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Education / Re: FG Begins Evacuation Of Nigerian Students In Sudan (Video/Photos) by jiddama(f): 1:11pm On Apr 26, 2023
ecolime:

Nahhh

Naptu2 is an APC guy no doubt but all his Threads are hard facts. He doesn't engage in senseless propagandas. That I am 100% sure of.

BTW, God bless Allen Onyema. He's a man I stan 🙌

He's an OG, he's part of a few gems still left in this space.....

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Fashion / Re: Check Out My New Lalle/henna Design. What Do You Think? (pics Ins.) by jiddama(f): 11:03pm On Oct 18, 2022
Naijatask:


Ya Yi kyau. Amma Kuma, ki rage posting a wannan forum, Dan Yan iska suka cika a ciki

I beg to differ.

Ba hadu aka zama daya ba, muna nan shekara da shekaru. One thing da forum in nan shi, duk abunda ka so nema zaka samu grin.

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Education / Re: Is There A Course You Will Advise A Jambite Not To Study? by jiddama(f): 3:45pm On Jun 26, 2020
NigeriaB:
Please, I beg you in God's name; avoid Biochemistry..

Don't go near Biochemistry., Pleaseeeeee

Please don't make the mistake of applying for Biochemistry please

Permit me to ask, Why sir?
Career / Re: My Bitter Experience Doing A Security Guard Job by jiddama(f): 2:47pm On May 20, 2020
Ayomide11111:
If You've Done This Job Before, Pls Tell Me Your Experience Too

This my thread is just mainly for single men and guys outside there and I would like to share my experience with you guys on what I have undergone and experienced as a Security guard.

To be a security guard is not a job I can advise my enemy to opt for let alone my friend or relation. The job is a regardless one and very disgusting.

As a security guard, you are more or less a beggar in the street, should I say beggar has a little regard more than you.

When people see you, they see nothing in you. Most especially when you're trying to speak to them in English making them to know that you're educated...(laugh..) You just did it wrong, to them it means you are having mental problem.

The image impression of 98% of people on guys who do this job to hustle for their lives rather than involving in criminal practices is that they have no future; is that they cannot make it in their lives; e.t.c.

Since I've started this job when I finished my program in the polytechnic, any lady I made to know about the job I do turns me off later, some said it's a beggars' work.

And currently, I hardly have female friends not to talk of girlfriends or marriage.

Though, I didn't mean to start this job before if not condition, but now I'm planning to quit the job and find another.

Sometimes, I cried in my room, begging God to show me another way.

One of the workers in the place of work that I'm guiding once told me that his dog is better off than me. This is even the person that cannot even compose simple correct English, he said his dog is better than me.

Your experience too is allowed... Thank you.

Don't allow people's opinion of your hardworking get to you, things may not be rosy right now, but remember the story is not yet over, besides you can always use this lemon to make lemonade.

Nigeria has a huge security challenge and you could always carry your job experience one day and maybe startup your own private security outfit and build up your own clientele.

Or you can keep building on your skill set and keep applying for other jobs and you might just get lucky....

My point is don't allow negativity get to you.
Travel / Re: What Has Corona Virus (covid19) Taught You About Life, The World, Human Race? by jiddama(f): 8:51pm On Mar 22, 2020
SmartMen:
Exactly. This was my first observation. But when those from certain part of the world had a chance, they spearheaded racism but coronavirus has proven that we are one big family and feel same emotions just as the next race.

Racism, is a hydra headed monster, to truly understand it, you have to take a prismal look of both victim and victimizer.... But you're right we could always do better...

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Travel / Re: What Has Corona Virus (covid19) Taught You About Life, The World, Human Race? by jiddama(f): 5:43pm On Mar 22, 2020
That we're basically the same, black, white, Asian or Hispanic, we laugh the same, we cry the same and the same things makes us scared.

The life we are living is full of fallacy, covid19 was a wakeup call to the true reality, at the end of the day we have the same instincts, keep breathing and protecting our loved ones...

Perhaps the silver lining to these pandemic, is that our humanity is revived as a generation .

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Education / Re: What Course Did You Study In The Tertiary Institution And What's your job now? by jiddama(f): 11:59pm On Mar 21, 2020
I studied biochemistry, I'm currently working as a health officer with an INGO....

Trying to build my work experience, I aim to create my own health startup (i am in love with social enterprise).

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Health / Re: Coronavirus: Prostitute Wears Face Mask (video) by jiddama(f): 5:39pm On Mar 18, 2020
cRobo:
Na wow oooh

Its not easy

I just pity her, she might not have a choice perhaps you have no idea what's she is going through to make ends meet, if she had a choice she will certainly be off the street, she isn't even half naked like regular olosho

God send her a helper

Well


I won't say a word

I like your thought process smiley... Humanity first before keyboard savagery....

