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Hanseel1:
Her username ,please

@jaxyaroks that's her IG handle... But she has made it private

Lalasticlala
Mynd44

Left for me alone... I Respect every body's way of life

A Popular Nigerian Feminist / Lecturer at Godfrey Okoye University, Chukwuebuka Nnaemaka Chukwuemeka is trending online after he said he wouldn't mind if his Children bore his Wife's Surname.


Nigerians didn't let him finish, they accused him of being a homosexual, Woman wrapper, they went as far as accusing him of the few gay men influenced by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie's fight for feminism in Nigeria.


See what he wrote below:

"When I told a friend that I wouldn’t mind my kids bearing their mother’s surname and nativity, he thought it was one of my numerous jokes. But I was serious.



As I tried to give him my reasons for having such inclination, he thought it was one of my feminist sermons. But it wasn’t about feminism.
Most of my ideas about fairness and freedom stem from my personal idiosyncracies.


I am easily given to the advancement of free-thinking and liberty, one that does not infringe on another man’s rights and peace.

Perhaps this is the reason I easily speak up for feminism, homosexuals and irreligious folks.


Yes, my wife would be free to bear her surname, register my kids’ names with her surname and even make her native town that of my kids’.

This is not about feminism. (If feminism preaches such cause, then it is by accident that our thoughts align.)

Rather, this is about me, who I am, the way I see life—a NO Big deal.


For instance, I have always preferred to identify Ọkụzụ (corrupted as Awkuzu), my mum’s town, as my native town to whoever that asks.

This was not to push a feminist cause, but to avoid unnecessary cynical questions I get from some people when I tell them I am from Ụmụeri (popularly corrupted as Ụmụleri) because of the town’s history of war and violence with some of her neighbours, especially Agụleri and Ụmụọba Anam.


As a banker, I mentioned Ọkụzụ instead of Ụmụeri as my home town. And it worked for me, until Dad challenged me to rise to the task of clearing to the world the hidden virtues of his townsmen and be the voice to correct those narratives I do not want to be associated with.

I agreed with him. And I am happy he was able to understand that I could decide to change my nativity to that of my maternal home based on my personal circumstances.


Culturalists may argue for order. But in an advanced world, these things work perfectly with digitalized administrative documentations.

When my kids become adults, they should be able to denounce Ụmụeri and identify Akọkwa or Ihiala or Mbaise or wherever their mother hails from as their native town.

The district commissioners will file their registration. And that’s it. In fact, as long as one is an Igbo and could prove it through their birth certificate, this shouldn’t be a big deal in an ideal Igbo nation.


I do not think it is by having my kids bear my name that will make my name live forever. In fact, I don’t intend to change my surname from Chukwuemeka (my grandfather) to Nnaemeka (my father). Yet, who knows Chukwuemeka!"


If my kids decide to bear Chukwuebuka as their surname, that’s their business, I won’t stop them.


I only hope that by the time they start reading and writing, my book would have been ready, so that they’d read about their father’s ideas, and realise that their individual choice is more important than whatever culture or religion prescribes".

NEWS BY JOELSBLOG
https://joelsblog.com.ng/my-children-can-bear-my-wifes-surname-nigerian-lecturer-feminist-chukwuebuka-nnaemaka-chukwuemeka/


Lalasticlala
Mynd44

Hanseel1:
is the lady on instagram?

Yes

karli4nia:
It is palpable that this lady holds a very good position in the sacred ministry of UKWU-NMA

God bless their union.

U have sliced me to death with laughter

More photos here: https://joelsblog.com.ng/association-of-inventory-and-distribution-professionals-of-nigeria-holds-one-day-induction-seminar/

There is so much love in this photos, let's congratulate Joke and Tope as they set to tie the knot that will bound them in love forever, after seeing this photos, I wanted to fall in love again, to get married and take pre-wedding photos as lovely as these!

News By JoelsBlog
https://joelsblog.com.ng/pre-wedding-photos-joke-and-tope-set-to-wed-jaytee2018/

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You should have censored the video!!

