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Mizwisdom:
Lol my joy is that we have agreed on my own number of kids. Young man, what is my business with Davido and his concubines? my fiancé and I prefer female kid over males.

Trust me your fiance don't wanna end up without a male child. He has plan B and C .

If you doubt me, get him drunk and ask him, he'll reveal it to you.

Zane2point4:
They difference is this,the men will always be around,might leave elsewhere but is available, the ladies will be at the mercy of there husbands,meaning if he decides she doesn't step out she cant.
Many reasons tho.

That aside, when women start having children, their love deviates from their husband and parents to their kids.

But a man's love for his parents and wife/kids is equal.

Mizwisdom:
Me I will chose female child over male any day. I told my fiancé if you're not ready to accept all female family, I can never marry you he agreed sharp sharp. I guess she didn't discuss it earlier on. Secretly, I know that if I don't have a female child I will be very very sad so I understand how people feel when they have only one gender but for the sake of the kids, we should learn to act maturedly and appreciate what God gives

Lol and you weren't worried how he agreed so easily? Hmmm

Someone that already has at least 2 male children from different women waiting for him outside and you dey here dey brag. No wise up

Did you see the joy on Davido's face when he heard he was having a boy through Chioma?

DexterousOne:
If I continue to list what women were able to achieve despite the misogynistic society they found themselves over the centuries

It will not contain this forum


Pocahontas

Joan of Arc

Queen Victoria

Queen Amina

Queen esther (Jews would hans been wiped out without her bravery)

Florence Nightingale

Sarah Sosan
Oby Ezekwezili

Fela's Mother

Angela Merkel

Margaret Thatcher

Let me stop here before I turn this place into diary list

Hahaha. You know if i should start my own list, we'd both grow old on this thread together.

There would be no technological advancement in the world today if not for men.

And here you are discouraging her on getting a male child.

The world needs more men please. I currently have 3 wonderful boys. Hoping to get more boys

The real men and women here understand the value and importance attached to a Male child.

DexterousOne:
Look at what this one is saying?

Great women ABOUND in their various fields

Harriet Tubman saved many many of her people, when the men were stuck chopping koboko in Massa's plantation

Marie Curie invented what saved millions and millions till date, and died due to radioactive exposure to achieve that feat.

Dr. Adedevoh's brave act saved millions from death from the hands of Ebola in Lagos. She also died to achieve that

What of the William sisters who kicked ass big time in sports?

Or Okonjo Iweala that saved us from Economic catastrophe in the early 2000s, creating structures like crude oil benchmark and many other measures to keep this country afloat?

What of the female warriors in Abeokuta that waged war and liberated their ancestral home from the Dahoney invaders?

Or the Kurdish women squad on the front lines with AK 47 warding off ISIS invasion?


I can go on and on and on.

Women are just as capable to achieve great things as men

You think?

If i begin to mention all the inventions and scientific success of men, this thread would get to page 600.

Y'all should stop with all this girl this, girl that, giving the poor woman false hope.

suruwilliams:
You are advising she goes into depression because she is carrying XX?did Linda ikeji also inherented her wealth from her husband

I could also show you more than 100 men who are 10× richer than Linda Ikeji, Alakija, Oprah Winfrey put together.

Let's be more realistic.

suruwilliams:
Folorunso alakija, Okonjo-Iweala, Ibukun Awosika, Amina Mohammed


Powerful women in the country they are all people daughters.

Stop giving her false hope.

Check out the list of the world's billionaires, out of a hundred there are only a handful of women that make the list (of which some of them had inherited it from their husband's and fathers)

Checkout the most successful and important people in the world, i can bet there are not more than 10 women on that list.

My point is, with proper guidance, a male child will always attain greater heights than a female child. I'd choose a Male child anyday anytime over a female child.


They are the powerful driving force of any thriving economy today.

The future is Male, believe it or not.

Op don't let anyone deceive you. Male kids are the perfect gift from God.


