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If you have to spend so much (Expensive Pusssy), you are in a transactional relationship/marriage (Packaged Prostitution) "overpaying" a pusssy that some other guy is getting for less or nothing. You might be better off wanking, going to a brothel or ordering for pusssy on tinder or instamessage in a more "realistic" deal. Not encouraging picking prostitutes or masturbation, though they serve a purpose. Nothing beats sexual control and discipline for a man. Niggas, make una dey use una head above una dicks. #Focus |
"Attention" has the same "currency value" as money to women but the truth is that, this "currency value" means that you'll be "relegated" to the "friendzone" level like the tons of other beta simps/orbiters around her. The "simp/orbiters" who would get a "taste" of her would have to have "simping value" as "wealthy providers" on the short term (packaged prostitution disguised as dating,) or in the long term (as marriage or cohabitation). The dudes getting her coochie for free or "close" to free is probably not in the list of those giving her these compliments. They may even, be tired of her already wishing that some simp take her away quick. Knowing what your "value" is to every woman in your life who has no blood relationship to you is very important. |
Skepticus: |
Being much older now, 24 hours is barely enough for all I want to do, so, it would be foolish for me (at this stage in life), pursuing random girls for numbers and sex that would pay no bills nor improve my life. This one of the reasons Pick Up Artistry lost steam and its earlier adherents like Mystery and Neil Strauss abandoned it, as they got older and had better things to do with their time and lives. In fact, mystery fell into suicidal depression as a result of wasting his younger years chasing aimlessly, after women and not rising in his career of being a magician. |
Let no one lie to you about developing attraction,it's primal. Attraction happens within milimeters of seconds and you are either seen as a worthy partner or a betabox provider.If you're not attractive, women will turn you down over and over again or they use you to further their selfish motives like billing excessively |
When JIMMY1393 talk say Nigerian men still dey learn where Americans dey which is very right, I laugh because Nigerian men potential for simping fit rival American own if e get the money. Nigerian men wey fill say d only way to get women to respect dem na money. With all their money and multi million naira weddings, the women go still cheat or treat dem like rubbish. |
Skepticus: |
Pussy power is real, it is not compulsory to sleep in everything in skirt, some gals are carrying STD, some are diabolical, some are extremely damaged and can develop attachments to you, I understand konji, I understand you need to relieve stress, I understand men crave for sexual varieties since we have a large sexual appetite due to testerones that's why we watch porn and masturbate, but sleeping around is senseless, waste of time and valuable resources even if you are not productive, but guys want to feel like kings, guy's are in lust, guys are ruled by konji, it is an ego thing evolutionarily seeing you conquered a gal to her unclothedness and fucrked makes you feel like a warrior and alpha What am I getting at, don't feel like a loser because you are not getting the sexual your bastard hormones makes you crave for, you might be a logical man in everything except your sexual urge, I understand, your mind wants discipline but dickk wants harem Chai it's well |
Guys are receiving unenthusiastic boring, miserable olosho sex from serious girlfriends because this gals chose them for survival, sad reality even in marriages Redpill tells you this so that you control your MEAT and only deal with women that have high interest in you |
Do not pedestalise a woman and never be afraid to offend or lose her. It is either your way or the highway This would make you strong |
Smartb0y:Indirectly Soft power |
MALE EGO IS A TERRIBLE THING. IT'S THE REASON WHY A MAN WOULD RATHER LOSE TWICE FROM BEING PLAYED TWICE INSTEAD OF ADMITTING THAT HE'S LOSING AND SEEK HELP. IT'S THE REASON A MAN WOULD BEG OR STEAL TO ATTEND TO THE "URGENT 2K" NEEDS OF A RANDOM GIRL HE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW, INSTEAD OF COME OUT PLAIN THAT HE'S BROKE OR IS INCAPABLE OF PARTING WITH HIS MONEY. |
the reason why you must not persuade a woman into sex using your material resources, because definitely, as far as she's fvcking, she will fvck a guy that don't give a hoot about her: genuine desire. It is haste, a need to quench sexual hunger and/or fvck a particular woman that necessitates many men to pay for sex heavily not minding the fact that they are being exploited. The woman you're paying 10k, 100k, 1million+ for mouth gig and marathon sex will go back to her lodge and fvck Gbenga that has his room upside down. Even "ashawo" (prostitute) have a boyfriend. |
