Romance › Re: Which Of These Categories Of Guys Is Most Attractive To Ladies??? by joepepsy(m): 10:45am On Oct 22, 2019 |
If you this special we would have met. victorian: All the 4 traits in one guy , cause am all the 4 in one lady too
So I expect the same from my man  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Am Tired...someone Should Help Me Before I Kill Myself. by joepepsy(m): 10:17am On Oct 22, 2019 |
I graduated before I left naija,what is the essence of education if you can't think, take a look at those guys selling at trade fair, alaba market and other similar markets too, those guys use their thinking faculty but a graduate believes the society owes him or her for being a graduate, but no, no one owes you, start small and apply your education in any little thing you venture into. OluDonald1: It's as if u are jealous of graduates! Give practical ideal of wot u are talking about & lets b reasonable to some extent. Whether now or later, we'll all pay heavily when a lot of jobless youths ventures into short cut to survive. B4 a ritualist is caught, some victims must have been involved |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Am Tired...someone Should Help Me Before I Kill Myself. by joepepsy(m): 9:45am On Oct 22, 2019 |
The only people suffering in naija are the so called graduates, they are so full of themselves,they all want to wear tie, even in develop countries no space for all educated people in the office,this is not about this guy, black people are very lazy..am telling you fact home and abroad. OluDonald1: I think biz ideas only works when there is capital to fund it! & one gats to hustle @ least for a while. Pls lets come up with practical suggestions not theories! We've learnt enough in school. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Am Tired...someone Should Help Me Before I Kill Myself. by joepepsy(m): 9:11am On Oct 22, 2019 |
The major problem we have in Africa is that people are mentally lazy...is easier to make millions in Nigeria than any where on earth and mean legit, I always ask people how can people be hungry in continent full with opportunities. Heineken: Am seriously suffering. At 31 am still squatting. Am through with my service since 2014 but still no job. Am more than depressed... Am perplexed and am not thinking well. At my age I don't have even 1000 in my account. To eat, I have to visit friends...most times is just only breakfast and water at night. I don't want to die this way.. Am not happy. I applied civil defense. Don't know if anyone can help me.. Or any job. |
Health › Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by joepepsy(m): 11:48pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Am teary. .I believe you will overcome!!! Hope777: Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.
I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.
I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.
I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.
There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.
Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).
I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!
I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to. |
Car Talk › Re: Innoson Unveils Tricycle Ambulance For Quick Emergency Response by joepepsy(m): 4:32pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Single Guys: Do You Need A Girlfriend/Wife, Then Stop Doing These 5 Things by joepepsy(m): 12:29am On Oct 21, 2019 |
Is this your write up for naija girls or Togo? If you are referring to naija girls 1 to 5 should be money. .They are programmed to reason like that. xxxtedyxxx: Are you ready to get a gf/wife and enjoy all the fun that comes with a race romantic relationship ?? Or you want to continue making excuses, talking yourself out of approaches and spending lonely nights with your Vaseline (no pun intended). 
If yes, you can either read on bro or just close this page; and keep on living a life of excuses while your friends, who are more socially aware keep getting all the beautiful girls.
Stated below are 5 attitudes/mistakes which can automatically turn a girl off and suggestions on what you should do instead.
1) Whining - To whine is to complain annoyingly. Take back sec and think about your previous Convo/relationship in which you complained bitterly. Was all all the whining worth it? I bet your answer is no
Learn to always sort things out I'm a mature way. If you continue whining, it won't be long before she starts comparing you with other guys.
2) Clinging/Neediness- This is one of the biggest turnoffs for most women. In the dating scene, it means being emotionally dependent on a woman.
Are you needy?
Logically evaluate your previous convos/relationships to see if you are a victim of this attitude. If yes, then learn to give women space. Allow them to be their own person bro.
