Kimcutie:

True to an extent but giving her ur number, gives her the chance to call or text u first(interest), then the guy takes it from there.

Like i said... this is an average strategy

It will only work if the girl is very interested in you when you walk up to her OR it's a girl you've been seeing before maybe in school or work or in a social circle

Your best is to take her number and text

Kimcutie:
Whenever you are meeting a random girl for the first, instead of asking for her number, offer yours instead except is business related. This way you get to text or call people who actually want to talk with you too, I call this filtering.

No. The man leads... so you tell her to put her number in your phone. Much better

Giving her your number can work if the girl is VERY or highly interested.

If she's just a bit interested or in between (which most girls are) you'd most likely miss out

Thecan:


Thanks for this man
MGTOW

MGTOW is rubbish

luminouz:

Sure...but then do I want to? Nope... I just don't have the interest.

Why you dey lie boss 🤣

Pass me her handle for telegram

luminouz:


Lol... I won't push that unless I can control the construct.

N.B: I'm definitely winning this 10k

Na wetin i dey tell you

That you can control the construct... that's why she's smashable

luminouz:


I'm not sending my picture to any girl so she can 'decide whether I'm worth her time or not' which was essentially what the girl meant.

Smashable? Yes!!! But on my own terms, not hers!!

I know... i didn't say you should send a picture
I said you shouldn't just completely forget her because she is still well within smashable territory

Thecan:
I've been following this thread for a long time now.
Still trying to catch up tho, I have a question bothering me.

Pls fellow niggas is it adviceable to disconnect urself from anything girls.

My eye opened big time after reading thru this page, I now approach girls indifferently, most of them are now telling me they're angry with me bla bla bla.

Before now I've "simped" so hard to the extent of even sending girls recharge card because they replied my message and sometimes I even beg them to accept the card when they reject

I don't wanna have anything to do with women anymore at least for the next 4-5 yrs.
The purpose of this is to build myself physically and career wise.
I later got to know that it's called "Monk mode" pls anyone with any ideal about how I should go about it should pls help pls explain, or anyone who has gone that part before.

Happy Sunday

No just take like 3 or 4 months to learn game and be practicing with girls you come across with

Either girls that are just acquaintances or new ones
5 years is way too long to stay away from action

Experience is ALWAYS gained in the field

luminouz:


Something happened yesterday. This girl got a big scholarship to study in the US in a telegram group I am and like everyone else, I congratulated her and told her to carry Oha soup ingredients when travelling oh. She said she can be stingy but I should drop my picture and she will decide whether to be stingy or not with her 'Oha'.

I didn't bother to reply. It's very simple. Na shit-test be that. The narrative or power has shifted to her and now, it's up to me to find my bestest picture so she won't be stingy with her affection or whatever.

To play their game is to lose. Never play their game

Hope you no go just completely forget am

She is still smashable

frozen70:


Since you married her at age 20yrs,you didn't even allow her experience real love and she is requesting for it now because the vacuum is still there

If you don't create time to prove love to her and give her attention

It woo get to a point her attitude will change

Now she is requesting for tattoo and waist beeds

She want to experience those things she was never given access to

She has already given birth and she no send a y body again

So you have to start being loving and romantic before she goes over board

Lmaoo
So she should go ahead and get the tattoos abi

snthesis:
so i got her phone last nyt past bedtime only to discover her password has changed, i'll take it as a sign not to pry further

Or a sign that she's hiding something
I mean how daft can you be

Keep us updated cuz I'm certain this willl end in tears for you

Danielbobosky:


Been following the thread silently but this one caught me even though I can mostly relate with all the things been said here. It's true revelation and marvels me how it's exactly what is happening out here in real world.

I did 5k transfer to a girl after constantly asking me for money and the response I got was that I should always tell her whenever I send her money. That was the second time I sent her something but definitely the last. I don learn my lessons

Tf!!🤣🤣
Hold up... she told you to tell her first

Samantha124:
Maybe you used money to woo her, isn't that how you Nigerian guys woo ladies? By using money?

