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Kingzjayzee:
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Somtie24: Pay attention to how your mother-in-law treats her husband-it could be a preview of how your wife might treat you.

Dean: Never marry a woman who doesn't speak good about her Dad.
Chances are high that you won't be able to please her as a man.

single stitch clothing: never marry the woman who doesn't want you to look good.

Streak47:
I keep learning the redpill from my religion every day. 'The most blessed marriage is the one that is of least expense'.

dontrulee:
The average man is filled with a lot of energy hence he must learn how to convert such energy into creative energy however environment and situations stiffles most men creative energy leaving them with only one way to express or release such energy - Sex. Men use sex as an avenue to relieve stress from their system, sex is good but it's not a lasting solution and many men fall prey of getting little amount of sex while expending a large amount of resources

Martinez39s:
@Rillycool @Smartb0y @JESHAL007

I got some emails from more than three persons. I don't know which is which, but I have reached out to the emails and contacted the numbers provided. If you guys are among them respond and let me run verification checks.

shortgun:
You are rich they cheat, you are poor they cheat.
You are short they cheat, you are tall they cheat.
You have 2 inches they cheat, you have 20 inches they cheat.
You are literate they cheat, you are illiterate they cheat.
You have pot belly they cheat, you have six packs they cheat.
You have iphone they cheat, you have android they cheat.
You drive Mercedes benz they cheat, you use leggedes benz they cheat.
You are 2 seconds man they cheat, you are 2 days man they cheat.
You live abroad they cheat, you live in Nigeria they cheat.

What is baffling is In all these cheating been exposed everywhere is that a man is somewhere saying to himself,
"Nah, my own woman is different"

CaveAdullam:
This is a response to this thread:https://www.nairaland.com/7934513/been-meeting-wrong-ladies-it

My first response: https://www.nairaland.com/7934513/been-meeting-wrong-ladies-it/1#127376013

Surprise. Surprise: This thread has a bonus point.

All (Nigerian) men have experienced this phenomenon. Except those that are strictly introverted or haven't requested a date.

There are plenty of factors underlying the unresponsiveness of women. Factors can emanate from you or them.

1. Women are more open and emotional to men closer to them. Proximity is how you get the better side of women + become aware of their dark sides.

Before a woman can travel from point A to point B to see you through a long distance you must have first created that emotional attachment.

But why do women travel long distances to meet strangers?

This is based on economies. They do it because of money. A prostitute can't become emotionally attached to her client. If there exists any, it is a facade. By the way, prostitutes have men they love genuinely + freely fvck them.

The evolutionary background: women by nature are weak. They need strong men to provide for them and protect them. A stranger can't be trustworthy. Only men in their community will they submit to because they've known over time.

Sex to women is more of security than pleasure. Sex for men is more of pleasures and ego - the boast of a harem.

So prostitutes are because of the money. Because if there is an availability of men to pay their bills and fulfill all their sincere and nonsensical fantasies, prostitution will be non-existent.

Therefore, in rich and developed nations, women engaged in romance for the sake of romance, love, and emotional attachment.
While in poor and underdeveloped nations women leverage romance to upgrade their socio-economic status and creep out of poverty and deprivation.

2. She might be in a relationship.

3. She's in a tarrying bad mood. And can't willingly share with you because you are a stranger. With time she may. But as a man, you'll become impatient because by nature you're not programmed to wait and beg for sex. You just want to hit and move to the next.

4. She doesn't like you. Every woman has a man they like or fantasize about. If you are not up to that standard they will ignore you.

5. Appearance. Your looks may not be ranked as acceptable. Using that metric, they set you aside and wouldn't want you to bother them.

6. Absence of flamboyance at first meet.

Women are emotional. So they can easily be cajoled by the presence of flashiness. This again is due to their desire for security. That's why celebrities can score many women + have multiple baby mamas at will.

If you don't express or show flamboyance women won't take you seriously.

Only well-trained women who are self-conscious and disciplined follow a man due to his ambitions, character, and intelligence. These women are the outliers.

7. It's a mind game. Women don't want to appear cheap. So they'll play the delayed and boring game till they know if you are genuine or not. They don't want to feel cheap.

8. Other men are on the radar. Some of these men are 10 times better than you. Some of these men you are 10 times better than.

This trooping of men of all ages and categories is the pleasure of all women. Some of the men are making bidding you can't or haven't. They fill her with hopes and promises. Her DM and privacy are a cluster of men persuading her into a romantic relationship.

Don't expect her to leave them for you easily. You are not the first. And more are behind you.

9. They want a long stream of persuasions and promises before they accept your proposal. Until you do this they will continue to remain boring.

10. Even though the average woman is slightly more intelligent than the average man, one can observe that women don't bother themselves with meaningful topics or engage in mentally stimulating discourse.

Because women dwell on the material and emotional realm. Like the average person, gratification must be instant and easy.

These women are boring because they lack exposure. What they know comprises of media gossip and frivolous demands of men.

Women are more concerned about sexual and relationship talks because that's where their power resides.

From the above factors, the only one you have control over is your appearance. So, before you step out look good, smell nice, and talk well. Be happy and jovial. Be humorous and social. Whether they accept or reject you becomes none of your business. Just do your part.

Getting women is a game of numbers. The more you step out and interact, the more women you'll encounter and get hooked by a number of them.

Meanwhile, as a man, you must go for a woman who likes you genuinely. These women you don't need to cajole or convince. They just like you + want to be in love with you. They will make you wish and pray for an eternal romantic relationship.

Have you seen secondary and university lovers? That's what I'm talking about. Genuine love.

Thanks.