Even if its true and u (Op) are right that its just a conspiracy against ipob/ugm/igbos . You guys ipob supporters are at fault for making the south east a north east in the making, boko haram started like this . You cant succeed in your ipob movement by creating a very conducive environment for conspirators to operate. You want to form a movement avoid violence, E.g Martin luther king or better enact change through politics but i guess you guys already bleeped dat up long time, no strong alliance. so now majority of Nigerians dont trust an igbo presidency and its not because u guys aren't capable of leading, you igbo are fucking brilliant and innovative but its just dat gut feeling of uncertainty. I mean with the current set of leaders at most we get bleeped financially and economically but we still have a country to our name, its shitty but its still ours, may be someday we might turn things around (A.I maybe) . Anyways the blood are still on your hands .the human brain collectively can be very small you know, so all dat detective, lawyer shit trying to get people to reason your way wont work. Ur so called conspirators (if they exist) have an edge , u guys gave dem dat. Make a video, chop some heads off ,speak small igbo , wear biafra logo and gbam you loose a thousand supporters. End game �. Me sef no like this union called Nigeria but we don enter ham ,we make it work or we die trying or even sef continue with our "e go better" slogan while taking no legal action . Catalonia, chechnya and so on want independence but it is wat it is. May be Nigerian is not working because we haven't done the simplest thing which is to learn to love one another and coexist peaceful. A black mans heart

JORDAN55:
I need someone going to university of Windsor to share a 2 bedroom apartment with urgently .

Please message me or quote this message

Jordan my name Abdul-Azeez am also going to uwindsor my resumption date is may 9 and i am yet to receive ppr but my eligibility review has started which is the last stage 4 me. I love partying though and music, am kind of a study hard play hard kind of person and am 420 friendly if you are a ok with my personality u can add me on WhatsApp 09091491440

Please Gurus in the house, how long does it take to get ppr after eligibility review starts. Mine started on April 29. IRCC is really messing with my mental health, for the past 1 month na depression i just dey. Cant focus on anything.

Good day Everyone, I am a May intake applicant . Applied march 3rd and did upfront medical before applying because it was mandatory in my case . (Upfront medical required) So i assumed i was chosen for NSE Nigerian Student Express. I had over 30k proof of fund in my dads savings account for more than 8 months before application, I have a travel history (I did my undergraduate studies in Russia). My first year part tuition fee receipt of 4000CAD and IELTS of 7.5 was submitted along with other usual documents.

The Nigerian Student Express Application processing time as stated by IRCC takes 20 days but in my case, it's been 42 days and I am yet to receive any update or final decision from IRCC.

my master program starts on the 3rd of may (in 18 days time) University of Windsor. I am very terrible at waiting thats why i wanted to use NSE. I develop anxiety, depression and even loose complete focus in situations like this especially when I read about people's experience on this page that have meet all requirements and are still waiting for months and even a year, it scares me alot and i dont mean to be insensitive to others that have been waiting long before me, its just that my anxiety is causing me serious depression. This is some kind of mental slavery, The cost of being a Nigerian.
Please gurus and expert in the house should analysis my application page and advise on what to do.

Ask ur people and kazan if dem make reach 500k on legit hustle , i talk about yahoo things just legit hustle.. only rent is around 20k - 30k rubles thats like 150k naira a month ..i have been there e no get weytin person fit tell me about Россия na i love the place die many lovely memories but i dont see myself making it big on legit hustle

skywalker240:

Oga I get people for Kazan and St Petersburg, no use the inflation for Russia take view and compare this shit hole, every blessed day the naira is losing value 500k is nothing for someone residing in asokoro or Ademola adetokunbo wuse2

Take it from someone who has stayed in Russia for 4 years, the Russian offer looks enticing but its a bad offer on the long term. Here are my reasons
1. 200k to rubles is probably 28k-29k rubles, you monthly expenses will be around 10k-15k rubles based on my experience. And if it is moscow with the crazy nightlife u might get too excited and blow it all � thats if u like flexing, which means you will barely save up to 1.5 million naira a year as compared to naija where u can easily save up to 4 million naira and in 2-3 years u are in canada or uk self sponsored enjoying the soft life over there

2. Russia jobs no dey make i tell u truth, its a nationalist country they will chop b4 u chop, meaning foreigners find it really difficult to get jobs. They prefer to hire themselves. Plus dont forget language barrier будет трудно братан it will take 2 yrs or more to get hold of it.

