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BlackManta:
The husband that cheated on his wife with 3 women and had a child outside wedlock is not evil

It is the woman that is evil

Some men like you think you can treat any woman like trash and get away with it....nonsense.
I'm glad that women are finally standing up against emotional abuse.

Most of the men in this thread are hypocrites....spits

madridguy:
Mtchew, why just crying out now? You've been forming western man since.

To me, the only solution is for you to go and start a new family somewhere and stop thinking you have any children anywhere.

Paul8000:
Good evening ladies and gents...

My name is Paul, I am married to my beautiful wife Vivian by name for the past 16 years . We have 5 wonderful children together Jemima 15, Isaac 12, Elizabeth 9, Samuel 6 and Tabitha 3. We are based in Liberia. We both are working and earning well by God grace. I have few issues with my wife that brought me here to get some advice.

Anytime my wife and I had some misunderstanding, she does involve the children. The oldest 3 she tells them everything including how I cheated on her, she also feed them with lies that I am a bad man and I want to kills her. She tells them so many things to make them hate me. They will disrespect and keeping malice with me to the extend of if I send them for errands, she will stop them and tell them not to go. No matter how much I shouted at them to go, they will not obey me because their mother has the final say. For example my wife and I are having some misunderstandings for over 3 weeks now, we are not talking or sleeping in the same room. I have tried to makes things works for us but she refused.

The children are also keeping malice with me. I sent Elizabeth to go and get some water for me, she obeyed and went to the kitchen, few moments later she came back empty handed staring at me in shock. I asked her what about the water she said her mother said I should go in the kitchen to get the water myself . At that moment I just couldn’t take it anymore I exploded in anger I went to the kitchen we had a heated arguments she pour water on me I really wanted to hit her so hard but I control my anger and walked away.

I left the house for 3 days to cool down. because I was so angry with her I just wanted to be alone. I then went home after 3 days,my 3 oldest children acted like they hadn’t seen me they were busy with their phone/ tablets and it was only my 2 youngest that were missing me they both hugged me like never before me. My youngest daughter refuse to leave my room she even slept in my room. I could see how much she misses me. My wife on her side acted like nothing too her normal behaviour as usual . For the sake of my 2 youngest children I sat her down and talked with her. How we should makes things better for the sake of our children especially the younger ones.

I have apologized to her on my knees all to no avail. I am tired of my wife turning my children against me they have becoming out of control ... I can’t correct them it pains me a lot to see my own children disrespecting me. I don’t want them to grow up and hate me all their life I want to have my family back. A happy home how we used to be before but my wife don’t want to cooperate with me I thought this lock-down will bring us together so we could sorted out our differences and fix our marriage to become better but all to no avail.

I am writing this sitting inside my car in the compound because I can’t even go inside the house because I have nobody to talk to my 2 youngest children that keeps me busy are asleep. I am so lonely all alone please how can I put an end to all this I am fed up ...

Anyone who has ever experienced something like this can you please advice me on how did you overcome this. I hope I was brief enough...

djon78:
It might shock you to know that girls raised in rich, affluent, middle class homes are some of the most behaved women you will come across.

It's even the boys that misbehave most times.
Why do you think the rich marry the rich?
You will see big men insisting that there sons marry from affluent homes too?

Girls raised from poor homes may turn out good but it's rare. Most behave improper.
Guys raised from poor homes are the ones that behave proper and hence get themselves out of poverty through education and landing good jobs.

dobrinswizzy:
Hello nairalanders

A married man is woeing my babe o
Saying all sweet things to her, promising her different things, although the man is quite wealthy, he said he want her to be his wife

Guys what should we do?

afribabe:
meaning that the man can singlehandedly bear the name Father in his lifetime.....

All I know is that in case of a divorce/separation, both of them should not expect to return to their pre-marriage state ..

Acmepreneur:
It will not be better for your culture and the idiots that wrote that stupid culture. And the girl is even stupid thinking of returning one yeye bride price. So the husband no have sex with her abi?or she no born pikin for him? So all the child labour pains and pregnancy should go for free? It will not be better for men who made those stupid laws

Candoit:
If she return her bride price. Will he return her virginity?

benji93:
You no dey shame, En. . Post your own Na.

benji93:
If this is you, then that was a serious uppercut.

TheKingIsHere:
Not good tho.

I plan on relocating to canada soon, and i might still go for a Nigerian or African babe first latinas will be second

donogaga:
Be careful bro. You don't have to say the Truth all the time.

You guys should be encouraging our girls.

Thank you.

searchng4love:
What's your issue. Let's make our choice

searchng4love:
I have always done that.

searchng4love:
They really get very riotous and volcanic at the same time ..

ovielistic:
When 9ja girls see black 9ja guys going after white girls..E dey pain them die..i can tell you from experience.
My white boo will be like I notice I get these stares from black girls when we go out..I am like you won't understand...Lol

Goddys:
I don't understand why some people lack common decency. It is very rude to tell a woman she is ugly. Maybe I was raised up differently

pocohantas:
Hmmm. “Foreign women rush Naija men”

uuzba:
This pizza of a thing that you guys are summersulting about is just bread.
BREAD!
BREAD!
Ordinary bread.
Take bread, tomatoes, egg, fish, suya.... And you are good. End of story.

Gidah:
pls sirs am i safe dealing with bobo65

AndroBlaze:
Stay focused.

You will get your money back or at least he will be apprehended.

Follow all the advice on the banks and especially the police, we will see if that 30k is worth all the tribulations that will befall him.

To see his profile and old posts, always use Google's cached services

https://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:22BEpLnQoBwJ:https://www.nairaland.com/qualitygod+&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=ng&client=ms-android-xiaomi

https://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:vDI5oxSkvLkJ:https://www.nairaland.com/qualitygod/posts+&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=ng&client=ms-android-xiaomi

ibkayee:
Lol what am I looking at?

pocohantas:
Naso. I have a dream...