Martinez39s: |
Thugnificent:That's beta bucks strategy, chase money and success and attract women @PinkNature, the issue with this strategy is that sure if you are moderately comfortable in a third world nation you provide security to women but they are attracted to you not sexually aroused by you, you don't make their pussy wet, you will have to spend and simp to get them interested in you, you would have to supplicate and pedestalize her since you want the relationship with her and you want sex, typically when you become rich and successful you attract the worst of the worst women gold diggers and post wall women pretending to be matured, conservative, marriage oriented since their looks and beauty are diminishing Redpill is aiming for genuine desire, not settling down for nonsense, having standards, and being ok with yourself as a guy whether you are dating or not, whether you want a relationship or not |
. Men’s criteria is very simple; fitness, youth, assertive sexuality, playfulness, conventional femininity and genuine desire to please him. Beyond this, submission, respect, nurturing (potential mothering qualities), a natural deference to male authority, humility, admiration and an unobligated desire to recognize that man as her complementary partner are just some of the long-term attributes that make a woman someone a man might want to invest himself in a family with. |
FACTS ABOUT SOME NIGERIAN GIRLS. 1. At 14, they are the fine sweet teens. 2. At 16, they wanna roll with older ones. It's fun being the new hottie in the group. 3. At 18, they probably have had 1st sex. They cling to this one guy & talk all about how they won't leave the guy. 4. At 20, they might be at the University. They make new male friends & slowly lose interest in the former guy. 5. At 22, they make friends with girls who wear more expensive clothes & who also date expensive guys. These set of girls use porsh phones, so they get intimidated & need to join the elite school girls league. 6. At 24, they are now porsh! They now roll with rich male friends who they scam & take money from for mere sex. At this point, if a random guy chats her up, she might snub! If you ask her phone number, she makes you feel like a stalker. They prefer guys who actually want to spend a fortune on them. 7. At 26, the trend continues...fun, porsh & money remains the keywords because she has changed her mindset & increased the standards she wants in a man, money. 8. Between 26 - 27, she is a maid of honour for her friends. If she was lucky enough to be in a relationship, she'll leave if any misunderstanding should come up. She then sees herself as every man's spec, so she believes she'll be rushed like Agege bread in Ojuelegba - Lagos. 9. At 28, all those guys that were telling her how beautiful she is, how they love her even she was in a relationship. She decided to give two of them a chance. They came, explored her and after two weeks, stopped picking her calls. She decided to give many a chance, but same thing happened. She went back to her ex that was disturbing her while she was with the old good guy, but same thing happened. She then decided to have flings with anyone that comes her way. 10. At 29, none of those guys proposed... 11. At 30, night vigils, adoration ground, 5nights of glory, Uyo miracle crusade, Grace Family Outreach , Naija miracle crusade & Shiloh... 12. At 32, the same girl who refused giving phone numbers to some serious guys goes to Egwu Daniel Cfb , Calabargist ,Linda Ikeji's blog, Rant HQ, Ibom Crush, Port Harcourt Rant, Ibom Rant, Singles Dating sites, & posts " Hi I'm Stephanie, I'm 32 & searching for a serious relationship. Call me on 0810000000800. God punish Satan. 12. At 35, they start running to churches begging Papas' to pray for them. Papas' will fast, pray and speak in tongues, roll on the ground, visit the mountains for special prayer sessions but no way. 13. At 40, they begin to see their family members as witches, wizards, principalities and powers. 14. At 45, they become the most active church workers with tears dropping from their eyes every morning and night. 15- At 50, they become mentors and public motivational speakers to young girls. They can even write motivational and spiritual books. That is how they'll tell you they decided to abstain from men so they could worship God in spirit and in truth. Note: As a young girl at 18 years you should start putting marriage in prayer then ask God for directions because when you marry early and start giving birth early, you will still look young and have time to grow with your kids and still flex life with your partner. My dear receive God's power to have sense so you don't cry tomorrow. Copied Do have a blessed day Foll@w for more ❤️❤ |