The ratio of successful Men to Women is 80:20


Keep trying, i pray God see you through.

eni4real:
All men should learn from OP!!

Never allow any toxic relationship to become serious

Break up with her...

Virgin or no virgin

Beautiful or not

Educated or not,!!!

A toxic relationship must not he encouraged!!

You are accepting her with love but remember, she will not remember love the day she will pour hot water or acid on you when angered!!

Break up with them before they become the real devil inside them!!!!

because she hasn't encountered a devil like herself. I trust myself.

By now she go don dey use crutches or she fit dey coma sef

eni4real:
Even Sigmund Freud will not be able to solve anger problems in some ladies!!
Don't try to medicalize this trait in her...

All she need is someone crazier than her . Someone that can send shiver down her spine with more craze..
That is the type of guy that should marry her ...


You are not that guy OP..

Japa, Japa.....

God bless you for this.

I know of a friend who had the same issue with his wife. Today he's late, he died from HBP. I learnt my lesson from him

Violence is the only answer.

Diligentnigga:
Absolutely
I have been calm all this while but when she saw rage and anger from me she ran she was very scared.. She knew that i am not some wimps


It takes a tough man to deal with a tough woman thanks for the head start

Bro do you see terrorists getting a pat on the back by the milltary? The answer is No.

She doesn't want peace, she wants violence. Give it to her fully.

My advice, next time she causes you pain or inflicts injury on you, you make sure you do the exact same thing to her.

An eye for an eye.

If you love your life.

Diligentnigga

She's behaving like that because she hasn't met her match. You have to be extremely violent to her

Sometimes violence is the answer

Vyolet:
Weaker men, do you mean the type of men that are not ready to provide for their families? Do you mean the ones that are cool with their wives being the sole provider financially as well as being homekeepers? Do you mean the ones that are not ready to remain like our forefathers but still want the women to remain like the women of old?
I mean the type of men that abandon their wives with kids with the mind that the kids will come looking for them someday after the woman has taken care of them?

If you are referring to these men, YES, they are weak and not fit to live among humans.

So sorry your hubby left you for another woman. He probably left to have peace of mind.

The men I've come across are all worthy and responsible to be called Men. And there's no such thing as a weak man

elektra:
The only time cheating bothers men is when it is a woman doing it.
Look at this OP, he is not even the one being cheated on, but it worries him so much he had to open a thread about it.

The woman left the kids for her husband. Who should she have left them for? Are the kids not bearing the man’s name?
There are many women tired from raising kids by themselves, have you ever noticed anyone of them? The moment you see one man raising his kids you come to open thread.
You men should get used to raising your own bloody kids.

I wish your husband could see this. So he knows who he married and be prepared

To all the guys saying mother's this, mother's that, y'all will become fathers someday and see what it means to be neglected by your kids.



As for me I'm gonna spoil both my parents equally with the best things of life. 50/50

darlenese:
this mentality is the main reason children love their mothers more , women make a lot of sacrifices , so through pains to raise a child and they will never mention it to the child , but the child sees it clearly ,unlike men that will mention every thing they have done for the child .
.

And can you swear your mum hasn't mentioned about all the things she has done for you when scolding you?

@bolded what sacrifices have they made that fathers haven't made double?

Freddykrueger:
All these ugly, poverty stricken boys that have never travelled out of their village will just meet an average looking girl and assume that's the most beautiful thing there is...such ignorance and foolishness

Tbfh man it disgusts me seeing headlines on nairaland like "Beautiful lady arrested for ××××"

Then i begin to wonder what type of lowlifes with terrible self esteem issues would address a below average woman as beautiful.

Alot of guys here have very poor taste in women, no wonder they keep settling for less.

*Spits**

Lost 4.5m to wrong investments. That hurt me real bad

My worst year ever

Making money

God pls bless me with boys all through . The joy that sons bring is out of this world

God bless all the fathers out there

QueenSuccubus:
Wetin d sup?

Lol everywhere level

I go like get ur control

@QueenSuccubus pls check your mail, i sent you a PM

Thanks