3) Tightwad/Stingy How stingy are you bro? Do you freely give? I do not mean giving like a maga or ATM oh.. . Learn to give to a girl when she deserves it. Armed with this idea you won't given like a "maga" or be considered as one. For example, a guy sending cash/or 1500 MTN to a girl who doesn'tfl call him/or give him attention is a pure "maga". She doesn't value you bro, so why waste your time?. Only do things for girls when they deserve it or when they are invested in you too.
4) Laziness Are your passionate about your life or just like spending hours looking/chatting with girls? Chatting and looking for girls all day will, in the long run, only make you look jobless and lazy.
Get busy with yourself bro. Focus on your dreams and aspirations( Work, School, Hobbies,Talents). Start doing something worthy and women will like and appreciate you more.
5) Over eagerness for Intimacy/Groping- This one is huge. You will need to understand attraction is in stages before you get rid of this one. You met a girl off this morning and you want her to be your wife/gf on thwe evening of that same day? Calm down bro.
Attraction, as it pertains to women, is not a logical thing- it's emotional bro. No need to rush it. If you are exhibiting the qualities of a bf/husband/ already, you won't even need to to ask her out.
Over eagerness for intimacy, often times, is a sure symptom of being clingy which invariably results in desperation.
Evaluate your dating scenarios and make the necessary corrections. Worthy mentions no included here are: jealousy and hot temper/getting angry easily.
Peace. |
Politics › Re: FG To Construct Coastal Rail That Will Terminate In Onitsha by joepepsy(m): 12:44pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
The question should be what didn't he do? Deepfeel: What has he done please? |
Celebrities › Re: Nicki Minaj Gives DJ Cuppy A Shout Out by joepepsy(m): 7:15pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
Na wa. .except you are living abroad already, if you live Naija bye bye to Africa. .This one strong o. shogsman: Yeah because there is this little thing called citizenship,FYI she was raised in queens,new york.so don’t tell me she’s from Trinidad simply because she was born there. |
Celebrities › Re: Nicki Minaj Gives DJ Cuppy A Shout Out by joepepsy(m): 6:27pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
Cos I live in Swiss for decades now am white? shogsman: As far as the media is concerned,she’s as white as snow,do you know how many years she has lived in the US,she works and earned her money and fame there so what are you now saying.who gives a damn about your country of birth. |
Celebrities › Re: Nicki Minaj Gives DJ Cuppy A Shout Out by joepepsy(m): 6:23pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
Nicki white? Cos in America, now tell me who has low self esteem. LearnITsmash: How silly can Nigerians be when white people give them a shout out online, low self-esteem  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: EU, UK Agree On Brexit Deal (Photos) by joepepsy(m): 4:34pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
Hit your point, all these long talk for what? wink2015: 1. Junaid Mohammed 2. Tanko Yakassai 3. Ango Abdullahi 4. Balarabe Musa 5. Nasir Ahmad El-Rufai 6. Muhamadu Buhari 7. Senator Shehu Sani 8 + other far right Northern Political leaders.
I hope the above Northern Political leaders having been following the BREXIT NEWS in Europe and getting themselves abreast with the modern way of going about issues peacefully and getting an agreement.
That is what Nigeria Political leaders particularly in Northern Nigeria including the southern part must imbibe.
The ongoing call for restructuring and the implementation of the 2014 national conference report is supposed to be address peacefully without any threat from any part of Nigeria.
Unfortunately, Junaid Mohammed a northern political leader have been threatening the good people of southern Nigeria that the North will remove any southern leader that trys to implement restructuring.
Bode George a former Pdp chieftain from the south west describe Junaid Mohammed comment as UNBECOMING OF A STATESMAN being a veteran northern politician who is supposed to be matured in his utterances by speaking words that will promote national unity and discourage disunity.
I make bold to say that NIGERIA CAN NOT CONTINUE THIS MILITARY IMPOSED UNITARY CONSTITUTION.
POLITICAL POWERS MUST BE DEVOLVE FROM THE FEDERAL LEVEL WHERE A LOT OF MONEY IS BEING LOOTED AND WASTED AND POWER BROUGHT DOWN TO THE STATES OR THE REGION.