She might've fallen for it hoping that you're this romantic guy, only to find out that you're not.
B

You're talking nonsense
In 10 years she "fell for it" lmao

snthesis:

her message and yours feels like a threat to me, i dont do threats

Be fooling yourself

djon78:



Virgins are highly curious

If you no do them well, they will never get satisfied

They will feel they're missing something

Will then start exploring

Talking from experience

Lol you know this

Pukkalolo:
I was recently asked, "Do you advocate cold approach or just wait to be choosen?"


Just like cold call in sales, i believe Cold approach is when you approach a woman who's totally unaware of you initially like on the street, bustop or something. While waiting to be choosen, is basically waiting to get choosing signal, as in, interest signs before making an attempt.

So do I advocate cold approach

When we think of cold approach, we think of a guy who basically set out of the house with the intention of wooing women, and then he's seen approaching a woman who seems generally NOT open to interactions. For example approaching a woman hurrying down the street heading to work or something important. When you approach her, of course you are gonna get a negative reaction. As you can see the problem isn't that she's not interested you, it's that she's not just interested in any social interactions at that moment.

If you are looking to start a serious relationship, you need to share things in common with the girl and you need to see her couple of times. With the typical cold approach, there's high probability that you aren't going to share things in common with the random girl you're cold approaching.

And in recent times, due to insecurities, most women would feel unsafe to be approach by a random stranger.

And aside that...when you cold approach a stranger, if you aren't asking for direction or time, then it's automatically assume you wanna beg for money. And by default you tend to get ignored or get dismissed quickly. It's difficult to overcome that stereotype unless you look very attractive. And even if you look attractive, she natural tend to find it weird and uncomfortable because you are a total stranger to her.

Many times, a woman defensive instinct is high when she's walking alone quickly down the street and as a result, she's more likely to reject you as default responses; it does matter how good your so called "game" is.


As a matter of fact, If you have a reputation to uphold, then you don't want to be known as that guy who goes around the streets trying to cold approach every girl he encounter.

My biggest beef against cold approaching is that it's a time wasting behavior...I value my time more than anything else. Time that you are suppose to spend learning a skill or building your business... instead you waste it, trawling the streets in search of pussy.


Ok, chill. Now, I've thrown lots of shades at cold approach,
you might think "since cold approach doesn't really make sense, so are you saying the way forward is just wait to be choosen"

Relax bro.

So do I advocate "just wait to be choosen."?

That is, waiting to get choosing signal (interest signs) before making an attempt to initiate a conversation with her.

One of the most common choosen signals is when she makes strong eye contact with you. Basically, she catches your eye and hold strong eye contact for few seconds. A woman who’s chooses you will often meet your eyes, look away, then look back again.


I mean, approaching a lady who gives you choosing signals is specifically always a great idea, and always useful.

My first issue with Choosing signals is that it can be tricky and can sometimes be misleading. Sometimes you can get choosing signals from a lady that actually has no interest in you. This happens a lot.

Another problem with waiting to be choosing is that you'll naturally tend to miss out on a lot of interest signs if you are inexperienced and you lack social awareness. This is because women are good at pretending and hiding their interest.
Women have a way of stylishly checking you out without you noticing, so sometimes she has already giving you choosing signals, but you didn't realise.

Just like we said earlier that If you have a reputation to uphold, then you don't want to be known as that guy who goes about the streets trying to cold approach every girl he sees on the road. This is even worse for choosing signals: you don't want to be that guy who goes about the streets desperately looking at girls eyes and trying to maintain eye contact with them because you looking for choosing signals. That's a low status behavior.



Another issue with choosing signals is that it mostly come from less attractive girls. A Lady who is very beautiful and sexy have big egos, and you will rarely catch her checking out a guy.

Most highly attractive ladies have more social value, and so they feel very "entitled" and they walk around wearing a saucy and "I don't care" facial expression; they expect you to be given them choosing signals and not the other way around.


I have said this before on this thread: the vast majority of the time, only 10% of men tend to get good amount of "obvious" choosing signals, that's the men who are famous, rich or very handsome and physically appealing.

