₦airaland Forum

esnbrutality:
No Yoruba woman is bigger than Okonjo Iweala..its that simple. Now cry and smash it on the floor.

Clazzone:
Only God knows where una dey see all this rubbish women, I understand that you can't have a perfect woman or man but at least let be people be supportive too, just some days ago I had a heated argument with my wife and at a point I said I might send her packing if she continues that rudeness, and she jokingly reminded me she would carry the sofa because she had 90% of the money for it, ... Deep inside me, I was like WAAT !

I love her because despite my attitude of having to do many things by myself, she will always find a way of solving some crucial needs before informing me

UnknownQueen:
This boy believes in partnership marriage 50/50, but he still wants the lady to submit to him, handle all the house chores and still answer to her family.

Nairaland family , I say this boy is such a clown.....Male una laugh hahahahahhaah

Lanre1st:
Decision is yours, I was once in your similar situation and trust me, men become more scared, anxiety and over think when marriage is coming closer. I feel exactly what you feel and mine is even with some other things. Despite all my over thinking, I go ahead with the wedding and to God be the glory we are doing good.
Your observation is genuine, and i can tell you, it will take a deliberate change of mind for her to to be giving even in the marriage. In my own case i gave her excuse that she was a student at the time but it just a little change when she is working. Though women will spend their last card for your kids

But as you are considering her financial contribution don't forget to look at what attracts you to her in the first place, what makes you stay with her for that long, to even extent of planning wedding.
Mind you, Woman roles in marriage goes beyond money contribution. Look at her characters, skills, faithfulness, respect, ability to prepare you for (work, outing for success), to give you courage, training your kids in such a way you like, just picture the perfect wife you dream of, if she fit in.
Note, even if your girl friend is giving you now, know she is borrowing you, you will pay multiple in marriage. Women money is her money while man's income is family's money. Man should know, he has larger percentage of financial responsibility in marriage if not 100%.

Good marriage is not based on both party financial contribution, but peace, respect, faithfulness, God fearing, ability to endure, supportive, communication, forgiveness, commitment and many more. Pray to God for guidance.

Emdi1914:
See, you have to understand something..,as a man,it is more pleasurable to give than to receive.
This marriage thing is not for everyone.If you see 'providing' as hard labor,it is better not to marry, because providing for someone is more of pleasure than pain,I swear it is a blessing believe me.

Eagle1eye:
AI video is becoming more common now.
You’ll notice people using it for things like business ads, YouTube content (even without showing face), and video editing for clients. Some also use it to grow pages online.
It’s just another digital skill at the end of the day, like graphics or web design. Those who take time to learn it seem to be finding different ways to earn from it.
Still early for many people here, but it’s gradually picking up.

GrammarNazi1:
Livestreaming, especially when excessive, has certain negative consequences!

1. Heavy livestreamers don't get enough sleep, which could negatively impact on their health: high blood pressure, and diabetes!

2. Some of them have to take energy boosters such as energy drinks, which could still lead to the health issues mentioned in number 1 up there.

3. Blood clots: livestreamers usually sit for long hours, which could increase the chances of blood clots (This could be fatal).

Godmind2022:
Christianity has a very big role to play in every area of our lives. It makes life better. It brings peace and meekness to one and if one has peace within him or her, it will make one a good human.

We can't over emphasize that.

To answer your question, I guess your question implied how our fathers sustained their marriages before Christianity came. The traditional religions people practiced then also preached fear of God from which comes tolerance, honesty, faithfulness to marriage vow, respect for one another etc. Apart from that, these were the days people married based on recommendations. These recommendations were also based on those qualities mentioned above.

inoki247:
Lol sending Email Baba fit dey leave trail Incase in future if divorce wan go show....


Evidence go too dey.....

Godmind2022:
1. Open communication:

This is where matters are discussed without bias, without pointing fingers, without reference to past misdeeds, except you bring up your own misdeeds/mistakes first before hers/his, if it is absolutely necessary.

2. Don't attempt to change your partner if there is no danger or loss involved:

No two persons think the same way all the times. Make room for differences

3. Forgiveness is a must:

There must be offences but forgive. Nobody is perfect, even you.

4. Emphaty is key:

When you ask for sex, and your spouse says no, for example, she is not doing that out of trying to get at you or trying to deny you. Always put yourself in the shoe of the other person. Nobody likes being woken up in the middle of the night when the sleep is deep.

5. Fear of God:

This is the foundation for other secrets and if your spouse is not born again, this would be hard. Fear of God makes one to be submissive, cooperative, understanding, faithful, honest, transparent and helpful.

Pootle:
he cant fix the fire in LP but wants to fix nigeria

angelboy01:
I used to work in this company. Omoh I know believe this o. Lol

Coronavirus1:
That’s how they are also doing in Nigeria

iwaeda:
I have said it crimes are sponsored by many corporate organisations, knowingly or not.

Angelfrost:
If I talk now, people wey dem born yesterday go begin dey call me names...!

Some even call me ancestor when I speak against the abuse of the social media space.


Everything don become content na...! Even p0rn is no longer a grey area or forbidden thing: it's now all over the social media space.

Y'all should continue hustling for the crumbs that Zuckerberg and Musk are tossing around.

I wish you all well!

spiceadole:
So despite all the bragging on social media, men okokos are still planning on getting married.
This one wants to spend 3 million naira for the same marriage that they claim they do not have anything to benefit from.
Unbelievable!

ariesbull:
Tell him the truth and stop deceiving him! 2 hours ruinations isn't good be it in Russia or Northern Canada


Ask him the lifestyle and what he eats...you know eat lots of junks there and GM foods and rarely do exercise and can't even pay for gym membership

lightwind:
I drink a lot of water, and i pee a lot too

MichaelTokunboh:
Waking up to pee every 2 hours is a dangerous occurrence & frequency!
That's a sigh of a weak or failing kidney.
Kindly go for check up ASAP.
Short bursts of sleep at night isn't a good thing either, your sleep cycles need to be longer.
Thank you 🙏

kelechi50:
Inside life of a married OS.

We4all:
What if she was hypnotized and kidnapped by the man? In Nigeria, anything is possible.

Desusi:
A serious issue in Nigeria.How can the nation's capital be lacking anti - venom in their hospitals? No be juju be that? Who bewitched and cast spells on this country?

Kingsley34:
The major problem be say if this thing bite u just know say na death remain cos this country no get anti venom for their hospital

BrightAhiah99:
Someone should help us and summarize the scenario, what really happened?

Akalia:
My post reads folly to you because you lack the depth of mental maturity to grasp its underlying moral story.

Not your fault, perhaps one day you would understand.

Jman06:
Lol.... this reminds me of my argument with a babe here. She said that one of the reasons why men should carry the burden of providing for their wives is that she changed her surname to his. I then asked her if she'll be willing to carry that responsibility if I change to her own surname and she started the game of shaming me for not being a "real man". I just laughed