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NevetsIbot:
How Best Do I Handle This Issue With My Cousins August visit?

Hello everyone. I hope I don't get to bore you all too much with this palava I've found myself in.

I understand how sensitive family can be and that's why this is giving me a little bit of headache.

I have this Cousin; My aunts son from my father's side. We're almost age mates. We got to meet last year April. We had seen each other last about 17yrs ago. So it was more or less like Personalities coming in contact. As expected, we differed a lot. He was more of a rough guy, impatient with needless bravado and a penchant for letting people know how though he thinks he is.

He schools in Ogun state and I in Ondo. We met last year when he came to my school to see me. I overlooked his stupid acts as per that was our first time of meeting and he was going to spend just three days.

He told me he wanted to come again this year and I told him it'd have to be after exams ending by march - knowing fully well that by then, I'd drop another excuse. The semester is crazy right now and I have to divide my time between academics, executive duties in school, art and interior decorations I do. I get home earliest 10pm almost every day.

Last night around 1am... I was seated outside my villa enjoying the night breeze and trying to write a few articles when my neighbor asked me if this my cousin had come... I was confused. My cousin had told this girl he was coming and truly he was on his way.. all the way from Ogun state. At 1am. It was when it got a bit crazy in the street that he called me to help him get to my villa. Which I did but didn't speak to him... Wouldn't trash my cousin before a girl.

The issue is this.

1. I need my privacy.. Being alone helps me focus on work and academics. I need nobody around me. My grades need to be revamped.

2. I don't smoke and I laid down rules that he should never try it around me... I got home today to pick an artwork and my charlet was full of smoke. He did that.

3. Talks with the rural rugged guys in my area. I don't want any mix whatsoever with those guys

4. His bravado is next to foolishness. Where's he's supposed to stay low, he'll act up. He sags extra lower than normal, wears earrings and talks like a thug.

5. He seems to attract cultists to himself even in his school. He's more or less like a baby I need to monitor

I'm not an S.U but I try to show myself as responsible in wherever I stay. Ion smoke. I'm fashionable but don't go extra mile like a juvenile.

Please, I need the best way to eject this guy out of my place ASAP. I'm too busy to have someone around. I do not need this. Talking to him in a brotherly manner makes him flare up. I wouldn't want to make this rough as I tend to lose control when I get really angry.

Please advise

Lets join hands with the president and fight this menace called boko haram,stop politicising everything,it not about muslim or Christian,it not about any tribe,it not about any political party,it about our survival as a nation,Nigeria is 200 million people,if there's is unrest,all africa countries will be engulf,make una stop dey fight eachother,the matter is very serious.

Omooba77:
https://www.thecable.ng/breaking-many-houses-on-fire-as-boko-haram-hits-chibok-2/amp

Abeg live me no scatter my brain which maths (

OlawaleBammie:
Did u do MTH in school, like Logic??

if yes den u should b familiar with the phrase: "if and only if"

What u type there is true "if and only if" we re in core europe

Nigeria is approximately 200 million, do you know nigeria league if well develop can compete with European league,these league generate billions of dollars and employ hundreds of thousands,it impact their GDP.

OlawaleBammie:
Hmm, ok

Pls can u explain how it wil impact the masses??

with rigorous embezzlement?
abi how??

Systematic,master piece,international,nigeria with grammar..it just there.

McCoy662:
Just this morning I just decided to visit the much talked about Ebonyi international market and I was wowed by the sight.

It is aesthetic, structural and architectural masterpiece. From what I saw, I can estimate that the market has over 4000 shops and different sizes of warehouses.

Here are some of the pictures I took from different angles of the market.

I hadn't had my breakfast then, so I wasn't able to tour the whole market
So, next time, I will update you on the remaining half side of the market.

Don't laff at the image quality oo, this my iPhone 11 pro max plus is hell bent on embarrassing me oo

If nigeria league is upgraded it will impact the economy.

OlawaleBammie:
The one our forefathers tru to our fathers hav bn discussing all these while where has it landed us??

Who hav tym for unfruitful discuss wen we have plenty of things to do

If we discuss more about it we will bring the attention of the world to it,lets keep talking about the rot.