But the rest of men will only get those "obvious" choosing signals once in a blue moon.

So if you want to get more "obvious" choosen signals from women, First, max out your looks, money and status... That's the best advice.

But in general, if you want to get more sexual opportunities, just waiting to be choosing signal isn't an efficient method.


*Takes a deep breath*


Now you are thinking, "you said cold approach is a waste of time but you are still beefing on ' just waiting to be choosen'..... Dude, seriously, what's your deal "

Ok, relax...tighten your seatbelt....we are just starting...

Remember, one big issue with cold approach is, you tend to indiscriminately approach a woman who's totally unaware of you. Worse, if she's a feminist or totally psycho, she might tag that as sexual harassment: and this might affect your reputation as a guy.

But approaching a girl is cooler and more natural if you are in an environment of similar interests with the girl, where being social is natural expected, so she won't find it weird to be approached by someone she doesn't know. For example, environment like club, school, church, higher institution, Seminars, training centers, party or any social gathering where networking and social interaction is expected and encouraged.

And remember we said cold approaching is a time wasting behavior, but you can make it more time effective if you can naturally fit it in your daily life. Instead of roaming the streets in a never-ending search for pussy like a jobless loser, you can simply approach girls while you go about your normal daily routine. For example, while coming back from lectures, office or work, you initiate conversation with that attractive girl who seems to also going your way. Or while shopping at the mall, you talk to that cute girl who's shopping near you.

If you noticed, I didn't say, wait to get choosing signals before you talk to the girl. Putting it bluntly: just waiting to be choosing is a submissive mindset.

Every time you meet a new woman, she's either one of these category:

#1. She interested in you. #2. She isn't interested in you

Most times, the guy who settle for the idea of "just wait to be chosen" is the guy who is greatly scared getting rejected by the woman in #2 category. He doesn't want to inconvenient or upset her. He doesn't want this woman to think poorly of him.

Dude, in a nutshell, you are huge pussy.

One reason why my behavior is highly confident and self-assured (and I'm enjoying romantic success) is because I don't mind inconveniencing and upsetting the woman in #2 category: I actually want them to reject me. Who cares if they think poorly of me. I need to get them out of the way as soon as possible.

The funny thing is, when you learn to face your (social) fears with women, you naturally learn more about women body language and non-verbal signals. Waiting for choosing signals won't help you understand women. Reading redpill advise won't teach you anything about women.

The rugged looking illiterate boy who has just spend 6 month at mechanic workshop as more experience and knowledge about car and automobile than 10 mechanical engineering graduate put together. This is because this because the mechanic illiterate boy, is getting going under cars, getting his body dirty and trying to fix cars.

I know buddy who's a totally cocky, he has smash more pussy than 10 repill community guys put together. And this buddy doesn't even know what redpill, game and shit test is. This is because this cocky buddy of mine isn't waiting for choosing signals from women before he take action. He's isn't waiting for permission.



Experience has taught me that women decide quickly whether they are interested in a guy or not... This why my approach (shameless approach) is to quickly take action and find out if she has any interest in me... once I see that there's some interest, I'll pull the triggers and build up her interest & sexual comfortableness.....

I'm not waiting for choosing signals(interest signs), instead I take action and provoke interest signs from her.

The lady I am currently seeing didn't give me any choosen signals; she had a tough "I don't care" facial expression, but as I confidently go over and start talking to her, she opened up and started giving me choosen signals.

When I ask her why she put up a tough/harsh looks initially, she is like "Wow, seriously?? I didn't know I was putting on that look"

If I was waiting for choosing signals, she'd be gone.

Life is all about taking calculated risks: you can not just wait for some sign from the universe to make your move. Let me assure you this: some of your peak experiences will come from girls who didn't give choosen signals at first.






Waiting = feminine = submissive.

Taking action = Masculine = Dominant

Feminine wait around and hope something happens....

Masculine take action and make something happen. The choice is yours.


There's a proverb that says, if you want women to lick your balls, you have to grow some balls.

