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Damtha:
Story...

story in what sense?

MissGdope:
how's that your business?

i thought u said some of u weren't born with it.... so why are u evading the question?

MissGdope:
As much as I agree with abstinence until marriage, it should apply to both genders. why is it okay for a man to sleep around before marriage but it's not okay for a woman to do the same? stop with the double standards.



NOTE: Not all women are born with a hymen

were u born with hymen or not?

usaration:
thanks bro.me and fruits are like 5 and 6 .infact I've not taken anything today other than fruits. Haven't had the time to prepare anything. As for the fried eggs,I do it only on Saturdays. By d way,Do you take indomie ?

i do o... because i like indomie....

usaration:
ok bro.I'm gonna get it.I read about it in some forums.can I fry eggs with it?.what do you think about coconut and groundnut

coconut is a fruit, nothing wrong in taking it. but groundnut is almost the same as vegetables, but the problem with groundnut are the properties, one of the properties use in producing dynamite is in groundnut, so u need to also reduce the intake. as u need things will digest easily, u dont wanna stress the liver..

u can fry egg with the virgin oil, but remember egg is protein, u need to reduce the intake of anything with high content of protein(meat,beans,egg etc)... as it stress the liver to digest protein..

u knw the red oil becomes thick when left for sometime, and thats makes it hard to be processed by the liver, but with virgin oil, its liquid all through.. it can never become thick.

always try to take fruits and plenty water, any type ofruit at all... it helps alot

usaration:
I'm on livolin. And I've been asked to go do HBV DNA at yaba. Is the test expensive?

good u are on livolin... ensure u take it religiously and u wont evn know wether u have hep b..

livolin is a good drug for it...
the test is expensive, it was around 45k in a private hospital in benin...

as regards oil, u can still cook with oil, but virgin oil, i.e those ones they normally call anoiting oil, because is pure, it has no side effect... but if it is red oil, use little quantity...

Europija:
Dear Nairalanders...i met a igbo guy.i asked for his number and he is 26 years old..I went to date with him for now 2 times and he didnt even kiss me.We have a very good comunication n he said milliom times how i am.very inteligent n how is very hard to see a girl as me .How i am rare.He always sending me messages first n calling me baby...But our relation is for now friends...He seems like a good guy..he said in past 1 month ago his ex girl broke his heart n for now he is afraid to get commited to someone...But he telling he want me to be his gf....Why he didnt kiss me yet n what does he want?

how old are u?

clogogo:
I see is stupid people DAT don't have respect for your mother .. Will try to support what the man did ... Musters

what are u saying?

Before you come on here and start screaming misogyny, first peruse this article with unadulterated concentration, vis-a-vis the family domain.


Research showing that women are often aggressors in domestic violence has been causing controversy for almost 40 years, ever since the 1975 National Family Violence Survey by sociologists Murray Straus and Richard Gelles of the Family Research Laboratory at the University of New Hampshire found that women were just as likely as men to report hitting a spouse and men were just as likely as women to report getting hit. The researchers initially assumed that, at least in cases of mutual violence, the women were defending themselves or retaliating. But when subsequent surveys asked who struck first, it turned out that women were as likely as men to initiate violence—a finding confirmed by more than 200 studies of intimate violence. In a 2010 review essay in the journal Partner Abuse, Straus concludes that women’s motives for domestic violence are often similar to men’s, ranging from anger to coercive control.

Violence by women causes less harm due to obvious differences in size and strength, but it is by no means harmless. Women may use weapons, from knives to household objects—including highly dangerous ones such as boiling water—to neutralize their disadvantage, and men may be held back by cultural prohibitions on using force toward a woman even in self-defense. In his 2010 review, Straus concludes that in various studies, men account for 12% to 40% of those injured in heterosexual couple violence. Men also make up about 30% of intimate homicide victims—not counting cases in which women kill in self-defense. And women are at least as likely as men to kill their children—more so if one counts killings of newborns—and account formore than half of child maltreatment perpetrators..

Let’s put this into perspective: a significant amount of the findings regarding male-as-victim intimate partner violence came about as the result of studies and surveys that were aimed at understanding domestic violence against women. These are not studies conducted by rabid anti-women men’s groups or right-wing think tanks. They were conducted by organizations like the Centers for Disease Control, National Institutes of Health, the American Sociological Association, Psychology of Women Quarterly and the American Journal of Public Health, to name a few.

And yet, these numbers prompt a resounding backlash. Accusations such as “You’re saying abused women are asking for it,” or “You’re blaming the victim,” get hurled. No person — female or male — is asking for it, and no victim — female or male — should be blamed for what is done to them.

If we are serious about addressing domestic violence, then we must deal with all of the incarnations of the realities of domestic violence.