Fiscus105:@CaveAdullam pls I need your advice, we collect gals number whether from social events, cold approaching, placing ourselves where women are in abundance, yet no genuine desire, the chat is boring, Na we dey find ways to make chat interesting, infact we do our bests no to behave thirsty for sex, so that during the chat we appear as if we are trying to know the gal, we call her more, chat her more, create fun more, but no reciprocation, and it's not just one gal, it's almost all the gals we game, is it because of their abundance of options, is it because of our low status, why? |
Smartb0y:Love no dey Romance Na scam For poverty stricken nations the guy with coins is the highest bidder |
Basiljoe: |
Listen Up, Men: Why a Woman with a High Body Count Is a Dangerous Choice for Marriage Gentlemen, let’s get real. A woman’s history matters. If she’s had a high body count, she’s not going to make the stable, loyal wife you need to build a secure future. The truth is harsh, but ignoring it will only lead you to a path of frustration, heartbreak, and even financial ruin. Let me break it down for you, unfiltered and straight to the point. Here are 10 reasons why women with high body counts struggle to maintain stable marriages and are statistically more likely to divorce you. 1. She Will Always Compare You to Other Men A woman who’s been with many men carries the memory of those experiences. She’ll measure you against every man she’s ever been with—how they made her feel, what they gave her, how they performed in bed. It’s a never-ending comparison game that you’ll never truly win. No matter what you do, she’ll always find a reason to feel dissatisfied because she’s used to variety. This constant comparison erodes the foundation of any relationship. 2. She’s Confused and Struggles to Know What She Wants When a woman has been with multiple partners, it clouds her sense of direction and priorities. She becomes indecisive, unsure of what she truly values in a man or a relationship. Her past partners have left conflicting imprints on her, leaving her emotionally scattered. She lacks clarity, making it nearly impossible for her to fully commit to one man. 3. She Cannot Be Sexually Satisfied Let’s face it: someone who has experienced multiple sexual partners often develops an insatiable appetite for variety. She’s used to new thrills, new sensations, and constant novelty. This makes it difficult for her to settle into a long-term, monogamous relationship. She may begin to resent you for not satisfying her unrealistic expectations, leading to infidelity or divorce. 4. She Is Likely to Have Had Many Abortions With a high body count comes a higher likelihood of unplanned pregnancies and abortions. This doesn’t just leave physical scars; it creates emotional baggage that she brings into the marriage. Many women don’t openly share this part of their history, but the guilt, shame, or indifference toward life can surface in ways that damage your relationship. 5. She May Still Be Talking to Her Exes Women with high body counts often maintain connections with their exes—whether out of nostalgia, unresolved feelings, or convenience. These lingering ties create unnecessary drama and mistrust in your relationship. Imagine competing for her attention with the ghost of every man she’s ever been with. It’s exhausting and unhealthy. 6. She Cannot Pair Bond with You Pair bonding is the emotional connection that develops between partners in a committed relationship. A woman who’s had numerous sexual partners has weakened her ability to pair bond. Each time she forms and breaks a bond, the next one becomes harder to maintain. This makes it nearly impossible for her to fully attach herself to you, emotionally or otherwise. 7. She Is Broken and Carries Emotional Baggage Every relationship leaves its mark. A woman with a high body count carries the emotional wounds, disappointments, and traumas of every failed relationship. This baggage weighs heavily on her and, by extension, on you. You’re not just dealing with her; you’re dealing with the emotional debris left by every man she’s been with. 8. She’s Used to Jumping from One Man to Another Old habits die hard. If she’s spent her 20s bouncing from one relationship to another, she’s unlikely to break that pattern in marriage. The moment things get tough, her default reaction will be to leave and seek validation elsewhere. She’s conditioned herself to believe that men are replaceable, and that mindset doesn’t change overnight. 9. She Thinks She Can Always Replace You A woman with a high body count often develops a sense of entitlement. She believes there will always be another man willing to take your place. This belief gives her little incentive to work through problems or value the relationship. Instead, she’s constantly looking for the next best thing, making her unreliable and untrustworthy. 