I like using your posts to share and enlighten guys because to a degree you have some game knowledge but with a few mistakes here and there.

So here we go

First off, cold approach remains the best way to build your skills as a seducer. But there are different types of cold approach.

What you just described is one type called: "mass approaching" where you go about making eye contact with every girl and apporaching most of them

Which of course is a stupìd way to approach cuz you end up burning your reputation to the ground

However, there's a much better way to do it: SCREENING

Which is were you screeñ for girls that are more open for social interactions or giving you approach invitations (choosing signals)

This makes things more calibrated and increases your chances of her fùcking you


Lol i always laugh when someone says when they say they know someone doing better than most in the Rp community. 100% of the time it's cap

I have met very very very good seducers. Both natural guys and pua guys.

The best I've ever seen was a pua. Dude did 25 bangs in a month from cold approach. his avrage is 10 to 15 a month. 85% hot girls
Never met an average guy that has done better ever.

And this doesn't include schools. Universities are WAY easier to get banged. It's so easy i wonder why people struggle there


In summary, cold approach remains the best way to build your game skills. You can make a girl that's not interested become interested

And if you're really good you can build attraction from thin air

ashewoboy:





My friend phvcked a girl in an uncompleted building😯🙂. It is not good to be a simp🙂. Ubunja, you do well.

The problem with most of these is that the girls are not hot or classy

djon78:


This thread doesn't teach hate on women. It rather teaches guys to understand the opposite sex better. So I don't understand this your rant

It's not a rant. it's a fact.

Competent female leaders will be celebrated

AndrewTate:
I can point out more than a hundred conversations on this thread between you “redpillers” that are not even worthy of the level of “chit chat” that were had with brains intact but never had any call-outs...
Now a woman who didn't pose any harm, of which it was obvious that she was just curious about men’s thoughts and wanted to learn more and better understand her place in men's lives tried to join in, all you could've done if you really didn't want women commenting was to reasonably make her understand and she'd probably go back to being a ghost reader and keep learn to be a better woman to men...
But instead you all just validate the misogynistic accusations on the red pill making it look like a clear battle against the opposite gender...

yet you say the red pill teaches you about the female nature, so how come you couldn't tell she was just fascinated by what the thread is about and not really wanted to be a troll but just wanted attention directly from you guys, not even in a bad way

the SIMP slander can come in now…

It's fine to have normal conversations with women. I do too as well as a few other

I too, I'm against a lot of red pill hate against women. Most of them on this thread have zero results and practical experiences. They're just woman-hating, feminine theory junkies

However, the girl you were talking with is an attention whòre. She has nothing meaningful to contribute & her personality is quite distasteful.

She's most likely a closet feminist with a superiority complex marred by heaps of insecurities.

She doesn't care about the conversation with you or the ones on this thread. Her aim is to derail it with meaningless contributions she has no idea of

You engaging is just supplying her with more attention that she desperately needs and shouldn't be getting. Especially on this thread

Bobmaintain:
ABIA GUBER UPDATE!

Abia INEC PRO has confirmed that Obingwa BVAS and Materials have been moved to Abuja for review.

Nice work

Any updates?

DUKEOFIBADAN:


I already mentioned the places I use to visit and attach the pictures. Those are the places I stay anytime I’m in Ghana. You can look it up on Google to know the prices in dollars.

If you want somewhere cheaper in Ghana I think that will be Kumasi and I don’t think anything special is happening over there. Anyway I only come here in Ghana to enjoy life I don’t know about the living condition. The only African country have lived is South Africa. You can try go to SA instead of Ghana. You won’t spend much and you will enjoy your money unlike Ghana where everything is overpriced and not worth it.

Thanks a lot for your time

siofra:
@ the first bolded. I see it happen a lot to actresses and musicians like Tiwa Savage, Iyabo Ojo and even Tems and Chimamanda the writer.

It's not hate if it's true. The fact that you're successful in your career doesn't mean you can't have a terrible character with a laundry list of failed relationships

You ladies should start learning to take some accountability

Banilla:
Yesterday on Facebook, I came across a post by LegitNG... reading the comments made me sick.

