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dreamxhaser:
@ Groupoid continuation of the first

Bro, I became so obsessed with her that she started to treat me like trash. Man, even with my money! She really gave me a hard time. I was so mentally low that it affected my education and my hustle.

I was no longer improving myself; I was regressing financially, my social life was dying, and my game was dead.

I started to see her as the only option I could get.

Then, later, I started to realize this woman was probably running some underground scheme (allegedly). You'd expect me to man up and leave her! Well, I didn’t. In fact, if I mentioned what this girl did to me, with my own money, you guys would all laugh at me.

My other friend, on the other hand, had become so good with women that he was sleeping with them left and right without spending a dime. The good thing was he was always there and preached how I should go back to exploring more.

So, I started to go back to exploring more, but those women were still using me. I wasn’t getting them like I used to; my game was dead, and they all saw me as a pushover.

But my friend, who had gotten so good at the game, started to teach me a thing or two. Then, I came on this thread and learned some things about women's nature. I applied it, and guess what? They were all accurate.

I continued to develop, this time with more red-pill knowledge. Man! I've turned into a bad boy like this! I swear, if you give me 10 girls now, I will mess with their mental state and sleep with 7 of them easily without having to invest much.

Though I now have another girlfriend! What I did was to make sure that girl loves me more than I love her. The girl is so obsessed with me, man! She treats me like a king! No "billing" or anything. I didn't really care for the girl before. But from what I’ve gathered here, go for a woman who loves you more than you love her, like she has genuine desire for you from the start. Well, that’s the case with my new girlfriend.

Also! I’ve improved myself so much that my ex is now obsessed with me. Lol, it’s obvious. In fact, it’s just a matter of time before she slides into my DMs.

What you should understand is… Money is very important because it helps you command respect and maintain your style, especially after a breakup.

But you see that game! Man, if you don’t know the game, women will milk you and dump you.

Bro, chase both game and money! Don’t go for a relationship now; just chase the bag, improve yourself while testing the waters with these women and sharpening your red-pill skills. I know what I’m telling you. Money is necessary but never enough!


Special Thanks to all the mentors here! You’ve saved a brother

What's you and your friend's game like bro

Pukkalolo:
The problem isn’t that he’s unqualified to speak on female nature.

The real issue is that many of his redpill “game” messages, along with those of some other guys here, are Westernized and not tailored to African or Nigerian men.

What do I mean by "Westernized"?

Please read open mindedly and slowly. This is will help you understand the reality of seduction or "game" in Nigeria

Most guys study redpill and game concepts written by men in the U.S. and the U.K., then blindly copy-paste them here. Worse, they try applying them to Naija or West African women without realizing that culture matters in seduction.

When I first set out to truly understand women and build my confidence, I approached a large number of them: both in public and within my social circles. And if there’s one thing I can say with certainty, it’s this:

Westernized "game" doesn’t really work here.

Culture and environment shape the way people think and behave—including in seduction. How you attract and seduce a Nigerian woman is different from how you do it with an American woman.

Most guys don’t realize this. That’s why, despite consuming all the redpill and "game" advice, something still isn’t clicking.

America and Nigeria are two different worlds.
In America, parents don’t flog their kids because their culture frowns upon it.

In Nigeria, most of us got flogged by our parents while growing up.

That’s culture for you.

Likewise, what works on a London girl won’t necessarily work on an Afghan girl because they were raised differently.

In America, couples openly kiss and make out in public: it’s normal there.

In Nigeria, public displays of affection are rare because our culture doesn’t encourage it.
That’s why Western redpill “game” that works on American women won’t necessarily work on Naija women.


I’ve gone sexual with quite a number of Naija girls, so I’m speaking from experience. I know the missing piece in most Naija guys’ “game.”
The problem with Westernized game advice is that it’s heavily focused on attraction.

A lot of Naija guys think, “If she’s attracted to me, she’ll sleep with me.”

Well, that might work in America, where an attractive woman might directly sleep with you just because she’s attracted. That’s why typical “game” advice is tailored to Western women.

But Naija girls don’t think that way. At least, not from my personal experience—unless she’s a shameless slut.

Notice the keyword: "shameless."

A lot of Naija girls are sluts, but they aren’t shameless about it. They are low-key. That’s why they won’t act on their attraction and just give a guy sex like that.


Guys have told me, “Pukka, you’re right. This girl seems attracted to me, but she won’t have sex with me.”

My response is:

She’s a Naija girl: she’s ashamed of her attraction for you.

Your job is to make her feel shameless about it. Or more accurately, make her feel sexually comfortable with the idea of sleeping with you.
A lot of Naija girls are attracted to you, but they hide it. You might think she’s just doing shakara, but no—she’s just ashamed of her attraction.