OlawaleBammie:
With wat oo??
My papa money? or mine?

i dey among the stakeholders??

i dey among the shareholders??

i dey among the management??

na me b d president of the state??


Abeg i wil b apy if u can tell me the power i get


abi u want me to join u in ur online ranting wey no go yield any +ve results?? mbaa

Dont be too sure,speak for you not others.

henryobinna:
trash, I don't know the community and environment you live in.

My entire family and even extended family I can't think of any smoker... I also know families like that

For the first in history i agree with a Nairalander,if there is a sensible person on this forum,that means there are still sensible people around,there's hope.

djon78:
It's not just having so many children even the little number must be adequately taken care of and it requires money.

I have a relation with three kids all In primary and there annual school fees is in millions. They go to highbrow school where the best of education is guaranteed.

The key thing still boils down to good economy. Moreover marriage is just a branch part of someones life. There are other parts of a person's life that needs to be taken care of to make a complete man, work, business, career, money making, etc are all these branches.

But majority of times people solely focus on marriage and in the end they end up an unfulfilled miserable beings.

So my take is people should look at life from the entire makeup not just the marriage branch to become a complete being.

Lets change it

OlawaleBammie:
Oga comot der!!! which awa lig??

awalig wey lack killer instincts

awalig dat is full of amateurism

awalig the reeks mediocrity

awalig that its pitches are eyesore

awalig which are not tv friendly

awalig wey no get better stadia or proper stand

awalig wey no get planning

awalig wey no get enof camera

awalig wey dem dey bit ref

awalig wey away side no dey win, highest na draw

awalig wey no dey pay players their arrears talk more of curent wages

awalig wey dey pursue sponsors comot

awalig wey full of embezzlement

awalig wey dem no sabi play scintillating game, na gbas gbos kick and follow..no game chemistry at alll. D defenders wil do little passes among demselves for 10sec and d next tin na to send the ball to a lone striker wey dey faraway for opponent half..mtcheew


i prefer south African lig or better still the nothern Africa lig

hav u heard of teams like tp mazembe, green buffalo, red buffalo, gor maiya...na league b dat.

This is my point,people should stop having many children.

djon78:
It's not just money money but money is still the highest priority.

A man should have something very good he is doing. Something very stable that brings in good pay.

I have seen people who were not prepared but now in misery in marriage. Plenty children and nothing to take care of them.

It's foolishness for a man without something very stable economically venturing into marriage.
It's suicidal simple

Lets discuss how to develop our league,the Europeans started small,hypocrites forming fans,they will never help to build their local football but want to die for clubs they don't even know how they started..Nigerians una toooo foolish,poverty go kill all of una,low lives.

Suspect33:
3 Real Madrid
Who can write off the only club that succeeded in defending the European crown during the current era, winning four Champions League trophies within five years and further stabilising its stand as the greatest football club on the continent?

Los Blancos have shocked everyone with their return to form this term. They currently top the La Liga table with 52 points from 23 games so far and will be locking horns with Manchester City in the Champions League Round of 16 this month. They are playing brilliantly, with great team work and intense determination. With momentum building up steadily, there's no writing off the men in white.

Our system is solely on money money,what's is money? Live within your means and see the full essence of life,which is happiness.

Blu03:
let us be realistic tho, financial security is a very important factor. Money would influence the level of happiness in the relationship. Life is complex. That 300k wouldn't be enought to start up a family with at least three members.
The child's basic welfare, feeding, education, health care, etc. Apart from maturity, both physical and emotional, money is another solid foundation on which a decent marriage would built.

women too should work and have some savings,no be give me,give me always,naija women should learn to support their spouse.

makydebbie:
Money is happiness and happiness is money.
You can't enjoy marriage without money, love doesn't feed us or pay the bills.
So that makes money very necessary.

If you don't have any positive comment just get lost, family man ,bread winner,father and brother just died.

IduNaOba:
Sure say no be aftermath of the kidnap attack?
The one he was running like new born mouse according to aisha yesufu

Atiku won't perform better.

NaijaRoyalty:
It wasn't this bad under PDP government

Too bad that BUHARI led APC governemnt ha destroyed Nigeria beyond repair .