DJ Cuppy said "I don't need a man to complete me but I want one to tell me how awesome I am"... Something like that...

Men were so upset, talking about how she's proud and she would die alone and miserable... She needs a man and her horrible character is the reason she can't get one... Blah blah blah...

The irony is that DJ is a multi-millionaire who wouldn't date any of them even with a gun to her head! Their girlfriends would dump them to be Cuppy for a day!

Like I said, the only thing men have over women is money, success too... Take these away and they are basically worthless and they know it!

But they're right.

She's proud. And if she continues like this, she'll die alone and miserable

Professorcplus:

I not to strangers on the red app... More than 70 % drop their account... This proof evidence of Redpill

Lol evidence of which red pill?

You gave her free money... of course she'll collect it... she can also block you after sending it

Pay & fvck them that's when you'll have a point or let them explicitly agree to get fùked for payment

DUKEOFIBADAN:


270k or less should be enough for return ticket
Yes it is a must you have your yellow fever card and Covid test result because they derive joy deporting Nigerians for a slight mistake. That is why some people prefer to go by road to avoid the yellow card and Covid test whala.

Like I said before, the amount you will spend depends on your taste. Most restaurants over there are overpriced and that 1m can finish within a week or 2. The last time I was there last year 1m was 16,000 Cedis but I don’t know the current rate. If you know how to manage yourself the money should go a long way. Don’t forget to visit Elite bar at East Legon Accra to feel at home as a Nigerian or Food yard and thank me later 😎

Thanks man
I can consider the road option but the journey dey fear me... like how long will it take?

Which part do you stay?

Apart from Accra which other better city dey that's reasonably affordable?

Sure I'll visit those places... I've heard of East legon before

SmartPolician:
Wike hijacked PDP and bullied Dave Umahi into moving to the APC. That move was the best thing that happened to APC in South East because that man did an outstanding job in his state. In fact, Dave Umahi remains one of the best governors Nigeria has ever produced since in the inception of democracy.

In a new state of Ebonyi in dire need of infrastructure, Dave Umahi came to their rescue. What it means is that any party he joins can easily win votes in the state because many people will ride on his popularity.

Congratulations to the new governor, Mr. Nwifuru. One agendum I am giving the new governor is to focus on human capital development. Ebonyi State badly needs it!

What do you mean by human capital development?

DUKEOFIBADAN:


Average return flight ticket to Accra from Lagos should not be more than 270k or less depending on the date and if you are going by bus just budget 100k for to and fro.

You don’t need visa to travel to Ghana, you need your passport, yellow Fever card, Covid test or Covid vaccine card. You will be given a form to fill on arrival at Katoka airport.

Ghana is expensive and cost of living is high but depending on the lifestyle you wanna live over there. Just make sure you have enough money because it’s very easy to get stranded in Ghana if you get carried away.

There are many fun places in Accra but someone like me love exploring other places far away from Accra because that is where I feel I enjoyed myself the most. Below are the list of my best places to relax in Ghana with pictures.

1.. Peduase Valley resort, Aburi. 40 min or 1hr drive from Accra depending on how fast the car is.

2..Afrikiko River front resort, Akosombo. 2hours drive from Accra.

3..The royal senchi resort, Akosombo 2 hours drive

4..Bridge view resort, Akosombo 2 hours drive

5.. Sojourn Cabins, Anomabo, Cape coast. 3 hours drive from Accra.

Hey bro

Thanks a lot for the info... never knew they ask for yellow fever test and covid test result

The 270k is to and fro abi? Or just one way ticket

As for cost of living and small flexing.. how long will it last and what's the quality of life would be for say N1mn to N2mn?

Hey everyone

So I'm looking to travel to Ghana this year
Preferably by flight

Are there any requirements or info i might need that you can provide?

Stuffs like:

How much to travel?

Cost of living? (I'll be going to Accra)

Intl Passports? Or Visa?

Fun places to hang out etc

Thanks

arshavineering:
See current collation status below

Looks like Lp has won