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basically being a "Nice Guy" is using kindness to "buy" sex. Like "I'm sweet and caring so I deserve your puccy". It's lame and it won't work.

A nice guy wants to be agreeable, sweet and kind in hopes of being rewarded with sex for said qualities. They are the biggest manipulators. And rarely get the puccy. Cause women see through that bull.

If you like a girl be upfront with her. Dont do good and pleasant things for her to win her friendship while quietly waiting for her weakest point to "attack" and try to fucc her. Cause you're only wasting your time, energy and resources and you'll be angry when the woman calls you out for it.

when you're strong, women WANT and are WILLING to hand over control and rest in their femininity with the full confidence that they're safe with you, that you know what you're doing and you're able to lead, protect etc (women break rules for alphas).

Every human being has his or her own frame. Men and women have their own frame. And generally 80% of the Male population (the Beta majority) by default break frame when they deal with women,, as in they leave their own frame and enter a woman's frame, as in they abandon their own dominance of their reality and break their own rules to satisfy/align with/live by, the woman's rules - which is her frame

100% of Women want to flex their peak SMV to the core, they always want to settle down when they hit the wall and their SMV starts declining.
Sadly, 80% of men want to marry immediately they are about to peak on the SMV, That's why married men tend to cheat a lot... Because they just entered their season of abundance but they've already tied themselves down.

it should be noted that when women complain of a shortage of men , in any country on any continent, they're only complaining of the Beta Bucks shortage. cause women will never run out of men who wanna smash. it's the shortage of men willing to commit which troubles women cause it means many things: eg it means there's no one women can use to correct their mistakes (no step fathers for those alpha's kids), and it means women may have to work till they die since there's no "retirement package" men that will wife them up and support them later on in life.

women always have options. no matter how horrible they are. that's something no one can take away from them,since they are the most desired sex

this is one of the core truths that turned many men red pill,, while a man hustles in his early years to put his life together, women are having their fun. And when these women are tired they then decide to settle, just in time as hustling guys are getting successful. So now women are ready to settle and men are ready to commit, which is not bad in itself but for the fact that women are serving men secondhand left over coochie but want men's freshly minted coins. That's what men are rebelling against. Its robbery.

What men must do is we must double our efforts to make sure none of our gender is exploited. This is the very meaning of the gender war.

Dealing with hoes is not wrong but committing to hoes is wrong. You can't be paying top dollar for something trashy jerks have been getting for free for a decade.If only the average man can see the shenanigans the average girl gets up to between the ages of 17 and 27ish, guys wouldn't be too quick to dismiss our message of being selective.
Anyone who has gone to college or university knows what girls get up to while their male coursemates are struggling to get even a proper GF.

gender and masculinity are the two most hated things at the moment together with heterosexual marriages and being pro-life (as opposed to being pro-abortion). If you're an enemy of gender, men,marriage and babies, the mainstream world will love you.

A woman can't say "Moses loves me cause he had sex with me". Not really, cause sex is not something men control. Just as a man can't say,"Dorothy loves me cause she bought me this and that". Cause a womans commitment is worthless. As long as he hasn't smashed Dorothy, his friends can't really be convinced Dorothy loves him. Cause the only thing of value Dorothy has is the pucc. Until she puts that on the table, she's holding back.

All this is to illustrate both men and women understand the "moment of Truth" concerning each gender. A woman can't use commitment to show a guy she loves him, just as much as a man can't use sex to show a woman he loves her. Women express love by sex, men express love by commitment. Hence that woman who's hard to fucc is the woman everyone fights for cause she has value.Just like that man who's hard to commit is the man everyone fights for cause he has value.
Which brings us full circle back to the virgin and the Bad boy as the most valuable in the dating field.

What is a Beta?
A Beta is a man who is failing with women whom women deal with only as a second option and use him for his resources.

