₦airaland Forum

SIRTee15:
First it's insulting to say your wife added no value to your life. She gave u 2 kids that bears YOUR NAME. THAT PRESERVES YOUR LEGACY.
She just doesn't sit down at home doing nothing, she is raising your kids, keeping the house clean, cooking you good home made meals and satisfying your urge at night at your beckon. That is something and u dont pay her for it, do you?
forcing her to do business when she has no entrepreneurial skills or background history in business acumen shows it's your fault not hers. She may be well adapted to routine desk job rather than commerce. ask her first how she wants to add extra income to the house not just pushing your ways on her.

Finally, whether u like it or not. It's your duty to provide for your home. THAT IS YOUR GOD GIVING RIGHT DUTY AS A MAN TO PROVIDE FOR YOUR HOME OTHERWISE U ARE WORSE THAN AN INFIDEL- NA BIBLE TALK AM.
Being a man isnt about attending to the needs of your testosterone urge or packing 5 shoulders up and down. What makes u a man is your ability to take care of yourself, another man's daughter and your kids.
whatever your wife brings in is just an adjuvant, u are not expected to rely on it.

I think it's high time we really need to change the orientation of our men in southern Nigeria, because I dont understand how u cant feed your family and the next thing that comes to your mind is to blame your wife....instead of u to DOUBLE YOUR HUSTLE AND KEEP GRINDING.

come to uk, south asian men dont even allow their wives to work, yet na dem get property pass even more than africans that both couple work.
Men better learn to work hard, disruptive AI is coming that will wipe out more than half of all jobs in labour market. At that time, a man will even be lucky to get job not to talk a house wife.

Big shame on u for using Bible as scare tactics on us. That was pauls word but at d same time, he encouraged men to be like him and not marry.

You should be advicing the op to leave his marriage and become single like Paul first. U think say u wise

PissInside:
A whole lot of men are going to marry nonsense in this generation.

No wonder a lot of newly married men are now looking old,depressed and aggressive.

Haha

Akalia:
God will provide you with an opportunity to earn a very good salary. I was once in your shoe, all i needed was a way better job and it miraculously came my way at the appointed time.
Today, comfortably no matter how much I spend in running the family every month, I still have a great deal of balance to split between my personal savings and my frivolities.
Your wife is not a problem-please never see her as one else the devil will start feeding you with negative thoughts that will drive you to acting untoward to your wife.

Yes, she may not be economically productive but she is still very useful in other areas in the marriage, so don't go hard on her. She can't do what she doesn't have the capacity to do.
I pray that God will come through for every responsible married man that is struggling financially, Amen.
OP please be intentional about getting closer to GOD. What you really need is a miraculous breakthrough and not necessarily your wife's supporting effort towards financing your home.

You may one day lose that job. Or lose ur health in it.

Then u will come back to read your foolish post

SpencerForbes:
8 years? 😲 That money would have been way more valuable then than it is now. Inflation has really dealt with the Naira; 400k back then probably had more "engine" than 1 million today. Make una correct me if I lie, but all she has right now is just a figure on paper.

If she’s wise, she better invest it immediately because even if that money hits 2 million, the purchasing power might still be "underground." Small girl for Lagos don use 6 months buy iPhone of 1.7m, and you dey use 8 years save 1m? Abi you no use your talent well😏😂

Emphasis on small girl for Lagos.

Is "small girl" a profession?

Sonnobax15:

Since she was the one that saved that money,watch how she'll carefully spend it with so much accountability

But if it were to be that it was her man that saved it, different plans on how to squander it without any reasonable account will be what she'd be suggesting

Anyways, congratulations to her,cuz not every lady in this generation can boast of saving up to that amount even with the high rate of how they've gone into prostitution

Na that time d ewu go remember she wan buy wig

Xboss1:
Until it happens to you, you won’t understand his reasons. The brother might be a diabolical person and i m sure this wasn’t the first time he experienced spiritual attack from his brother. Life is deeper than deeper life😁

Mtcheeeeeeeeŕw

SisterAnn:
I never knew sepeteri. Olamide Badoo sang with was a town's name 😂

Olamide abi Slimcase and Idowest

Kobojunkie:
High divorce rates are nothing new in Islam, going as far back as the very beginning over 1400 years ago. It is western religion, particularly Christianity that have instead helped maintain the delusion of marriage being for life when in reality many cultures across the world, including many African cultures have never had that set in stone. 🥱🥱

Gbam

Kobojunkie:
Early marriage na also why Almajiris now overrun much of Nigeria, becoming the menace that they are in today's Nigeria. I prefer people to have their freedom to fornicate with birth planning made available to them from school years, rather than the catastrophe that Nigeria now has no real way of dealing with, all thanks to Northern Nigerians. 🥱🥱

To top all of this up, by the time she turns 22, the girl in the picture is likely to have been long divorced by this boy here, who is then likely to have moved on to marrying several other younger girls using the same excuse he has here of catching them young instead of allowing them fornicate. Na so these low IQ males dey almost always reason. 🥱🥱

Divorce is sure. I been no know say these northerners dey divorce like crazy!

kpankpangolo:
…and then he’ll cheat on her.

And she will be d first to cheat.

Basic123:
Not "better" but greater.