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Nairaland / General / Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by jiddama(f): 12:32am On Dec 31, 2019
nototribalist:
My pregnant dog died 3 weeks ago of snake bite. I believe she was trying to fight the snake. she was used to chasing lizards around the compound but this time miscalculated the strange reptile

I can feel your pain, I lost my cat also to snake bite in October, we have a lot of cats at hone, but that particular cat and I bonded right form his birth, very naughty cheesy but I always forgave him. I wasn't around when he died, no one could tell me over the phone, till the day I came back, and he didn't run to welcome me, it was a miserable experience, I felt the pain on a whole new level and cried my heart out.... I kept dreaming of the cat, still do sometimes. cry

My only succor was that the snake was found and killed.

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Literature / Re: Amnesic Pills... (psy' Ladies Series Book 1) by jiddama(f): 9:36pm On Dec 22, 2019
Hauneg:

You better come and do justice to this and stop double booking

I have plans for both spaces dear wink

Divepen1 I hope i'm not breaking rules already lipsrsealed
Literature / Re: Amnesic Pills... (psy' Ladies Series Book 1) by jiddama(f): 9:32pm On Dec 22, 2019
"I'll be back cool" in *Arnold Schwarzenegger's voice*
Literature / Re: Amnesic Pills... (psy' Ladies Series Book 1) by jiddama(f): 9:31pm On Dec 22, 2019
Epilogue


5 years ago....

It had rained heavily for two days straight and when the sun had risen today, it had been especially bright, given the early morning a really nice warmth... Kind of an apologetic stance thought Salma as she raised the living room curtains.

"Abdul has taken it upon himself to clear out your little garden"....remarked Adda as she strolled into the room and couldn't help but laugh at the mortified expression on Salma's face.

"Abdul!!!!.....Abdul!!!...." salma yelled as she hurriedly went past adda into the kitchen and disappeared outside, clearly ready to stop the boy from his unwarranted and certainly unsolicited botanical help.

Two hours later, with all housework done and breakfast duly eaten...she carried her laptop to the kitchen to attend to the her thesis...with her 3 year old son off to Islamic school and her help Adda busy with her sowing , anisa sought to maximize her Saturday morning... But first a quick call to her husband jafar to check on him, she was mildly surprised that it went straight to voicemail for jafar had always been available...

“Maybe he had board an early flight she excused, mentally registering the time difference between Oyo and Singapore.

Her attention was brought back to the screen by the notification icon indicating mail...absently clicking... She perused and then.....
Nothing....She kept staring..... Hearing her name being called from afar but then again it was as surreal as what was on her screen...

Then she fell off the high chair into blankness....





CHAPTER ONE (Another Saturday)

"Is there an unwritten rule cosigned by all tv stations that at a certain time of the day in a random week we would all air 'Crap'..." Salma thought aloud as she switched off the TV.

"Hmmm"... Adda remarked not looking her way...." Your mood is as bright as lace ".
"lace? Really ..." As she regarded the dark haired cat...and smiled Adda always knew how to keep her in check.

"So what are we going to eat today Adda ?..."
"I plan on cooking jollof rice" said Adda...
"Then count me out...I will simply take another cup of tea..."
"Yayy" screamed a voiced that startled both women.

"Abdul....there are more cultured ways of entering upon people" rebuked his mother...."sorry mama...Adda are we really eating jollof rice today?"...he asked happily.

"Yes dear...if I set about it now it's almost noon..." Adda replied rising.
"Ohh .... I wish it was tuwo"....remarked her daughter, Mufeedah.
"Mufeedah...you also don't know how to greet abi..." Inquired Salma with a mild frown.
"Sorry mama, I forgot"...came the honest reply from her smiling four year old.
"Mufeedah would you like a piece of cake?" Asked Adda from the kitchen.
Not waiting for a second invitation she dashed to the kitchen to obtain her own piece of the sweet delight.

Salma silently watched as her son, the woman who had grown to be more like a sister and her daughter departed the room, her gaze lingering a bit on the latter. She had been the silver lining at a time when calling her life a dark cloud seemed a gross underestimation. Quite intriguing how destiny tends to arrange the sequence of events in life.

"When you have a peeler you don't have potatoes and when the potatoes eventually arrive you have discarded the peeler in search for a pestle" as her step mother culinary describes it, she remembered with a smile.

Mufeedah was no ill-timed potatoes but she had certainly been a lifeline at a time when she most certainly found fading from existence a suitable notion her baby girl had kicked inside her stomach reminding her of every reason she had to keep on living.

She was glad she did for she had come to terms with certain aspects of life, it seems her mind had made a silent pact with her heart "keep the wolves at bay and it wont hurt so much" and so far it worked unless on certain occasions such as weekends which seem to give her ample time to reminisce.

Once alone, she picked her phone and idly went through her social media accounts....anything to keep the wolves at bay...

She hated weekends with a passion, to the world it was restive ...to her it is an excuse to be idle and a hurtful reminder of him. Always leaving much office work to keep her occupied but always manages to finish most by friday night she cursed her clinical efficiency, subjecting her to 48 hours of mental warfare with herself.
She was always sourly during that period for even her children preferred Adda's company. She loved her weekdays as she threw herself into work and simply forgot the world.