If a your wife or girl friend is acting holy and prude, telling you "I can't suck d!ck, that's disgusting", "I don't do doggy, that's for hòes", "I can't do this, it is too degrading" etc, just have itbe at the back of your mind that you are being shortchanged and you are not among the guys who get her sexual best; if you insist on getting it you will meet resistance because she will want to defend her image (women do this a lot). Besides, what a woman isn't getting from you sexually, she will seek it elsewhere from the right guy if the opportunity presents itself. If she can have the best of both worlds without any consequences, she will. All women are sexual freaks to the right guy in the right situation. Don't bother with those that are not sex freaks to you.

The genie is out of the bottle. Female sexuality, long kept in check by the Patriarchy, has finally broken free. There is no going back. The Age of The Slut is upon us. It's either you run and hide under a rock and wait for Society to collapse, or you ride the wave of female lust like a pro surfer.

With Feminism cheering them on; with dating apps Tinder, Instagram, Facebook, WhatsApp, 2go etc delivering an endless stream of men direct to their phones; with multiple contraception methods on hand and with the best medications for various STIs, women are overdosing themselves on sex and accumulating pussy-numbing Dick counts.

Marriage, with its 1 Dick, is increasingly becoming a prison no woman wants to enter and every woman is eager to exit (as shown by the sky-high divorce rate and the fact that 80% of all divorces are initiated by women)

pansophist:
This question will make some people cry, because the percentage of folks that have no one to run to when they need help is way higher.

Just reading the question alone makes me heart bleed. This life is very lonely and painful for lots of folks, especially men.

Another subset of folks are those who are the de facto breadwinner. The only crime they committed was to be successful and to have a good heart, which has attracted all the leeches (aka family members) to feast.

They are between the redline of cutting everyone off and just live solo, or to keep giving to sustain the colonial relationship.

Giving is not even the issue, but such giving has created a permanent dependence, that breaking it will ensue conflict, guaranteed.

Guy you're a philosophizing from a position of privilege, you don't understand what majority of people are going through, everyone needs an helping hand, even so called relatives were helped, I'm not saying you be parasitic and not make effort but at least if you can leverage the help of a well to do family member to go far then do so, some too helped the so-called relative to attain his position, human beings are interdependent

To all the Single guys,, if you've female cousins and female work colleagues you vibe with , Get in the habit of asking them to introduce you to a friend they think you may click with. Don't sleep on those introductions. They do work. And they're many times better and more productive than cold approaching Women on the street ,,, and in terms of labor, definitely more fruitful than even being Chosen, especially if you have problems identifying choosing signals. Women listen to women and trust women above men and having a woman make a case for you with another woman will always be better than engaging and seducing a woman yourself. The added bonus with introductions is that they are a passive way of getting girls, you literally don't have to lift a finger. You don't even have to talk to the girl until she's brought to you. The most that'll be required from you is maybe your pics. And even then, if you're like every guy out there your pics are already on your social media so no one may even directly ask for the pics.

Go ahead try it. You've nothing to lose.

monerozi5590:
And I am telling you the most difficult masculine trait is your ability to provide. We should all aim for it

People that fuxck her steadily didn't drop one naira, but you slave hard in marriage to have pussy rationed to you based on her terms

monerozi5590:
And I am telling you the most difficult masculine trait is your ability to provide. We should all aim for it

Dude what's the use of providing for a lady that has had multiple dicks, she wasn't a virgin again, you are just an ego manipulated slave

What women want in a boyfriend or a husband is a Provider. They choose a man for marriage by his ability to supply materially, not by the size of his dick, his appearance or his sexiness. All which means boyfriends and husbands - by nature - are NOT a woman's sexual fantasy, just her financial fantasy.

Bateman's principle states that women are choosier due to greater parental investment. Being more choosy , women are overall less interested in any sexual contact. This, in turn, means men have fewer dating opportunities on average, so men more likely make compromises out of sexual frustration (principle of least interest ). This allows women substantial decision power in sexual matters, which they can exploit by strategically withholding sex.

