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Most naija women no get joy.

OcVoice:
An older friend, who could pass as a dad to me owns a bar and few a letout rooms for short sex or even a day booking.

He recently travelled to see his children abroad and asked me to come assist his wife once a while after work/hustle.

The first scenario:
I was there yesterday and I noticed a man in his 60's and a woman in her 50's, drinking and eating together. Their language was of the Eastern and I understood correctly.

After having some bottles, the woman talked about her husband who was on a business trip and her grown up children at the university and all. She locked her shop to come be with the man.

The man also talked about his wife in the village for a function and grown up children bla bla bla!

The shock:
The man was obviously trying to ask her out.....then she immediately told him that she wouldn't be interested in that. The man now asked what she wants and she said they should be fvck buddies. She said: "Any time my husband is away, I'll call u. "We would come here, drink and fvck well"
The man accepted and they booked an hour and went into a room!
Even though they are older and had grown up children, I still don't like adultery!

2nd scenario:

I noticed this last week.

I saw 2 beautiful kids, a boy (about 4 years) and a girl (about 2 years) playing inside the bar. I asked my friend's wife and she said one of her customer had issues with his wife and the wife left him with the kids.

From her story, the guy use to work and provide for his family, till he lost his job and the wife couldn't cope with the hardship. She abandoned her kids and went away with a rich alhaji. This guy has been taking care of the kids....bathing and feeding them, taking them to school and bringing them back, cleaning poos, etc. His rent expired and the landlord sent him packing forcefully, after some months. The reason he stays in the bar in the mean time.

Around 8pm that day, while he was out hustling, I saw the girl sleeping in an uncomfortable manner; hitting her head on the table while she dozed off, and I just thought to myself while carrying her on my arms so she could sleep well; she's innocent. She didn't bring herself to this world. She should be on bed sleeping now. She obviously hadn't had dinner.

Why would a woman abandon her own kids? Even if u don't want the man, can't u take your kids to your parents or even siblings and look after them? Where is the love? Is marriage not in good times and in bad times anymore? I had to shed tears while pondering! I was told the man had no one in the city.

I waited till he came back and I spoke with him. He told me the same. I felt so sorry for him. He was looking so tired and stressed. I can't do more than supporting him financially with the little I can.

This has really been disturbing me. Pls ladies, if you know you're not ready to suffer with your man when things gets tough for him, don't bother going into marriage! Don't even bother. A rich man today could be poor tomorrow. Life happens....it might not be his making! Life is not always Rosy!

Our mothers suffered with our fathers when the going was tough, why can't we emulate it?

Na wa ooo ,is this how Nigerians are now?bitterness will kill many of you.

laughitall:
which one be monkey no fine him mama like am... what do u mean ? The baby is ugly .. everybody know .. but let's keep it on code

Do you have a mother.

Nairaboi:
Nonsense.
Very ugly mother with an ugly child, and no father.

Mumu

godofuck231:
true, she ugly, her daughter too

Do you have ball?

NwaAmakpe:



I can bet my left balls that he caught his girlfriend cheating yesterday

Avoid night movement? Where is the groove without night groove,if one cannot take a stroll at night then there's no life in that state.

willsonzzy:
In aba bus and Keke drivers don't speak english but if you speak english they'll understand, in pH pigin is the main language I mean broken English,when you're in pH don't go to dioub,abuloma and the dline at night.you can get a very nice hotel in old or new GRA,avoid night movement and you will enjoy your stay,

Without the south south nigeria is mali or niger.

Sammy07:
It's every tribe that feeds the whole country

Minority wey dey feed the whole country..una no dey shame

Sammy07:
Judging from the write up.
2 Hausas
2 Fulanis
1 Yoruba
1 Igbo

Others are minorities.

The reflection of the country,ugly mind,some of you are just walking corps,a little innocent girl

ghettokid1:
Ugly Baby

I agree but ask obasanjo and jonadunce thesame question oo

SarkinYarki:
After 5 years if Useless Buhari Lagos international airport doesn't have ILS glide scope guide in ..please what is Buhari doing as president

Which of the episode is this? always love super story.

