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basilomeje:
Hello All

I need detailed quotation for plastering of my Bungalow (in and out)

Area to be covered is 170sqm

Thanks

Basil
07088882475

how many bedrooms?

rainmaker12:
How much do you think i need to setup a real estate firm for a start. And how do i go about it? Which division should i option for? Is it really worth it?

I will really appreciate your contribution.

real estate biz is all about properties... building, buying, selling.... it involves alot of money...

WellEndowed:
I disagree. Even Jesus wept...it did not make him weak



As a kid I did not cry at every little thing, if you did, I did not.

@the bolded....the rate at which we cry go down but DOES NOT DISAPPEAR which is what you are suggesting.

I have lived long enough to know that being vulnerable once in a while does not make you weak or turn you into the sissy. It's the opposite. Some people need to reflect on what exactly put them in that vulnerable state in order to move on from it or forward...and in some instances prep their mind not to be twice beaten

i get your point... but u no dey sleep? or u are not in nigeria?

win1234:
There is this lady that am in love with, my previous posts state more about this.
Three weeks ago she accepted my proposal after much delay, during which i had suspected that she is in active sexual r/ship against many people perception of her.
I have prayed & received answers to marry her but my suspicion is strong.
Yesterday she told me her live & how she wanted to be wild but the watchful eyes of the mum restrained her.
But in the university she had friends but most of her male friends are not godly.
One approached her, she fell for him. After their first sex she felt ashamed but continued until God knows when.
She now claimed to have parted ways with the guy & made up her mind to serve God faithfully. My fear is that I never trusted this lady but I love her.
What do I do guys?

love - trust = lust...
this is the problem with our young men... why would u propose to a lady u don't trust?

i will advise u not go any further, no marriage can work without trust.
if u marry her, u gonna be suspecting her every move, even when she is faithful, u still gonna think otherwise...

Gaborone:
Yea, true. But it is one thing for there to be the possibility of someone changing, and it is another for someone else to stake their happiness on that possibility. I for one wouldn't do that.

Consequently, I think it is only advisable to marry someone whom we are convinced we can live with happily AS THEY ARE. No, not as they may become. But AS THEY ARE. This means, we should be able to tell ourselves "if he/she doesn't change a thing about himself/herself, I would still have a happy married life with them." Only when we can honestly say this, should we take that big step with them.

The choice is always ours.

i get your point...
but humans are unpredictable... because most people don't always remain as they are, especially after marriage... applying your suggestion will go a long way in reducing marital crises though..

Ewuro4:
Oh my bad

Jokes aside buddy, A simple 'sorry' can safe a life in any relationship. 'Sorry' averts life changing situations (e.g divorce, and longterm effect on children ). Some men think it's an act of weakness hence their obnoxious attitude.

The point is men need women in their lives more therefore they should tuck away their ego & calm the fûck down to nurture what they have so they don't end up alone @old age.

u really do have a great sense of humour...
@first bold... fantastically true...
but to posit men think it is weakness to say sorry is baseless and spurious...
most women demand the word "sorry" for rationale not proportioned, and not all men have the luxury of tendering unwarranted apologies... some men do it for peace, but it doesn't make it justifiable. so, it in most cases got nothing to do with ego as studiously perceived by women, but the use of words frugally by men...

@ second bold, why do u postulate men need women more... do u mind sharing your reasons...

Wyntah:
Thank you very much. Sorry o, a faster guy already beat you to it.

damn!!!

SAMBARRY:
ARE you serious?

That's what your society told you. Just bottle everything up.your anger,pain,fears,hurt depression etc till you eventually kill your wives instead iF showing your feelings like women and set your stomach free

lol...

laraoge:
@ewuro and johnson thanks for d comments. I am a very sensitive person in discussions. when u sneer at me when talking even over the phone I know.
He was actually not d one playing d music. He just answered in a way Yoruba people call 'Eda oro' dunno if u get that.i.e he wasn't d one playing it.
I was the one that said sorry at last. Imagine that! He said he didn't do anything wrong..Dunno how to manage this kind of attitude o.

@bold... women and sorry...

but u really need to be able to read your man's mood...
this is a non issue, i am sure your man was in a bad mood...

thorpido:
Think deeply about Ewuro's words.Pay attention to the bolded.
People like this hardly change.Ask yourself if you can live with it.

@bold u cant be too sure...
anyone can be changed easily, depending on the redeeming features adopted...

Ewuro4:
*pats his head* yeah yeah

u should have pat me on the back....

SAMBARRY:
Men should not cry?

Are they emotionless.like they don't feel hurt,sad etc

Are you serious?

Ok ma

men do get hurt and sad, but they shouldn't be surmounted by it...

i haven't cried for once all my life, so i see no reason why men should show tears unnecessarily...

WellEndowed:
"Showing tears" does not make anyone male or female weak neither does "hiding tears " make anyone strong.

