₦airaland Forum

feminist35:
Shut up. Broke man. Is it not men that are spoiling women deceiving them and sleeping with them? Or you think we're Happy we're above 30 and not married? If men refuse to commit, what more can we do? Only Nigerian men think like this, Men in the US don't care

You want to tell me that a serious man did not approach you when you were 18 or 20?

You want to tell me that a lot of men did not come to you when you were 23?

You did not settle with them because you think you had time.
You played them like piano.

You played with their emotions.
You wanted them to worship you.
You gave your body to boys who lived a flashy lifestyle thinking you're a big girl.

You felt like a princess. Like an angel.
You enjoyed the attention and didn't settle for anyone one of these serious men.
You think your beauty will last forever (you miscalculated).

Now your time is passed!
The attention is not there anymore.
Your beauty is fading and suitors are not forth coming only those who want to fvck and go.
Now you have changed from a sweet girl to a desperate girl.

You think God is a fool? Oh you foolish girl.
Your pains have only started.
No man will ever honor you. Not even in marriage.
If you're lucky to get a man, he will cheat on you with younger girls and frustrate you.

You're paying for wasting your time.

EVERYONE PAYS EVENTUALLY!

intruder15:
How you reason is pathetic.

I have nothing to say to you.

Chinny024:
Nawaooo...Why advocating for a divorce?..That should only come in when there's issue like threat to life...Family can't handle slight misunderstandings anymore?

Hahaha. So u should wait until someone threaten your life before you run for it?
You're not serious.

Shame on her .

klonboi:
Please can you tell me where in the constitution of delta state that a serving government officials do not have right to air certain views?

A state job is now made a family affair just imagine. She is a deltan and working for her state.

What she did is wrong plus, she's a very stupid woman going public with that her idea.
Nice one from the wise commissioner.

Served her right abeg.

Isokiscool:
No b Okowa sack am oh,Okowa doesn't even know if she exist... Moreover she can't be receiving salary from a PDP government and be campaigning for labour party

You're are politically responsible my brother.

People should mind what they post on that app called Facebook.
This is why I love NL; privacy is guaranteed.

abobote:
Na just 10M deal dem de celebrate like this

I wonder o.
The celebration too much for 10grand na.

White man still using black man to make money.
Some slave chains can't be broken.

sirBLUNT:
I can do this if I feel the house is not good enough for my taste, after all, na I go dey stay there, and if I'm okay with the location of the house why not?

Most of you saying she should have used the money to buy land are build her own house are just being funny and preposterous, una thing says to build a house na joke...

And if you can not take care of somebody's else house, you can't even take care of your own as well

Please shut up!

bonnyhope:


I know say I no go fit win this argument with you provided it concerns virginity

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Whenever we meet, I will give you two full grown rams.

RomanGreen:
You may sound harsh but you are actually very correct about marrying a virgin coz the virgin hasn't experienced other men as such she won't give you issues or make unnecessary comparison.

You're liberated from amongst foolish men who thinks only love can hold a marriage.

KristaPretty:
You're wrong actually. Most women no even send now. If I see my first anywhere in this life, I would use my car to crush his legs. He'd forever remain a fool to me and I can never ever stand him!!!

If he comes back humbly, you will still open your legs even when you're married.

It's what we have done countless times. I have done it four times.
He only need to know what gets you and thats it.


Whoever married/ marries you is "standing" on a stool with one leg.

Connected1:
It's obvious you haven't had the luxury to be with a wise woman before.

A woman doesn't even understand her own psychology talk more of a man, look just ensure she's wise, many of these things can be overcomed.

Virginity is no guarantee that she won't cheat on you, gone are the days when women have little opportunities to cheat, if she likes exploration, she will fuvk another man even when you married her a virgin.

Pray for a wise/good woman not a virgin, I was once on this stance of a virgin or nothing but experiences changes a lot of things.

Please don't qoute me on this thread again okay.

You will cry in your marriage. Wait n see.

powerblaze:
The ones you dey f@ck outside, who deserve dem?

Foolish unwise men who thinks the body of women is wired the same as men's.

We can not all desire good things; some people must get bad things. Don't be one of them.

Connected1:
Take the pain to find a wise women not a virgin.

Comparisons will always be made, there's always someone better than you.

Some women still cheat on women that married them as virgins, also some women too don't cheat on men that married them as non-virgins.

It's all about wisdom, we have so many foolish people these days, then you will be expecting some wise from them just because they are virgins(female) or Godly(male).

Moreover I don't see why you are posting this on the wrong topic, you have an ulterior motive I guess, stop capping bullshit.

You don't understand 1/1000th of a woman's psychology.

Let me tell you one .
A woman's reasoning is controlled by her body!
Who she gave the first body to will always have access to it.
Women do irrational things as long as it suits their body.

Note my emphasis on "their body"

Rachel98:
back to sender. IJN

It will come take to sender only if you have never cheated on anyone. If you have never collect anything from any guy and left him. If you have never used any guy's emotion for your own gain.

But as long as you have done any of these things, you will face the judgment here on earth and nothing will stop it.
The ex you have hurt is coming to hunt you.

Something inside you tells you it is true and that scares you.

Sister, many are going to rip the good they have sown next year but not you. Next year is your year of payment!

The only way you will escape this fate is to look for his number, call him and make peace with him. Make peace with him even if it means sleeping with him one last time. Else, you will seriously regret next year.