Guys should look around them, there are some girls/women that have a genuine desire for them instead of chasing women that don't have any iota of interest for them

The problem is that Men don't recognize this power and besides this power cannot manifest itself in a vacuum if there is no collaboration among men. The problem for the modern man is not woman against man, but man against man. Women are in truthful partnership to the sisterhood but men aren't to the brotherhood. Gynocentric laws, feminism, female entitlement mentality will not become flesh if men weren't involved. Women cannot do anything without the consent of men whether directly or indirectly because they know that every actions respects Newton's third law of motion: every action has an equal but opposite reaction.

The only people who are naturally predisposed to being redpilled from birth are male homosexuals.

Most of us are technically one "mad" sex style away from changing our middle name to Simpson.


But we are not ready for this conversation

One of the greatest weapon I believe women use on men to manipulate them is ignoring them.
Men should also learn to ignore and let go if she's not acting in your expectations. Look for someone else. Beam your attention else where. The more you place too much attention on her especially if it's one way and not mutual, the less attractive u become in her eyes, and the easier she can manipulate you with little attention she gives you.

Women succeed because they aim for billionaires and millionaires, why men are failing on the losing side because they aim for fat butts and boobs of low quality women. If a man fvcks once a day in his mind he has conquered the world and look for more women to conquer.

Men continually reduce their standard every day just to fvck pvssy, the most foolish thing is to even brag about it as if sexual intercourse is an act that has been winning Grammy awards.

Women aim higher, date older men and are becoming more richer by the day. But men aim lower, fvck different women, boasts about it and lose money and precious time. Who do you think will win this game in the long run?

Women know about this inherent horniness in men, hence, they take advantage of it by hoarding their bodies or selling sex or providing the illusion of sex to men. To justify this, between the two genders who is the most friendzoned? Men! Who is mostly exploited? Men! Women know that to get a man, you must provide or sell him sex. It's natural! Sex is the female's weapon. And this is the evolution of gold diggers, sugar babies, prostitutes, etc.

Don't allow the masses deceive you that women love sex more than men, it is a big lie! Women pretend to because they want to exploit men.

Only few men get sex because women only give sex to men who rank high in good looks(strong,handsome), wealthy(material resources, cash), powerful(status), personality(confident, fearless, intelligent etc).

NB: Men that rank high in these qualities are lower. Women fight for these men and the majority of men(80%) are ghosted by these women. Women only fall for some of these 80% of men that protrudes an illusion of the qualities possessed by the 20% of men. Hence, you see thugs, street niggas, players, Don Juans scoring pvssys everywhere they go. In the most crudest form, this is game! Treat yourself like a king and you will be respected as a king, then, fvck pvssys and form an harem. Lol!

Hypergamy: since women date higher and see only the 20% of men, they will ignore the broke 80% of men. The former men will have a high reproductive success and the later men Low reproductive success in an ideal situation.

However, you lose before you can gain these women. It is the 20/80 principle. They are cheap for a few (the men women choose) but expensive for the majority (the men that chases women). The fact that women choose doesn't stop other men from chasing them + will not block other men from contacting them. This is where female weaponised their sexuality. Since many men hasn't been chosen or still waiting to pick signal, they will patronize these women selling their sexuality. Sell the illusion of sex and ransacking their pockets is guaranteed.

Another confusing thing here again: in this present time, men are less engaged in sexual activities than women. Simple answer: Hypergamy! More than 80% of men are at the bottom of life and unattractive to women. While more than 80% of women aim for the 20% of men at the top. Despite this, women still desires one particular man that will optimise their hypergamy rather than hopping from one man to another. Dual sexual selection now comes into play when women are unable to optimise hypergamy via 1 man. When it comes to sex, women are more emotional while men more physical

Puccy has its own mind. It can't be forced because genuine desire can't be forced. If it hates you it hates you. And the sex will be the absolute bare minimum that the girl must give to keep you.

This is how Beta relationships are set up.