There is nothing wrong with being vulnerable once in a while. It doesn't mean you are weak, you just need that "time" to reflect in order to move forward

it does make one weak sir...

remember when u were a kid u cry at every little thing, but as u grown older, the rate at which u cry goes down.... what does that tell u?

ireneony:
I see threads about crusher and crushee.

Who will crush on me

crush on yourself if there is no one to crush on u...

Emperoradrian:
...wtf...do u tink all Nigerians are like you

Nigeria,good people,great nation!

dont make me laugh... which nigeria?

ngoben:
We need more of such good men in the world today...God bless u sir

we are many..

Wyntah:
As a mother, I will teach my son to be strong and compassionate. I will teach him to hide his tears and show no weakness because the struggle for survival is real. If friends can sense weakness in you, so can your enemies. We all know that in this world the strong will always prey on the weak be it male or female.

can't believe this is coming from a woman....

i want to marry u...

nice write up i must say...

Ewuro4:
Lol ... I'm talking about that 'superiority' complex. Even when it's obvious he's losing an argument or at fault. (Imagine his response 'you know this is a public place blah blah' instead of simple 'sorry baby lemme call you later')

Though they will concede between the sheets.

Yoruba calls it 'egun ori'

I lie?

But there's solution to every problem...

u got a point...


but it doesn't apply to all men... that makes it uncommon in men...

op is just like me....

cococandy:
See what buhari is causing

even before buhari, time dey wey nigeria don take better before?

it has always been like this....

things will only change when considerate people like us get into power... that is the truth...

until then...suffering & smiling things...

Udochee:
No little act of kindness goes unrewarded...

some do go unrewarded sire...

Ewuro4:
Not my place to blame anyone but you married an obnoxious man(this is not uncommon in men).

You need to sit with him and have the talk. start over-on a clean slate. That's how it starts, before you know it, you're tagged a nag and he starts to snap at you every time you question his behaviour. (Which is already happening )

Out of curiosity, why do you care who's listens to his responses to you, why do you care bikonu? You sef too like wahala.

@bold....

Ewuro what do u mean by the emboldened?

agarawu23:
i used it as an example.

okay sir..

but the figure is close though...

Uhmmm:
Currently at ilorin for an assignment but honestly i very bored with no one to talk to ..... all i do is work work work and come back to the hotel room. i even threw it out to the house if anyone will hang out or go see a movie while i cover the bills but it seems ilorin peeps are just dry.


i need to be recused out of this boredom biko!!!!

are u trying to say there are no massage palour in ilorin?

agarawu23:
Oga, don't be scared about the exact amount that will build u the house. If you have a stable source of income you are free to go.

I might tell you 3-4m and you wont be able to sleep at night

Get your land first and start it with the little u have.

sir that amount cant complete a four bedroom bungalow all ensuit..

fesdo:
Naija self.....Mathematically, that's 300million for 1 year in jail.....
"Ex-NIMASA DG, Raymond Omatseye, jailed for five years over N1.5 billion contract scam"

Source:
http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/203773-ex-nimasa-dg-raymond-omatseye-jailed-for-five-years-over-n1-5-billion-contract-scam.html


In some countries where corruption is taken seriously...you would have seen
"Ex-NIMASA DG, Raymond Omatseye, sentenced to death by hanging for over N1.5 billion contract scam"

In ABA, even for 1000naira, the guy for no make am to jail or even mortuary....he would have been burnt alive.

the bold is as a result of lawlessness and evil mind...

No one deserves to die because of 1k...

e don set....
this country is gradually sliding into the depths of recession...

so the nigeria police force has deteriorated this much, to extent any one can just walk in shooting them....

what a great shame....

women are evil .... they are responsible for all the tribulations and woes that has befallen the earth...

cococandy:
@first bold, so maybe it's her own definition of love.
@second bold, how will you see?
You only see what you want to see. All these boys marrying women close their graves for visa and papers fall under what category?

Don't All of them belong to the class of gold digging?

@first bold, haba! the women aren't that old.
@second bold, it maybe those boys own way of expressing true love...

cococandy:
I'm very very sure you've never seen young men marrying women old enough to be their mothers.
Na only women you dey see.

Does this old man here even look rich to you?

@bold The man maybe rich, not everyone look's chubby even when they are wealthy. So no one can conclude if he is rich or not, moreover the bakground in that pic looks very remote, an artisan is likely to be a rich man in such a place.

The one i witnessed happened in my church.
the man wasn't rich either, and everyone was stupefied as to why the young lady would marry such an old man. it do happen all the time, right from the biblical days when young girls were betrothed to men old enough to be their father, it is not new.

But what i haven't seen is a young man marrying a woman old enough to be his mother, the ones i have seen didn't end up in marriage...

Pidggin:
If he's not her dad, then he used Juju

na u prepare the juju for the man?
it is a well known fact that u ladies really care less about a man's age and look, if he is rich...

it happens in our society all the time...