Summary: Russia is a country that takes more than it offers, u go enjoy ur time there at d expense of ur future

My advice 4 u is, Collect d 500k jobs , save 4 a couple of years and japa to a sure country i need not mention them. A place where you can have a now and a future. Goodluck

Joey4321:
Hello guys, So this thing has been bothering me for quite a while now and I would like to have someone else's idea on it.

In my mid 20's currently undergoing a masters program at a Russian University (Somewhere around Moscow). Online because of the pandemic. The masters is a full scholarship with a little stipend calculated by your grades.
Now the borders are open and I have the opportunity of being there physically. Its kind of mandatory right now even. The scholarship is supposed to last 2 years with a mandatory third year where you will have to work for the school as payment for your scholarship. While studying you get paid, little money though, lets say 200k in conversion to naira. While working (On your third year) you also get paid but this depends on the role you interviewed for and your skill level. The masters is in Data Science and that is also my field.

But the only problem now is I just got a really good job here in the country that pays lets say about half a million. With my current projections, I could level up a bit more and settle down in 2 years

Now this current amount is more than what I will get paid in Russia both as a student or as a worker for the next 3 years (According to my projection). However, the school will cover accommodation, so the stipends are just for feeding, coffee, movies and dates, etc.

Do you think the masters is worth me giving up such a opportunity in Nigeria for the abroad?

In a nutshell, do you think having a foreign masters certificate is worth it?

Are you saying its impossible to save up to 3 million naira a year on a 500k salary if one is determined.
I have been to Russia i can tell u for free the Nigerian offer is way better ..Nigeria is bad quite alright but migrating to the wrong place is way worse . Just ask people that have migrated to wrong places except u wan press labtop�

skywalker240:

Yes, 500 a month

Light bill

Transportation

Siblings and relatives

DSTV

Foodstuffs and groceries

House rent

If he has a car, cost of fuel for the month

Miscellaneous for emergency bills

With the ever trigger happy dwindling economy

Plus maybe a Nigerian Girl friend

Quit this bad advice

Take it from someone who has stayed in Russia for 4 years, the Russian offer looks enticing but its a bad offer on the long term. Here are my reasons
1. 200k to rubles is probably 28k-29k rubles, you monthly expenses will be around 10k-15k rubles based on my experience. And if it is moscow with the crazy nightlife u might get too excited and blow it all � thats if u like flexing, which means you will barely save up to 1.5 million naira a year as compared to naija where u can easily save up to 4 million naira and in 2-3 years u are in canada or uk self sponsored enjoying the soft life over there

2. Russia jobs no dey make i tell u truth, its a nationalist country they will chop b4 u chop, meaning foreigners find it really difficult to get jobs. They prefer to hire themselves. Plus dont forget language barrier будет трудно братан it will take 2 yrs or more to get hold of it.

Summary: Russia is a country that takes more than it offers, u go enjoy ur time there at d expense of ur future

My advice 4 u is, Collect d 500k jobs , save 4 a couple of years and japa to a sure country i need not mention them. A place where you can have a now and a future. Goodluck

Don't accept her back, all remember why u guys broke up in the first place, d idea that u can change someone or someone will change in a relationship is total nonsense. You can b friends with her but not dating, and your friends that said you should take her back aren't your friends. Trust me I have been in your shoes...

i have heard your advise am no rushing anything

skfa1:
The thing is, even if she wasn't an olosho in the past and doesn't want to change her ways then you have every right not to engage her not even to talk about marriage.

Remember that marriage can either bring you happiness or sadness. Be wise and be smart in your decision making.

By the way, you sounded like a good career person, in this case I will recommend a career lady for you, in that way, both of you can have the same vision.

Finally, don't rush into a marriage. Take your time or wait for the right time.