10. She’s Ungrateful and Entitled The more men a woman has been with, the more entitled she becomes. She’s used to being pursued, spoiled, and validated by men, which makes her unappreciative of genuine effort. Instead of valuing what you bring to the table, she’ll always feel like she deserves more. Gratitude is the cornerstone of a healthy marriage, and entitlement is its enemy. The Bigger Picture Marriage is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make, and choosing the wrong partner can cost you your peace, your finances, and your future. A woman’s past doesn’t just disappear—it shapes her character, her mindset, and her behavior. A high body count is not just a number; it’s a reflection of patterns, habits, and values that are incompatible with the stability marriage requires. The Data Doesn’t Lie Statistically, women with fewer sexual partners are more likely to have long-lasting marriages. Studies have shown that women with high body counts have a significantly higher divorce rate compared to those with minimal sexual history. This isn’t about shaming; it’s about understanding the reality of human behavior and making informed choices. Final Word to Men Men, protect yourselves. Vet women ruthlessly. Ask the hard questions and don’t ignore the red flags. Society might tell you to look past a woman’s history, but the truth is, her past is a strong predictor of your future with her. Don’t gamble with your peace, your resources, or your legacy. A woman who’s lived recklessly in her prime years isn’t likely to suddenly become the stable, loyal partner you need. Stay sharp, choose wisely, and never settle. Marriage is too important to leave to chance. |
If you have ever been chosen by a woman before even if it is just once, you will never ever find cold approaching interesting. It would be a great waste of your precious time. If a woman has ever wanted you so badly before, you will know that women also SIMP in great heights as bluePILLED men. A woman who chooses you will call you every blessed day without even worrying or complaining about you not reciprocating. If you have experienced being chosen before, cold approaching will bore you. Trying to impress a girl to like you will feel so stupid and abnormal. You will never have to use a punch a line when she chooses you. You can do no wrong in the face of a woman who chooses you. She will hug you on the first date. If you try to kiss her she won't resist you. She won't make you wait for anything. When she chooses you, you don't have to take her to a fancy restaurant to impress her. Merely seeing your face alone she is already impressed, to the extent that she won't even notice the environment of the first date. When you have experienced being chosen, you will never ever deal with low interest women again. So much to talk about so little time. With all that has been preached here, there is still a lot to be learned. If you want to do things the way you have always done it before coming to the REDPILL, then there is no reason to be here. |
The woman that chooses you and finds you interesting will be all over you |
^^^^^^^^^^ Reality of most Nigerian men, chasing women with low interest in them, simping hard, giving unnecessary attention to women who do not like them, trying to build rapport with women who treat them like thrash Redpill aware men don't be stupid |
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff. I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication. While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists. They can't call u randomly to ask after you. I don tire o |
Guys that are simping, please make the habit of visiting clubs, you think sex is hard,konji dey catch you, you have to behave like a mumu to get your spec, you are in love because she is attractive, when you see hot baddies, beautiful gals, even average looking one treated like shit and dogs, degraded by yahoo boys, you would loose every ounce of respect for women, you would detest cold approaching and wasting time to build affection with women, see simps with bastard money making women behave depravedly, women are ready to do anything when money is on the table, simps can fulfil all their fantasies for days, weeks, months, as long as their resources can carry them, is it party, orgies, gangbanngs,lesbian sex, fetish, anal, you name it Any gal that loves clubbing lifestyle even the ones that became religious as they approached epiphany phase and the wall to appear as new creatures who have left that worldly lifestyle to fool a christian ignorant brother, be extremely careful with mordern women |
CaveAdullam:What baffles me is that yahoo boys or people who got their wealth illegimately are extremely foolish, they go all the way to flaunt it to show their status, they are dumb, see hushpuppi even recieving celebrity status, kai, if they had high IQ like intelligent psychopaths dominating finance and politics, they would have used the capital gotten from the illicit means to invest in ventures, secure multiple passports of countries that are difficult to extradite, live life remotely not bringing attention to themselves, have fronts of digital skills or vocational skills, launder their money offshore( although some do it), but the majority live reckless lifestyle, advertise they are yahoo boys with their dread, tattoos, they lack vision, the lack empire thinking, most of them