The old politicians like Late Chief Obafemi Awolowo, Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe, Sir, Ahmadu Bello, Chief Anthony Enahoro and a host of others of blessed memories did not go to the London UK conference to negotiate for slavery for their own people.
They went to negotiate the Independence constitution with the hope of a better deal for their own people.
It is totally unacceptable that one region must continue to impose the policy direction of Nigeria.
That will be totally unfair to a greater generality of Nigerians.
THERE SHOULD ALSO BE A NIGERIAN KIND OF "BREXIT" FROM THE MILITARY IMPOSED UNITARY STRUCTURE.
We are also not leaving out TOTAL INDEPENDENCE of the Regions so that all of us can go our own separate ways.
If we want to operate a CONFEDERAL STRUCTURE. That will equally be fine at least for a start.
But the present Nigeria system needs a total overhaul.
It has heavily weigh down on the progress of Nigeria as a country. |
Politics › Re: Afenifere: Mamman Daura Living In Aso Rock & Controlling Presidency, Is Shameful by joepepsy(m): 6:28pm On Oct 15, 2019 |
For your mind now you are funny . you've gotten the likes you crave for, bye. Osagyefo98: If there is anybody to leave Aso rock, It should be Osibanjo and his families.
For Christ sake Osibanjo has no single work he is doing inside aso rock....what is he still doing there?
He should move over to Abuja town and allow those who has work at hand to see space in discharging their duties.
Mamman Daura has loads of work and files to always attend to.....Which one do Osibanjo has to attend daily?
He can't be there occupying space while workers in aso Villa quarrels for space..
He should move to town and can attend public seminars from there or any work the president assigned to him.
I like been fair and just. |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Air Force To Get 3 JF17 Fighter Aircraft From Pakistani Air Force by joepepsy(m): 1:48pm On Oct 15, 2019 |
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Sports › Re: Ranking Of Footballers: From Goat To Overrated By Sportbible by joepepsy(m): 2:17am On Oct 15, 2019 |
This your list is a comedy. .go join basket mouth a beg. MrNipplesLover: GOAT: Aaron Ramsey.
Legends: Mutiu Adepoju [headmaster], John Utaka, Samuel Eto'o
Great: Nemanja Matic, Yaya Sanago, Efe Ambrose, Mikel Obi
Good: Alvaro Morata, Victor Moses, Ahmed Musa, Sadio Mane
Underrated: Jnr. Neymar, Samuel Chukwueze, Juan Mata
Overrated: Lionel Messi, Cristiano Ronaldo, Eden Hazard,
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Career › Re: Female Welder, Lesley Faith Celebrates Her Birthday With Beautiful Photos by joepepsy(m): 11:08am On Oct 14, 2019 |
And what's the big deal if she's a welder. .is she too special or what?, Nigerians are just too lazy. ecamzy: Nigerian Female welder, Omoniye lesley faith stuns in magnificent photo shoot to mark her birthday.
Flaunting her flawless skin, the Founder Faomoly Concept dazzled in a soft Facebeat that framed out her entire face.
Founder, Faomoly Concept, Miss Omoniye lesley faith, is on her way to building a business empire. Already, her company is the toast of customers far and near, seeking fast, convenient and cost-effective experience of her work.
The Beautiful entrepreneur who is known for her luxurious & sophisticated lifestyle took fashion/beauty to the next level as she donned lovely costumes for a recent photoshoot to mark the special day.
Apart Omoniye lesley faith being a successful Welder, she is also the founder of Omoniye faith Foundation. An NGO that provide basic needs for the less privileged in the society.