God bless you.

i never collected her money so you cant say her money motivated me to stay, and i agree with you on habit,its hard to change

fineboynl:
op, the truth is you were committed to her at first because of the money she gave to you.

then the second was sex, because you were enjoying all these things for free you became attached and committed. and because of your soft heart and gentle nature you became in love with her and find it hard to hurt or disappoint her. then you start to see how to corrects her mistakes and maybe turn her around so you can marry her.

habit is a very sensitive and delicate thing to change. a thief is a thief, and a prostitutes is a prostitutes. they never or difficult to change. it only need the situation to turn things around for the worst then that habit will resurface.

only the strong hearted and a carefree person can marry someone of that kind of past.

from what I see you are not a carefree or strong hearted. you can never change anyone. they might change when life seems so good and goes on like that. but once the situation goes back to a point a one time prostitutes or a thief will go back.

the thing that triggered that habits or behavior will spark it again.

modern prison is not to just people is jail. because jail doesn't solved the problem or changed people, rather but to rehabilitate, reorient, psychological welfare and to change of their previous environment or the basics that cause the crime in the first place.

that's why the western prison are well built and a lot of trainings going on there.


but in Nigeria the government will release a harden criminal after jail terms back to the society without welfare or checking on them and their conditions. it will never solve anything. they will only wait for the right moment to go back and it won't be long in this hashed economy

hillarious marrying is no were around the corner i mean she still hasnt qualified for an engagement not to talk of marry

ItzBIM:
Marry her ..Kim k Pusssy is all over the Internet yet she was wifed up

I appreciate your advise and would consider it

ekanempatrick28:
My God. Wen i read some of u comments i just wander d kind of hypocrites u are. Anyways op i applaud ur courage. U onr of d real men out dere dat dont use a past to judge. God bless u. See i will tell u dis. Explain to her how her not improving and all d things dat she is doing is upsetting u. B emotional and compassionate wen talking to her. Let her see how much pains u in. After dat if she doesnt improve bro den i advise u too leave. U a good man u will love again. But try for one last time if no improvement den leave

true talk, i know her in and out, we have shared a lot but she is not scaling up to my standard anyway whatsoever, its like me settling for far less than i could get, but then again is the emotion of our bond being hard to break

Hector09:
60% of girls are former prostitute, the devil u knw is better than the angel that i dnt knw, she open up to u without hidden anything frm u, threaten her that if she does nt change the u we leave her, i rather marry a sincere prostitute than to marry a church girl

not just in this case but in general i believe there are girls that are into prostitution who press the pause button and ask themselves "how the hell is this my destiny", and then turn around make something new of her life entirely.. i believe so...

nwakibe:
Hia! Former prostitute kwa!
My brother, there is nothing like former prostitute o. Once a prostitute is always a prostitute.

nwakibe:
Hia! Former prostitute kwa!
My brother, there is nothing like former prostitute o. Once a prostitute is always a prostitute.

not just in this case but in general i believe there are girls that are into prostitution who press the pause button and ask themselves "how the hell is this my destiny", and then turn around make something new of her life entirely.. i believe so...

am trying to do it, but its not easy knowing that she is someone i care for and wouldnt like to see her live a stupid life

cunny88:
Bro u Ve really tried, better forget her and concentrate on ur career

She isnt doing it anymore she just being lazy about her life now

matrix199:
Of all the fruits in the world, I wonder why it had to be a walnut.



You can't change who doesn't want change for himself.



Well, if you're ready to contend with sharing, then follow your heart to her.

I am sharing a true story of my life, nothing but the absolute truth because i need help, not insults but help please...

Now it goes like this......
I met a nigerian girl while schooling abroad she was living as an illegal migrant trafficked with her own "consent" but never knew the severity of what her Madam was getting her into, she thought she would do what her madam wanted for a couple of months and then find her own path and try to earn a living doing any blue collar job offered to immigrants, on getting here her passport was sold by her madam. she was forced into sex works for white men, for that was the only way she could pay her madam,

after a couple of months she fled to my city with the help of a friend who was also a sex worker,on meeting her friend she didn't change what she was doing rather she continued with the dirty job... that was when i met her and we started as friends but one thing led to another, one night stand became many night stands and eventually a relationship. "if i may call it", while we were together she opened up and told me the full story and said its better i know and leave her to her miserable life than i stay with her and she hides the truth, that there made me respect her more,,well i choose to stay promising myself i will help her get a decent job and convince her (which wasn't easy) to change because she was making a lot of money (she was getting addicted to the money, blue collar job was no more in the picture anymore), to be truthful the regular sex was part of what influence my staying, she was extremely kind to me, loving and caring. she was ready to give all her sex-money in an heart beat with no pay back, to me when i struggled financially but i never collected it because that would make me an hypocrite. i mean money up to 1000 dollars even more at times just so i could buy whatever i wanted.