No pity felt here tho, because we warned Nigerians against reinforcing a failure like buhari and his APC for a second term .

They've destroyed our country .

This is my point,the young people should channel their energy to the government,fight and protest for better life,the reason why they listen to these musicians is because they are mentally lazy.

afonjabreed:
If you want to vent your spleen about how backward we are as a country then their are other people you can direct that to,not celebrities .what do you want them to do build rockets?,or start developing high end softwares so we can stop using foreign technologies?,all these critics are supposed to be directed at the government and dilapidated economical and educational situation of the country

Stop comparing America and a country that hold the title of the poorest people,these musicians are known cos Nigerian youth dont know their priority,we should be discussing innovations,science,agriculture and technology not these low lives wannabe celebrities in Nigeria.

afonjabreed:
Even Americans celebrate entertainers

Celebrate people that impact the society,he's a celebrity because Nigeria is a useless country,guy!!!! This is 21st century there's no light in Nigeria.

afonjabreed:
this guy is not tech a geek ,okay?!
At least he is a notable musician in the industry he belongs to.

Where is the greatness to celebrate? Others are taking technology to the next level.

afonjabreed:
Learn to celebrate greatness so same can happen to you.
Hate will take you no where

Stop comparing nigeria with America in any sphere of life..even south Africa no be our mate.

maynation:
Nigeria is a joke. I can't imagine some group of terrorists on America soil threatening Donald Trump.

Nnewi is richer than nigeria? just heard about this,thanks for the information

pasol4real:
Olodo just full nairaland.
Go check for the richest state in Nigeria,
It is anambra .forget igr one billionaire in anambra can pay off the 50 billion. Or haven’t you heard that nnewi (a city in anambra) is richer than Nigeria as a whole.

Buhari is a great leader just that Nigerians are most corrupt and laziest being on earth,all man want quick pay

Racoon:
https://dailypost.ng/2020/02/16/buhari-could-not-achieve-more-because-nigeria-does-not-have-money-bmoo/

Is this necessary?

masterflowx:
You better kill yourself before you commit suicide.

Lazy youth!

Get lost go find your mate idiots,dont blame you in social media human and pigs are considered one..

eduman365:
Continue your show of shame. I won't indulge you anymore.

What do you know? You think everyone is a lowlive here in this forum like you,how dare you call me childish? You no dey fear,get lost!!!!

eduman365:
You're just being ignorant. Look up the facts and stop displaying childishness. If you don't have anything to say, please keep quiet.

Dont be too sure,as if you know the particular indian guy.

eduman365:
.

I'm an IT guy... You can do your research as well.
IRS and Microsoft scams are majorly perpetrated by Indians. Check Youtube and school yourself.

Hope you dey ok sir? The post is different from your topic

OsuAmaka:
Nnamdi Kanu buried his dog but couldn't bury his parents. No Ipob paraphernalia or insignia was in sight at Kanu's parents burial. I challenge anyone to show me a pic of Ipobs waving their akpu stinking flag during the burial. flat skulls could have rolled if ipobs had displayed their rags.


-Osu amaka

You too get for body,when you sight an idiot you walk pass na wa oo.

Ivebeenbanned:
Like your mother. Yes.
You're still a pedophile and a disgrace to manhood. You're always going to remember the day you came online, disgraced yourself and the woman who birthed you, kept trying to justify your stupidity, disgraced men who you think are a price. The day you marry a woman, and you both have women. Till when you're old with wrinkled balls, disgusted at your old newspaper of a wife and attracted to your young 'fresh' daughters. You're too stupid for someone that owns a Smartphone. On the 16th day of February, 2020 you got schooled by a teenager. slowpoke.

Gangster

elektra:
The only time cheating bothers men is when it is a woman doing it.
Look at this OP, he is not even the one being cheated on, but it worries him so much he had to open a thread about it.

The woman left the kids for her husband. Who should she have left them for? Are the kids not bearing the man’s name?
There are many women tired from raising kids by themselves, have you ever noticed anyone of them? The moment you see one man raising his kids you come to open thread.
You men should get used to raising your own bloody kids.