Saying maradonna is greater is just a primacy bias or fallacy....people tend to have cognitive bias in favpur of past legends even when the present ones are actually doing better.

Although,it was never stated in my post that one is greater!

Neither better nor greater. Dey whine urself

Basic123:
You people sha want to force this fela rivalry that never exist..WHERE DID WIZKID SAY HE IS GREATER THAN FELA?

No afrobeats artiste idolize fela than wizkid,name it....To the extent that he tatooed his image on his body
Infact,he put fela name in the mouth of most late millenials and gen Z.


By the way,do you know how many achievement wizkid has that fela never had in his life time?...so,its even also very stupid to "SEE THE PERSON THEY SAY HE IS GREATER THAN WIZKID?" whener such achievement is listed.

Ronaldo has more ballon dors than both Pele and Maradona. He must be better than both.

👏

See who wizkid talk say hin dey greater than.

I understand clout and social media gbas-gbos. But you should be careful when comparing yourself with icons.

Let people blow ur own trumpet loudly. Thats d only way to be regarded as greater than icons. As much as Messi seems better than Maradona, u can still call it a tight call. Any comparisons with the icon, Messi shoots it down immediately.

Look at Chris Brown. Very good dancer, very good singer. Handsome dude. But tell him he's better than MJ, and he would shut u up. Thats class.

Chucks13:
Which kind weakling man is this? You wan die cus of a woman?

If u put all ur trust in woman, na so e dey be.

Na first timer hin be. Hin don learn crucial lesson

Weak stewpid men everywhere!

As long as scientists have not invented totometer to track the loyalty of ur wife or gfs toto, the best thing is to assume shes NOT loyal.

Forget words of mouth. Women are devious by nature. Just assume it. Then adjust accordingly.

Better still, dont marry like many of us. It will save you from mental torture. Imagine ur wife na nurse. U know how many doctors dey bang am for overnight shift?

Una go cry!

Well written. You said it all

We now believe it more.

LeeSmart:
FreeStuffsNG, Madridguy, FSBoperator, Seunmsg, WriterNG una good morning ooo😂😂😂

See how them disappear 😂

Satan of Sokoto next

Kimo21:
I didn’t ask you for your own personal opinion on who Jesus is to you that is your own personal problem. I know who he is to me and that is enough.

U go explain tire

edcas:
Let it be understood that being born in a Christian community or even inside the church or being given a Christian name does not make you a Christian. You may only claim to be a Christian if your only proof is on the afore mentioned parameters.

To be a Christian is quite far from answering a Christian name, going to church, or living in a Christian community. To be a Christian is "being like Christ" or "living the way Christ lived." Interestingly, the word "Christian" was first mentioned about AD 40-43 when the disciples were first called Christians in Antioch because of the similitude of their lifestyle and conduct with that of Jesus (Acts 11:26). So to be a Christian simply means that you a "follower of Christ." A real Christian demonstrates his or her belief by living the way Christ lived—doing what Christ did and avoiding what Christ avoided. A Christian will follow Christ and work at patterning his/her life after His life. That is why you need the second birth, that is, being "Born Again."

Christian practice and the practise of magical powers or charms are not, and cannot be the same. It will be a misnomer for someone to say he is a Christian who uses charms, because biblically, this is called syncretism.

Jesus said in Matthew 6:24, "No man can serve two masters.”

]You cannot serve:

Jesus and charms

The Holy Spirit and talismans

The Cross and occult rituals

The final truth is that a Christian does not need charms. As a Christian, you have the Name of Jesus, the Blood of Jesus, the Holy Spirit. and the Word of God. These are more powerful than any charm ever created.

So brother, if you want to be a Christian, you need to repent and forsake those charms.

U go narrate tire. U prove nothing

Akharmony:
Charms already as exibit in Dss custody. He has case to answer, how he got those riffles Ak47. Charms that didnt protect two 9f his men. Yoruba will say Mo jo mo sa ni a mo Akikanju " knowing thw time to escape is what makes a strong man"

If he blivd in gissus, all of them will have died that day

AfonjaPriest:
All this meat pie or boli he put for hin chest, e fit help am stop bomb?
Well, some trust in chariots and horses, but we will trust in the name of the Lord.

Na why fulani bandits dey kpai una shege until una run go beg america.

Una go cry

Amaggedon:
So what logic gaurantees your protection after doing you so called juju?

Ask yourself d same for ur gissus

DeltaBachelor:
Hmmmm. Oga but sorry, you can’t have two masters, choose one abeg

Isese

AK481:
see all the guns they saw in his house , yet Nnamdi kanu that only evidence is unproven speech is having a life sentence in sokoto.

The guns are licensed. You dont know hes a vigilante and also doubles as the security lead of Ladoja?

U go cry

DMCA:
Igboho is an Idol worshiper, nothing more.
u cannot be a christian and worship idols

Jesus is an idol in our land

Kimo21:
when ever you see a so called christian using charm...that person doesnt know jesus. God is not a back up plan that is what most people dont understand...they think he is just another deity to appease to get something. any person you see claiming to be a christian but is patronising charms is NOT a christian..they are idol worshippers disguising

Jesus is also an idol to us here

Deal with it

datola:
Do these things work? Because if they actually do, most people will opt for them, alongside their whatever religion.

Does jesus and mohammadu work?

Dey there make pant dey wear u