Overlordship:
Hello all, I got married to my wife 9 months ago and it has been a wonderful experience all through until her friend showed up two months ago. That was actually the first time I was meeting her as she wasn’t around for our wedding as she was doing her masters programme in South Africa. I knew she and my wife were closed as she was always talking about her best friend while we were courting.

She showed up at our house and I thought she came to visit and catch up with old times with my wife so I gladly welcome her. Later in the night, my wife told me she will be staying with us for sometimes while she gets a job. I was upset because we never discussed it before and I made my feeling known. Nevertheless, I had to give in since she said the friend also accommodated her in her room back at school for a session. So, I accepted her living with us and I felt it was only for a short time. We gave her the visitor’s room.

The first trouble started when I noticed her night gown barely covered her bum and sometimes were transparent with her boobs showing whenever she comes to the sitting room. I expressed my reservations about it to my wife and she dismissed it playfully that it was nothing and that what were my eyes wandering there for, so I let it go. Sometimes, she will enter her bedroom without knocking saying she wants to gist with her friend. And I will just stay on my side of the bed playing with my phone while the both talked. I noticed my wife doesn’t care, but I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it with the hope her friend will soon leave the house.

I must admit that the friend was a bit useful in the house. My wife closes late than I, and her friend stays home when she’s not job hunting, so sometimes she would have cooked before we arrived. Though, I complained about this also, but wifey believe it was trivial. Her friend was intelligent and as times goes on, we talked on a wide range of topic while waiting for wife to come back from home so I stopped complaining about her to my wife.

It became so normal about her dressing that I accepted it like that. There was a day she came to our room to gist with my wife and playfully, my wife hit me with a pillow and before you know it, the three of us were throwing pillows about and playing like kids. They were both jumping on me and incidentally, I had a hard on as we were playin. I noticed her friend was slightly brushing her hand on me. I had to quickly stop and stylishly use the pillow to cover myself until I came down. I was really uncomfortable with the whole situation, but I didn’t complain to my wife again since I know what she will say. What I just keep asking my wife is when her friend was leaving.

The incident that happened two weeks really changed things. My wife took one week leave and decided to visit her parents outside the state we reside. I wasn’t okay with it leaving her friend alone with me, but she said I will just do fine. I tried to come home late for the first three days so I can completely avoid her, until the fourth day when she came into my room. I didn’t want to be rude by asking her to leave, so I asked her to sit down on the sofa in the bedroom. We first spoke about football, politics and other things. I can’t really say what happened, but in a lapse of judgement, we started kissing and then I had sex with her. I felt regret immediately and started apologizing to her for taking advantage of her. What she said really dazzled me. She said I shouldn’t be sorry as my wife never keep talking of our big I am and how sex was so great. And how she wishes her friend can experience what she was talking about.

My regrets turned to anger immediately and I asked her if she and my wife planned this whole episode just to confirm what my wife was boasting about. She denied being in cohort with my wife, but said something that devastated me. She said my wife wouldn’t mind as they sometimes share things together as they are besties for life right from their school days. I had to quickly exit the room to the balcony. We barely talked again until wife came back, though she tried to initiate some conversation, which I rebuffed. My wife further heightened my apprehension when wife asked if her friend really took care of me and that I couldn’t have missed her much since her friend was around. The dilemma now is that I can’t confront my wife about the incident as I will be admitting I slept with her friend. Her friend is also acting normal and I am afraid if she will inform her “bestie for life”. I have been thinking, what if they had been “Sex partners” before and I married a bisexual cos of the way they do play together. I had just been asking her when her friend was leaving and I don’t want to be forceful because of what happened between us.

Note, my wife has been a good wife. All my family member love her like she’s part of them and she is so comfortable with them. We never had any issues except this. I need advice on how to go on so I don’t destroy my marriage.

Una obsession with this guy shows you all pay attention when he makes a comment.

SultanOfPuna:
MANNYBBQGRILLS was arrested at the protest..
He was caught using the Fire from the building to Roast Dead Cat Meat for the Protesters to eat after a long day of protesting..

Is this necessary ? get a life, get busy,life is not for the idle.