are myopic and live for the moment, they want to show off, brag and oppress, they waste their resources on luxurious lifestyles, vacation, clubbing, womanizing, lodging in expensive hotels, driving fancy cars, they are so foolish that everyone would immediately detect them from their lifestyle smoking, drinking, foolish habits, no investments, no cover front of legit means, no retirement plan, no future plan, no exit strategy, they are lazy, stupid, arrogant and used to easy money, very greedy set of people, no plan if they are caught by law or abroad, no back up plan, just to be balling and balling, i am not saying it is easy for them, they spend all night trying to scam when money comes they waste it, some yahoo guys in the early 2000's built wealth with fund and went into hypbernation, how can you be scamming and showing off, are you that stupid, do you lack self esteem, are you suffering from inferiority complex, some even do ritual and use soap may be it because i am intelligent, because low IQ dumb scammers are something else, do you think scammers are a nigerian thing we have them all over the world, and the countries where scammers have high IQ, they think in multiple dimension, what to do when they get caught, the jail time risk, getting the best lawyers, scattering their funds where it would be difficult for govt to track, living a simple and minimallist lifestyle it is just sad, may be it is their poverty background, may be it is their lack of exposure, may be it is their genetic low IQ, may be it is their poor quality education, may be it is their association with other yahoo fools I am not justifying fraud or encouraging it, i am just making my assessment on the grand stupidity of this guys in society |
On a general note though, spending a decent amount of money (according to your financial strength) generally on refreshment or dates on course to getting sex is okay. Spending excessively in hope of getting sex when there are no clear indicators is when simping comes in. Spending on her doesn't mean you'll get sex at all or the best sex (if it happens). |
Men marry for love, women marry for provision. Men can't marry who they don't love , women can marry who they don't love . Do not Fear that gender like most fools who say women are hard to understand and comprehend with redpill you are a wise man and would make the most informed decision with regards to any woman you come accross with |
Men should stop having mentality of dating a single woman, have like 20 and take none serious. Many of you don’t understand how attractive you are if mind your business and have options. Options crush a woman’s ego and the idea of loving a woman looks stupid to me Just have many and love none and I don’t mean you should hate her or maltreat her but remove emotion out of this and focus on your career. Leave feelings for the girls, and act as a man and become extremely successful. That stories don’t matter if you know today if any woman leaves you, she lost and not you but men too dey Bleep up. Women don’t love us, we men are the one stupid giving them our love to a gender that can fall in love with a cockroach just because a cockroach is impressive to her. I stopped taking woman serous the day I realize a woman can fall in love with someone that repair her car and lose interest in someone that bought her the car. Not toxic for saying this, men should delete the ideology of loving a woman because of the hypergamous nature. We all understand the power of preselection by women but we men are so dumb to still love them regardless. It’s just mind blowing Be a gentleman, fuxking successful to an extent that a woman dare not to play games with you and she must know any mistake made by her will send her out. Men are the prize but the prize too dey Bleep all in the name of love or pleasing a woman. That’s bullshit. Men perish when they take seriously what is meant for fun |
Carot:i am just saying women have abundance and men are limited, men even have onetitis, men simp hard for women who do not rate them, men are thirsty for love and sex redpill men are always women first choice, they are genuinely desired, they have strong ego and reputation to be chasing one woman they like or plenty women for sex, they do not put women on a pedestal, they do not simp or worship women, they live in abundance and even if they do not have any woman vying for them it does not affect their esteem, they can live a lonely life without romance and be happy, they understand money cannot buy love, they understand a woman would give her pussy to whomever she desires you cannot checkmate cheating, they demand the best in women and in themselves |
Men live their whole lives in scarcity women live their whole lives in abundance,women would be more entitled, narcissistic, delusional, disloyal, ungrateful because dealing with them is very expensive, eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap Sad facts about life |
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