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Rutheby:
Happy new month 2 u JoeCutie... Tanx 4 ur prayer. Hope u're gud.
Happy new month Laveda.... Hope u enjoyed ur stay at home.
Happy new month skarlett.... Hope u're enjoying ur new job.
Happy new month englishsmart.... I'm sorry i missed ur calls.
Happy new month Alaribs.... Ur tot came 2 mind 2day #winks
naijaboiy, carnations, betty.... I specially wish u success in ur exams.

You're most welcome, dearie. And thank you for making me pray more.

Rutheby:
stressful. Need ur prayers pls.

Awww, okay I'm not much of a prayer person, but I'll honestly try and do this, I promise. Just make sure you don't let whatever is going on over there get to you too much. Easy does it. And...smile!

Rutheby:
i'm good. How has it been wit u too?

T'is been good, how are your exams coming along?

Rutheby:
JoeCutie..... How av u been? I hope u're now vry strong. I noticed u unfollowed, wasn't dat active cos of exam... Got dat little tym 2 read thru ur diary 2day.... A vry nice one i must confess. Be good!

Hi, dearie. How you doing?

You don't forgive and forget. You forgive, but not forget.

Claiming to have forgiven and forgotten is all but a self deceit. The moment you see that person, hear anything about them or even the sound of their names, you'd remember. And, mind you, it doesnt make you heartless. It only makes you human.

You had sex, enjoyed it, carelessly let your guard loose and consequently, got pregnant. You waited to see your monthly visitor, it didn't show up. You knew why. You kept the pregnancy, went through the pains of having to carry that child for nine months. You went through labour, and delivered your beautiful baby safe and sound. What next? This! This? Why? Shame? Penury? Fear? Wickedness? Oh, yeah...wickedness!


"Oya shake it, but don't break it. It took your mama nine months to make it". Is this how you repay your own mama for keeping you safe even after you 'tortured' her for nine months?

Forgive us, Lord.

I do not like this! She looks like a sea shark in that dress.

Lies! Deceit!!

Woman go wear boxer comot go far or even travel, dem go call am 'floral shorts'. Floral gini? Ka m nukwa!

Jagaban (Remix) - YC ft. Olamide.

teechudleyy:
When you are about to marry, many married women will give you a million advise. The advise will be enough for an observant person to know what they are getting into.

They'll say... People change o.
Be patient
Be humble
Persevere
Don't talk too much
Respect your elders
Be hardworking.
A woman must know how to look away.

There's usually little advice for the man. Even when there is... Its halfhearted like yeah we are supposed to tell u this but u know what bro... You are d boss. You can do as you please.

It always sounds like you are going into a war room for a woman.

Nobody walks into marriage with so much temerity and doesn't pinch themselves few months later like... Things aren't what I thought they'd be. I thought I knew this person so much. I thought I read all the books and gained all the wisdom.

Women lose a lot in marriage. Your shape changes after childbirths. You can't change that. Your name changes and for a split second you go thru a small identity crisis however proudly you think ur stressing that Mrs Somebody somewhere ur brain is like yo! This is gonna take some getting used to.
You have no choice but to grow all the wisdom expected and they tell u whatever he does... U have to take it or else you will be termed as illtempered and immature.
On the other hand... The family will always cast you for any signs of imperfections on your side.

Marriage is a lot of pressure on a woman.
I don't blame anyone who isn't rushing into it.

Doesn't mean marriage is bad or that people don't want it.

Older women who aren't married made a choice between mental stability, self love and happiness versus child bearing, someone else's surnname and societal acceptance. Its a tough choice to make... But happiness is one of the things we all strive for in the end. We should let people find their happiness in whatever works for dem and not compare dem to people who might have forfeited their happiness in order to achieve something else.

Exactly what I spent hours yesterday trying to talk my 21year old friend out of. She wants to get married to a 26year old guy. I had many reasons to talk her out of it than I had to back her. She thinks she's in love. That's how it always starts...love. I mean, at some point in our lives, even in relationships, we think we are in love, but does it always work out the way we envisage it? Then imagine if things go wrong for you in marriage where the keywords are...'For Better For Worse' and 'Forever, until death do us path', at that young age, how would your life turn out? Divorce? It could wreck your life! Divorce is not what you should start looking at at that young age. Before you get married, especially in this part of the world - Africa, Nigeria - be sure to have attained that mental stability to be able to put up with that trap called marriage. African culture, moreover, doesn't make it any easier on the females. Marriage, in Africa, is what any lady should not venture into until she's MORE THAN READY.

You'd cheat on your husband, you'll apologize. Your husband would cheat on you, you'll apologize. Is that life? A culture that promotes double standard. This is not a place where you rush into marriage, at least not at a young age. To me, any lady that rushes into marriage before the age of, say, 25, 26 (In Africa), should be ready to shoulder whatever comes her way. Anyways, isn't that what 'marriage' is all about? Taking shït from anybody? I'm so not the greatest fan of marriage.

Don't stop - Olamide.