Mixed messages:
Is a woman ever responsible for a physical altercation that takes place between her and her male partner? Does a man ever have the right to tell a woman to not put her hands on him and expect her to respect that? Does a man ever have the right to retaliate?


.......OPINION SOCIETY…...

Resurgence:


How nah? I only spoke truth.... Or is it Because I refuse to be intimidated?

Haba I never fight woman I go go fight man were done lift weight taya. Biko oo I respect my fine face

e fit be men like us wey no get power, na u dey beat...

Resurgence:
You are such a weakling,

Do you know how many people are criticised on daily bases on this forum? I get criticized and I handle it well and maturely without threatening the others with violence.

You can't handle being told the truth you think it makes better sense to threaten me with violence and abusive words? Oshie...


Just like the song I'm listening to.... #iranu abasha iranu

husband beater spotted....

SKAMM:
Domestic violence everywhere!! Why are men not speaking up too against domestic violence carried out on them by women?? #just saying #it's both ways you know

weakness on the part of a man i guess....

usaration:
he told me to eat oil too and meat.he said anything except alcohol,cigarette and self medication. I've stopped taking oil and i feel better now.I'll be going to see him with my results tomorrow(Thursday )

what drugs are u on presently?

sinaj:
Lame!




Silly thread

sharrrap...

support the truth and shame the devil...

and u call these amazing facts? .... or known facts....

BeeBeeOoh:
Wife Beater Spotted!!

so u know boko haram is evil, but u want a fellow man like u to join and die?

so u can take his wife.... how wicked can men be....

toseman:
is this how the heaD OF A WOMAN LOOK LIKE??

NAIJA BLOGGERS CAN LIE

hahahahaha....

cococandy:
Of course.

Because he's helping you spread your misogyny.
Well all this na internet talk.

Y'all should go out there and look for females to beat up and slap. Let's see how many of you will survive it.
All you do in come online and spread hate for women and support for violence.

the bold is baseless and spurious...

u women should stop abusing the word 'misogyny'... u people now use it as smokescreen...

clogogo:
We don't need any explanation ... He should be arrested.... For attempted murder..

shat up ya mouth... are u his accomplice?

abbey621:
There's always 3 sides to a story. Her side, his side and the truth! I've learned that issues of domestic violence are rarely black and white but due to the nature of men(Superior strength), we should learn to walk away. Now don't get me wrong, a slap or two would fix most women but when it comes to the point of spilling blood and head injuries, it's just not worth it! I've always said this, it's much more easier to get a divorce than to stick with a woman that gives you high blood pressure!

God bless u sir...

BeeBeeOoh:
Nigeria is looking for men to fight Boko Haram, but this foolish good for nothing man is exercising his powers on his wife.




I hate wife beater with passion

since u know nigeria is looking for people to fight boko haram, what are u waiting for?

sweetcocoa:
Ontop one eye, she still insulting the man.


As far as she hit him first, then it was self defence.

God bless u my sister...

ettaetta:
I don't have ur time

only u na boy and girl....

ettaetta:
IS THIS LOVE OR FOOLiSHNESS?
Share your views

hahahahaha....

that must be mhizeva and her husband....hahahahaha...

mhizeva:
I really need to cane you for asking if this is foolishness

shat up ya mouth... lazy thing...

am sure this wasn't how ur mum brought u up....

bukatyne:
You mean one slap surpassed 3 yrs worth of slaps?

As much as I understand the man, he is not completely blameless.

After the first slap, he should have taken concrete steps to end the nonsense not waiting for 3yrs to retaliate & blinding her in one eye.

I advise they go their separate ways before he kills her 5yrs later.

Putting her husband down is clearly more important than her life.

hmmmm... prophetess of doom...
@bold nothing of such will happen... the man only did what he is suppose to do as a man...

can't u foresee something good madam?

ButterFrost212:
Please go away, I'm not talking to you. thanks

go away to where?

why not say the truth and shame the devil...

ronald4lif:
Have some shame and regard for yourself guys. Stop disgracing us, biko.

sir i am afraid he is disgracing himself.... not 'us…

BoiledHead:
You don't answer a question with a question. My age is of no concern of yours. You should have written your comment in a much better way that doesn't lack comprehension.

I asked a question, what would I have done? If you have no answer, then your initial comment was a waste of space

i feel for u bro....
u still have a long way to go...

[quote author=SANDOSKI post=45499970][/quote]geerrrrout......

other girls are having appealing monikers, yours is SAND...

ButterFrost212:
then don't shout at her again, much less for not cooking. don't you feel tired sometimes and don't feel like doing something? give her a break, next time tall it out maturely, she's not a kid, no need to yell.

what did she do that made her tired? watching tv i guess?

bias thing...