Mannabbqxpose:
This is the idiotic
Check out his nonsense on Facebook

Hopeless malam

Send me your pics,let me see if we can manage.

fatymore:
Val Val Val


Please joor...



Who is going to be my Val?

Bills on me

Nonsense!! Provide electricity and Nigerians all over the world invade the country and see small businesses prosper..

DevelopNaija:
I sent the picture below to my friend and she responded 'AMEN'. I had to remind her that this is not a prophecy but a goal that needs actions to become a reality.

#Poverty will drastically reduce if the following are done.

1. Change our mindset
2. Increase Minimum Wage.
3.Cut down public officers' salaries and allowances.
4. Gain 21st Century skills.
5. Provision of well paying jobs
6. Smart solutions for electricity and Water problem
7. Stop being greedy, selfish and self-centered.
8. Minding one's business

What other ways can we reduce poverty for ourselves and others? Any suggestions?

You are fulfilled now Even you an illiterate is happy to see somebody fall.

mukthar2000:
Uncle Eedris Abdul-Kareem, stop disgraced we ur fans, if u cant avoid to pay the rent again due to SAI BABA proble we are all facing presently in Niger presently,pls quite the house to room and palo in agege were u can avoid the rents, and pls pay the NEPA bill, Lagos is not like noth were the notherners dont pay bills, insted they we share the bills for in the straingers in building to pay their bills for them. Bekoo pls uncle pay uhum. ONE love

You are saying nonsense,the damage these yahoo boys have inflicted to Nigeria is mind blowing,they are worst than boko haram,most legit young Nigerians can't do business or transactions online cos these parasites.

Hedonisst:
Just look at the very stupid, disrespectful 'response'. Oh, so it is fake, that's all? Why not prove it by showing us evidence of what your 'real' office (and its backyard) looks like? Why not investigate and tell us the real story behind this image showing human beings packed like terrorists because of 'ordinary' alleged Internet fraud?

I swear Southern youths are fucking up. There needs to be a mass revolt, even at the expense of lives, against these bastards called EFCC, SARS, and other agents of repression. As bleeped up as this country is now, chasing after SUSPECTED Internet scammers cannot be a priority, especially without petitions from the victims. This is unacceptable and if I were in these boys shoes I will rather kill at least one of these red jacket fools and die there.

If you can't show me a petition from my so-called victim at the point of my arrest, and charge me to court immediately based on that evidence... If your plan is to arrest and detain me on mere suspicion and to 'show me power', I swear to Jehovah that I will die there. And I wouldn't die alone.

Rubbish country. You're reforming Boko Haram terrorists and Fulani bandits, but you want to use harmless Southern youths to shine. God punish all of you, including your Buhari. Bastards.

Hope you read the post.

AnthonyAk:
Cant believe OP snitched on his cousin , you nor be guy man. Bout time we stop the nonsense narrative. I drink and smoke and i have a good job that i wake up and goto. U should just say u dont want him staying with you any more. The weed is just an excuse.

Kudos for what exactly

masterflowx:
Kudos to my amiable governor.
Lets keep the good work going...

Power to the people!

Took police away for what? Even if they are all illiterate but not kindergarten.

ideatoprince18:
Policemen are the most useless set of people.... I know there are good ones bit the bad eggs just make it impossible for me to like them.

Exactly same thing happened .... A Naval friend of mine came visiting and we decided to go and hang out at a cool spot. On our way there was a road block with policemen, they stopped our bike and asked us to come down.

Despite telling them that the Okada is private and we were friends actually going out they corked guns and pointed to our heads and seized the bike. My naval friend kept quiet , he just told them to tell him their station that he is coming to bail his bike .... The idiots were busy shouting "come with your #50,000".

He went back to Naval base and came with a whole lot of naval guys went to the station and requested to see the corrupt policemen or else they will turn everywhere upside down. You need to see the way the Foolish policemen were shaking and begging .. U will not believe that they are same people who cocked and pointed guns to our head. My Naval friend and his guys collected the bike and took the men away.

I Can only Imagine the Kind of drilling they would have received at naval base!!!!

to tell new friends am a nigerian.

