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Pidgin2:
This wan never jam, I just dey pity u, it's so easy to show person wey no dey close mouth pepper. You think say na by pawa? I laugh

Sabrina18:
Tell her you won't give her money, if she threatens to break up, tell her she is free to go if she wants to and I assure you, she wont break up.



Be a man, don't have soft mind too much.

PaperLace:
Must you always pause that understanding part of your brain before quoting? I never supported the woman or the man. I simply said, don't hit your spouse _male/female!

Is that difficult for you to understand?

It isn't a crime because she is still breathing. At the rate you youths of this generation are going, you will kill yourselves in marriage. May my kids not be part of this insanity.

Daeylar:
Chaii is this so? @ the bolded, I have seen something
Nairalanders can be comedians oh

I do not support any kind of abuse, that was the first part of the statement, na wa, why did you skip it?

I meant that, I really did, I do not support any kind of abuse, no one should ever, ever abuse any one (male or female) either physically, verbally or emotional,

But I hope you know that what you wrote there, evey single word is trash? I hope you know that it's wrong and you are just trolling?

I have reallly seen something.

PaperLace:
Quote me when you have the records. Goodnight.

Daeylar:
You even have their time
Is it not nairaland again?

Anyways I do not support any kind of abuse either physical, emotional, verbal but the fact that someone abused you verbally should never make you resort to physical abuse, never, walk away, find a way to deal with it, but never ever physical abuse, so all these useless excuses they keep coming up with, they can keep to themselves.

And if someone ever lays a hand on you (male or female), you can always fight back, damn what societal rules say, after all, it's self defence.

I don't subscribe to this men are bad or women are bad trash which it seems like nairaland wants to perpetuate
It's individuals themselves, people, who are bad, a whole gender should never be labelled because of the actions of silly people.

PaperLace:
Ask that question to the man in the story.
His wife is obviously verbally/physically abusive _what of him?

My dear Johnson, you're not worth the time.

prestigiouslady:
If verbal or emotional abuse should automatically gets one the physical abuse lesson... what happens to men that verbally abuse their wives??
I'm not in any way supporting the woman, what she did was bad but you can't really say what had happened inside the four walls of their home...a lot might have happened.
My ex used to tell me I can never amount to anything, simply because I had an extra year in school, he said i was useless and the only reason why he's with me was cos we are married.
I stopped breastfeeding my baby exclusively at 5months cos I couldnt cope, he told me to my face I've failed at motherhood,I can't even get it right with my son.
it was tough cos he used a lot of abusive words on me..but the day I was so angry and told him he was "stupid and selfish" the whole country knew how his wife was disrespectful and abused him..I don't talk, but once I'm pushed to the wall(it takes a very long time for me to lose my cool), better run cos I'll bring it all out
I looked down on myself a lot then but today here I am..thank God...

A lot happens behind closed doors between husbands and wife, the Angel you see might be a beast in the closet

no one deserves to be abused physically, emotionally, verbally... if it isn't working, take a walk

#personal opinion #

PaperLace:
I will always say it, my husband is a nice man. I have never faulted that, point is _he has a bad mouth! That's the truth that he knows. I have also shared how I contained his bad mouth,without violence.

I remember how you jumped on that comment like you sighted an anticipated prey. You never applauded that, instead you lashed out at me for encouraging the guy to be patient with his wife. I remember how all I was a role model wife that day, because I didn't dish him one or two slaps.

Now you are on this one again. Stop mas/tur/bating to my comment. It's irritating.
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PaperLace:
Of course I have to be the problem and he is a saint. Going by your wack logic, this man is obviously his wife's problem. Why is no one advising him to calm her down?

Always caused my women my foot.
Tell that to the unmarried and stupid people.
I'm none of the above.

PaperLace:
Very silly thread that makes it look like men are angels in marriages. While there are women with caustic mouths, there are men wired like that too.

My husband's mouth is corrosive, his subordinates once asked how I cope. He came back asking me if his mouth is that bad.
Something he inherited from his father.

Maybe I should start dishing him one or two slaps.

Any sensible married person knows how to tactically handle his or her spouse. Majority of people commenting are obviously not married. Silly thread once again.

HaneefahRN:
Didn't read the story.
I know it will be a stupid excuse to justify domestic violence.

Drabeey:
i will. i have a lot of chics.... just dat i felt like settling with ds one. bt i will sure let her be

Drabeey:
@johnson232

Thanks bro

Drabeey:
immediately i read it onto page 3, i knew it say i don jonze.

today makes it 16th day we both heard each oda's voice

Drabeey:
na waa oo bros.... na me u carry all these talk give....

no p sha na me cus am

btw. she isnt my first love.... just loved the girl.

way forwrd abeg

Drabeey:
It was after a month or so, she called me and said she is done with the guy. She outrightly told me to let us give d relationship a trial. It was then she opened up to me she is still a virgin and already 27 years.

I also realised she is currently on her masters programme too. It was then i knew i was in for it.

I hold only my first degree and currently working in which im not even earning 6digits yet.

I told her all this and she was very happy i was true with her. She gave me her mum's num and we got talking from there. She got mine too.

One day her mum came around Ibadan and i went to see her at her lodge. We talked for some minutes and i was done. That day, i realised she was watching me intently and i was becoming too nervous.

Well, she called me later and told me her mum likes me and was only concerned about me taking good care of her.


My problem is dat i call too much, we talk about many nonsense and trust me, i do most of the talking....

Recently, she seldom pick my calls, and when she do, she hardly talk or give me attentions. Its been two weeks now since we talked. I remembered i called her one friday, up to 5 calls and she didnt pick. I got so angry and i stopped calling since then, and she has neither called me back too since last two weeks.
I speak with her mum maybe once in a week, just pleasantries and often my mum call me too that she speaks with her too.

Now, im baffled about what to do with her. I know i don fk up from start. I read ur posts and i knew i was a big disgrace.

I love her but im concerned about the fact that she is probably done with me too.

Bros, how can i salvage the situation on ground now.... Get my mumu botton back and become a correct guy?

Sorry for my long post

Evaberry:
very few men are victims of domestic violence. Women always bear the brunt of a man's anger


No matter what a woman says or does, a man should never hit her, a man is physically stronger than a woman so hitting her will inflict serious physical damage, whereas a woman may not cause any real harm to a man.

Op the husband in your write Up should have quietly left the compound and go relax somewhere until he was sure his wife had calmed down. when a woman is angry she throws all reason and caution to the wind, it therefore falls on the man to be understanding and reasonable


Engaging in a fisticuffs with a woman is wrong and should be condemned.

jpphilips:
The python danced them into muddy waters.

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cyrilfosy:
i dropped my email address here that I need a job in Abuja. instead of people sending me job opportunities they are busy sending me their cv. I don't understand this country anymore

DOCKY2020:
I got the same invite too

WenysAD:
Dem for post d pix of the girl wey d guys got flogged for leading to d death of one of d suitors so we can decide if it was worth it

shegzhkn:
straight to the question : will the proposed 6 billion dollars eko Atlantic City be far more superior to likes of lekki, ajah, Victoria island.

jashar:
awwhhhhh!!!!!!! so cute.....

i like it when youngish looking people get married....

ecoeco:
...

Dis looks like d case of portifas wife and Joseph but dis time around Joseph did it nd portifas wife still reported him

#Eco99#

onatisi:
Kai ! So the guy musical career don enter freezer!
Gone were those days he will be shouting on every thread "airforce1 is coming out with an album" . Yhe moniker sef don get monitoring spirit, he should just change it

Sfateema:
These people too like to show off