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I will speak to you from an Islamic point of view... generally speaking, there are many genuine reasons why Islam frowns on such marriages... unless she converted to your religion, then Islam frowns at marrying an unbeliever in the Deen... and it's quite a good reason as well...

supposedly you died before her, all your kids will revert back to her religion, and in the sight of your Lord, this is a grave misconduct , all this i love you, she loves you won't save you... when you're choosing a partner, you're not only choosing for yourself, but for your kids and their future...

even if God spare your life, your kids might end up confused and might later revert back to her own religion, and this might break your heart..children mostly generally incline themselves to what their women follows, this is why you should be very careful who you choose to be your wife.. you might not be the one who takes the Deen seriously, but if you fear for your own future and theirs, you would fear for the outcome... that's if you're truly God fearing or you fear His wrath.. but if you're one of those claiming woke muslims, then I have nothing to say to you... and since your wife is not inclined towards your religion, do you know the outcome and consequences when it comes to willing or sharing property when you're no longer on this earth?

you're one of the men who thinks emotionally, you're not the first person to fall in love and won't be the last.... some of the ones greater than your love ended in divorce, so have you thought of this possibility and the effects it will have on your kids?? or na still I love you, she love me too?? now you seems blinded by love, all this will seem like nonsense to you, but e go soon clear for your eyes...

from your story, it seems you guys still have issues on which religion your kids should themselves adapt to, this is just the beginning of the problem, that love go soon clear for your eyes when you're asked to account for that decision you took years back... maybe not in this life, but in the next...

even if you're a idol worshipper, find another idol worshipper to marry or someone who's ready to convert to what you believe in... when it comes to marriage, leave emotions out of it and think logically before you dive in... love is not what sustain marriages... the risks is much greater than the illusions of enjoyment in it... find someone who aligns with your interests and beliefs for your own peace of mind and for the future of your kids...

apart from religion, marry someone who aligns with your interests and dreams... even if it's the person occupation... if you know your wife is an actress, then you should know all the things involved in being an actress, don't come out crying when she starts kissing random people on screen and eventually cheat on you and make you father another man's kids... religion is not the only thing that should be taken seriously, there are many other things as well, marriage is not a joke... it's better to be single than dive into marriage while leaving your brain behind... love won't save you when problem arrives... love is just the emotion to attract people to each other, not the emotion needed for a successful relationship, and the thing is that most people can't differentiate between love and lust, and that will be the cause of their downfall...

Pele ooo, Baba adeen abi na adrenaline. I'm a Christian and my wife is a Muslim. She goes to mosque while I go to church. She asked if our son can go to Ile kewu and I told her it's her choice and decision for now, but when he grow up, he will be the one to decide which religion he want to practice.
My brother, this religion is what's killing us and it has always been a veil on the face of the ignoramus. Because your religion says you shouldn't marry blacks doesn't mean the whites are the best. The question you should ask yourself is: what do I believe? Your belief is your religion not what was written by someone. The Bible and Qur'an is just a guide but most people take it like a constitutional book which I believe is very wrong. As a Christian, a pastor can't tell me to do something cos the Bible says so. I will just ignore him, lobatan.
Leave the man alone cos love conquers all. If his wife his ready to practice his religion, it's all well and good. And if he decides to practice his wife's religion, it's his choice as long as the love still exists.

Latty88:
When I hear someone say they are broke, I start to think about how they measure money. Yes I know everybody's income varies. Every time one of my friends complains about being broke, I know she has a few thousand Naira in her account.

Before I complain of being broke that means I have nothing in my account.

At what point do you complain of being broke?

at this point in time

Hh

Inspector Wike is on top of it

Verokeena:
Good afternoon Nl family
Please pardon my epistle

My husband lost his job two years ago and ever since he has been so reluctant on getting another.. not to brag but I can say I have been the one keeping the family going ever since the job incidence (not like I ever complained) .

What I noticed about him is he now drinks and smokes and he is always hissing (obviously he is not happy and I try to always console him just to elate his Spirit)

Fast forward to last two months.. I got back from work and I was very tired.. I had to go pick the kids from school , bathe them, feed them and to make matters worst I wasn't feeling too alright .. (when I got home he (my husband) wasn't at home)

When I was done with the kids and fixing the house I was so tired I thought to myself to take a lil nap that was how I slept off (and this was around 9pm) ..

He got back around 10pm obviously drunk and smelling like a skunk.. he went straight to the kitchen. That was how the whole problem started.. first was insult.. then my phone, smashed it on the ground later my clothes he started tearing them .. saying all those things he was destroying was why I was feeling untouchable that he knows I have male friends sleeping with me..

I tried securing my items so he doesn't destroy more things that was how he pounced on me..

The next day I got him arrested he spent two days there.. but now I feel so guilty... He doesn't talk to me anymore.. I have apologized times without number

I don't just know what to do...


Nb: even while he was there I was still taking food to him

your story never complete. Are you cheating on him?

That Basiru though

LarryCork:
So u enter motorcycle has public trasssspot...correct?. U prefa walk-in from city to villages?
Brother I don't meannnto sound rude but u will never find woman!(no oofense)

oponu, I'm happily married. Ire ooo

Radarada

What's love

Wahala

Iluvmycontr3:
I tire ooo🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

na D new tire me ooo

CaptainFM1:
It's a different kind of news.

Very different from Bala blu

okay.... Happy petrol increment. This increment will favour us

bonnyhope:
Is it not good that you are feeding your eyes

cos my eye dey hungry for shits

treatise:
You nor tire?

ayam nor even understanding anymore

Let the poor breeeeath

MaryAye:
Yes, it is. The full meaning of News is;

N=Notable
E=Entertainment
W=Weather and
S=sport

The last time I checked, this beautiful woman's physique fits into one of the descriptions above.

I know you will want to thank me for this brief lecture, but never mind. It is what it is. Adios!!

how body

Na news be this?

Wahala

15 years?

Agbadocassava:
Wahala for you

werey abi wahala for all of us

Wahala for Tinubu

Na to start praying to be mocked to success remain [quote]

Old man ni mi sha

Orji kalu right now

Opolopoopolonio:
Stupid comments everywhere

I don laugh tire

The news made FP some days ago nau

Likoya:

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mad people fool this platform

Fufu Burna

COMPAQ:
That ain't police. Looks like man o war

na cadet, not M'OW

[quote author=COMPAQ post=123879703]That ain't police. Looks like man o war[/quote

Wahala for the ugly

Good profile