Source :: http://supremetv.com.ng/2019/10/14/lesley-faith-celebrates-her-birthday-with-beautiful-photos/ |
Nairaland General › Re: What's A Question You Hate When People Ask You? by joepepsy(m): 12:18am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Size of my Johnson. ..cos people know am endow. udoekere: Hi Nairalanders, there is this question that if someone should ask you it gets you annoy so What's a question you hate when people ask you? |
Politics › Re: Aisha Buhari Lands In Nigeria (Picture) by joepepsy(m): 5:36pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
But If we don't face them they will feel it duty to harass innocent citizens, Martin Luther gave his life for all Africa American, we should have this mentality to die for something that will uplift the citizens even after death. . NB: all man must die oo. 1mrprolific7: Its either you didn't grow up in this country or u have just chosen to ignore the fact on ground. So at this stage and time in this country you will come in close contact with SARS and u decide to stay still just cos u are innocent? How many guilty ones have they arrested since this year?
Read this guy's reply " Please don’t mind some ignorant folks here. I remember one Sunday when I was going home at around 9pm from a friend’s place. I decided to pass a shortcut. On both sides of the road, there were bushes, so it’s kind of lonely. As I was walking, I pulled out my phone and called someone. I was talking to this bro and walking when I saw SARS from a distance. A boy was in front of me; approximately 25-50 meters. These SARS officials jumped out of the bush (they were hiding before) and cramped this boy. Omo, no be my eye, I quick quick reverse tear race go pass long journey.
Another event happened to my guy. The SARS official held him and said they were doing stop n search. After searching my guy’s phone and pockets, they didn’t find anything, so they one said that they should search him again, that he’s suspicious of this my friend. Can you believe that they inserted Indian hemp seed within their fingers and placed their hands in my guys pocket, only to bring it out and accuse him of smoking weed. Worse part is that; this guy don’t even know how to hold cigarette properly. He bailed himself with 20k for something he was framed for.
So all those people asking why they ran, you guys have just been lucky since. I’ve met SARS by 11:30pm outside (was coming from my babe’s place), and they didn’t do anything to me. They just flashed their torch and told us to continue our journey. That doesn’t mean that I won’t dodge them if I have the chance. So before you blast those boys, let SARS maltreat you first. Then you can speak from experience n not from sentiments. By the way; mine is Delsu, so ABK sars are idiots." |
Crime › Re: Bodies Of Teenage Boys Pursued By FSARS Into Lagoon Recovered (Graphic Photos) by joepepsy(m): 12:24pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Rip...there's more this. modskiller: Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/5469231/fsars-operatives-pursue-10-teenagers
Warning Graphic Images below.
An update has been issued on the status of things regarding the boys pursued by the men of FSAR 3 are confirmed dead and 1 missing, 6 pulled out alive.
Residents of the area confirmed it was carried out by men if the FSARS Gbagada Division, Lagos.
One resident who spoke on condition of anonymity said the men of FSARS were brought to the area by a former resident who was terrorizing the area but was apprehended with the help of those boys.
The resident also narrated that they arrested 2 other young boys in the area and they had to bail each of the boys with #50,000 NGN
A twitter user has called out the men of the Federal Anti Robbery Squad for the killing of some teenagers which happened on Lagos Island on Friday night. The reason for their actions still remain a mystery.
Men of the FSARS came to the Sea Side of Apongbon last night in guise of raiding & ended up pursuing 10 boys into the lagoon. 6 were pulled out alive in the morning with 1 dead and 3 still missing. @jidesanwoolu @segalink @followlasg @rrslagos767 @GuardianNigeria @PoliceNG |
Politics › Re: Aisha Buhari Lands In Nigeria (Picture) by joepepsy(m): 10:05am On Oct 13, 2019 |
Why did you run coward! ! Stand your ground if you die you die for a cause. .until we begin to face our fears we are going nowhere as a nation. 1mrprolific7: This sarz guy's has done MORE harm than good. Last week, I was on Byke with my guy. They double Cross US without thinking if they gonna cause accident. I jumped off and ran away. My guy Did nothing, they laid allegation on HIM and extorted #200,000+ from him.
