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Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by KIDfurniture(m): 12:30am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Too bad our women today have no fear of God anymore. Many of them just want need a man to pay their Bills. Love doesnt exist anymore. If u re paying her bills today and u go broke anytime , she will find another mugu. I pity some men who out of fear marry from poor families so as to be in charge. It's just a matter of time. She will show u the pepper 8 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by chubbyswit(m): 12:32am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Juliearth:O.M.G you are truly filled with wisdom. God bless you 1 Like |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by cr7lomo: 12:32am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth: Ur way of reasoning and ur type simply shows that ur generation is worse than animals... When u watch national geo ( that's if u do) ud c that the female animals that take care of the new born and young ones ...it's instinctive , but ur generation is somehow showing that animals are even more reasonable than ur type ... 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by kappGODSWILL(m): 12:35am On Feb 17, 2020 |
elektra:Aunty abeg shut up,u've been talking trash ,sound like a teenager..marry rich man,they will happily take d kid primarily without ur permission,and u'll nva set ur eyes ever on dat child,mumu. U nva marry u dn dey reason divorce, olosho 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Fortune109: 12:35am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Nairaland now operates like a blog... |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by babzo(m): 12:39am On Feb 17, 2020 |
OcVoice: Bro, please check your email and contact me urgently. 1 Like |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Sixfeetbelle: 12:40am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Lanruze: It's not the woman fleeing that is the main issue here. It's the fact that she left the children behind. But the argument is lacking basic facts such as: 1) do we know if she wanted to take the kids with her and he refused due to some 'male pride'? 2) do we know if the 'running away' is not following a separation/divorce agreement from both parties? The argument most people are dwelling on here is one-sided. As much as I don't support her running away with alhaji, but we must accept the bitter truth that men can support and raise their children 100% without a woman by their side. This job isn't made for the woman alone. The problem here is that the man isn't looking for ways to help his situation and that's why Op is blaming the woman. Let me ask you: if the situation was reversed, would the weight of the argument be the same? 7 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by kappGODSWILL(m): 12:42am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Not when the father trains the kid with d mindset to hate their so called mothers,or still the father marries a better wife that turns into a better mother, trust me no kid will look for that deadbeat mum Fountainofyouth: |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by babzo(m): 12:43am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Fortune109: How? |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by jeff1607(m): 12:44am On Feb 17, 2020 |
benratigan3: I concur 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Fortune109: 12:47am On Feb 17, 2020 |
babzo: Creating some fictitious stories for traffic... 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Sixfeetbelle: 12:53am On Feb 17, 2020 |
SpecialAgent: Your argument is based on the fact that she ran away with alhaji. If she had died nko and he met financial difficulties months after this, wouldn't your response be different?. No one is contesting the cheating part. We all agree she's evil. The real question is, can't the man raise his kids if the mantle falls only on him? |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Mayor101010(m): 12:53am On Feb 17, 2020 |
So many demons on Nairaland these days trying to lead women astray in the name of feminism. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by HitSong: 1:02am On Feb 17, 2020 |
TheArchangel:Get hit and wail only. That's all. |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by babzo(m): 1:02am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Fortune109: Hmmmm. Interesting perspective. I hope thats not the case. That would be toying with our emotions. |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by HitSong: 1:06am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by HitSong: 1:06am On Feb 17, 2020 |
HitSong:May you die in your sleep. Quote me to claim your prize. Bastąrd |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Fortune109: 1:08am On Feb 17, 2020 |
babzo: Not 100 percent sure but the way those stories are well laid out and arranged are suspicious |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by TheMan3: 1:08am On Feb 17, 2020 |
elektra:oo there is something really wrong with our society... Just imagine what this one is saying and people are supporting her... Chai 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by ivolt: 1:09am On Feb 17, 2020 |
OcVoice:Another thread full of lies just to bash women and marriage. No one is forcing you to get married. If you don't get married, heaven will not fall. Have a baby mama or not and hire nightly prostitutes. You don't have to worry about heartbreak. The baby mama will see you as the best thing to happen to her while shopping for a permanent partner. You can take it to the next level by hiring surrogates and handing the baby to your mother or paid nanny to raise. When your money finishes, the prostitutes and the baby mama will be there for you for everything you did for them. What a blissful life that will be? I see some kids already agreed to what you saw. It doesn't matter what you saw! We have seen a wife stab her husband. Some will use it as a justification to bash marriage. But who cares? Why can't you guys just reject marriage without excuses, it is not like it is illegal to not get married. I am expecting more stories such as this as their frequency increases daily. 5 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Mbaku(m): 1:15am On Feb 17, 2020 |
We4all:You don't sound educated or enlightened at all. So every married man should have it at the back of his mind that his wife may leave him someday, when he'e getting married to her? And to think people actually liked this comment of yours. So many dumb people in the world today 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Xisnin(m): 1:18am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Ganjafama:There are human mothers who do that too. But what do they get at the end of the day? Namecalling from man-kids and women are getting the message clearly. Many of you believe that women are useless in marriage and only money matters but turn around to cry foul when responsibilities are dumped on you. There is even a group of degenerate who create multiple threads daily about how women are useless safe for sex and they get multiple boys to agree and cheer them on. These half-wits don't realize that they are engaging in self-sabotage. If just 20% of women believe the same thing as them and act on it, life will be hell for men in the next generation whether they get married or not. As long as a man wants kids, he will not be exempted from crushing responsibilities which he was not trained for. 11 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by joepepsy(m): 1:19am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Most naija women no get joy. OcVoice: 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by cr7lomo: 1:24am On Feb 17, 2020 |
delishpot: U don't listen to one sided stories u say , but u just shared a one sided story , or did u hear from the man .. I fear una, anybody wey take Una serious na spirit 1 Like |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Nobody: 1:25am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth:U just came back from a ban, u wan go another on Abi? |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by joepepsy(m): 1:27am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Gangster elektra: 1 Like |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Generalyemi(m): 1:29am On Feb 17, 2020 |
elektra: bloody kids? my dog Bruce said you sound like a sex object 3 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Xisnin(m): 1:30am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Arsenate:It is no one's fault if you get dumped at a motherless home. You create senseless threads to bash women every day. You call them useless in marriage while you believe you are superman. When they now decide to walk your talk, you start crying for attention. Some women have realized that it is not worth it to sacrifice their life just for you to be happy that is why no one is condemning the woman for doing what is best for herself. If you want kids, be ready to babysit. The age of emotional blackmail is over. 12 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by aliyuabbaashiru(m): 1:31am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth:are you serious? |
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