well it took a lot of time to find a job because the country where we were, was difficult. while i was looking for a job for her i got a job at a car wash, making around 10 to 15 dollar a day after class to support her with the little i made for a week, my schooling was affected a bit but i was love drunk.she reduced her sex work due to my support because telling her to quit was sort of impossible. her late sisters son school fees,her house rent and her feeding could not all be taking care of by my small monthly allowance and earnings, not to mention i lived in the hostel..

i moved in with her, quit my hostel and support her with the rent from my monthly hostel fees, we became fond of each other and i could say at this point i realized i had fallen in love with a sex worker, it worried me for a while but she made me understand that as soon as we find her a work she would quit and that she never enjoys the sex with white men that its all for the money. she said, with me its different it feels more natural and comfortable which i believed. we finally found a job for her to work in an ice cream company. she worked night shifts and made decent money no where compared to her former earnings but manageable, we got tested for stds and it all came back negative, we made love more naturally than before,and forced her to dress more decent. Sounds quit unbelievable but i gave her some good morale changes. it was all gold.

The problem started arising when she began fantasying of us getting married as soon as i graduated, then it hit home for me. negative thoughts started coming in, thoughts like "me getting married to a former sex worker who slept with dozens of white men", "she never graduated secondary school", "she struggles to read and write correctly","her body count is far greater than mine by the hundreds", and finally how it took my convincing for her to fight for different life because she never wanted to change. bla bla bla..so the whole thing was like i was making a wife out of a sex-worker, and i must state that she had her minor bad behaviors like; she receives a lot of calls from guys on Facebook toasting her, she wasn't making any effort to improve her reading and writing even when i volunteered to help, all she wants us to do is play,watch movies, gist and have fun, no long term goal or ambition whatsoever..plus her belief that a woman should have more male friends than females, that girls don't support one another..to cut it short she is kind at heart but her lack of ambition and self development is a turn off..

One day she was caught by the police after work, she could not present any document so she was deported back to Nigeria, on getting back home i advised her to change her friends which we both agreed were bad influence, i told her to start a business or acquire a skill with her saved up money( over a million) and the money i will be sending her, which i kept my promise i have sent upward of 150k naira so she could survive the harsh Nigerian economy but to my surprise she started out doing the complete opposite. she goes with those same set of friends and their boyfriends from beer parlor to beer parlor, clubing and moving around for two months now, she has not even rent an apartment to stay or hire a personal teacher to get her basic education together as we discussed,she has not even thought of any sensible plan for herself.

now am thinking of breaking up of with her because i feel she doesn't want the best for herself and doesn't have the will power or vision to make something of her life. she is just waiting for me to finish, get a job, marry her and continue giving her peep talk. what i want from a woman is not what she wants for herself. Why i am saying all this, is becuase i do care for her and i want the best for her i dont want her to end up back being a mans sex provider because thats what happen to women whose only value is her body, but at the same time i feel as though i have tried my best to make her live a better life and its time for me to give up on her and face my carrier as software developer.

SO the question is this, should i leave her to her own faith Or have a little bit more patient with her forcing her to do the right thing for her life and maybe maybe one day eventually marry her and forget about her past and give her a better life...

Acctually can a former prostitute be good wife? Am i love blind or completely naive?
PLEASE HELP ME I DONT KNOW WHAT DIRECTIONS TO TAKE

Good day to all my Facebook friends and fellow Nigerians and Africans. Am writing this letter to expose a cold-hearted criminal named ARIM AGHEDO who lives in Moscow, a mother of a child called OSATO.
This woman in question is a SCAMMER duped me of my hard earned money i paid for contribution . i have been robbed of a huge amount of money which for safety reasons I would not make known to the public for now. i paid this woman contributions for months, i suffered in the bitter cold of Russia to gather weekly contribution to this heartless woman. On getting to the period of collecting my money she refused to pay me and told me i could do nothing to her. till today 28 of January this Evil wretched stone cold looking woman till hasn't paid me my money in full and to top it all up she has blocked me on all platforms, social media and even on phone...
The reason for this publication is to make people aware of the crimes this woman has committed so when she starts reaping the fruit of her evil deeds no pity or blame be directed.. As long as air passes through my lung i will make sure with my very last drop of my blood that you (MAMA OSATO) pay for this wickedness. I promise you. you shall not see it coming but when am done with you,you will regret ever taking a dime from me... This is not a treat at all but indeed an intention. (if 4 ur matter i no make d kingdom of God i go accept my faith...) i promise you a pay back in any fashion by any means be it in Russia or Nigeria..
NOTHING GOES FOR FREE......