God will punish any mortal that created this nuisance criminals and bloody thirsty Animals. God punish FSARS x SARS |
Crime › Re: Chiedozie Chikwendu: 5-Year-Old Boy Kidnapped In Anambra On His Way To School by joepepsy(m): 11:36am On Oct 11, 2019 |
If you know the calibre of person you chatting with, I bet you kneel and apologies. ..you riff raff. kernniejay: you are nobody online or offline, i put it to you again you are a BIG FOOL. Go and die. |
Sports › Re: Berbatov: Even Messi And Ronaldo Would Struggle At Man Utd by joepepsy(m): 8:59am On Oct 11, 2019 |
He said this current team. Jaynom: Lol. But Ronaldo has played for Man UTD, he should be left out of the conversation. Use Messi and another player to make your point  |
Crime › Re: Chiedozie Chikwendu: 5-Year-Old Boy Kidnapped In Anambra On His Way To School by joepepsy(m): 12:20am On Oct 11, 2019 |
Can you call your dad a fool?..are you out of your mind, you think you can just insult anybody online, untrained brat. kernniejay: i dont exchange words with fools (Ps. 14.1), take your frustration somewhere else. |
Family › Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by joepepsy(m): 5:01pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
Are you out of your mind? A public forum you seek for advice on intimate issue like this? Tela101: Why so rude? |
Crime › Re: EFCC Arrests Akegor Godbless Omamuyorwi In Delta State, Seize Exotic Cars by joepepsy(m): 3:39pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
No condition or situation can change an upright man. .when I was still living in festac then, guys oppress me tire with maga money, but never join them , today some dey call me to support their house rent..hardwork and legit hussle is the key. SoNature: Although Magu and his team are doing a great job, vast majority of Nigerians want to see them go after politicians too.
Most people went into crime in Nigeria because of bad leadership.
We need to tackle crime from its foundation....going after corrupt politician is the basics. |
Family › Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by joepepsy(m): 3:07pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
Wait till you both are over 50, nonsense! Tela101: First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes baby in the baby carriage.
When a couple gets married, they are almost always faced with the inevitable pester from friends and family:
So when are you having kids? The older you are, the more pressing the question seems to be. Ticktock, ticktock.
So, what do you guys think?
For those that followed due process... |
Romance › Re: Benue University Student Slaps Man Who Proposed To Her In Lecture Room (Video) by joepepsy(m): 2:41pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
No wahala, just that the way some troll at people is not nice..hope you bam? DonBenny77: You no get the point I would rather waste the mb on porn or my challenge league rather that watch a dumb ass student proposing publicly and I no dey insult anybody without facts. If I don troll you before bros, pls pls forgive  |
Romance › Re: Benue University Student Slaps Man Who Proposed To Her In Lecture Room (Video) by joepepsy(m): 2:39pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
No wahala, was just catching fun..hope you bam. DonBenny77: You no get the point I would rather waste the mb on porn or my challenge league rather that watch a dumb ass student proposing publicly and I no dey insult anybody without facts. If I don troll you before bros, pls pls forgive  |
Romance › Re: Benue University Student Slaps Man Who Proposed To Her In Lecture Room (Video) by joepepsy(m): 1:49pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
Naija poor sha, see you dey measure mb..and no your type go dey insult people online. DonBenny77:
 Abeg I no get mb for this kine video. The slap hot? |
Crime › Re: Dog Mauls 1-Year-Old Boy In Abuja, Opens His Skull (Graphic Photos) by joepepsy(m): 1:27pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
That guy is a super mod. ExcelDeBaron: Lalasticlala Seun Mynd4
Can NwaAmaikpe account be deleted from Nairaland forever please? This dude is the most insensitive, hopelessly useless and disgusting vile human being I have ever come across.
Or just ban him for one year. Thanks. |
Politics › Re: EFCC Recovers N65M From Zamfara INEC Office (Photos) by joepepsy(m): 1:10pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
For you to hear about it shows buhari is working. Racoon:
Chai! See people sweat wickedly stashed up. Corrupt still thriving under bubu.Nigeria under this government is full of tragic-comedy. |