no Chinese interpreter in the whole of Nigeria or they can't employ one for a serious case like this

I won't be surprised if we are told that the culprit and the deceased have been communicating through Google Translator during their relationship.

This country is a joke

LeoDeKing:
But the slain girl was his girlfriend.

So how was he discussing with his hausa speaking girlfriend?

The Nigerian lawyer that sold this idea of language barrier to the Chinese murderer must be very stupid.

Sweetplum:
I know about the gimmick. Just be careful and don't bite more than you can chew.

Michelle70:
This is life mehn.

Not all above 30 girls were appeoached by serious.
Some serious men that approached them were not even their spec.

Its like telling a 30yr old broke man if opportunities didnt come in his twenties

Graceunlimitedd:
I've been noticing your stupidity, u go soon reason your matter for this forum.
i never get your time yet

Sweetplum:
did you just edit a post and out my name there? Are you well?

Sweetplum:
Marrying right is the right choice. If it suits Regina, her luck. What's good for others .at not be good for some.
You can tell a 23 yrs old girl to marry a 60 yrs old man and she ll probably be a widow before 50 or 60. Ask Bianca and she ll tell you how she's coping without Ikemba since 2011.
Don't you ever blame any woman for her choice. Cos you men make mistakes too.

Sweetplum:
You and the person you quoted v fault. This case is dismissed.
I ll only say as a man, advise your brothers to be good to married, young and/ virgin women Do not try to be good to a woman who wasted time enjoying life. Do not let her eat her cake and have it.
Every woman is to have a man in her life who will be good to her. These women above 30 have used and dumbed that man all in the name of having standard and thinking she deserved better than him. Now she is messed up and wished she stuck with him. Do not be the one to clean up her mess all in the name of being good to her. You're not created to be used by women. Get sense.

Candidlady:


OP when you have a kid force her into a relationship when she gets to 18-23


Ipray God doesn't give you a girl child so you don't ruin her life...

Temptee101:
You can't hide your love for Peter Obi

I don't mind losing my job because of him

It will be an honour !

Peter Obi is loved by all

phemmyfour:
Even here, you are not safe like that

Karen2024:
I've always suspected my boyfriend cheating on me with a lady he claim to be his casual friend and I told him I don't like how the girl flirt around him but he said nothing was going on between them. Yesterday I returned from work and my friend called me on phone and asked me to go to my boyfriend's house immediately. Without hesitation I drove to his house and caught him with a lady on his bed. I'te dumped him.