Your goal as a man is simple:

Make her feel comfortable being attracted to you or make her feel shameless about it.
Most guys don’t do this; or worse, they don’t even know how. So they keep losing girls over and over again, despite consuming all this redpill content.

The few legit players and pimps I know get sex—not because of attraction—but because they understand that attraction alone isn't what get them the pussy.


Some guys who roll with me initially assume that I’m just a natural with women: that I simply get stronger attraction from more women, which is why I sleep with them.

But that’s not true.

I’m not a good-looking guy, so I don’t rely on attraction. Instead, when I meet a girl with even the tiny attraction toward me, I build on that.

I make her feel shameless about her attraction and create a sense of comfort around sex.
Because I know that her shamelessness and comfort toward sex—not attraction—is what’s going to get me laid. Basically, I know how to give off a non-judgmental vibe around women.

The Harsh Truth About Attraction in Nigeria

If you’re relying purely on attraction to get laid in Nigeria, you’ll need to approach over 50 to even 100-200 women (or more) before one agrees to sleep with you based solely on attraction.
Most Naija women don’t sleep with men just because they’re attracted to them.

That’s why a lot of Naija girls, directly or indirectly, demand money or financial gifts before going sexual. Because that money or gift acts as a substitute for the sexual comfortableness you failed to create in them.

On the other hand, most legit players and pimps often get sex for free—not because they’re rich or good-looking, but because they know how to make a woman feel shameless or comfortable about sleeping with them.

Final Thoughts

At the end of the day, a lot of redpill posts on this thread are just copy-paste material from Western sources.

I can tell that many of the guys posting this stuff don’t have real experience with women. They just regurgitate Western redpill theories without adapting them to their own naija reality.

He's not qualified because he has no experience with women. Simple. Speaking on women with no experience just dey funny to me. I disagree that western game doesnt work on naija girls. It actually does and I'm a testament to it. You just gats know as you go apply am. Westernized game works on all women

Tonnyray:
This explains everything.
Like everything.

Fr It really explains everything. Jeshal007 you're not qualified to speak on female nature AT ALL.

Rizzputin:
Bro stop posting. You talk a lot of nonsense. Go out and live life

Colson:
The fact that she filed for divorce doesn't vaildate those false reports about how he was "too perfect" for her.
The point is, she never granted any interview to say such a thing.

She did. But she denied it. She would have sued the sun, goal . Com and daily mail if to say na lie.

Samantha125:
One white South African once did a Justin Bieber prank at a mall in Sandton city here in SA and the entire mall immediately went to a standstill, half of the mall forgot what they were doing and started running after the guy... ... Even grown men and women started going after him...🤦🤦🤦

Security guards were also not left out, they ran after him to protect him from the crowd without verifying his identity...🤣🤣🤣... I was shocked because I didn't know my fellow South Africans are capable of such behaviour...😂😂😂

You're hot

Celebrities are overrated

Totally agree. sometimes I'm shocked how women do everything to soothe their emotions

yarimo:
is that all?

Shut up jare

yarimo:
That is your opinion thank you

You talk like a child. He's trying to give you a different perspective so you can understand why someone may delay in replying your chat.

But your immaturity won't let you see it. You think everyone be like you wey no get work or issues to handle

EreluRoz:
Redpillers a man that I rudely turned down few years ago and I later regret on the very rude way I turned him down gave a very huge some of money to me again yesterday when I came across him somewhere. I have never for once demanded anything from him, he even resisted all efforts to turn him down from collecting the money

Redpillers isn't it high time you all give up this failed movement because it all ends online, some of you here are doing same thing offline but comes online to form tough. Why are you all deceiving yourselves and pretending? Why do you want to stop being a man?

So you turned down a guy in a very rude way. You no even apologise give am or something

Then the mùmu now came and gave you money and you say he's a man

If na your son, you no go slap am? This one no be even red pill or not. The guy na mugu

Sha i agree with you normally most redpillers na fakes them be. Another thing you gats understand be say red pill na small minority of men and most still no sabi

Na why offline and online different

But this your story ehn, the guy na confirm mugu

luminouz:
Beauty and shape wey men like me wey no dey spend shi shi don fuq taya? It's pedestalization mumuricality disease (PMD) dey affect these simps na. They think because the girl is pretty, she no dey suck diick, do doggy, being choked, ass slapped, vigorously fuqed, cummed on her face and drink my cumm-type of girl. If only they knew!!!

The mumu might have not sent his parents 100k in a whole year but here he is, doing appreciation of the Lord's work!!!

Damn, simps make me mad!!!

Shut up you never fùck anything you be like who get game?