Michaelfucker:
Most of us have gone through some embarrassing moment in public.

Mine was when I entered bus only to find out I left my wallet at home .
It's was so disgraceful.

The bus conductor insulted the hell out of me!

You can also share your experience

If na yahoo boy you be na thesame level una dey with these armed robbers but na just computer and gun be the difference.

Shibaraba:
Blood everywhere
To go outside dey fear me sef...
Useless things dey happen for this country I swear
Human being because of cash kill him fellow person
How e wan take spend am
How e wan take sleep?

No be lie make. God no make me see poverty but e pay me make I drink garri 1 times a day than make I collect Money this way. This na curse.

Our problem is not politicians but people like you,ask the amount dem dey allocate to that state monthly..

Citytrend:
This Wike is constructing 3 Flyover at the same time. No wonder they call him Mr Project

If this food choke me you will be responsible

Ustec:
Na wa o,
NYSC wey dem organize for abroad still better pass the original one for 9ja

What are you proud of young man?

mu2sa2:
Kanu and his fellow demented followers wont like this. True, patriotic Nigerians, let's keep the green-white-green flag flying high to the glory of our dear native land.

Why you dey bone face dey chop.

CollinsWeGlobe:
PS: I don't show off, I'm a travel blogger

Google the meaning of Forum and Travel bBlogger.

If you see my previous thread in Nigeria you will see that I am not too ugly Cairo was too sunny abeg

There's one hotel connected with Egypt Air dem wan use free food kill me

The manager just hear say I be blogger, he wan use food kill me

Serve your self

Watch the video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9x09gITGAbY

Pray one of your family is not kidnap

GamalNasser:
Stop paying Fulani ransomes let them do their worse , they more they are paid they more they kidnap , if they are not paid for one year they will stop kidnapping

So this is massive?may God help Africa.

BeautifulMind2:
Just as promised by Gov Willie Obiano of Anambra State, massive road construction is ongoing in the State to ensure that most of the roads are completed before the rains.

To ensure that these roads are built to standard, the governor on returning from Rome where he was honoured as a Knight Commander of St Gregory the Great, began an inspection tour to have first hand feel of the quality and level of work at the different construction sites.

In less than 10 days, Gov Obiano has inspected ongoing construction works at ten different roads in Fegge, Onitsha where he added Ihiala Street to make it a total of 11 roads.

The governor has inspected the Anambra International Airport Dual Carriage Way; then the Eziowelle-Umunnachi-Umunya road; Nimo-Oraukwu road; Stamford Road in Awka amongst others.

Aside roads, last Monday, the governor inspected two giant Regional Water Schemes located in Anambra East and Aguata local government areas in the State.

And today, Gov Obiano will inspect construction works at Storm Diversion/Erosion control works at Uruagu, Nnewi; 7 different roads within Omagba Phase 2 Layout in Onitsha; Esther Obiakor Dual Carriage Way in GRA Awka; and then inspect St Joseph's Catholic Church Road Nibo with spur to Amawbia-Nibo Road.

Under Gov Obiano, ndi Anambra have experienced daily maintenance of all existing roads; construction and reconstruction of roads and bridges in both rural and urban parts of the State.

Engr Ifeanyi ANIAGOH
DEO, Anambra State

You too mumu

NwaAmaikpe:




The mumu boy crashed his car so he could trend like Kobe.

He should go buy a helicopter first.
Right now....all our sympathy goes to Bryant, none to spare to a mediocre.

Can't peter obi be president? Una tooo mumu for this country.

Awol1:
Kwankwaso is paying the price of fighting GEJ.

Again, he's a religious fundamentalist and a Fulani hegemonist just like Buhari, if not worst.

Aside that, Kwankwaso would have been PDP's shortest route to the Presidency in 2023.

Pair him with Peter Obi or Umahi, and PDP is ready.

Stay in Nigeria with generator?

Yoighaman:
Must we migrate? Stay in Nigeria and make good money, then go visiting, that's one of the best life to live but many have been brainwashed.

How much?

helesho:
UK used laptops are up for pickup