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Bin3:
advice her to stop using makeup on her face and let the scars reduce, some of those makeup contains chemical that spoils the face too,that is why I don't put on makeup unless am going to a gathering that requires it.makeup irritates the face too.so let her stop it and bath at least twice a day and apply moisturiser on her face n leave the face like that without apply anything when she wants to sleep in the night she will see positive result. with the pic above I believe she is naturally dark that means she doesn't have much work to do compared to a naturally fair lady.

she's fair

mhiztaNexy:
hmm. help her understand, but nigga I hope Tiznt bou how u feel ppl will think or say bou u guys wen dey see u n her without make-up? if she's a good girl, give urself more time. ur next mite make u regret leaving ur ex. I really hope uve not used this girl too much sha.

bro dats d ish ,I don use am ooo,she knows my parents and she's even hoping for marriage sef

Kingsasian:
Op, is she also the one in the second pix?

no,I just used these pics as examples of what I mean.

mhiztaNexy:
if your not scared of losing her and if your not scared of her dumping or cheating on u, call it a quit and stop wasting ur Swt time. do it politely tho.

evn if i want to ,please tell me how to do it politely

mhiztaNexy:
hmm,i understand. but someone u love can never be ugly to u know matter what. if the world says she's ugly,u'll still defend her but since uve started noticing she's ugly,i think u shud move on. being ugly is Nuh bou facial looks alone. she must have been doing things u don't like lately that made u notice she's ugly.

thanks very much ,I've been trying hard to convince myself to accept her for who she is for the past one year but its not been working well for me so far

mhiztaNexy:
are u in love with beauty or the her in her? beauty eventually fades u know.

I know that beauty fades but u need to have an idea of wat I mean.I just don't want to put up her pix cos that won't be right.

Please I need helpful comments ,
I've been dating my girl for almost 3 years now .She has most of the attributes I want in a woman But I just found out a year ago that she's really ugly without makeup( I know what I am saying).
People always commend me that my girlfriend is hot whenever we hang out with friends or go to church or attend other social gatherings . Recently I confided in a friend about this issue ,he told me, "manage na small thing, she no bad na" .So I invited him home one day to give us a surprise visit and he was visibly shocked by what he saw.
She has a lot of acne scars ,a really discoloured face ,and virtually no eyebrows.
Yeah, I do feel bad about her skin, because I know she works hard to keep it clear. I saw all her face products when I was in her bathroom once.... ,I've spent close to 200k on products and dermatology visits.
She's a goddess on makeup but very ugly without it.I may sound shallow minded ,but this issue bothers me deeply. I don't need a goddess ,I just need a normal girly face to behold at home not a scarecrow.
I put some pictures below just to show how bad it is.(not her actual pics)

Even when she stays over at my place ,she would have applied light makeup before I wake up,so I didn't notice it in time. When I eventually noticed her real face a yr ago, I assured her that we'll find a solution.she also confided in me that she can't go out without makeup cos it affects her self esteem .
What do I do , cos I am thinking of ending it with her?