Wanķer oloshi

Wotowotoman:
You are a troll and your story is fake. All your stories on Nairaland are fake. You are also gay. You go just dey for your room dey laugh the fools wey respond to you. Nice one. Hahahahaha

So millie0 you be troll🤣🤣 you dey mad ooo... you dey for osogbo, naija dey claim Uk

And i been wan reply you. Why you been dey find male companion millie0, shey you be gay ni

I can carry my child but not definitely not like this

omooba969:
I think say na only fat yansh you LOVE, I no know say you like food too.

Next time try dey address issue without sentiment or bias ok.

Guy you dey mad... i don laugh tire 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ishilove:
I'm not annoyed, just disgusted. Ubunja is a very despicable individual.

You can guard your heart without denigrating the value of the other gender. I am sorrounded by men who love and take care of me and it will be quite abominable of me to give the generality of the menfolk a bad name because of the actions and misdeeds of a few

Tears

Timoleon:
The origin of 419 is the section of our criminal code that deals with fraud or intent to fraud. Not all these long capping. When you commit or attempt to commit fraud in Nigeria, you contravene section 419 of our criminal code. That's the simple origin.

You be mùmùù ooo. No be wetin op talk be that. Idìòt

youcanmakeit:
To hell with this make money and women will magically start chasing you... let's us stop this fantasy thinking.

There was this fine girl I gave lift. She stopped at a house. Later, I learnt that's her boyfriend house. I'm not here to broke shame anyone but her boyfriend doesn't look like he has much money. Although he has this bad boy rebellious look.

Anytime I here the make money and women will chase you, I don't totally cosign with that.

I don't want to brag but I just want to pass a point. I work as a sales guy in a very prestigious company on the island... own a nice new car, I recently moved into a nice flat I rented. I might not be wealthy, but I'm living very comfortably. Yes, I get choosen signals from women from time to time, but I'm not seeing women rolling over me and begging for my love.

Same thing with most of my colleagues and friends who are also earning big... I don't see women chasing them and licking their feet while they walk. They still having issues with women. But yet we say make money and women will chase after your dick.

I know a guy in my neighborhood who isn't making money as much as I do, but he change girls all the time. He's not having any issues with women.

I have learned that women love guys who are rebels. The guys who give off this I don't give a Bleep vibe This guy in my neighborhood has that attitude.

I playfully asked him how he does it.

He said "omo don't mind all the girls, Dem to like dick too much.'

He was saying, this girls like sex too much that's why he's able to get them.


But mean while on this thread, guys are preaching that women don't like sex.

Guys....If you are there waiting till you start making millions before you start getting sex and getting girls.....You are wasting your time!

I'm not saying you shouldn't work hard and make money. Definetely, every guy should be grinding and focus on improving themselves.

But I'm just saying that, the woman you are hoping to Bleep when you finally become rich is probably fucking a broke nigga who has I don't give a Bleep attitude.

Better learn what these rebellious bad guys are doing to attract women, or keep waiting till you make billions before you start bleeping girls.

This is why the only guys I listen to on this thread is ubunja and Pukkalolo and maybe few other guys. These are the guys that truly understand women and game...the rest are just copy and paste

Who dey

talented321:
You was born with nothing to sell''' while a woman is born with something to sell her ''kpekus''' so use ur head.

See wetin this wèrey red piller dey talk. Who is stopping you from selling your preeq

chigomiced:
or maybe you are the one lacking abundance

hence you holding onto ur ex

Guy shut up. Only a sex starved imbeciĺè will be eyeing his friend's ex. Girls don finish for your side?

captainking:
all the persons that commented above me except 2 are lacking in sense.

Herpes is the least of sicknessess to worry about self...you can have breakouts once or twice a year dependds on your immune system. As long as you take prescribed drugs, it will reduce the breakouts.

Most person here have herpes but dont even know it...you see that wound in the mouth people call fever, its called herpes...or in developed world, cold sores. Even kids have this as well..and it normally comes on during cold or when ones immune system is down.
Acciclovir or any of the clovir drugs and cream should help to heal in 2 weeks tops...see A DOC for treatment.

Meanwhile, dont allow people kiss your kids...they could get it from kissess....HSV1 is the oral herpes or cold sores that happens in the mouth region while HSV 2 is genital herpes that happens below and any of them could lead to the other one..

stay safe....build your immune system, take recommended drugs for the period given and you will be fine

You are 99% correct. You are only wrong about the transferring. Hsv 1 cannot be transferred to Hsv 2 and vice versa

akwesenana:
Y'all are quick to look down on hustlers. Keke driver too big sef, that bus conductor wey you curse this morning go feed you, still the buy loud for you plus every weekend bar flexing.

Nigerians and low self esteem. My reason for the question is that i was wondering how a keke driver knew about red pill


And the rest of all you said is cap

MetalJigsaw:
You rejected a loving guy because you said he's poor.; he is a Keke driver. This guy is hardworking, but meanwhile, you're jobless. Your only job is that you're beautiful.😒

The guy's Keke is sold for 1.5 million, and he makes more than 20k every week, and you only make money when men send you money.