Rachel98:
I don't know oo. Please don't quote me.

Exactly. Then expect your own judgement too very soon.
One guy will rise and punish you for cheating on him or for collecting money and not marrying him.

He will find you soon in Jesus name!

Zonefree:
Puppet of a Governor!

He's cashing out but you that you're in control of your life is still begging for food to eat.

Better to be a puppet and make it than to be on the street and Trek it.

We are all puppets to someone, one way or the other.

advanceDNA:
Two people courting each other ate also dating each other naa..... if the relationship is not serious...why will the guy be hurt....

Abi o.
He has even sacrificed a lot for her.

Rachel98:
So that penalty for a cheating girlfriend is by killing her right? Nawa o! Many people are truly mad but few are roaming.

Omoh! I don't know you're mentally sick. Sorry for quoting you.

God Abeg oh!

What do you think the punishment should be?

Rachel98:
@bolded, that means your will also wish same to you daughters since all your sisters are married.
I'm really sorry for quoting you, I never knew your mind is so unstable. Continue roaming about.

Yes. If my daughter plays any guy, let her meet the same fate.
You don't expect me to support immorality just because it's my daughter. No. I am a just person.

I will do my best to train her to be true to herself and not to deceive any man. If she listens, fine. If she didn't, her business.

Coming to you.
I pray that one day, just one beautiful day, one of the men you have dated and cheated on will locate you and end your life using wood or hammer or even a gun.
He will be so angry that he wouldn't mind going to jail.

Trump my man.


If you're having problem with you gf, fiancee or wife, check very well, you are not the one who disvirgined her.


Women respect the first things in their lives; first child has a kinda special love, first man to fvck her has a special place in her heart that you can not fill.

She will forever compare your performance (in beg and in other areas) to the first man who fvcked her.
So, you're already in competition with someone you don't know. That is not a healthy competition.
Fvck a woman you didn't disvirgin and walk away the moment she begin to give you attitudes.

Take the pain to find a virgin woman when you're ready to marry.
Better to suffer to find a virgin and have a lasting happy home than to marry the available non virgin and suffer in your marriage. Paternity fraud is real.


Don't pay Bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of in laws just to have a woman who was fvcked when she was in her best state (virgin) by a boy who gave only two eggs and indomie.
Only a virgin woman deserves your care, attention and love.

Be wise!

thegroomspa:
It's not stupidity...there are men out there who found love with same age women or women a bit older than them.

May you fall in love with a woman of your age or a little big older than you. (Say amen).


You never see anything.

bonnyhope:
Your comment is demoralising
A virgin girl can also have that attitude

Which would you prefer. A nagging virgin woman or a woman who fvcks other men?

Rachel98:
Are you for real?

What if she's your sister or daughter would you say this?

If my sister is dumb enough to play guys, then so be it for her.

But I trust my sisters. The wouldn't dare.
For the record, all my sisters are happily married to the first love of their life.

CaveAdullam:
1. some readily available men will look past the flaws of these ladies and marry them. But these ladies will never agree to marriage because they have an absurd standard about the kind of men they want. They are low value and impure women but are obstinately in need of high value and wealthy men.

2. Rather than reduce their nonsensical standard, humble themselves in shame and get married to innocent men who wouldn't pay attention to their past lives, they will prefer to stay in the church from dawn to dusk expecting God to bring forth a mate made in heaven.

3. Women should start opting for polygamy, sharing the available men instead of waiting and wasting time. Because in this day, men are getting wiser and they are coming to the reality that there is zilch for them in marriage. If for the sake of children and civilization man decides to enter marriage, he must be constantly applauded and rewarded because he makes the bulk of the sacrifice in providing and protecting a family.

4. If women insist on monogamy they must cut down on their standards, take hypergamy by the reins and lead it to their advantage. By nature, women date higher, but if they desire the love and commitment of a man, they must look past hypergamy consciously.

5. The video shows that time is no friend to women but many of these women are not aware of their biology and future needs and ambitions because they lack quality parental leadership. They would have made good choices under a good family system. However, they only come to this shocking reality when they have passed their prime.

6. Though time may favor men as per biology is concerned, however, if he is unable to rise from bottom to top he will wail like the women who has passed their prime with no man's commitment.

7. Every appearance of change by these women will be superficial because they never built it from the beginning or found its importance. But for the benefit of the doubt, if they can build character, become kind and modest, take care of their trade, control their emotions, and not disdain any man that has an interest in them, they may be lucky with the best man.

Thanks.

If women lower their standards, it will be bad for human race.
Weak men shouldn't sire a child.
Weak men should not be father's. No.
Poor men should not have children. No!
The next generation should be sired by strong and successful men.


Women having high standards has nothing to do with religion or any personal reason. It is simply evolutionary.

Ovieemmanuel:
are you saying virgins dont nag and give unnecessary problems?

Which will you prefer; a woman who nags or a woman who fvcks other men?

These animals burnt my house in the north during one of their stupid crisis. I will never forgive. I will never forget.
Death to all worshipers of MuhamMAD. Nonsense animals.

Kobojunkie:
There are men out there who would love their women despite all you have listed as red-flags there. The sooner you learn that the better so you don't go around carrying worthless issues as if stakes.

Even women know that a girl with those qualities is a disaster. How much more you?

You're a shame to your mother's private part.