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Nigeria is a BLESSED Nation,God has blessed us beyond measure. What we lack is Homebase Encouragement.

We are all sexual beings created by God. But self discipline alone, keeps us in check. And yes Sex is deeper than what you think,its not just physical bonding,but a SPIRITUAL one.

That's why we have something called soul-tie. Your soul is forever tied to whosoever you had sex with. That's why its meant for the MARRIED. Say a BIG NO to pre-marital sex.

Next time shut your legs.

He has gotten what he wanted. Stay away from sex if your not married.

CAPSLOCKED:

JOCHABED SPELT BACKWARDS IS DEBAHCOJ.
WHICH MAKES NO SENSE.. JUST LIKE EVERYTHING YOU POST ON THIS FORUM.

You really have an issue with me.

There is a popular saying "what a man can do a woman can do better" But i don't agree with this notion,this is an idea that popped up from the PIT OF HELL.
What has feminism done for you today? You could say that feminism has achieved many strides in the fight for equality among Africans.Women now participate in Politics and are involved in the Economy. But this issue has rather caused harm to one of the paramount institution - The African Household.

Feminism has led various families within the African setting into serious CRISES. Fathers are less becoming in-charge of their families,women now Rebel against their husbands authority,the no longer submit to their authority. The want to be eqaul with the Men,BUT IN THE BEGINING IT WAS NOT SO.
Let's face it Men and Women are Wired differently and trying to Rewire that through Feminism will ultimately destroy core family functions. Gone are the days when women were stay-at-home Mums. But it is now a taboo to be a Mother and a Wife only.Lets change our ways.

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BossLaifay:
And for this comment I conclude that you're a fool! No further explanation required! You've clearly been brainwashed!

But even so I pray God grants you a loving family and good life ahead because your brain cannot help you.

Thanks girl,am grateful.

mukhcech:
I love this woman. You are such a destroyer of the team open leg for every Tom, Dick and Harry. They are whores and it pains them that one more girl isn't gonna end up like them.

Am grateful Sir. And thanks for your encouragement.

mukhcech:
God will help you and guide you. aameen . May I advise that you settle for nothing less too in man-it can be difficult anyways. Both my wife and I were married virgins. It has been seasons of love and all for the past 4yrs.

Remember, you are perfect and normal to think and feel this way. It is the people who are against your wish that are sick and demented, yet they don't have any one to diagnose them. All the best.

What!!!!!! you both married as VIRGINS? I am so proud of you two. My regards to your wife,she is a strong woman.

Anticipate another!! If promiscuity is PROMOTED without any OBSTACLE, then sexual purity!! A Must!!

armylord:
lolz dont mind em, u don't expect everyone to accept the fact that wah u saying is the TRUTH, so its better u don't reply em.

yeah! Thank u

laudate:
You are contradicting yourself outrightly. Sexual confidence and virginity does not go together. Virgins are never sexually confident. You can be confident that no man has touched you, but not 'sexually confident.' Or you do not know the meaning of the phrase, sexually confident?

I am confident that no man has touched me sexually.

laudate:
Yes, you have refused to answer the question I asked earlier....

you practising purity is enough for you to be sexually confident. Sexually confident in your self that No Man has touched you.

laudate:
Look at the title of your thread again, before opening your mouth to misyarn. And when are you going to answer my question, Ms. Sexually Confident Lady?

Do you have an issue with me?

BossLaifay:
No. According to you and most men on this thread (and the one on FP currently) its for only women. Men can do as they please but women need to wade them off and keep herself for a deserving man!

Keeping ones virginity is a good act! But women like you who encourage double standards and glorify men (even when they are clearly wrong) is why women would never be respected.

Your body is like a Door,if you SHUT IT!! The won't come in. Even though some will still be knocking,it's left for you to open it or NOT.

goodies4life:
WHY DO YOU PEOPLE ALWAYS MAKES LOOK LIKE IS ONLY THE GIRL THAT IS TO KEEP HER VIRGINITY? WHAT HAPPEN TO THE BOYS?

It's for both genders.

May the Lord BLESS YOU A BILLION TIMES!!!!!!!!! No one is saying temptations will not come,infact tempations are there to test your faith.

It's either you fall for it or not. No matter what the world says.Purity Is Like Precious stones you hardly find. Bye

Buttom line is Sex is STRICTLY for the Married. Bye

If God HATES FORNICATION,then he expects us all to be Virgins, even though that's not the case. So it's not an African mentality,It is HEAVEN ORIENTED!!

You need another lie to cover your first lie.

Nigeria's Shine..Is A Must.

The fact that we are Black doesn't mean that we have Black Brains. God has been so good to Africa.

prechbills1:
thanks but next time give your views at home not nairaland because it is called "influencing others"

Honestly?? My post is a "you take or leave" kinda post.

prechbills1:
and Op jochabed or whatever you call yourself.. stop creating such threads on Nl abeg, nobody forced you to remain a Virgin. your life, your choice.
stop forcing your opinions on others
you're not God to judge others.


And by saying virginity is the best gift a lady can gift her husband you're simply reimplying the belief that naija women have nothing to offer other than sex.

Read my post again, I never forced anyone. I was giving my view on this subject.

Shugavee:
precious because of virginity?? What if they steal n kill!!! Premarital sex has nothing to do with Christianity!! There are enough women who married as virgins n are unhappy.

It takes Discipline and Character to keep yourself.

laudate:
Wubbish! After the so-called husband has sampled all the babes around? Or after the guy decides to get married, despite knowing he has inner problems? Your advice has led some women to get married to impotent men, or guys with sexual dysfunction. Instead of you advising a girl to look out for characteristics such as integrity, compassion, discipline, hard work, respect etc, in their potential husbands, before making a commitment, you are asking them to save their virginity for their husbands. What happens if the husband collects her virginity, but later becomes a wife beater who turns her into a punching bag?

God is no fool,he can't give his precious daughter to an irresponsible man. The have to be compatable.

treasure1997:
. firstly, a person wit a gud character cnt b promiscuous. keepin ur virginity is jst a part of a gud character nt d totality. secondly, do not keep ur virginity bearin in mind dat u wana do som1 gud bt do it 4 ursef. stay away frm immorality because God says so.

You first keep it to please God before your husband.

TrumpDonald2:
If you are still a virgin, my dear keep it up. It's good to stand out. Don't mind all the thrash most people are saying here. Its because they have lost it. Believe me... your coach is right.

Honestly I still can't believe guys are the one's advising me. I received a lot of backlash from my fellow females. Thank you bro I will heed to your advice by the grace of God. Thanks again

Humility017:
awww...that's a good stance.
please keep it up....
and know that God will never let His Holy one to see corruption...
so because you honor Him...He will make men to honour you..and secure your future.
I have sent you a pm

I admire your character, come to think of it your a guy, but you still adviced me like I'm a sister to you. God bless you!!!

Humility017:
many criticising you wish they can keep themselves like you....

so please dont mind them...keep yourself because God desires it so....

awwn!! Thank you. The insult me but secretly send me mails.