Read Full story

https://joelsblog.com.ng/owerri-slayqueen-runs-mad-after-strange-car-drops-her-in-front-of-killimanjaro/

Actress Stella Damasus turned 40 today and she shared a video, thanking God for keeping her till date.. Watch below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8SFjZFTbjI

Lalasticlala
Mynd44

Lalasticlala
Mynd44

Photo circulating on social media is a comprised list of proposed housemates for Big Brother Naija 2019,I swear all the housemates will either go home with leaking... Or join the Vaseline crew with Romangoddess available, her strategic partner will have a good time, as for Hushpuppi the spoon, boxers, slippers and Cloths he will wear for Arena Games must be made of Gucci! What do you think?

https://joelsblog.com.ng/see-proposed-candidates-for-big-brother-naija-2019bobrisky-is-among/

donstan18:
I'm just imagining how the pussay of a Grandma will be like.

Asin, from 100 years and above

Will it look like an expired kidney?

And today I just died... Kill me hahahaha

Lalasticlacla
Mynd44

See more photos: https://joelsblog.com.ng/nigerian-musician-mr-shaa-seen-chilling-with-tontoh-his-sex-doll-see-photos/

Nigerian Musician Mr Shaa was seen chilling with “TONTOH” his sex doll, the pair striked a pose in New photo.

Mr Shaa has reportedly become the first Nigerian Celebrity to purchase a Sex Doll as others are still hiding under covers.

Trending yesterday was a man that got stucked as his sex Doll refuse to let go of his penis from her vagina, JoelsBlog gathered that the Nigerian Musician bought his sex doll for a whooping N1.5million, see photos below.


News by Joelsblog

https://joelsblog.com.ng/nigerian-musician-mr-shaa-seen-chilling-with-tontoh-his-sex-doll-see-photos/

Lalasticlala


Read more :https://joelsblog.com.ng/nigerian-lady-reveals-why-she-enjoys-saying-men-are-scum/

Nigerian Lady, Mc Carthy who has always been known for calling men scumbags on every of her tweets has finally revealed why she always say "Men are Scum" and her reason was because Sango, a yoruba deity is in charge of the rain.

News by Joelsblog
https://joelsblog.com.ng/nigerian-lady-reveals-why-she-enjoys-saying-men-are-scum/

See photo:

Chai... Because of this people might find it hard to assist people who really need help....

Nonsense

So we should fry spoon for her?

Meet The First Nigerian Woman Invited To Prince Harry Of England's Wedding

Meet the only Nigerian lady who has been invited to Prince Harry’s Royal wedding

A Nigerian woman has been invited to the royal wedding of Prince Harry

According to sources, she is reportedly the only Nigerian woman invited to the grand occasion

This is coming after the couple requested for half of their guests to come from a range of backgrounds and ages

Just like their relationship, the wedding of Prince Harry and actress, Meghan Markle is definitely one that is meant to stand out. With the couple breaking several royal wedding traditions, many people just can't wait to see how the wedding pans out.

While the couple is still making the news for a lack of UK and foreign politicians on the official guest list, including Donald Trump and ex-president, Barack Obama, Prince Harry and Meghan have invited a Nigerian woman among may other 'ordinary' members of the public.

Identified as Pamela Anomneze, the Nigerian-born Londoner has been listed as one of the ‘1,200 favoured guests’ to attend the royal wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, scheduled for May 19.


News by JoelsBlog:
https://joelsblog.com.ng/meet-the-first-nigerian-woman-invited-to-prince-harry-of-englands-wedding-photos/

coluka:
My Predictions

Best recording -- Joromi by Simi
Best Pop single -- If by Davido
Best Producer -- Kidominant
Best Reggae/ Dancehall -- Come closer by Wizkid
Best Rap Album -- The Playmaker by Phyno
Best Pop/ RnB Album -- STFOS by Wizkid
Best Music Video -- Malo by Tiwa Savage
Best RnB single -- Romeo and Juliet by Johnny drille
Best Collabo --- Malo by Tiwa Savage and Wizkid
Best Rap single -- You rappers should fix up ur lives MI
Best vocal performance(M) --Romeo&Juliet Johny drille
Best Vocal performance(F) -- Saro by Niniola
NextRated -- Mayorkun
HipHop World revelation -- Mr Eazi or Reekado(Not sure)
Lyricist in the roll -- You Rappers Fix up ur lives by MI
Best Street -- WO by olamide
Best Alternative song -- Romeo & Juliet by Johnny drille
Album of the Year -- STFOS by Wizkid
Artiste of the Year -- Davido
Song of the Year -- IF by Davido
African Artiste. -- Sarkodie
Viewers Choice -- IF by Davido
Best Performer -- Flavour
Rookie -- Perruzi or Kidi (I'm not sure of this one)

Did you just type all that? What a waste of strength and energy