He has an apartment of his own, and you're staying in someone else's house.

He uses a cheap Android phone but pays his own bills, but you use an expensive iPhone and need people to send you data.

He sends money to home from time to time, but you ask your father and brothers for money when men don't give you.😑

The truth is that the guy isn't poor. You are the poor one.

He has a promising future, but your future rests behind your back and on your chest.

The next time you see a hustler, respect him. A Hustler is better than a pretender.

May God bless all the Hustlers.

Have a successful week ahead,
Enjoy and be safe.

So bross you dey drive keke

Starkz9898:
some of these niqqas are just frustrated and pus**y starved,going for your niqqas ex is a no no…..Bro they can’t be saved,redpill is not a theoretical thing,you have to live that life.I never had a niqqa that go for my ex,never done the same either.My brothers ex will always be out of the equation,girls plenty.And i noticed something, niqqas will just screenshot a thread on twitter and post on here,most of those girls are just catching cruise…..It is safe to say some of these niqqas live in stone age,girls only set a rule for a niqqa they dont like it is a common knowledge.

Red pillers are the biggest clowns🤣 just posting nonsense tweets and means

While being thirsty. Imagine going for your guy's ex. What type of thirst and horniness is that🤣

manoflove22:
She turn on she even told me she is wet, i did that in her parent house cos na she invited me i Don't know if that is the reason


But she tell me we wil have sex but not now, i don't know maybe she don't wanna look cheap or something

Na you dey fùck up. She wants sèx. But you no sabi get am from her

manoflove22:
bro u know it hurt when u say a woman is not sexuallly attracted someone even all the green light all the love she showed, all the kissing and smooching


But i learn my lesson nt to go back to her again

How can you be kissing and smooching yet no sex. Like how??

She doesn't get turned on or what? Don't you finger her?

qbqetell:
There are two things to this:

One, don't fret. You are only seeing women reveal their true nature.
Do not be attached.
This is why we say, never take them as gold.
They would sleep eveywhere, even with your own blood.

The other thing is, you need to be careful around that guy you call your brother.
Ideally, the moment a woman mates with you, the men around you should consider her off limits.
It does not matter if she's still with you or not, the men around you should consider her off limits.
There's a lot here, and no amount of justification makes this right.
It's a very slippery slope.
It's safe to say, if you ever get married, your brother would entertain the thoughts of fucking your wife.
A man who sleeps with your exs or women you're currently fucking are men with little control over their dicks: such men are the kind who back-stab friends literally.
By the way, I speak from experience. Not my brother though, but people very close.

See person wey get sense. +1 to this. Well said G

Later those other ones will come and say they have self control🤣

Red pill my black asś. Fakes will keep exposing themselves.

KennethIbe59:
Alaye try read and understand.

U no understand the guy right up

You spelt write as right. Tells me a lot about your sense and lack of understanding

So no point wasting my time on you

More reasons why you shouldn't believe most things posted online especially come from fake pillers.

More than 90% of them are thirsty and clueless. We already have two do the right thing and confess

Now we have more exposing themselves 🤣 imagine how thirsty for pùssy you can be to go for your friend's ex

Like how do those clowns do it? They break up today and you start toasting her next month? Are you that sex starved?

Even the people you see as mentors like Andrew Tate, Kevin samuels, Rollo Tomassi etc.... don't even fùck girls their friends have fùcked not to talk more of ex

This is why men can never go back to being real, stone cold players as before. Even the red pillers are pùssies

I remember when i came here talking about sex and they were saying rubbish like "red pill is not about sex" when 80% of what they write is about sex.

That mùmu up there is saying "he just wants to get his dìck wet" 🤣🤣 you can sense the lack of pùssy in his life. Tomorrow he'll say he has sexual discipline or whatever nonsense to fit his useless argument.


This is why everyone laughs at red pillers. And why your girls will cheat on you. Because una no be the alpha male una claim to be.

You can try to decieve us here but in the real world where you lack the pùssy you want, you no fit deceive yourself

Meedon:
joeeee240 can't be saved. It is appalling. 😔

Dey play 🤣

jayAjoku:
An Ex is An Ex she’s an Ex because she no longer fits into your Agenda You should wish her the best and move on you shouldn’t be bothered about her activities Anywhere she is, . I Have never seen a situation where Apple bothers itself about what A developer that left them to google is Doing With their life or vise versa.


Life is Too short to be Bothering About What Your Exes are Doing or who they are doing it With Her life is no longer your business.

DONT BE A SIMP.

You are the thirsty beta ass simp for going for your guy's ex when babes choke

Keep exposing your lack of abundance
It's fun to watch 🤣🤡🤡