Since her moving back to Kano, she always found a way to keep busy...noticing that in between her lecturing job and research, she had spare time she offered writing articles for a women mental health website for free? Which they graciously accepted (as the editor queerly wrote in her acceptance mail, "it would be refreshing having the opinions of an emotionally wronged soul on the platform" as if she was a character of some utopian literature gone wrong). Smiling she found it queer herself, that the absurdities of life always came to her by mail.

But then again she had survived thanks to Adda whose presence was supposed to be for a month in her life but spanned to five years and counting, her two kids; 7 year old Abdulrahman who had a stratospheric IQ which kept all his tutors, mom inclusive struggling to stay ahead and 4 well almost 5 year old Mufeedah who is as expressive as well you go figure....because she had clearly run out of comparative analogs for her princess and her family (always Nana, her intrusive-but-only-for-good-intent stepmother, her practical father, Alhaji Abbas, Umar, her supportive step brother who seemed have to taken it upon himself to right the wrong a member of his species did to his sister, and of course her stepsister, Zubaidah whose optimism matched their father's rationality).

Five years later, the result, her kids were turning out quite well, had a great relationship with her family, had her publications in high impact international journals, supervised dozens of students and was well on her way to professorship with earned respect from her peers in academia, yes there was a certain reward for sailing through the storm of pain through, you will always get to calmer shores though the desirability of the destination has been called to question often atimes by many. Even by her at a certain point for despite all she made up for when she lost "him", she though grudgingly admits, a part of her faded into the abyss as far as emotions were concerned....


The strange ringtone startled her back to the present: Mufeedah's handiwork, seeing Nanahs name across her screen she proceeded to pick the call but not before she made a mental note to change her password.

“Assalam alaikum.... Good afternoon Nanah she breathed all at once.
"Was alaikum salam ... Salma"...."how are you?"
"I'm fine ....how is your health and that of Abbah ?"
"We are all well....how are my kids?"
"They are fine...thank you"
"Adda?"
"She is also fine"
"Good....are you busy tomorrow?"
She didn't like the sound of it because knowing Nanah her "tomorrow" just became busy but she had a feeling it’s not the type she was going to like but never the less she answered:
"Not really"
"Good dear could you possibly come over and help me make a few decisions on an order I received yesterday for a certain wedding".
"OK" groaned Salma already regretting her honest penultimate answer.
"Please bring the kids along and adda too, its been a while since I last saw her"
"OK"
"Nanah I know when you go all monosyllable it’s simply because you don't want to argue but still thank you for doing this".
She smiled her step mother reads her like a book.
"No problem Nanah, till tomorrow God willing"
"Ok thank you... Till you come" and she switched off.
Sighing Salma placed the phone back beside her but she had barely removed her hand when the now accustomed though still not agreeable ringtone began again.
It was still Nanah.

"Oh Salma....I forgot to extend my warmest regards to Adda and the kids"
“Alright......”
"Good bye"
"Bye"
Nanahs etiquette rubbed off on everyone in the family, thought Salma and a warm feeling crept to her heart.

A pleasant smell began drifting to her from the kitchen and making her seriously question her earlier decision not to eat and wandered if Adda could spare her a plate. Knowing the older woman she will have to beg for it…. And beg she did.

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Literature / Re: Amnesic Pills... (psy' Ladies Series Book 1) by jiddama(f): 9:24pm On Dec 22, 2019
Booked again grin
Literature / Re: Amnesic Pills... (psy' Ladies Series Book 1) by jiddama(f): 9:24pm On Dec 22, 2019
Booked wink
Literature / Amnesic Pills... (psy' Ladies Series Book 1) by jiddama(f): 9:24pm On Dec 22, 2019
Hello everyone,

I've done a lot of writing over the years but not once have I written fiction(not even a short story undecided)

I would like to use this space to experiment and write my very first fictional story.

Observations and constructive criticism are welcome.

Cc your people smiley to come over and read.

I give you:

AMNESIC PILLS

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(C) 2019. No part of this work including available on this website may be copied, photocopied, reproduced, translated or reduced to any electronic medium or machine-readable form, in whole or in part, without specific permission from the author. Distribution for commercial purpose is prohibited.


Disclaimer :
This book is purely a work of fiction any resemblance to life, people or experiences is purely coincidental.
Career / Re: Should I Recommend My Best "Team Member" For A Higher Position Off My Team? by jiddama(f): 8:17am On Dec 02, 2019
shadeyinka:

The first rule of life.

Do unto others what you would love done to you.

Please recommend Mr X for his upgrade to that new position.

However, you can be strategic about it. Let him know the problem his vacancy will cause to you. Let him suggest the way out for you. You might be surprised to end up with three Mr X rather than one .

If you can still do something, do it now! If God pushed him to you, God is still there to help you.


Op,

Listen to this.

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